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scentmarlc:
Come on, cut dem some slacks....different folks, different mentality

i know

i know.

but c'mon bro, the girl is beginning to develop a lil' bóob at that age

and he cant be handling a 12yr old girl's brëasts na.

If na must to baf the girl, the mother can do it.

it is quite possible the father is doing it totally free of any ill intentions towards his daughter.

but it is just a matter of decency, nothing else.

This is PMB approved WRONG!

The mother is very wrong allowing such. And for the dad, it is high time he stop bathing his 12 year old daughter. We are no longer in ice age.

Bonapart:
i hate anything that has to do with rape most especially molesting innocent children but prostitution is among the sins which brought destruction upon sodom and gomorah.... path way to hell

TRUE... they are all mothers of the same children...

oderaxgod:
Truth is OP you are actually the creep here.. her pops probably doesn't have a creepy mind just as you and most people here. He probably doing it without additional thoughts. My own father used to bath my sis and I till he passed we were 11 and 12 respectively and going by your objective my father could be a paedophile and a gay init? Please get over yourself. This has got to show how bad the world has gotten even the simplest things and a father bathing his own child irrespective of gender shouldn't raise eyebrows. Moreover you are not part of that family so please keep your dirty thoughts to yourself. Some families even have members who walk around their house naked with any form of perversion, everyone is entitled to bow to the laws of everyone because what seem right to everyone maybe wrong.

Na you get sense for here

Begonia:
Do I really have to tell you that it's wrong to verbally abuse anyone, much less a child

People are too abusive and judgemental these days, mostly internet keyboard warriors

aspirebig:
It is very wrong, simple. If it is a boy, better.

The girl should take charge of your bathing. Her mates are in boarding school from 10yrs some girls are already in Js 1 and out of home.

They are spoiling her now, from there fingering will start.

I see abuse on the way soon, if the man is not stopped NOW.

Why better if it is a boy?

thats gross

Gurgle:
hi

Hey gurgle How is google And where is yur goggle

Truckpusher:
Abusive fathers don't show any form of doting or love to their kids - they start with both physical and sexual abuse.
Though I got your drift.

Dats not true. Most are usually very doting and the little girl won't see the abuse coming. A father still bathing his 12year old daughter isn't doting but a suspect.

Hmm can't really say though...would there be an uproar if it were a mum bathing her 12yr old son...I don't see anything wrong if not for the perverted minds we have these days...on a 2nd thot a 12yrs old kid should be having his/her bath alone...

I don't see anything wrong in this..... Not at all!

this OP sef, I dont get, u mean the girl confessed,which means the girl's sub-consciousness is telling her wat her dad is doin is wrong, so wat is der to argue about??

Blade21:
y is it wrong ? Dads are closr to dere gals I seee nofin wrong wit it abg its sweett

sweet?...



shoro niyen?
bross its not o

ElFenomeno1:
I don't see anything wrong in this..... Not at all!

I wonder why any right thinking human being would say there is nothing wrong with a father bathing his 12 years old daugther? This is one of the problem we have in naija; every one in NL knows that what the father is doing is very bad but some just like 2 stupidly oppose evry reasonable opinion at all times. xcept those in support of this dastardly act are tryin 2 tel us that they are very very primitive and stil evolving. Haba we shud learn 2 stop this nonesense cos it doesn't fit us.

My galfwend of 20 just confirmed that her father even inserted this pump of a thing into her anus so as to enable poo come out... Says her mother wasn't around but her stepmom was...

pupndog:
My galfwend of 20 just confirmed that her father even inserted this pump of a thing into her anus so as to enable poo come out... Says her mother wasn't around but her stepmom was...

her stepmom is a devil nd d father is unda a spell

horexy:
Is d girl a retard?
At age 12, I was in JSS3 and already cooking beans, making eba and d likes!
I thot children get smarter wit each passing day!
D reverse seems to b d case wit ds girl.
So, i don't blame d father...i blame d daughter. She seems to enjoy being bathed by d dad

I totally believe you about being 12yrs in Js3.. My elder sis was exactly like u...she finished SS3 at 15yrs ....
That said....i won't still blame the girl, its her lovely Dad we are talking abt, not some randy uncle, cousin, relative or neighbour......
The man may be innocently doing it....but i don't blame people condemning the act..the world is so evil nd corrupt now, wia u hear a 45yrs old man fingerring a 8yrs old girl...

ethene:
I wonder why any right thinking human being would say there is nothing wrong with a father bathing his 12 years old daugther? This is one of the problem we have in naija; every one in NL knows that what the father is doing is very bad but some just like 2 stupidly oppose evry reasonable opinion at all times. xcept those in support of this dastardly act are tryin 2 tel us that they are very very primitive and stil evolving. Haba we shud learn 2 stop this nonesense cos it doesn't fit us.

Get fu..ckng lost and respect my opinion
If you think it is wrong, tough and toss off!
If you tell me one more time that I am not right thinking, I will send you to your parents!

A 12yr old boy should be bathing himself how much more a 12yr old gal with boobifera

please let us put in mind dat not all girls develop at 12yrs...meanwhile the op who is reporting didnt say he was abusing the girl so lets not judge him yet.
but in the real sense a gurl who crosses over to js1 should start doing things on her own her independence should av started gradually or as a father if adolescent changes show in a girls body even at age 6 the father should stop the bathing.
All these are still part of the clamour of some partially mentally deranged women on feminism where d man will hav to do some chores which includes bathing their daughters n sons. in my own if a man should bath his children it should be once in a while at their 2-4yrs.
but mayb the man is innocently doing his job as prescribed by the wife.

KINGSAMURAI:
Today i heard a shocking confession from a little girl, she said that at her age which is 12years old her dad still bath her in the bathroom, personally i think her mom need to stop the dad, nairalanders do you think its wrong or there is nothing to worry about?

Why should a man even bath his 12 year old male child, talkless of female child, she no get hand?

ElFenomeno1:
I don't see anything wrong in this..... Not at all!

You need to change your thinking pattern, because if you continue this way people will take advantage of your naivity

freecocoa:
What are you talking about? What does wanting to experiment have to do with anything? Are you saying that a female child of 12, wouldn't want to experiment if she was bathed by her mother? So if the child is incapacitated and only the dad was available to bathe her, are you saying, she'd have to go without a bath?

It might be irresponsible parenting(because we are supposed to teach our kids how to cater for themselves) but it doesn't mean there's a sexual undertone to it, nor does it mean the man is irresponsible, you sound like you don't trust every man around little girls.

In certain circumstances like illness, or when the child is mentally ill or physically disabled a father can chip in. But bathing a normal 12 yr old girl should not be part of the fathers daily duty.

In one of my posts I mentioned that there are developmental stages for every stage.

E.g. A responsible good parent will teach their girl child the following WITH REGARDS TO HYGIENE
3 yrs ------- teach the child how to wipe herself whenever she goes to poo ( FRONT TO BACK TECHNIQUE TO AVOID INFECTIONS
4yrs -------- teach the child how to wash their vagina whenever she takes a bath ( tell me how a man ill teach a girl to wash her vagina )

5yrs ------- be able to dress herself and properly wear her shoes
6 yrs------- tie her shoe laces


11-12yrs ------- bath and put on roll/deodorant stick on ( if her hormones have changed her body odor).
Be able to clean her vagina ( wash properly between her labias
taught how to use pads and discard pards.

TELL ME, HOW AND WHAT TO YOU EXPECT A MAN TO PROPERLY COMMUNICATE ALL THIS HIGHLIGHTED?

When you teach your girl child you don't do it for them but you have to monitor that its done properly. Otherwise if all the stages are not properly monitored you will forever fetch your daughter from kindergarten or elementary school smelling of poo and other kids will be laughing the hell out of her.
If you bath a 12 yr old, how do you expect her to wash her panties when she cant love herself by washing her body.

A normal man knows how to identify a child who has entered puberty.
A normal man will know that puberty is the time he has to back off from being hands on.

If a man is unable to identify that he, is pretending to be ignorant and that has a sexual undertone to it. If my father can enter a room when I naked at this age and tell me that he is my father, then he is a pervert. There is definitely a sexual undertone to that. Equally same thing when you continue bathing a girl child who is entering puberty.

What delayed the parents from teaching the child from a young age. One would think it has some sexual undertone because abusers normally delay such developmental stages so as to keep the victim dependent on them and also keep the victim within their radar and thereby reducing the chances of spilling the beans.

Yes, you are right I do not trust any man to wash my wash my girl child's vagina or to teach my girl child about vaginal hygiene because he doesn't know anything as he doesn't own a vagina.

Though I am not saying all man have bad intentions. but I question the intentions of a man who continues to keep a girl child dependent on him.

A man can help with bathing and teaching the kids how to bath from 0-9yrs but from 10yrs up a child should be having some form of independence from both parents ( mother or father ).

its wrong anyway but what about mothers bathing their sons at that age

zadok60:
sweet?...



shoro niyen?
bross its not o

lol good morning ma dad was like dat too maybe that's y I see nofin wrng with itt

ElFenomeno1:
Get fu..ckng lost and respect my opinion
If you think it is wrong, tough and toss off!
If you tell me one more time that I am not right thinking, I will send you to your parents!

What is this one sayin? I don't need 2 join words wit weed smokers who think the only way 2 air their myopic opinion is by insultin others. pls don't quote me again.

chineloSA:
Being irresponsible is when both parents don't teach a girl who is at puberty stage to be responsible of her own body and independent to wash her body.

Being irresponsible is when you are letting a girl in her puberty to be handled by a man.

For clarity purposes, a girl in her puberty stage experiences a lot of changes including hormonal changes which lead to ( breast development, growth of pubic hair and also sexual urges etc)
If you let a girl in her puberty be handled by a man, ( even if it is the biological father) that is irresponsible.

She will want to experiment or she will let the father experiment.

That's very irresponsible.

If your parents did that to you, it doesn't mean it was right.

arrrhhh finally !!!! something worth agreeing with

it is irresponsible of both parents. the issue here is not whether the Dad takes/will take advantage of her/rape her. that is jumping to conclusion. The issue is why a girl of 12 will not be responsible enough to wash herself. i would say the same of a mother bathing her male son even if she is less likely to take advantage of him.

it is a very wrong education for a child (boy or girl). an ex colleague once told me of a boy of 13 whose penis went erect while his mom was bathing him. only to be terribly flogged by his mom and dad for it.

chineloSA:
In certain circumstances like illness, or when the child is mentally ill or physically disabled a father can chip in. But bathing a normal 12 yr old girl should not be part of the fathers daily duty.

In one of my posts I mentioned that there are developmental stages for every stage.

E.g. A responsible good parent will teach their girl child the following WITH REGARDS TO HYGIENE
3 yrs ------- teach the child how to wipe herself whenever she goes to poo ( FRONT TO BACK TECHNIQUE TO AVOID INFECTIONS
4yrs -------- teach the child how to wash their vagina whenever she takes a bath ( tell me how a man ill teach a girl to wash her vagina )

5yrs ------- be able to dress herself and properly wear her shoes
6 yrs------- tie her shoe laces


11-12yrs ------- bath and put on roll/deodorant stick on ( if her hormones have changed her body odor).
Be able to clean her vagina ( wash properly between her labias
taught how to use pads and discard pards.

TELL ME, HOW AND WHAT TO YOU EXPECT A MAN TO PROPERLY COMMUNICATE ALL THIS HIGHLIGHTED?

When you teach your girl child you don't do it for them but you have to monitor that its done properly. Otherwise if all the stages are not properly monitored you will forever fetch your daughter from kindergarten or elementary school smelling of poo and other kids will be laughing the hell out of her.
If you bath a 12 yr old, how do you expect her to wash her panties when she cant love herself by washing her body.

A normal man knows how to identify a child who has entered puberty.
A normal man will know that puberty is the time he has to back off from being hands on.

If a man is unable to identify that he, is pretending to be ignorant and that has a sexual undertone to it. If my father can enter a room when I naked at this age and tell me that he is my father, then he is a pervert. There is definitely a sexual undertone to that. Equally same thing when you continue bathing a girl child who is entering puberty.

What delayed the parents from teaching the child from a young age. One would think it has some sexual undertone because abusers normally delay such developmental stages so as to keep the victim dependent on them and also keep the victim within their radar and thereby reducing the chances of spilling the beans.

Yes, you are right I do not trust any man to wash my wash my girl child's vagina or to teach my girl child about vaginal hygiene because he doesn't know anything as he doesn't own a vagina.

Though I am not saying all man have bad intentions. but I question the intentions of a man who continues to keep a girl child dependent on him.

A man can help with bathing and teaching the kids how to bath from 0-9yrs but from 10yrs up a child should be having some form of independence from both parents ( mother or father ).

I guess there's no point going no further, but that's not fair on the innocent men out there, this is a very wrong and unjust mentality to hold.

For the fact that the father is looking at the girls body at her age is completely wrong... talkless of washing her body. thats insane

zeb04:
my dad stopped bathing me at about 10,11.the problem was he never washed my private and I didn't do it well either myself.

finally,the day my mum took turn to bath me she was asking my dad, why is there so much sand in her bum bum. my dad just didn't reply

it is just sad that everyone thinks a man bathing his daughter is abnormal. just because some psychos take advantage of that doesn't mean there are not men that do it for the sake of bonding with their kids.

as a matter of fact it is an insult to the good men out there.

Holy sh1t

Too.much info!
Why do people put personal stuff like this online