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hadura29:
Bros, this lecturer did not deny the fact he had sex with her, also the pains was there that was when he stopped and lastly the test result did not tell us if she was bleeding.

I know it's wrong and crazy, if I was the judge, I won't sentence him for rape, but taking advantage of the girls situation, also I will blame the dad for allowing her go to school alone.

We need to analyze a situation before jumping into conclusion... Gm

MY PARENTS NEVER VISITED ME IN SCHOOL RIGHT FROM PRIMARY 1 APART FROM THE DAY MY MOM REGISTERED ME IN PRIMARY SCHOOL. WHY BLAME THE FATHER?
BLAME THE HE GOAT LECTURER.

As a man you must learn how to resist s3x temptation hence you pay the ultimate price. e.g Struass khan, former IMF director and the Guinen maid.
Strauss Khan was suppose to be the president of France, after the incident, Francois Hollande, has to take his place for France presidency and he lost IMF job. lost his marriage too.

opiscopy:
I have read the story and also fellow Nairalanders comments. These are my observations

- the sex was actually consensual

- the lady was ready to do anything to get admitted and the lecturer took advantage of this to sleep with her

- for good NINE(9) days, shola did not inform her parents, she should have done that immediately she got home if it was actually a rape

- if shola did not have the abdominal pain that got her parents worried before she confessed of having sex with her fathers friend , the show would have continued with the lecturer.

- she was putting on jeans, not skirt or gown . How could he have overpowered her in his office , witout her sreaming or hitting with with the coffee cup or any object at sight

Ode!

Beast!

Don't tell me that you genuinely believe that you are making sense?

hadura29:
They fail to tell us if the girl was still a Virgin. I am not defending the man anyway but just observing.

Also the way these little girls dresses recently is quite provocative and seductive thanks to too much telenovela and zee world...


Parents should caution their young kids on how they dress, coz not all guy can shut dre dick once they see someone with revealing dress... Teach them our African morals.


Two stories though who should I believe now...?

Hmmmm... Aiye oooo!!!!

You are not completely right.
Indecent dressing is not an excuse for a rapist.
Rapists rape minors and aged people.
No matter what the story may be, I blame the man for succumbing to any form of whatever temptation he may call it.
It's obvious that the moment he saw the girl, he started picturing sex.
It's obvious that the girl can't get an admission through legal means cos she didn't meet the cut off mark.
Last Bullet
I also blame the girl's father.
If he's not someone that believed in the Nigerian mentality of using connections to get admission, job, favour etc. He d v known that his daughter can't get admission to her preferred school with her score.

opiscopy:
I have read the story and also fellow Nairalanders comments. These are my observations

- the sex was actually consensual

- the lady was ready to do anything to get admitted and the lecturer took advantage of this to sleep with her

- for good NINE(9) days, shola did not inform her parents, she should have done that immediately she got home if it was actually a rape

- if shola did not have the abdominal pain that got her parents worried before she confessed of having sex with her fathers friend , the show would have continued with the lecturer.

- she was putting on jeans, not skirt or gown . How could he have overpowered her in his office , witout her sreaming or hitting with with the coffee cup or any object at sight

God bless you my brother, you go school. Your family will never be a victim of rape and every other evil social devices.. Amen

She's a young naive girl. I feel she was coaxed, manipulated or even threatened. The lecturer really took advantage of her,I feel so sorry for the poor girl.

I don't believe the girl...she wanted the sex




Some 18yr olds are pros in sex...she was probablly dressed to kill and danced to the tune played at her. Why she wants to nw involve the public ? Hmmmm...maybe because oga lecturer couldn't work her admission.


My verdict: the girl is a biatch and the lecturer a fool

TomPioPio:
No single man no matter how physically strong u are u can't rape a woman if she CLOSED HER LEG.

Never! I repeat u can't. one of u is going to die if he insist . dis story is filled with lies. To say u even wore trouser & he pulled it to ra.pe u baffles me. Are u a 10 year old child? Girls of nowadays can't be trusted with the way they around morally decayed & fake life. BTW all these rapist should have their JT cut off asap.

You shouldn't be breathing. You are a pervert, a monster, a fool and a sick Bastard.


You shall tell the same story when your daughters, mum and sisters are raped repeatedly: D

This is a simple case,let them examine the content of the coffee she drank,since she said she started feeling woozy when she took it..its an open and shut case with whatever results that comes out.shikena

tonididdy:
I don't believe the girl...she wanted the sex




Some 18yr olds are pros in sex...she was probablly dressed to kill and danced to the tune played at her. Why she wants to nw involve the public ? Hmmmm...maybe because oga lecturer couldn't work her admission.


My verdict: the girl is a biatch and the lecturer a fool

Ode

Your mum sef na biatch. Product of a biacth. No wonder you reason like a bastard_

InvertedHammer:
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Promise of admission was made.

Sexual favour was performed.

Admission promises failed.

Then pain, arrest, press and interviews followed.

Both of them lied.

It is almost impossible for one man to rape a lady without violence or weapon.

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didnt u read somewhere in the sorry that the girl felt drowsy, that's his weapon my dear

InvertedHammer:
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Promise of admission was made.

Sexual favour was performed.

Admission promises failed.

Then pain, arrest, press and interviews followed.

Both of them lied.

It is almost impossible for one man to rape a lady without violence or weapon.

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didnt u read somewhere in the sorry that the girl felt drowsy, that's his weapon my dear

youmour:
This is a simple case,let them examine the content of the coffee she drank,since she said she started feeling woozy when she took it..its an open and shut case with whatever results that comes out.shikena

After how many months abi na days sef

No..1 I have a daughter so I must be very careful on how make my commment.

No...2 Any angle we want to look it from the Man will be found guilty... may be "not for rape" as it is not proven yet but on " Moral" ground at least he is older than the lady and at that point when the lady got into his vehicle he was to play a "Father figure" he betrayed a friend's trust.

No...3 The lady's statement appears to me like an after thought. not entirely clear. I don't know a rape victim that waits for a rapist to wear a condom when the rapist is not carrying a Gun or Knife.. if truly he used a condominium. Remember she wore a Jen trouser and undies.. even in mutual concent it's hard taking a lady's jean trouser off when both of you are in "Heat" let alone rape and in addition to this, on an office couch.

No..4 The Man moved out of the office to talk with a lady, how far is the office from the "Alleged rapist" office? Becouse she climed to have screamed but her voice ddnt get s far as she would want. Most Universities have buildings that aamplifies people's voice when they talk. To say you screamed and your voice ddnt get far enough is questionable. I wish we could see aa picture of the office.

No...5 I suspect " out of respect I drank the Coffee and started feeling drowsy" sounds like an after thought to me. That coffee content must be taking to the Lab for a test.

No...6 Was she moody as a result of the "Alleged Rape" or the depressing fact that she was told she can't be admitted into school this year?

No...7 Could the Dad had gone into pacify her and give her hope that all was not lost and as a result discovered she was not the same and probed further and the lady used rape to defend her inability to explain how she had an " agreed sex" or a "semi conceptual sex" with the lecturer? Like the story of the "drowning Man" who wldnt want to go down alone.

Finaly... We should teach our kids to be instinctive. she claimed the Lecturer started by touching her from inside his Car and was asking her if she goes out at all? That should have been Pointer to her. Again the reason why she still thought her rapist still deserved respect after he was done and she came out of the office still baffles me. I expect a pained girl to start screaming and cursing right from the office door... it doesn't appear so. she took time out to dress herself and then went out becouse nobody saw a bruised girl crying and cursing out of a lecturers office.


For the lecturer, rape or not he should be disgraced and punished severely. Using his office as a brothel am sure has consequences and he should never hold any office that will give him direct contact with kids again.

Though not all but for now this represents my thought on this matter.

Dindondin:
You are not completely right.
Indecent dressing is not an excuse for a rapist.
Rapists rape minors and aged people.
No matter what the story may be, I blame the man for succumbing to any form of whatever temptation he may call it.
It's obvious that the moment he saw the girl, he started picturing sex.
It's obvious that the girl can't get an admission through legal means cos she didn't meet the cut off mark.
Last Bullet
I also blame the girl's father.
If he's not someone that believed in the Nigerian mentality of using connections to get admission, job, favour etc. He d v known that his daughter can't get admission to her preferred school with her score.

I appreciate constructive criticism, thanks, I am not saying I was right, all I was trying to pin point out is that, there is more to the story than meets the eye..

Also she only reported after about a week. What if she did coz she wanted it? And what if the abdominal pain did not exist?

Justice should be served though... Gm

Whether it's the guy that is saying the truth or it's the girl, the koko of everything is that he slept with her. I wonder what reasons he'll give his wife and family @ home.

Reasons why Women/girls should begin to learn Martial Arts as Self-defence.

Yoloba people & rape; inseperarable.

Here's my verdict though, that girl was not raped.
Apparently, the man's member was either too large or too lengthy for the girl to handle.

The member touched her cervix & tricked the body into initiating a "Ferguson Reflex" which led to the severe abdominal abdominal contractions (pain). Which in-turn, gave them up.

Talk about karma being a b*tch

Cc: KingTom

hadura29:
God bless you my brother, you go school. Your family will never be a victim of rape and every other evil social devices.. Amen

It is not going to happen. With the way he reasons it is only a matter of TIME before he details how his daughters, sisters and mum were raped

imsuboi:
Yoloba people & rape; inseperarable.

Here's my verdict though, that girl was not raped.
Apparently, the man's member was either too large or too lengthy for the girl to handle.

The member touched her cervix & tricked the body into initiating a "Ferguson Reflex" which led to the severe abdominal abdominal contractions (pain). Which in-turn, gave them up.

Talk about karma being a b*tch

Cc: KingTom

Ode!

oreos:
Ode!

Beast!

Don't tell me that you genuinely believe that you are making sense?

if u don't believe his post then u are a bigger odr

olusolajames:
A moment later, he told me to pick up a paper for him beside the couch. As I bent down to pick up the paper, he pushed me into a corner of the couch and held me down as he forcibly removed my trousers and underwear.”

Our correspondent asked at this point if Shola made any attempt to shout to alert anybody nearby.

She claimed that she actually screamed but that the way he held her down did not allow her voice to be as audible as she had wanted it to be.

Shola claimed, “If people were around the office, they would have heard me shout. He held me down, and pulled down my trousers and underwear. I screamed and begged him to leave me alone but he did not.

“After he had his way, he released me. As soon as I pulled up my trousers, I grabbed the keys to the door and rushed out while he was dressing up.

After dressing up,he drove me home.

The lecturer's story is more believable.

He was just stupìd too think he couldn't be framed later on. He should have just scolded her for making advances.

She said she grabbed the office keys and ran out immediately he was done with her. Imagine the lie. Thought she said she was feeling drowsy after the coffee. So he was just standing there and staring like a fool when she grabbed the bunch of keys, put it in the lock, turned it, opened the door and stepped out? Lie.

Sorry Mr Lecturer you were stupìd to have slept with her even if she seduced you. She's like a daughter to you. You thought you were taking advantage of free sex.

After the whole show she still couldn't be admitted. She would have been glad to lie and frame the stupìd man.

opiscopy:
I have read the story and also fellow Nairalanders comments. These are my observations

- the sex was actually consensual

- the lady was ready to do anything to get admitted and the lecturer took advantage of this to sleep with her

- for good NINE(9) days, shola did not inform her parents, she should have done that immediately she got home if it was actually a rape

- if shola did not have the abdominal pain that got her parents worried before she confessed of having sex with her fathers friend , the show would have continued with the lecturer.

- she was putting on jeans, not skirt or gown . How could he have overpowered her in his office , witout her sreaming or hitting with with the coffee cup or any object at sight

You are so wrong @bolded. If only you know the number of girls that have been raped on so many occasions but kept it to themselves. Don't be surprised you didn't get to know about your girlfriend/sister's story simply because she was lucky not to have complications after the rape incidence.

oreos:
Ode!

You've been noticed.
Kindly carry your body odor out of my mentions.

oreos:
You are an ode for factoring her sexual life in this issue.

whatever bro, i expected dis.

I think both parties are technically lying. The case is sub judice and, as such, let us wait for the judgement of the court.

prospero15:
Sorry to say..yes she was slammed which may hve resulted 2 d pain she had..bt come 2 tink of it..a Jean trouser probably fitting 2 d gals body coupled with d underwear...cn u rili use a hand 2 do all d magic??..considering d posture 2..if der was 2 b a rape it shud b a fatal one in d reports bt we re yet 2 c one

Are you a male or female?

A full grown man with raging hormones that's needs to be released can UnCloth an 18yr with one hand with ease

I hope you are aware that a man who is turned on & about to get down with a lady will do everything possible to have his way, at that time he won't be thinking whether her dress will get torn or how he will explain how it got torn

My premise is based on the picture in my mind that the lady in question was small, how many "big" 18yr old do you know.

With one hand on the lady's throat, if you are the lady, where will u channel your hand movement to?

To ur dress that is being removed or ur throat region due to ur inability to breathe?

d lecturer mean business, if not what will he be doing with condom in his office?

I wonder why a lot of u ppl are so quick to judge and find the lecturer guilty? anyway am not saying he is innocent either but we should always keep an open mind when relating such issues.. she is 18 and not a virgin she claimed feeling dizzy after the cup of coffee I wonder to what effect & why would he take her to another lady's office before the supposed rape...is it to register the act or to gain a witness or alibi...beats me tho when he could have done the rape successfully the 1st time d building was deserted. These young girls are not totally innocent we should tell the truth... I remember an incident I had with a friend's 14 year old cousin I used to jokingly call her my wife and on this day we where alone in the sitting room watching TV when she drew close put a hand on my D and planted a kiss.. to say I was shocked was an understatement, asked her what she tot she was doing & she asked me d same question I had to leave cos we where alone in d house and since then she no dey greet me well again.Things happen the man could be guilty or not I just wish we could be more open minded and see things clearly so that the judgement wldnt be clouded... don't even want to ask how he got the condoms on while holding her down & honestly I don't think just one man can rape any one girl just like that if she no want am u no go fit except u are more than one or except d coffee was actually drugged.

oreos:
Ode

You nor knw say my mum sef na biatch. Product of a biacth. No wonder i reason like a bastard_

eyaaa


I nor knw say the girl na your sister. Take heart
Bring her come this address make I use my PP take renovate the abdominal destruction

Can u see the reason why I hardly make comments on Nairaland.... We have people like you that are uncultured people....why the abuse ? Did I insult you @oreos

Just like evry body on this forum, I am entitled to my own opinion

I think both the raped and the rapist are not honest in their narration. Somebody forced and raped you, why didn't you shout on top of your voice? Or is the lecturer's office situated at UNILAG IRELAND?

hadura29:
I appreciate constructive criticism, thanks, I am not saying I was right, all I was trying to pin point out is that, there is more to the story than meets the eye..

Also she only reported after about a week. What if she did coz she wanted it? And what if the abdominal pain did not exist?

Justice should be served though... Gm

You are a fool. What is with the stupid reasons you keep spewing all over this thread? Is your IQ that low? Did your mum deprive you of breast milk or was it the lack of essential vitamins and minerals that turned you to a retard? Whichever one it is, you need to be locked up.