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ahsekeena:
But ehn? Tbh,I cannot visit a guy in his house o! The last time I visited a guy who was not my boyfriend was in 2006,was much younger and naïve.



But now! No way!

true,some guyz eh,just dnt knw wat to class dem with, was almost a victim several times buh I tank God I escaped it,wiseupnow#

Men should also stop visiting ladies. Me, once a victim. Bt am nt complaining.

Brugo:
Reason with your brain then quote me.

You have just confirmed yourself to be a rapist, well done!

[quote author=Sanmel post=36750542]Hmmmmm...[/quot

BUT THATS THE TRUTH

classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman??

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

Sometimes I wonder why people don't like saying the truth.

You Whr raped 3 good timez,here u are saying I escape the 1st person,blah blah d 2nd person beg,3 person did dis or Dat.


Nigerian gelz. Wat is hard for u to say Dat u Whr raped After all nobody knows u here.say the truth n shame the devil.

U b witch? 1St pushed Mi dwn n didnt, 2nd person beg n didn't.

Whr on earth will a guy wnt to rape a gel n he will start by touching.Chai dis gel wit lies.rape has to do wit force.


Dem Dey rape wit condom? Whr u wan get tym wear d tin.Chai lies ohh

Person Whr wan rape u Dey romance?. Chai y Nt tell us d truth

Haba na

classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman??

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

DON'T WORRY, WITH TIME NA YOU GO EVEN DEY RAPE GUYS

YOU NO KNOW SAY YOU DON DEY OLD ABI

Youngpo413:
the same we guy can't identify a b!tch and a good girl here on nairaland...you know both are difficult.

Whether b1tch or good girl,dey do no physical harm to guys buh rapist do harm der victim,whether male or female.

ladies should stop collecting money from Men, theft & lies are bad

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biz2get:
Are we coming to visit your parents or Just you?? Why must your parents be around ?? Is it a family meeting ??

Just my 2cents

Guy..dis ya signature na wa o!

Girls should stop seeing their pussy as a commodity for sale. Nigerian girls ar hypocrites they will be Hot bt prefer to pretend. Girls should stop worshipping money. Why is it that it's only Nigerian girls that see frndship as big deal? Ever chatted with gals from South Africa or other countries and see hw open they are.

If anyone raipees me and he sweet me,walahi I go raipe am back. Do me,I do you toto/preek no go vex

opeaceo:
Wisdom is key here, but giving a blank statement ( the title of the thread), I don't agree. "good" guys still exist.

Sister.. I see no reason why I shouldn't have your number right now!!!
Great minds think alike ...

so many girls will enjoy sex finish & they will shout rape! who is raping who? pls girls should learn how to dress & stop seducing Men!

Ok oo

kandiikane:
You have just confirmed yourself to be a rapist, well done!

Lol. If this is how to make conclusions then your teachers should be ashamed of you.

I will not bother to reassure you or otherwise. Use your head.

ollah1:
Do you walk around naked?

What is that supposed to mean? She can choose to walk around unclad and that still doesn't justify rape

Well I used to say that is not possible for just a man to rape a woman because there is no way a man would penetrate when a woman is struggling,she could still yell to draw peoples attention unless the man threaten her with a weapon.

But,why would a man rape a woman?if you ask her for sex and she refuse just let her be don't touch her on that first day of visit have it at the back of your mind that anything that makes her come the first time will always bring her again.

How will you enjoy sex where the woman is not in the mood or giving it to you with anger?

One thing I find common in some of our country people is that they believe that once you visit,it indicates some kind of sexual interest. Many victims who went to visit are not able to speak out cos people will ask what the expectation from the visit was and then blame her for visiting and causing the assault.

Does it now mean that there are no decent young men that a female friend can visit without incidence?Ofcourse not but seeing as the world is today,if you must visit buy iron pant and leave the padlock at home just incase.

We should train our children properly and let them know that NO means NO. I have seen many cases where some guys feel that saying No is initial gra gra and will continue the sex ual pestering till they have their way or the girl escapes.
If someone says no,there are many fishes in the ocean who will say yes and at the worst there are se x workers who you can pay.I don't understand how a sex ually reluctant partner can be a turn on in any level.

Se x should be between two WILLING & CONSENTING partners.

A guy can also be raped but unfortunately is harder to prove and less rampant than se xual assault on females.Many men would be too ashamed to even confess that they were raped.

NO SINGLE LADY AGREED SHE HAS BEEN RAPED AND NO SINGLE LADY AGREED SHE SEDUCED A GUY ON ALL THE COMMENT I READ. YOUR EXPERIENCE MIGHT HELP OTHERS SO THEY CAN PREPARE AGAINST SUCH ACT. LASTLY WHY IS RAPE SYNONYMOUS TO GUYS ALONE? QUOTE ME "DURING MY DAYS IN KOGI STATE UNIVERSITY SOME GUYS WERE RAPED TO DEATH BUY FEMALE FOLKS" AND THAT? One inna million right? INOTHERWORDS STOP SEDUCING GUYS TOO!

Rape na serious matter no be joke

classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman??

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

Sister please help me preach !!!!
Dis was wat i was tryin to say on a thread and people where sayin am a disgrace to a female gender
Females are sensitive creatures and needs sensitive cares

ORALL:
90 percent of rape cases are just agreement that didn't go well...we all know the timaya case,she wanted to follow timaya as his wife,timaya refuse and she screamed rape,the lecturer case,we all know it because of admission..and to you op..the guys spend his pocket money on you,he wants it back...rape my foot...quote me and thunder will strike your smelly pusssies

You're just a random.teenager with a low IQ.
Go off.this thread if you know you're too small to comprehend

classicB:
That isn't an excuse. I can deem it fit to dress scantily, that doesn't give u the right to rape me. Do u think we girls don't get moved with some male features?? Shud we now rape u people cos of that

YES YES YES !!! *in The Wayne's Voice **

donholy28:
There u go...painting all guys black

NO MIND THAT MUMU GIRL.
VERY SOON SHE GO SOON DEY ADVERTISE HERSELF TO THE PUBLIC

onomeglo:
true,some guyz eh,just dnt knw wat to class dem with, was almost a victim several times buh I tank God I escaped it,wiseupnow#

Na God save u

Cutehector: I dnt like meetin girls in an eatery... We could meet in a church...

sarcasm right?

Hmm... I've not been a victim of such.

Probably the kind of friends I keep and can visit.

Anyhoo, we all need to be careful. Noted...

Tip: always have pepper spray handy... spray that mofoz eyes

Brugo:
Lol. I will ignore your feeble attempt at goading me. You were begging the question. I only showed you how "simple" your argument was. Why do you bother with clothes? Why the need for any sense of propriety?

Cause and effect applies in the context which I discussed earlier. Forèplay like the term implies is the precursor to a more intimate experience. Why would you dress like a stripper and initiate or engage in heavy petting and stop halfway then claim you were raped afterwards? Had you not expressed consent already?

My dear you had it coming and you must share in the blame. Note the word "share".

Whatever way u try to degrade my replies,dats ur business in short ur cup of akamu,buh I still maintain until I sleep off tonyt dat a woman's NO is no,even if she has started giving u a head,u still have no right to rape her,and rape is still not justified

Some gals rape guys ok

classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman??

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

vickylala239:
Sometimes I wonder why people don't like saying the truth.

You Whr raped 3 good timez,here u are saying I escape the 1st person,blah blah d 2nd person beg,3 person did dis or Dat.


Nigerian gelz. Wat is hard for u to say Dat u Whr raped After all nobody knows u here.say the truth n shame the devil.

U b witch? 1St pushed Mi dwn n didnt, 2nd person beg n didn't.

Whr on earth will a guy wnt to rape a gel n he will start by touching.Chai dis gel wit lies.rape has to do wit force.


Dem Dey rape wit condom? Whr u wan get tym wear d tin.Chai lies ohh

Person Whr wan rape u Dey romance?. Chai y Nt tell us d truth

Haba na

I have never been raped, can't u read and understand?? I said three attempt
Rape didn't happen