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agarawu23:
respect my foot it's not a matter of romantic or not, it's a thing that shouldn't be a must.....


she should accept the begging while I am on my sit not until I kneel down. if she doesn't accept my proposal cos I didn't kneel down, more years is adding to her age and she will be the one begging for marriage and this time around, you the guy will just put the ring on the table or in her pocket. kneeling isn't necessary and it doesn't show the guys isn't romantic or loving.

u v no choice dan to kneel down bro.. most Nigerian gals will term it as a sign of disrecpt and unseriousness...Honestly speaking ah can't say yes to a guy who can't kneel down for 10 seconds

Shebarh:
u v no choice dan to kneel down bro.. most Nigerian gals will term it as a sign of disrecpt and unseriousness... Honestly speaking ah can't say yes to a guy who can't kneel down for 10 seconds

no wonder the rate of single matured ladies is high in Nigeria

agarawu23:
no wonder the rate of single matured ladies is high in Nigeria

yh bcus naija guys aiint matured... what is bad in kneeling down for 10 secs. it's not like ya gonna kneel down der for d rest of ya life

Shebarh:
yh bcus naija guys aiint matured... what is bad in kneeling down for 10 secs. it's not like ya gonna kneel down der for d rest of ya life

must I?

It's not a necessary thing for a guy to kneel down for a lady but very important.

Very important in the sense that ladies needs three things from guys:
1. Respect
2. Reassurance
3. Relief.


When proposing to her, it brings up those three Rs to her.

abdrazak:
It's not a necessary thing for a guy to kneel down for a lady but very important.

Very important in the sense that ladies needs three things from guys:
1. Respect
2. Reassurance
3. Relief.


When proposing to her, it brings up those three Rs to her.

hmmmmm
OK o
na your mind be that

agarawu23:
must I?

Yes.. it's a tradition every guy must do if he wanna engage her..

It's a useless tradition. The fact that he knelt when proposing doesn't stop him from beating you like a goat later on in marriage.

I prefer to sit down at dinner and propose. Candle light tins. Not bad.

Shebarh:
yh bcus naija guys aiint matured... what is bad in kneeling down for 10 secs. it's not like ya gonna kneel down der for d rest of ya life

And why would he take it serious knowing that its just a 10sec thing, its not like she is gonna die if I don't.



Its not about maturity, its about knowing what u want and how to go about it, what difference will it make weda I kneel or not? NONE.


I believe there are other african ways of proposing to a lady u want to marry apart from copying other people.



Are u kneeling down because u want to kneel down or because other people are kneeling down?

Shebarh:
Yes.. it's a tradition every guy must do if he wanna engage her..

AfroKnight:
It's a useless tradition. The fact that he knelt when proposing doesn't stop him from beating you like a goat later on in marriage.

I prefer to sit down at dinner and propose. Candle light tins. Not bad.

bros abeg help me tell her make she hear

chigoizie7:
And why would he take it serious knowing that its just a 10sec thing, its not like she is gonna die if I don't.



Its not about maturity, its about knowing what u want and how to go about it, what difference will it make weda I kneel or not? NONE.


I believe there are other african ways of proposing to a lady u want to marry apart from copying other people.



Are u kneeling down because u want to kneel down or because other people are kneeling down?

good question all guys must answer.

some don't even know the meaning they just kneel cos they watch movies and see.....

okay u guys r right.. but hope u know u can't change dat kind of tradition.. wish u guys luck if ya planning on proposing to ya gf without kneeling. hope she understands

Shebarh:
okay u guys r right.. but hope u know u can't change dat kind of tradition.. wish u guys luck if ya planning on proposing to ya gf without kneeling. hope she understands

lol, you finally give up

All this noise for nothing... if you don't want to kneel, you stand or sit. ha!

Like someone is putting a gun to your head.

Is it in the constitution of Federal Republic of Nigeria?

jmoore:
Is it in the constitution of Federal Republic of Nigeria?

lol
abeg ask them

charlito94:
So weres d most proper place to engage a lady n wen is it appropriate in a relationship to do so?

my guy,
don't be carried away by movies . you can propose anywhere you wish when you are fully ready to carry your responsibility and you finally decide to settle down

agarawu23:
lol, you finally give up

yh

You should not propose to anybody
Marriage should be discussed by both parties in order to agree or disagree to the relationship proposal
Its a relationship contract and should be properly understood
A 5min emotional activity of proposing does not solve any of the modalities involved in this contract
The more logical humans become the less problematic their life will be

When you are matured enough to get married,i'll tell you what it means.......





Lemme jez tell u anyways...

You are not kneeling to make her feel she's in Jupiter,you are asking her to take a risk.You are asking her to leave her parents,siblings and loved ones to be with u.You are asking for her attention,You are asking her to choose you over the other guys,you are asking her to help you kip your ancestry/lineage.you are asking for a lot.


So if u dnt see reasons y u should kneel,pls be kind enuf to wait some more till u undastand d path u are about to tread!

theDEVILisHERE:
You should not propose to anybody
Marriage should be discussed by both parties in order to agree or disagree to the relationship proposal
Its a relationship contract and should be properly understood
A 5min emotional activity of proposing does not solve any of the modalities involved in this contract
The more logical humans become the less problematic their life will be

boss, wonderful comment

I love it

DaisyII:
When you are matured enough to get married,i'll tell you what it means.......





Lemme jez tell u anyways...

You are not kneeling to make her feel she's in Jupiter,you are asking her to take a risk.You are asking her to leave her parents,siblings and loved ones to be with u.You are asking for her attention,You are asking her to choose you over the other guys,you are asking her to help you kip your ancestry/lineage.you are asking for a lot.


So if u dnt see reasons y u should kneel,pls be kind enuf to wait some more till u undastand d path u are about to tread!

miss, we hear this story daily,
we are both In the shoe abi na she go marry herself if I don't?

the worst part of it eh! the lady claiming and forming for you to kneel down isn't a virgin and no be the guy deflower her.

It is against our tradition in Yoruba Land.

ladyF:
You have to.

Just shows ure willing to swallow ur pride for her. That's probably the only time u will kneel down for her in ur entire life. So YES. The guy must kneel, he fit lie down sef , na once in a lifetime tin

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which kind swallow my pride. Shey d kind pride wey she already knw i go vomit after wedding?

Teeboy22:
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If u ask me na who i go ask


*spreads mat* singing

Omo anifowose Omo anifo Iru ki le yi Omo
anifowose Omo anifo Iru ki le yi Omo anifowose
Won mu ewure dudu Won mu re igbo ifa Omo
anifowose Won m’aguntan bolojo Won mu re ile
osun Omo anifowose Osun o gba aguntan Ema se
gba emi mi Omo anifowose Eni ti o le se bi alaaru l’oyingbo ko le se bi adegboro l’oja oba

Here na music section?

ladyF:
You have to.

Just shows ure willing to swallow ur pride for her. That's probably the only time u will kneel down for her in ur entire life. So YES. The guy must kneel, he fit lie down sef , na once in a lifetime tin

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Balderdash! Whether you kneel down or not, it's not going to change the lady's answer.

misspicy:
Yes na...you af to be humble while requesting for her to leave her family,drop her last name,come bear u children and in d process loosing her beautiful body,practically become your servant by cooking,washing and doing all sort of house chores....you dnt ask for all dis things on ur feet,or sitting or lying down,u kneel as a sign of respect

All this one you are saying is Super Story.

agarawu23:
don't forget I am paying her families too and I work hard to get that money I am paying.

anyway only young ladies like you will be demanding that, oldies don't care if you stand or sit.

respect my foot

Don't mind her jare, Kneel down ko Kneel ni!

ladyF:
in a way it says a lot about u, if u ask me....like u have some terrible ego issues. Some ladies will interpret it as you saying *why should I kneel down for this one, who is she?*
To me there's nothing there kneeling to propose, if u love her so much it shouldn't even be a topic to argue about.

See dude, forget all these. Kneeling down doesn't make you a good husband. I don't know why ladies are so fixated by it as if the success of the marriage depended on it. And perhaps, a lady's answer to your marriage proposal doesn't depend on you kneeling down. If you like lie down on the floor, her yes will be yes and her no will be no. So don't come here and tell us that kneeling down during a marriage proposal says a lot about a guy: that logic is flawed.

Shebarh:
You are begging her to say yes to u. .ah don't see anything wrong with dat

Of course you won't, you are a lady.

It isn't a must to kneel down while proposing.
A guy can ask a lady to marry him in anyway he feels comfortable in,as long as he respects and cherishes her every other day.
Kneel down to propose today,turn her to punching bag tomorrow.