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"Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by zoho23(m): 11:45am On Jun 11, 2018

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by pocohantas(f): 11:50am On Jun 11, 2018
LOL. His face is so funny...

IamD18:
Real men don't rescue old evening newspaper, because they know their worth and won't like to settle for less with a used, re-used, re-re-used, re-re-re-used woman in her 30s.

Only desperate and poor men will ever think of marrying a lady in her 30s. Sensible and reasonable men with options will always go for younger women in their 20s because they worth it.
God forbid! Anyone that'll advice me to marry a retired HOE.

Continue editing your comment.
You'll get there. This isn't harsh enough...YET!

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by IamD18: 11:50am On Jun 11, 2018
Real men don't rescue old evening newspaper, because they know their worth and won't like to settle for less with a used, re-used, re-re-used, re-re-re-used woman in her 30s.

Only desperate and poor men will ever think of marrying a lady in her 30s. Sensible and reasonable men with options will always go for younger women in their 20s because they worth it.

God forbid! Anyone that'll advice me to marry a retired HOE with depreciated body as a wife.

Tufiakwa!!
Abomination!!
I reject such idea!!

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Divatochi(f): 11:51am On Jun 11, 2018
This table u are shaking eeh!!

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by damtan(m): 11:54am On Jun 11, 2018
if he was a nairalander, he for don hear am from our ladies.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:54am On Jun 11, 2018
if the man is in his 40s, it is indeed a rescue mission FOR BOTH OF THEM!

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by papoudaupolos: 11:57am On Jun 11, 2018
Not in the sight of love.
Except if a guy looking for cheap

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Preshy561(f): 11:58am On Jun 11, 2018
this one is still eating mama thank you.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nobody: 11:58am On Jun 11, 2018
See his dry face.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Lonestar124: 12:01pm On Jun 11, 2018
MrBrownJay1:
if the man is in his 40s, it is indeed a rescue mission FOR BOTH OF THEM!
So a man above 40 can not easily marry a girl in her 20s abi cheesy

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jun 11, 2018
You're not rescuing any lady by marring her. This mentality is the reason Nigerian girls sees marriage as the golden ultimate than adding value to themselves, and fools like this one will be first to condemn such ladies.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:03pm On Jun 11, 2018
Lonestar124:
So a man above 40 can not easily marry a girl in her 20s abi cheesy

yes he certainly can!!!!

now the question IS: is that man in his 40s a catch for this babe in her 20s (or simply a desperate move from broke aass babes to get out of poverty)?!

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nobody: 12:15pm On Jun 11, 2018
IamD18:
Real men don't rescue old evening newspaper, because they know their worth and won't like to settle for less with a used, re-used, re-re-used, re-re-re-used woman in her 30s.

Only desperate and poor men will ever think of marrying a lady in her 30s.

Sensible and reasonable men with options will always go for younger women in their 20s.


Sorry! I think you should speak for yourself than speaking for real men. Who's a real man by the way? Great men marry for the values they see in a lady than age. They don't care whether she's 20 or 30; provided she fits into what they desire, they're good to go.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Lonestar124: 12:25pm On Jun 11, 2018
MrBrownJay1:


yes he certainly can!!!!

now the question IS: is that man in his 40s a catch for this babe in her 20s (or simply a desperate move from broke aass babes to get out of poverty)?!
But you can sensed a lady perturbation in her 30s unlike a man even above 50s. cheesy

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:31pm On Jun 11, 2018
Lonestar124:
But you can sensed a lady perturbation in her 30s unlike a man even above 50s. cheesy

they both get desperate for different reasons....
a WOMAN in her 30s is desperate due to her body clock, a MAN in his +40s is desperate due to sex and loneliness

why do you think a wealthy man like Oshiomole would go marry a woman half his age, when we all know that he is rich enough to bed a different high class runz babe every night for the rest of his natural life?

if it was simple and easy for a man in his +40s to be single and lonely then men in that age bracket wouldnt be desperate to marry clueless women half their age, would they?

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Lonestar124: 12:39pm On Jun 11, 2018
IamD18:
Real men don't rescue old evening newspaper, because they know their worth and won't like to settle for less with a used, re-used, re-re-used, re-re-re-used woman in her 30s.

Only desperate and poor men will ever think of marrying a lady in her 30s. Sensible and reasonable men with options will always go for younger women in their 20s because they worth it.

God forbid! Anyone that'll advice me to marry a retired HOE with depreciated body as a wife.

Tufiakwa!!
Abomination!!
I reject such idea!!

Oga if I see good potentials in her I will marry her.... The current president of France is 39years and his amiable wife is 65years.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by izzou(m): 12:40pm On Jun 11, 2018
grin

Who is shaking this table again? grin grin

Pocohantas, I see you're already here cool

Let me buy small groundnuts and cucumber. I'll be back

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Lonestar124: 1:17pm On Jun 11, 2018
MrBrownJay1:


they both get desperate for different reasons....
a WOMAN in her 30s is desperate due to her body clock, a MAN in his +40s is desperate due to sex and loneliness

why do you think a wealthy man like Oshiomole would go marry a woman half his age, when we all know that he is rich enough to bed a different high class runz babe every night for the rest of his natural life?

if it was simple and easy for a man in his +40s to be single and lonely then men in that age bracket wouldnt be desperate to marry clueless women half their age, would they?
Only a lazy man can be lonely... We are talking about marriage here, a lady in her 30s hoping to get married and yet no suitors coming for her is not conforming the societal expectation and will see that as stigmatization.

A man above 40s will adopt a child and keep numerous relationship. he can only be constrain by his family and close ones unlike the ladies that everybody is looking up to cheesy

The fact is that a lady like 'rihanna ' in her old age can marry any man of her choice.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Saff(f): 1:21pm On Jun 11, 2018
Lonestar124:
So a man above 40 can not easily marry a girl in her 20s abi cheesy
for money, why not? Broke old man trying to marry a 20something cannot work. Sorry. grin cheesy grin grin

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Lonestar124: 1:27pm On Jun 11, 2018
Saff:
for money, why not? Broke old man trying to marry a 20something cannot work. Sorry.
And a woman at 40s with money can as well select his husband of her choice. cheesy

Money settled everything cheesy

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:31pm On Jun 11, 2018
Lonestar124:
Only a lazy man can be lonely... We are talking about marriage here, a lady in her 30s hoping to get married and yet no suitors coming for her is not conforming the societal expectation and will see that as stigmatization.

A man above 40s will adopt a child and keep numerous relationship. he can only be constrain by his family and close ones unlike the ladies that everybody is looking up to cheesy

But the fact is that a lady like 'rihanna ' in her old age can marry any man of her choice.. Fact.

you are not following the discussion here..... if we are talking of marriage then, as i said, women in their 30s are desperate to marry for a certain reason, while men in their +40s do too. if it was that easy for a man in his 40s to be single, then they wouldnt go and marry 20something yr old clueless babes, would they?!

furthermore, the fact that you want to use the society as a way to dictate what is right or wrong here is funny. the reason these babes are actually in that exact predicament is because of that same BS societal expectation, and also the reason why so many women in their 20s are miserable while married to deluded +40 men. now let us use our brain and ask the IMPORTANT question: Is it right?!

the reality here is that unless they are poor, the majority of single Nigerian men well into their +40s would rather get married than stay single... even if it is just to get someone to cook their meal, clean their house and keep their bed warm.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by johnime: 1:34pm On Jun 11, 2018
lol
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by KrystosCJ(m): 1:35pm On Jun 11, 2018
Can this one even toast his female mate?

No wonder he's asking, "Guys are we together?"

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jun 11, 2018
K

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Sirpaul(m): 1:35pm On Jun 11, 2018
Don't allow someone to make you feel like you're not good enough.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Josh44s(m): 1:35pm On Jun 11, 2018
Shot fired!. All the single 30+ female Nairalanders like evablin, biacan, lilimax, kimbraa and co be like........ grin

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jun 11, 2018
His face is priceless!grin grin grin grin

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Lilimax(f): 1:36pm On Jun 11, 2018
Chai! shocked
Are now we saying there;s no hope for women in their 40's undecided?

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by alignacademy(m): 1:36pm On Jun 11, 2018
zoho23:
Lol. savage people everywhere

More @ https://trendinghelm./2018/06/man-says-proposing-to-lady-in-her-30s.html


He's entitled to his opinion

It's another thing altogether for any serious lady to base her self-esteem on such views

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Alexbobo2016: 1:36pm On Jun 11, 2018
and what do you call it when a man marries at 55?

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by IamAirforce1: 1:36pm On Jun 11, 2018
Knockout punch cheesy

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