₦airaland Forum

EnlightenedSoul:
Personally, I don't consider it necessary. Either way, its in your best interest to know what's preferred and what's expected.

Thank you jare!

Shebarh:
u v no choice dan to kneel down bro.. most Nigerian gals will term it as a sign of disrecpt and unseriousness...Honestly speaking ah can't say yes to a guy who can't kneel down for 10 seconds

And that is why you are still single.

Shebarh:
Yes.. it's a tradition every guy must do if he wanna engage her..

Says who.

AfroKnight:
It's a useless tradition. The fact that he knelt when proposing doesn't stop him from beating you like a goat later on in marriage.

I prefer to sit down at dinner and propose. Candle light tins. Not bad.

Bros you get sense jare.

Raalsalghul:
See dude, forget all these. Kneeling down doesn't make you a good husband. I don't know why ladies are so fixated by it as if the success of the marriage depended on it. And perhaps, a lady's answer to your marriage proposal doesn't depend on you kneeling down. If you like lie down on the floor, her yes will be yes and her no will be no. So don't come here and tell us that kneeling down during a marriage proposal says a lot about a guy: that logic is flawed.

Some guys say they can NEVER kneel down, gives the impression u have ego issues to me. Cuz there's absolutely nothing there. Like who are u "prouding" for. The person is going to be ur wife soon, humility is very necessary. Some ladies will not want to marry this kind of individual.

DaisyII:
When you are matured enough to get married,i'll tell you what it means.......





Lemme jez tell u anyways...

You are not kneeling to make her feel she's in Jupiter,you are asking her to take a risk.You are asking her to leave her parents,siblings and loved ones to be with u.You are asking for her attention,You are asking her to choose you over the other guys,you are asking her to help you kip your ancestry/lineage.you are asking for a lot.


So if u dnt see reasons y u should kneel,pls be kind enuf to wait some more till u undastand d path u are about to tread!

Story!

ladyF:
Some guys say they can NEVER kneel down, gives the impression u have ego issues to me. Cuz there's absolutely nothing there. Like who are u "prouding" for. The person is going to be ur wife soon, humility is very necessary. Some ladies will not want to marry this kind of individual.

Dude, you don't know me, so how did you come to the conclusion that I have ego. Oh! Because I said I can't kneel down. Hmmm! According to you kneeling down during a marriage proposal=Good husband abi. Tell me, does kneeling down affect the success of the marriage or does it make the guy a good husband? You are talking as if it's the lady that is sacrificing her life as if the guys don't do too. Do you think it is easy for a guy to wake up one morning and decide to spend his life with one person? Think logically and don't let emotions guide you.

Raalsalghul:
Thank you jare!

In your case, my opinion is of no import.

ladyF:
Some guys say they can NEVER kneel down, gives the impression u have ego issues to me. Cuz there's absolutely nothing there. Like who are u "prouding" for. The person is going to be ur wife soon, humility is very necessary. Some ladies will not want to marry this kind of individual.

And perhaps thank God you said “Some” ladies.

Raalsalghul:
Dude, you don't know me, so how did you come to the conclusion that I have ego. Oh! Because I said I can't kneel down. Hmmm! According to you kneeling down during a marriage proposal=Good husband abi. Tell me, does kneeling down affect the success of the marriage or does it make the guy a good husband? You are talking as if it's the lady that is sacrificing her life as if the guys don't do too. Do you think it is easy for a guy to wake up one morning and decide to spend his life with one person? Think logically and don't let emotions guide you.

Lol I'm not a dude tho. Different strokes for different folks....everyone cant have the same opinion always...Cheers!

Vyolet:
It isn't a must to kneel down while proposing.
A guy can ask a lady to marry him in anyway he feels comfortable in,as long as he respects and cherishes her every other day.
Kneel down to propose today,turn her to punching bag tomorrow.

thank you jare.
some ladies don't just understand the game. it isn't a MUST.

Raalsalghul:
And that is why you are still single.

no mind this our girls

it is a must

MJEndow:
it is a must

why is it a must? explaine

agarawu23:
why is it a must? explaine

cos they will bear much pains as a wife, you think its easy to be a perfect wife or a wise woman that maketh home hun, inshort man need to lie on the floor sef to propose

MJEndow:
cos they will bear much pains as a wife, you think its easy to be a perfect wife or a wise woman that maketh home hun, inshort man need to lie on the floor sef to propose

what has perfect wife gat to do my kneels on the floor?

what has pains gat to kneeling down?

agarawu23:
what has perfect wife gat to do my kneels on the floor?

what has pains gat to kneeling down?

is your brain twisted? lie on floor,beg her to marry you and become all i said.

MJEndow:
is your brain twisted? lie on floor,beg her to marry you and become all i said.

rubbish!!!

agarawu23:
rubbish!!!

exactly you

agarawu23:
OK this topic is on FP already https://www.nairaland.com/2513215/comedian-akpororo-proposes-girlfriend-during

and my comment there says "if I knee down propose to a girl, make I bend"
I get mentions from different PPl.

now to you guys, can't you do your proposing without kneeling down?

must you kneel down?

why is kneeling down a must?

what's the meaning?

are you kneeling down cos you see other guys doing it?

where is it written in the Bible/Quran for guys to kneel down when proposing to a Lady?

will kneeling down make the girl accept you because I don't understand it yet

to the ladies, so if your guy propose to you without kneeling down, you won't say yes?

ladies what will you gain in the kneeling when you will later end up with beating in his house when you marry him?

Its not a must, its just tradition. But its really beautiful if you find a lady you can do that for.

Boyolity:
Its not a must, its just tradition. But its really beautiful if you find a lady you can do that for.

explain the tradition pls

oyi

Raalsalghul:
Story!

yea,but i hope u got d moral of the story.

agarawu23:
miss, we hear this story daily,
we are both In the shoe abi na she go marry herself if I don't?

the worst part of it eh! the lady claiming and forming for you to kneel down isn't a virgin and no be the guy deflower her.

So,you would value/respect a virgin more?

Virginity is beautiful so does every other thing about a woman.

I'll advise that you don't kneel to make that proposal if u don't see a reason to do so.

Ladies,if you want to be treated like a QUEEN please build yourself to act and think like one.

DaisyII:
So,you would value/respect a virgin more?

Virginity is beautiful so does every other thing about a woman.

I'll advise that you don't kneel to make that proposal if u don't see a reason to do so.

Ladies,if you want to be treated like a QUEEN please build yourself to act and think like one.

now you are talking

agarawu23:
now you are talking

Love is more than Virginity,money and all whatnots.
You'll find in a woman something dat will bring u down on your knees wen d tym is ryt.

DaisyII:
Love is more than Virginity,money and all whatnots.
You'll find in a woman something dat will bring u down on your knees wen d tym is ryt.

no woman on this planet

I can kneel and beg when I do something that's bad to my babe but I honestly can't kneel to propose

agarawu23:
no woman on this planet

I can kneel and beg when I do something that's bad to my babe but I honestly can't kneel to propose

You are very wise(i take out d sarcasm in it)

you kneel for a babe n not ur wife to be? Ok,very wise!

DaisyII:
You are very wise(i take out d sarcasm in it)

you kneel for a babe n not ur wife to be? Ok,very wise!

if I say babe, I don't mean side chick

agarawu23:
if I say babe, I don't mean side chick

you'll kneel when the time comes.

damn...wat kind of ******** is dis....

I tink dat y Yoruba is taught in sec school,RESPECT YA LADY n BEG...
lol

yungest:
damn...wat kind of ******** is dis....


I tink dat y Yoruba is taught in sec school,RESPECT YA LADY n BEG...

lol

you haven't answer the question

agarawu23:
you haven't answer the question

OK sir...its YES..........



wtf...... DISCLAIMER(2ma future wife).if I nor knee down 4u,meet d guys in dis thread. dem da spoil my mind....