Who agrees? Toke Makinwa has urged women to snoop on their men,saying it saves them alot of heartache,knowing where they stand.In her latest Vlog ,she said men are wicked and women should pry on their men’s phones despite the emotional ache that comes with it sometimes.She is of the opinion that, the earlier you know about your spouses, the better ......Read what she said below



“You should snoop. People have found out that their houses are on fire; people have found out that they are married to other women’s husbands. I am a proud snooper and this is my advice for you,“I am a proud snooper; this is me. When you snoop your boyfriend or your husband, it is like you are stealing from the pot. But what else should we do?” she asked.“It is better women find out in the hard way.“If you do not check, you will not know. It gives you opportunity to know, the kind of relationship you are into. Checking has saved lives, and I would rather have my life saved.”

She advised, they should be courageous to dump men who would not love and be faithful to them.
She said the reason God gave women brain was so that they could think their way out of trouble.

“Some men are gold-diggers. If the lady you are with is not good for you, leave her and look for another one. The earlier women know the better for them,” she noted.

“It is funny how God uses even the most unbelievable things to bless you. I have been given a voice, a platform but I woke up one day and I found God, and with that came purpose.
“It is never about you. Sometimes you go through things not for you but for the people around you who need direction. It is tough being a woman, the pressure is real. You don’t have to be a victim; you can rise above it all. Do not let the society tell you otherwise. Be bold, be strong,” she said.

Do you agree with Toke on this?

WATCH VIDEO HERE http://www.maureenihasee.com/2015/08/video-toke-makinwa-advice-ladies-to.html

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A saying from a broken heart..... Kip snooping na....wo send u? "Men are wicked and women are kind",,,that ur said hubby is a dog doesn't make all of us a dog...,,....



Fallacy of hasty generalisation

Rubbish,why shud I snoop on his fone wen he hv his private live to leave? And as an africa man and a proud african lady,I believe ma husbnd is entitle to more dan one woman..so let him flex his life joor.

ur days on earth are numbered take it or leave it..daddy Búbu says

Confused lady

Yes ooooo, true talk....better to know and save yourself from contacting HIV!

So after all her runs in Unilag, she still has mouth to talk. Toke, I fear you.

As of this moment, I dont think she has the right to speak on this issue.
Where has your snooping landed you.


In any relationship (boy-girl, business, parent-child), there has to be an element of trust.
Snooping shows that you don't trust the person you are in a relationship with and that is a terrible place to be in.

What do you tell your partner when he/she catches you snooping around his/her phones, laptops and belongings. It cannot just work.

Snooping shows insecurity, envy and jealousy. It can lead to paranoia and high blood pressure.
If you are suspicious of something, ask your partner. If he/she denies it, trust them enough to believe.

The fact about truth is that it always comes out. ALWAYS. It's a matter of time. So, please save yourself the heart ache.


Cc: lalasticlala Ishilove

You've said it all @dapyd1

Ladies, soji yourself. Use any method that works for you. It's not a matter of trust. You will see the signs if you're vigilant enough. Y'all just get carried away with 'trust', and trust me, nobody should be trusted that much.

dapyd1:
As of this moment, I dont think she has the right to speak on this issue.
Where has your snooping landed you.


In any relationship (boy-girl, business, parent-child), there has to be an element of trust.
Snooping shows that you don't trust the person you are in a relationship with and that is a terrible place to be in.

What do you tell your partner when he/she catches you snooping around his/her phones, laptops and belongings. It cannot just work.

Snooping shows insecurity, envy and jealousy. It can lead to paranoia and high blood pressure.
If you are suspicious of something, ask your partner. If he/she denies it, trust them enough to believe.

The fact about truth is that it always comes out. ALWAYS. It's a matter of time. So, please save yourself the heart ache.

It's a matter of time ba? I doubt you wanna hear on your deathbed that your 'children' are your neighbors'. There's nothing wrong with being observant and following up on whatever arouses your suspicion IMHO.

repogirl:
Yes ooooo, true talk....better to know and save yourself from contacting HIV!

Lobatan!
People fail to realize that it isn't just a matter of betrayal of trust or whatever sensationalist lingo is out there. It's a matter of survival! STDs are freaking real, and to get infected by a cheating spouse? That is some unthinkable shiiii for me.

maureenihasee:
You've said it all @dapyd1

Thanks

maureenihasee:


She advised, they should be courageous to dump men who would not love and be faithful to them.

Agree.

Hmm...she's pretty.

But anyway, she's telling the truth, however, once you start snooping it becomes a habit. Like a drug, you'll need your next hit & have no time to truly enjoy the relationship because you're preoccupied with paranoid thoughts. The truth always comes out on its own, eventually. What doesn't come out in the wash, definitely comes out in the rinse.

kestolove95:
Rubbish,why shud I snoop on his fone wen he hv his private live to leave? And as an africa man and a proud african lady,I believe ma husbnd is entitle to more dan one woman..so let him flex his life joor.

Yea,ur hubby will surely flex is life coz his an african man and you are an african lady,then he will contact STDs and share it with you,he will impregnate 5 different women and bring them to you or worst still he will kick ur ass out of his house once his flexing partners ask him to...then you will wallow in self pity and regret and accept ur fate....beacause he is an african man...

Some ladies are natural MU.MUs

good luck to you

kestolove95:
Rubbish,why shud I snoop on his fone wen he hv his private live to leave? And as an africa man and a proud african lady,I believe ma husbnd is entitle to more dan one woman..so let him flex his life joor.

PunkyVeer:
Hmm...she's pretty.

But anyway, she's telling the truth, however, once you start snooping it becomes a habit. Like a drug, you'll need your next hit & have no time to truly enjoy the relationship because you're preoccupied with paranoid thoughts. The truth always comes out on its own, eventually. What doesn't come out in the wash, definitely comes out in the rinse.

Your head correct,truth is no need to disturb ourselves snooping,wen a man is cheating,it naturally shows in his habits,and some men always regrets their actions,confess to their spouse and d relationship continues,buh if we keep snooping,hurting our selves in d process,confronting and he apologise buh goes back to his vomit,it becomes an habit....i prefer not to snoop

misspicy:

Your head correct,truth is no need to disturb ourselves snooping,wen a man is cheating,it naturally shows in his habits,and some men always regrets their actions,confess to their spouse and d relationship continues,buh if we keep snooping,hurting our selves in d process,confronting and he apologise buh goes back to his vomit,it becomes an habit....i prefer not to snoop

Quoted for fact. You're right. But do you sometimes get the itch to snoop? I know I do but I always talk myself out of it because I know once I start, I won't stop. And because I don't allow myself to snoop, I find that I sometimes get a little resentful because in my mind, he could be sitting on top of something real big & he's getting away with it, so to speak. So in a way it's a no win situation because when he laughs a little extra, you wonder if he's not laughing because he's so happy to get away with so much Hmmm, I think some of us are natural born snoopers, we just choose not to act on those urges. Damned if you do & damned if you don't. Not a nice feeling.

PunkyVeer:


Quoted for fact. You're right. But do you sometimes get the itch to snoop? I know I do but I always talk myself out of it because I know once I start, I won't stop. And because I don't allow myself to snoop, I find that I sometimes get a little resentful because in my mind, he could be sitting on top of something real big & he's getting away with it, so to speak. So in a way it's a no win situation because when he laughs a little extra, you wonder if he's not laughing because he's so happy to get away with so much Hmmm, I think some of us are natural born snoopers, we just choose not to act on those urges. Damned if you do & damned if you don't. Not a nice feeling.

Truth is I have been there,don dat buh its not worth d heartache.....so I started a fresh start,stopped bothering n its been working,they always come back on their knees.....so I prefer not to snoop

I agree with her.

you don't just stay in your comfort zone and assume that you are the only queen that rocks your man's boat

but do not oversnoop

misspicy:

Truth is I have been there,don dat buh its not worth d heartache.....so I started a fresh start,stopped bothering n its been working,they always come back on their knees.....so I prefer not to snoop

* nods*

Great job on overcoming that.

kestolove95:
Rubbish,why shud I snoop on his fone wen he hv his private live to leave? And as an africa man and a proud african lady, I believe ma husbnd is entitle to more dan one woman..so let him flex his life joor.

Really?

boboLIL:
A saying from a broken heart..... Kip snooping na....wo send u? "Men are wicked and women are kind",,,that ur said hubby is a dog doesn't make all of us a dog...,,....



Fallacy of hasty generalisation

I am a dog. A happy unrepentant dog

kestolove95:
Rubbish,why shud I snoop on his fone wen he hv his private live to leave? And as an africa man and a proud african lady,I believe ma husbnd is entitle to more dan one woman..so let him flex his life joor.

.

U must be a Muslim....

One man one wife says my own bible

IYADARA:
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U must be a Muslim....

One man one wife says my own bible

whch verse if d bible pls

kestolove95:
whch verse if d bible pls

several verses actually point in that direction, i will just list out a few i know of then you can look them up:
Gen 2:18-25
Matt 19:4-5
1 Cor 7:1-2

By snooping am just putting myself through unnecesarry stress! I don't av to snoop all I nid do is to trust him!

She snoop on maje.


He born boy

Good advice from a chicken brained heifer