Had I known all my labour on her would be in futility, I wouldn’t have spent my hard earned money on her. I looked forward to a bright future with her but my dreams have been shattered by the very one I gave true love. I’m an OND holder but into a lucrative business which is doing very well. I met my girl online four years ago, though that notwithstanding, people can meet anywhere. I was already done with my OND while she was in 200L in the university. She told me of how her mother died during the delivery of their lastborn and her dad had to remarry leaving her to cater for herself most times. I felt the urge to render the little assistance I could and I started giving her money for her upkeep that was like six months after we met. I can even remember paying her tuition fees one session. Now four years down the memory lane, after her graduation and NYSC, and getting a job in an ICT firm with a good pay, it suddenly dawned on her that she can't marry an OND holder because of the gap in education. I told her it is the love between us that matters most but she said she loves me but we are not compatible education wise as she still want to further her education. All these years she was “gulping” my money, calling me sweet names, she didn’t see the incompatibility. When her future was in disarray I was her messiah (am not boasting here) but now that she can look forward to a bright future I’m no more in the picture.


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Fück bítches.
Enslave urself to the pursuit of currency.

Lasticla or whoever did itit
Y would u remove my space on a thread saying I wan to sleep wit cr7 bla bal, I spooked d space jejely waiting to read and comment dat am FTC den to my surprise someone else was FTC and my space has been removed
I demand an explanation
Cause am really angry!!!!!!!!!

The only help I can offer is where to buy acid to pour on the certificate n maybe the owner

Kill her joor...after wasting ur life and time she wan go scot free

this is serious o

ITbomb:
The only help I can offer is where to buy acid to pour on the certificate n maybe the owner

nah man, u just ve to let go of her let God be d judge

Let the girl go. Make she go taste. Don't even act. Just let her go

.......this story happens all too often. It only seems it's rather exception to rule for the opposite to transpire.

Truth is, moral of story is: if you want to help someone, do it selflessly wanting nothing in return. Nothing is guaranteed in this life.

Op, someone better will come along. I don't think you were ever meant to be with this individual. Just dust off, shake it off and look forward to the person meant for you. Better that you realize this now, than many more years wasted with her.

I think that if she truly played you for money, then she will in turn reap what she has sown with you in one way or another.

You know people slip up at some point, I think you got blinded by your emotions, and you failed to see the subtle signs that she was using you.


I wish you well. The best is still ahead. It is well.

guy i advise u move on with ur life
u ar not destined to marry her
God will provide u a better person

Let her go and however angry you are, don't do anything stupid

You don't need to disgrace yourself for her sake, please

She only wants a taste of a rich,fat,longer d**k. Let the bitch go and chase d paper;they aingt loyal.

Xiadnat:
.......this story happens all too often. It only seems it's rather exception to rule for the opposite to transpire.

Truth is, moral of story is: if you want to help someone, do it selflessly wanting nothing in return. Nothing is guaranteed in this life.

Op, someone better will come along. I don't think you were ever meant to be with this individual. Just dust off, shake it off and look forward to the person meant for you. Better that you realize this now, than many more years wasted with her.

I think that if she truly played you for money, then she will in turn reap what she has sown with you in one way or another.

You know people slip up at some point, I think you got blinded by your emotions, and you failed to see the subtle signs that she was using you.


I wish you well. The best is still ahead. It is well.

If you have not encountered heart break before, especially from a woman you truly love, you will know its quite suicidal.
@ op, Its only God you need to run to now, to amend your heart. Its well with you.

Nollywood drama!!

Shiiit happens..let it go

Akuneshiobike:
If you have not encountered heart break before, especially from a woman you truly love, you will know its quite suicidal.
@ op, Its only God you need to run to now, to amend your heart. Its well with you.

I guess I have not, but I have come close so I empathize and sympathize.

BTW: I am XX genotypically and phenotypically.

Bro I can hire u my shut gun.......shoot d bitch in d ass and move on.....leave God to judge d case....

Leave her 2 karma. And I think it's high time guys stop d mentality of "I helped her n m suppose 2 marry her".. both of u never signed any deal as regard d marriage ish..

If u feel like helping any lady,pls do so..n don't trap her into it..

My eyes were heavy after reading the post.

Its painful and hard to take, but you have to forgive her and move on. Its not the end of the world. At the long run, You will discover it was a BLESSING in disguise.

NB - Only a woman can make you feel wrong for doing something right.

BTW, Next time, sow your seed on fertile ground!!!!

ConfessionsNgr:
Had I known all my labour on her would be in futility, I wouldn’t have spent my hard earned money on her. I looked forward to a bright future with her but my dreams have been shattered by the very one I gave true love. I’m an OND holder but into a lucrative business which is doing very well. I met my girl online four years ago, though that notwithstanding, people can meet anywhere. I was already done with my OND while she was in 200L in the university. She told me of how her mother died during the delivery of their lastborn and her dad had to remarry leaving her to cater for herself most times. I felt the urge to render the little assistance I could and I started giving her money for her upkeep that was like six months after we met. I can even remember paying her tuition fees one session. Now four years down the memory lane, after her graduation and NYSC, and getting a job in an ICT firm with a good pay, it suddenly dawned on her that she can't marry an OND holder because of the gap in education. I told her it is the love between us that matters most but she said she loves me but we are not compatible education wise as she still want to further her education. All these years she was “gulping” my money, calling me sweet names, she didn’t see the incompatibility. When her future was in disarray I was her messiah (am not boasting here) but now that she can look forward to a bright future I’m no more in the picture.


Posted anonymously on www.confessionsnigeria.com
http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/222/i-saw-her-through-school-now-im-no-more-qualified-to-marry-her

u r not d only one dat has been through this shit, believe me it happened to me, I can feel ur pain, I met my ex wen I was in 100level,nd he was in 200level,he wanted to drop out of school cos his parents can't pay his fees, though I did not come frm an OK family I told him i will help, I feed him nd clothe him, even used my school fees to pay for his own, I was owing d school but I was not bothered, I was in luv, his family loved me or I taught dey did,he got a very good job immediately after graduating, I was happy cos he told me dat he will help with the debt am owing in school cos of him, he even promised me marriage, but wat happened, three months into his job he left me for someone else, nd wat was his excuse, he said dat d constant thing in life is change, dat he has changed his mind about us, dat i don't fit his taste, God I almost died, if not for my family dat stood by me, only God knows what would have happened, cos i was suicidal, I don't want to live anymore, dats d reason y i don't believe in dat thing called luv, I can feel ur pain just be strong with time u will get over it like I did

jomile:
u r not d only one dat has been through this shit, believe me it happened to me, I can feel ur pain, I met my ex wen I was in 100level,nd he was in 200level,he wanted to drop out of school cos his parents can't pay his fees, though I did not come frm an OK family I told him i will help, I feed him nd clothe him, even used my school fees to pay for his own, I was owing d school but I was not bothered, I was in luv, his family loved me or I taught dey did,he got a very good job immediately after graduating, I was happy cos he told me dat he will help with the debt am owing in school cos of him, he even promised me marriage, but wat happened, three months into his job he left me for someone else, nd wat was his excuse, he said dat d constant thing in life is change, dat he has changed his mind about us, dat i don't fit his taste, God I almost died, if not for my family dat stood by me, only God knows what would have happened, cos i was suicidal, I don't want to live anymore, dats d reason y i don't believe in dat thing called luv, I can feel ur pain just be strong with time u will get over it like I did

That's not cool. A very sad experience indeed. Take heart!!!

donogaga:




That's not cool. A very sad experience indeed. Take heart!!!

Tanks, I have moved on

Good for you... Can you do same for your sister?... Why in the world would you train a Nigerian girl through school when you aren't related?. When will guys wake up and smell the coffee?, these girls just depend on their toto for their daily bread.

Buncha lazy greedy bastards

ITbomb:
The only help I can offer is where to buy acid to pour on the certificate n maybe the owner

Not 'maybe'... PLUS

ehya so sori.sum women dnt jus knw wen a man truly luv them. I knw hw u feel jus kip on bekumin successful she wil regret it later wen its rather too late she wil then suffer d pain mur dan u eva did.i jus wish ur nxt woman wil b by far mur elegant nd graceful even educated dan ha she wil die a million time.b strong baby u wil get ova it jus have fun wit frnds nd do tinx u lyk doing

Sorry

jomile:
Tanks, I have moved on

Hmmm After the darkest part of the night comes the bright morning sun. :*

We have all experienced heart break at one point or the other, though have given this love/dating thing much space for now but you ll still find that right one for you. There is love. It was his lose dear.

jomile:
u r not d only one dat has been through this shit, believe me it happened to me, I can feel ur pain, I met my ex wen I was in 100level,nd he was in 200level,he wanted to drop out of school cos his parents can't pay his fees, though I did not come frm an OK family I told him i will help, I feed him nd clothe him, even used my school fees to pay for his own, I was owing d school but I was not bothered, I was in luv, his family loved me or I taught dey did,he got a very good job immediately after graduating, I was happy cos he told me dat he will help with the debt am owing in school cos of him, he even promised me marriage, but wat happened, three months into his job he left me for someone else, nd wat was his excuse, he said dat d constant thing in life is change, dat he has changed his mind about us, dat i don't fit his taste, God I almost died, if not for my family dat stood by me, only God knows what would have happened, cos i was suicidal, I don't want to live anymore, dats d reason y i don't believe in dat thing called luv, I can feel ur pain just be strong with time u will get over it like I did