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I Nid Somebody by Nobody: 3:00am On Aug 15, 2015
Am 25 married with a kid. I nid somebody I don't know if what I nid is a friend or a romantic relationship but I nid somebody. My husband is so insensitive around me, he doesn't know when I dress nice for him or when I have not. He doesn't notice anything about me, it's just so annoying, I feel old already at 25.i can't remember the last time I feel special. I don't want to continue lyk ds passes. Somebody help me

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Re: I Nid Somebody by cccxxiii: 3:08am On Aug 15, 2015
I'm not sure I'm the best person to advise you but I think the first thing you need to do is to talk to your husband about all your concerns. Let him understand all what you are passing through. If he doesn't respond then you can talk to a relative he respects and holds in high esteem.
Having all of these issues will make you age faster than you think and i don't think you deserve that.
Good luck.

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Re: I Nid Somebody by jurist21(m): 4:49am On Aug 15, 2015
hmm
Re: I Nid Somebody by pragmatistm(m): 4:56am On Aug 15, 2015
Please dont talk to a third party but to your husband. dont give up on your marriage. It can get better.

Go to this link for practical advice on several issues on your marriage


www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/family/couples-parents/
Re: I Nid Somebody by Nobody: 5:16am On Aug 15, 2015
jurist21:
If your serious let's hook up
08165139629
That's my number am 22.
grin
Re: I Nid Somebody by Nobody: 5:34am On Aug 15, 2015
grin
jurist21:
If your serious let's hook up
08165139629
That's my number am 22.
shame shame shame shaaaaaame big coconut head plantain head wowowo wooooo... u be highest olodo.. grin
jurist21:
If your serious let's hook up
08165139629
That's my number am 22.
shame shame shame shaaaaaame big coconut head plantain head wowowo wooooo... u be highest olodo..

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Re: I Nid Somebody by IamLEGEND1: 7:37am On Aug 15, 2015
jurist21:
If your serious let's hook up 08165139629 That's my number am 22.
Niggah, u Serious?
Re: I Nid Somebody by Nobody: 9:15am On Aug 15, 2015
Tnx guys. Av talked to him about it several times already but no changes. He's just really not seeing me
Re: I Nid Somebody by IamLEGEND1: 9:20am On Aug 15, 2015
then get a counselor....
coz i cant tell if this is a joke or u're actually serious...
either way, when you start doing side runz....
there us no going back from there, u only sink deeper.
Re: I Nid Somebody by mayreeh215: 4:30pm On Aug 15, 2015
Babe don't even think of starting an extra-marital affair. Just comfort yourself in your child and continue to talk to your husband. Hope for the best and don't give up
Re: I Nid Somebody by Nobody: 5:45pm On Aug 15, 2015
crystalgem:
Am 25 married with a kid. I nid somebody I don't know if what I nid is a friend or a romantic relationship but I nid somebody. My husband is so insensitive around me, he doesn't know when I dress nice for him or when I have not. He doesn't notice anything about me, it's just so annoying, I feel old already at 25.i can't remember the last time I feel special. I don't want to continue lyk ds passes. Somebody help me


Since u have spoken to him and there seem to no changes then check the following:

1. How creative are u in d kitchen?? U need to know what and how he prefers to eat.
2. How creative are u in bed? Men love women who give them the much needed styles/attention in terms of love making and taking care of them.
3. How do u coordinate ur home?? Be sure to keep the house in his preferred position at all times.
4. How neat are u in terms of urself and ur dressing?? Men love women who dress the way they love and dislike d dirty and stubborn ones.
5. What's ur relationship with ur inlaws. Treat them like Gold and ur man will always treasure u.
6. Never nag to ur husbands hearing. It drives them away.
7. Leave his phone ALONE. Don't monitor him. Even if he is dicking outside, just show him love and attention and u will win him back for good.
8. Make sure u always encourage/pray for him. Don't let him leave any morning without a kiss or short word of prayer on him.
Note:
1. Never bring in another man/outsiders even ur own mother into ur family issue because it will only worsen everything.
2. Men are hypersensitive. Treat ur husband like ur lord and master and u won't regret the response that will come out of these.
Op u can thank me later grin grin grin grin

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Re: I Nid Somebody by Nobody: 5:54pm On Aug 15, 2015
well…… their must be a character he hates, you might be exhibiting unconsciously undecided


just sit down, and have a rethink wink
Re: I Nid Somebody by zebronice(m): 6:16pm On Aug 15, 2015
Before marriage there is always love-lust which eventually drive to marriage after marriage the love-lust reduces to either love or indifference. If you are the type your husband use to complain about certain things for over three times and you did not give your attention to it nor consider it . Then you will not get love after marriage but indifference from a nice man but if not nice you get hatred. What you need to do is to pay attention to all your husband donts . Don't do what he doesn't like or have been complaining over and over do want he likes then the love would come from no where to your surprise and you begin to enjoy your husband

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Re: I Nid Somebody by natasha: 7:32pm On Aug 15, 2015
Just passing

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Re: I Nid Somebody by segzy0i(m): 8:18pm On Aug 15, 2015
well u re still very young to have found yourself in ds situation but I must advice if u still luv ur hubby,den extra marital affair is not the best keep praying for him,wake him up in d middle of d nite and beg him incase u ve offended him u can reach me on ds no 4 more tips if u care 07053470295
Re: I Nid Somebody by ikeepitreal(m): 8:26pm On Aug 15, 2015
Please, talk to your husband asap, tell him how u feel
Re: I Nid Somebody by charlito94(m): 8:53pm On Aug 15, 2015
Talk to ur husband if possible if possible his parents not relatives dey re even more poisonous don't embark on extra marital relationship or relationship DAT will hurt u

If ur not OK seek a divorce u can also call me might be a frnd at least we can start from dere n also give u advice
08130762596
Re: I Nid Somebody by Nobody: 9:03pm On Aug 15, 2015
Watsapp me on 08130355847. Let me jack ur ass up from behind. Just come to big papa, am 27yo. cool
Re: I Nid Somebody by Chloezoe(f): 9:11pm On Aug 15, 2015
What! All this for a man.who won't hesitate to kick her out if he finds out she is cheating?
dukeolumde:



Since u have spoken to him and there seem to no changes then check the following:

1. How creative are u in d kitchen?? U need to know what and how he prefers to eat.
2. How creative are u in bed? Men love women who give them the much needed styles/attention in terms of love making and taking care of them.
3. How do u coordinate ur home?? Be sure to keep the house in his preferred position at all times.
4. How neat are u in terms of urself and ur dressing?? Men love women who dress the way they love and dislike d dirty and stubborn ones.
5. What's ur relationship with ur inlaws. Treat them like Gold and ur man will always treasure u.
6. Never nag to ur husbands hearing. It drives them away.
7. Leave his phone ALONE. Don't monitored him. Even if he is dicking outside, just show him love and attention and u will win him back for good.
8. Make sure u always encourage/pray for him. Don't let him leave any morning without a kiss or short word of prayer on him.
Note:
1. Never bring in another man/outsiders even ur own mother into ur family issue because it will only worsen everything.
2. Men are hypersensitive. Treat ur husband like ur lord and master and u won't regret the response that will come out of these.
Op u can thank me later grin grin grin grin

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Re: I Nid Somebody by Nobody: 9:35pm On Aug 15, 2015
Chloezoe:
What! All this for a man.who won't hesitate to kick her out if he finds out she is cheating?

It's a different ball game where u are. What applies here in Africa may not necessarily work in America. Meanwhile F***k President Obama. He is
a big disgrace to Africa. angry angry angry angry

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Re: I Nid Somebody by Chloezoe(f): 12:26am On Aug 16, 2015
cheesy grin why you cursing Obama though? cheesy
Re: I Nid Somebody by Nobody: 1:37am On Aug 16, 2015
natasha:
Just passing
babe that ur ass na die, that's if the pic is truly u. I for like connect with u, if u give me a green light grin
Re: I Nid Somebody by Nobody: 3:09am On Aug 16, 2015
LORD and MASTER you say.......some ladies wud soon eat u up grin
dukeolumde:



Since u have spoken to him and there seem to no changes then check the following:

1. How creative are u in d kitchen?? U need to know what and how he prefers to eat.
2. How creative are u in bed? Men love women who give them the much needed styles/attention in terms of love making and taking care of them.
3. How do u coordinate ur home?? Be sure to keep the house in his preferred position at all times.
4. How neat are u in terms of urself and ur dressing?? Men love women who dress the way they love and dislike d dirty and stubborn ones.
5. What's ur relationship with ur inlaws. Treat them like Gold and ur man will always treasure u.
6. Never nag to ur husbands hearing. It drives them away.
7. Leave his phone ALONE. Don't monitored him. Even if he is dicking outside, just show him love and attention and u will win him back for good.
8. Make sure u always encourage/pray for him. Don't let him leave any morning without a kiss or short word of prayer on him.
Note:
1. Never bring in another man/outsiders even ur own mother into ur family issue because it will only worsen everything.
2. Men are hypersensitive. Treat ur husband like ur lord and master and u won't regret the response that will come out of these.
Op u can thank me later grin grin grin grin
Re: I Nid Somebody by Nobody: 3:10am On Aug 16, 2015
High 5 dude grin
dukeolumde:


It's a different ball game where u are. What applies here in Africa may not necessarily work in America. Meanwhile F***k President Obama. He is
a big disgrace to Africa. angry angry angry angry
Re: I Nid Somebody by jurist21(m): 6:51am On Aug 16, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
Niggah, u Serious?
Off course
Re: I Nid Somebody by jurist21(m): 6:53am On Aug 16, 2015
smithsydny:
grin shame shame shame shaaaaaame big coconut head plantain head wowowo wooooo... u be highest olodo.. grin shame shame shame shaaaaaame big coconut head plantain head wowowo wooooo... u be highest olodo..
The Thunder wey go fire u still dey do press up
Re: I Nid Somebody by Sprintson(m): 7:04am On Aug 16, 2015
Let's jux talk on fone or whatsapp but as frnds only n no affection.07033385478
Re: I Nid Somebody by ednut1(m): 7:16am On Aug 16, 2015
disadvantages of marrying early u beta endure. afta all na for beta for worse. start a business or trade madam
Re: I Nid Somebody by lilspiceyy(f): 7:37am On Aug 16, 2015
dukeolumde:



Since u have spoken to him and there seem to no changes then check the following:


2. How creative are u in bed? Men love women who give them the much needed styles/attention in terms of love making and taking care of them.
4. How neat are u in terms of urself and ur dressing?? Men love women who dress the way they love and dislike d dirty and stubborn ones.

Op u can thank me later
These points are important! op at the age of 25 it is still early to go tru this. The issue with some ladies is that when they get married and start giving birth they forget to take good care of themselves. Eg they become overweight, not bothering about making their hair, wearing nice clothes and makeup etc. I would advice you to do what u did dat made him notice and fell in love with you in first place. Eg Start taking care of yourself, keep the house clean(the smell of children's urine and faeces) in the house could be a turn off, wear nice lingerie (seductive ones oooo) make your hair and don't be shy about trying new sex positions with your husband(men actually like dat) I bet your husband will come back to you trust me.
Re: I Nid Somebody by cyprus000: 7:50am On Aug 16, 2015
crystalgem:
Am 25 married with a kid. I nid somebody I don't know if what I nid is a friend or a romantic relationship but I nid somebody. My husband is so insensitive around me, he doesn't know when I dress nice for him or when I have not. He doesn't notice anything about me, it's just so annoying, I feel old already at 25.i can't remember the last time I feel special. I don't want to continue lyk ds passes. Somebody help me
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Please if you must go into a relationship with another,try and get a divorce.

But I personally advice you try and make things workout btwn you two.

Your problem is communication..try and work on that.
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Re: I Nid Somebody by lilspiceyy(f): 7:51am On Aug 16, 2015
ednut1:
disadvantages of marrying early u beta endure. afta all na for beta for worse. start a business or trade madam
getting married early is not a disadvantage bro she just has to take care of sometins from her end dats it!
Re: I Nid Somebody by afolwalex20(m): 8:42am On Aug 16, 2015
Sprintson:
Let's jux talk on fone or whatsapp but as frnds only n no affection.07033385478
segzy0i:
well u re still very young to have found yourself in ds situation but I must advice if u still luv ur hubby,den extra marital affair is not the best keep praying for him,wake him up in d middle of d nite and beg him incase u ve offended him u can reach me on ds no 4 more tips if u care 07053470295
charlito94:
Talk to ur husband if possible if possible his parents not relatives dey re even more poisonous don't embark on extra marital relationship or relationship DAT will hurt u
If ur not OK seek a divorce u can also call me might be a frnd at least we can start from dere n also give u advice
08130762596

I never believed until now...
So guys can b this dumb!

A lady seeks for advice ... *scrolls up*,ok! she doesn't no what she needs. And y'all r dropping numbas wanting to b friends (we all know ur mission tho).
First, u don't know if what she said is real.
Maybe she just finished watching a movie, perhaps it happened to her friend ,or she wrote it for fun just to get a topic or hit FP :-

If u want to advice her, spill out ur words here..

Grinch:
Watsapp me on 08130355847. Let me jack ur ass up from behind. Just come to big papa, am 27yo. cool
jurist21:
If your serious let's hook up
08165139629
That's my number am 22.
I don't even know what to say to dis 1s...

@OP, if what u said there is real, then follow dukeolumde's advice! Trust me it will work

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