jennyswt:

Jeez! Too much work! Do all Anambra men enjoy cheating too?

naa!!! we hate cheating - especially when we are at the receiving end

get it straight for me.i once had a gf like that and when i told her sex will relief the pain.she didnt believe but sex did.Again pregnancy helps resolves the pain.after childbirth the pain will be completely resolved.The guy should ensure the lady is living with her legitimately with the consent of the parents because complications may develop at a time least expected.I congratulate you for being a good neighbour. .Thats what obtains in high brow estates in lagos,good morning and i want to move my car as it is a way of telling others we have all arrived,no one needs any one.

I would have said that was my sister, except she doesn't live with her bf, Mehn! That ish is the same for her if not worse, she literally walks on her head and throws up when it starts.

Back then in secondary school, my parents did take her to doctors, they even tried herbal medicine with almost no change, she just learned to live through it, but along the line in the uni, she discovered lukewarm small stout and it seemed to help a great deal, and I've noticed Felvin20 helps too as I also have moderate pains during periods, that's what we use.

take her to the doctor.

chymystique:
This one don pass normal menstrual cramps o(dysmenorrhea). the lady might be having Endometriosis, PID or Uterine Fibroids... Abeg Advice them to visit a good GYN today for her to be examined and to know which tests to go for. they should stop self medication ASAP!

Exactly what I wanted to say. U've said ur all.

martyns303:
Let me start by giving you guys a brief description of where I stay as it is a vital cue to this story. 


I live in a compound with other flats, where the shortest conversation between neighbours is "good morning" and the longest is "please come and move your car, I want to go out". It is the kind of compound where you go to bed with your generator on, only for you to wake up in the morning to find out that there had been light all through the night, and your neighbours had turned off their Gen without telling you. Don't tell me about the pains of child birth, there is nothing more painful than looking at your fuel gauge like "my precious". By now you guys get the message, in pidgin "nobody send you". 


Now back to me, I had just concluded a professional course and was just sitting at home waiting for something to come up, that is just a fancy way of saying am jobless. But I am not searching for one, so all you NL scammers gats stay off. Without anything to do, I sit at home watching movies, and just lazing around. "My grandma just died and I am the man of the house", actually my grandma died a long time ago, I only just got my own place now. With me staying at home while everyone else in the compound goes to work or a few people that don't, I see everything that goes on, making me the all seeing eye (nope I am not affiliated to the illuminati).


A couple of months ago a young couple moved into the compound, the girl looks 25 max while the guy looks 28, they seem happy and in love, but at least once every month I will hear the girl crying profusely, I would hear her crying and lamenting, saying things like Jesus ooo, God oooo, ehhhhhhh, God please help me, I can't take this anymore, ewoo, etc then I would hear her snapping her fingers. I am probably the most soft hearted male, cos I would be feeling really sad, I don't know what a soul is, but I feel really depressed and saddened in my soul each time. If you have watched titanic, the part where Jack placed Rose on the floating stuff, you can't control the tears rolling down ur cheeks or standing in your eyes, and that's how I feel hearing this girl cry like that. Sometimes her sister would come and this has been going on for months. 


Two days ago, I heard the wife crying again, and since my compound is where no one cares, nobody has ever bothered to go in and ask what's happening, but I have had enough and was ready to confront the guy, i am going to give him a piece of my mind and Damn the consequences, so on this day I walked into their flat, the parlour door was open so I just walked in, on getting in, I found the girl in pants and bra, with wrapper half way her stomach, the guy is sitting by her side with a side stool, on the floor are packs of medication, bottled water, what looks like custard and other stuffs. When I walked in that wasn't the sight I was expecting, I had hoped to see the guy beating the living day light out of his fiancee, and me yelling at him to stop. I may have been frozen for like 15 secs while I absorb what's going on. I managed to say a weak sorry, turned around and walked out. The guy followed me immediately and asked what I wanted, I explained to him how I had heard his fiancee crying and wanted to make sure she is ok. "She is fine, thanks for your concern" then walked away, I know he is pissed at me walking into their apartment like that, and even the worst, seeing his woman like that. Damn what was I thinking sef! 


When I got back to my flat, the movie felt sour, couldn't concentrate on anything, all I could think of is how I am going to compose my words and apologize to the guy and his fiancee. This morning I saw him washing his car, so I walked up to him and started reciting my memorized apology. Planning is the key people, cos with the way I said what I said it hit him cold. The guy started explaining what's going on to me without me even asking. Apparently that's how the fiancee gets into pains whenever it's that time of the month for her, he said the pains could be excruciating for her. He said it's a part of her he's only getting to know as they only moved in together a few months ago, he has advice her going to see a doctor but she rebuffed the idea saying it is a normal thing. He explains how he goes through sleepless nights, boiling water and putting it in a plastic bowl with cover so she can place it on the stomach, buying pain relieves, he mentioned quite a bit of pain relieves, but that they seem to do little. He felt bad cos he is now of the idea that the rest of the neighbors may also have the perception of him being an abusive guy without knowing what's going on, told me he had to take days off from work sometimes to stay with her and when he can't, her sister comes around. 


In my attempt to be nice, I had promised to find a solution to his problem. Don't blame me, at that moment I just want to be nice and get myself out of the mess I got in and appear a good friend. 


So please, if there is anyone out here who knows why this guy's fiancee is going through so much pains, and if it's normal, are there home remedies, herbs or medical prescriptions that could help her situation, please help a brother out. Dankie!!!


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Prayer and let her see the doctor.

Kenzico:
I still don't get it, what can she be suffering 4rm?

Me sef dae confuse for this write up ooo...what is she suffering from naaa

How could he have married her without knowing about about her problem?

Anyway, there are simple herbal remedies....but it seems the babe is hiding something by not wanting to go to the hospital.

Nothing works better than a clove of Garlic twice daily. Have seen it done wonders. Trust me.

fzero:
She is suffering from menstrual cramp,let her drink jik and hypo she would be aiit..

u no get sense

@martyns303 I love your style of writing bro. Its a nice one.

ikeepitreal:

I couldn't care less about what you just wrote up there.

ok

jennyswt:


I know but thr r some situation u'l find urself in u'l like to know ppl's perception n contributions to it b4 doing d needful (seeing a doc). Did I mention I got to know abt d drug wen I surfed d internet concerning my cramps n saw ppls' testimonies. Decided to try it out n it worked!

WOW! Happy it worked for you!
Right! I understood your point perfectly well.
However, let's be truthful to ourselves was it or not, self medication?

martyns303:
Let me start by giving you guys a brief description of where I stay as it is a vital cue to this story. 


I live in a compound with other flats, where the shortest conversation between neighbours is "good morning" and the longest is "please come and move your car, I want to go out". It is the kind of compound where you go to bed with your generator on, only for you to wake up in the morning to find out that there had been light all through the night, and your neighbours had turned off their Gen without telling you. Don't tell me about the pains of child birth, there is nothing more painful than looking at your fuel gauge like "my precious". By now you guys get the message, in pidgin "nobody send you". 


Now back to me, I had just concluded a professional course and was just sitting at home waiting for something to come up, that is just a fancy way of saying am jobless. But I am not searching for one, so all you NL scammers gats stay off. Without anything to do, I sit at home watching movies, and just lazing around. "My grandma just died and I am the man of the house", actually my grandma died a long time ago, I only just got my own place now. With me staying at home while everyone else in the compound goes to work or a few people that don't, I see everything that goes on, making me the all seeing eye (nope I am not affiliated to the illuminati).


A couple of months ago a young couple moved into the compound, the girl looks 25 max while the guy looks 28, they seem happy and in love, but at least once every month I will hear the girl crying profusely, I would hear her crying and lamenting, saying things like Jesus ooo, God oooo, ehhhhhhh, God please help me, I can't take this anymore, ewoo, etc then I would hear her snapping her fingers. I am probably the most soft hearted male, cos I would be feeling really sad, I don't know what a soul is, but I feel really depressed and saddened in my soul each time. If you have watched titanic, the part where Jack placed Rose on the floating stuff, you can't control the tears rolling down ur cheeks or standing in your eyes, and that's how I feel hearing this girl cry like that. Sometimes her sister would come and this has been going on for months. 


Two days ago, I heard the wife crying again, and since my compound is where no one cares, nobody has ever bothered to go in and ask what's happening, but I have had enough and was ready to confront the guy, i am going to give him a piece of my mind and Damn the consequences, so on this day I walked into their flat, the parlour door was open so I just walked in, on getting in, I found the girl in pants and bra, with wrapper half way her stomach, the guy is sitting by her side with a side stool, on the floor are packs of medication, bottled water, what looks like custard and other stuffs. When I walked in that wasn't the sight I was expecting, I had hoped to see the guy beating the living day light out of his fiancee, and me yelling at him to stop. I may have been frozen for like 15 secs while I absorb what's going on. I managed to say a weak sorry, turned around and walked out. The guy followed me immediately and asked what I wanted, I explained to him how I had heard his fiancee crying and wanted to make sure she is ok. "She is fine, thanks for your concern" then walked away, I know he is pissed at me walking into their apartment like that, and even the worst, seeing his woman like that. Damn what was I thinking sef! 


When I got back to my flat, the movie felt sour, couldn't concentrate on anything, all I could think of is how I am going to compose my words and apologize to the guy and his fiancee. This morning I saw him washing his car, so I walked up to him and started reciting my memorized apology. Planning is the key people, cos with the way I said what I said it hit him cold. The guy started explaining what's going on to me without me even asking. Apparently that's how the fiancee gets into pains whenever it's that time of the month for her, he said the pains could be excruciating for her. He said it's a part of her he's only getting to know as they only moved in together a few months ago, he has advice her going to see a doctor but she rebuffed the idea saying it is a normal thing. He explains how he goes through sleepless nights, boiling water and putting it in a plastic bowl with cover so she can place it on the stomach, buying pain relieves, he mentioned quite a bit of pain relieves, but that they seem to do little. He felt bad cos he is now of the idea that the rest of the neighbors may also have the perception of him being an abusive guy without knowing what's going on, told me he had to take days off from work sometimes to stay with her and when he can't, her sister comes around. 


In my attempt to be nice, I had promised to find a solution to his problem. Don't blame me, at that moment I just want to be nice and get myself out of the mess I got in and appear a good friend. 


So please, if there is anyone out here who knows why this guy's fiancee is going through so much pains, and if it's normal, are there home remedies, herbs or medical prescriptions that could help her situation, please help a brother out. Dankie!!!


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Ishilove please steer the wheels, front page is the destination.

My friend, you are an amazing writer!

fpeter:



Hian!

HahahahahaHahahahaha



Do not be amazed, watch and learn on nairaland...

Prediting ke
Me sef shock

I feel for her o


the same thing happens to me every time and I don't take sugar or sugary products


thank GOD for my grandma, she is the one who takes care of me during this period

MadCow1:
Solution..

Tell him to wait for her next ovulation cycle and fhuck her until she carries belle.. Problem solved for 9 Months.

Repeat treatment as often as necessary.




Don't thank me, Thank God..

@op, they should know killer cramps like that could lead to infertility and handle it properly. she should keep seeing a gynecologist till it stops

vick555:


WOW! Happy it worked for you! Right! I understood your point perfectly well. However, let's be truthful to ourselves was it or not, self medication?

lol it was. But r u telling me u've neva been guilty of self medication before?

nwaanambra1:


naa!!! we hate cheating - especially when we are at the receiving end

hmmm Interesting..

jennyswt:

hmmm Interesting..

yep! if u need more training on how to go about it without much stress - hitmeup!

Firstly she needs to see a specialist doctor.

Next she should take Ruzu herbal bitters. Works wonders on pain and other body ailments.
www.RuzuMiracles.com/fosters for several testimonies

jennyswt:


lol it was. But r u telling me u've neva been guilty of self medication before?

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@ OP, Unfortunately i have the same problem,we ladies call it MP.

Menn,when my own start na die o, sometime i will be crawling,standing and even be crying. I will advise her to watch her sugar intake that's all.

Let them go for a scan. It could be fibroid. If it is, you can contact me.

You did not ask him the necessary questions before coming here to ask for help. ?s like; have they consulted their doctor on this issue? If yes, what is the outcome? Self medication is destructive. Also the girl should be open to the doctor during the consultation so that it will help him too. Is it inherited? The doctor will also find out. It is after this that other parties will be asked to help. The doctor will be in the best position to tell if it is normal or not after diagnosis. If it is not normal and has resisted medical attention, then it is diabolic. God has the solution. He can do it through your prayers or use a vessel to arrest the situation. Be guided.

Eyaaahh, menstrual pain is so painful ehnn, Op tell her to take green tea like 2 each day prior before her menses, it works for me nd I don't advice ladies who haven't gotten pregnant before to take drugs every month,there are complications during child birth, she should stop taking sugary stuff prior before menses, she should drink lots of water, sorry to her, but OP I laughed so hard ehnn with dis ur description, from ur neighbours to your Gen to d new couple, hilarious

@OP; note that, the pains some women go through during their menstrual circle; you just got to feel pity and sorry for them. Main while, there are some women when on their menstrual circle, they might not even feel a single pain. This just shows the variation of the human body.

Let me tell you that it’s not in all cases where a woman who suffers from menstrual pain when she has a baby it goes away. In some cases, IT DOES NOT GO AWAY AND IT EVEN GETS WORST. I know a woman who has 4 children and her menstrual pain have not stopped as she is still in severe pain which got worse. I know of another one who has 2 kids and the menstrual pain is still unbearable.

Hence, I’ll say don’t think that having a child would remove the pain as every woman’s body differs. For some, the pain might go away after they have their 1st child or subsequent children; but for other women, it might not go away even after their first or subsequent children.

Tell her to avoid sugary foods/intake a few days before her period starts and during her period as well. That really helps to reduce the pain and cramps experienced during her menstrual period.

Lastly, advice her to see a gynecologist fast for thorough examination to determine if it is fibroid or endometriosis symptoms or any other medical problem. There are medications she could take to ease the pain; but I'll be weary of her taking any self-medication without seeing a gynecologist first. So advice her to see one fast.


I rest my case

AreaFada2:
Madam, we need to reduce use of antibiotics without prescription. Flagyl use without doc recommendation should be discouraged.

very true, bt it can still help her. And its nt as if she ll b using it all d time.

Its simple aviod ice cream, minerals chocolates, used natural honey in place of sugar and sugar contains. Eat alot of fruits. unripe plantain, iron food, exercises before menses. All of this will turn things around, I had a sister with such experience but now the pains is gone completely. She can take one tablet of cataflam a day for that 3 days. All this will help. I wish her luck.

The lady should start excersing

let say walking, she can walk a distance b4 taking a car to where ever she is going
if she can b doing th@ every day
she should b doin this everyday b4 her menstrual cycle..
Even if she a house wife, she should walk arroud and excersice
she wil nt experience severe pain
th@ e only way
all this pain killer for me just increase e pain more

toksbisola:
@OP; note that, the pains some women go through during their menstrual circle; you just got to feel pity and sorry for them. Main while, there are some women when on their menstrual circle, they might not even feel a single pain. This just shows the variation of the human body.

Let me tell you that it’s not in all cases where a woman who suffers from menstrual pain when she has a baby it goes away. In some cases, IT DOES NOT GO AWAY AND IT EVEN GETS WORST. I know a woman who has 4 children and her menstrual pain have not stopped as she is still in severe pain which got worse. I know of another one who has 2 kids and the menstrual pain is still unbearable.

Hence, I’ll say don’t think that having a child would remove the pain as every woman’s body differs. For some, the pain might go away after they have their 1st child or subsequent children; but for other women, it might not go away even after their first or subsequent children.

Tell her to avoid sugary foods/intake a few days before her period starts and during her period as well. That really helps to reduce the pain and cramps experienced during her menstrual period.

Lastly, advice her to see a gynecologist fast for thorough examination to determine if it is fibroid or endometriosis symptoms or any other medical problem. There are medications she could take to ease the pain; but I'll be weary of her taking any self-medication without seeing a gynecologist first. So advice her to see one fast.


I rest my case

case resting, u jux said everything dt needs to be said.

ifeomaekol:
very true, bt it can still help her. And its nt as if she ll b using it all d time.

But since she has these cramps monthly, she will be using them monthly. Enough to cause drug resistance. I do not really know of any study confirming its efficacy used alone in dysmenorrhea. Metronidazole/Flagyl is an antibiotic that is widely abused.