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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by drss(m): 5:56pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
petkoffDrake:Same with me. I fear this women. When I see them approaching, its like a lion is coming to get me. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 5:58pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
A friend once mentioned that he gave his maid a head from age 5 to 12 years old. She indulged him in oral sec for 7 years of his life. As a matured guy today,he says that's he's most interesting act but the memories never seem to fade. Yes,true...Boys are victims of child molestation. Please watch out for your maids, cousins,siblings and even perverted wives who were once cold blooded lesbians, akeep them on you radar.The world is filthier than you can imagine. A word is enough for the wise!! Pleas 2 Likes |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by sunayo(m): 5:58pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
izeeqpotter: I was also a victim at 8. Mine was a cousin. It happened inside a drum at our back yard in the village. Saw her last year when we went to the village for burial after 23 years. I was also molested by males at about the same time. Village immorality is worse to the city. Speaking from personal experience. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Klinee: 6:01pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
JeffreyJamez:common shut-up! How can you compare the two? Imagine a man raping u, pls be realistic and stop being hypocritics. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by usj(m): 6:01pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
my happened when I was 9, I was about sleeping when she sent her siblings away, while sleeping I was feeling some touch, so I opened my eyes n saw her naked beside me. she asked me to insert my tin inside her tin, and she thought me how to do it, but unfortunately my tin was not big enough so, she asked me to suck her breast, while she was touching my tin in the process. The following day I told my best friend (f. male) and we repeated what happened, since then the only thing that interest me in f. male is the breast. 1 Like |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by JeffreyJamez(m): 6:02pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Klinee: Who's this demented bastard? 5 Likes |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Dragonking: 6:02pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
mrsmith11:Exactly!! Maybe some of them shouting rape have raped an innocent child and told him not to tell anybody. Wicked set of ladies!!!! 4 Likes |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by vislabraye(m): 6:03pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
EggovinMma: I meant to say er.ecTion not Attention. Wetin dey worry this auto correct sef |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 6:04pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
vislabraye: I got exactly what you said. It's just the way you said it that made it funny. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by noblegrex: 6:10pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
shaybebaby:yea jest,that's what I've always used to get to him cos u can't believe this small rat as small as he is, he's so secretive,I have to gist him bout my own girl B4 he could shout hayyy!! uncle u r bad ooo n say his own too.so funny.a very rude boy. bt somehow scared of me,bt I'm not too sure I can go to that extent u intended,cos I bang some1 older n taller that I have to stand on block to insert my joystick into her punna, can't forget lailai cos, is it sweet or bitter experience well,can't realy get what it was then cos I was 7 then n I'm fine now.no probs I guess he'll be fyn.but d only probs I think, bt not so sure is that I love taller n fyn girls now n I'm not that tall. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by ManirBK: 6:11pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
wisdomguy4u:And your partner age? |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by ManirBK: 6:13pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
dyadeleye:Pls explain fully 4 us |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by stan241(m): 6:18pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
It was just after my junior waec and was home for the 6month long break, she was older late 20s maybe and every night she i would feel a hand on my pee pee stroking it and then proceed to straddle me for minutes and then telling me to promise not to tell anyone I remember every morning after everyone had left the house she would tell me to go get Andrews Liver Salt and lime which she would use and then proceed on another round, this happened for the duration of that holiday every night, i guess my shy nature just didn't get it I remember my mum making me go for HIV test a couple of years later when this lady was caught with a neighbour, she just knew even though i didn't tell her(God bless her soul) and i was so scared(thank God I'm clean) Its actually affected all my relationships with ladies till date, i remember my ex once asking if i was gay because i wouldn't touch her when we made out.....also dated a chick who cheated on me because i wouldn't do it with her, I'm not saying I've not done it ever since but it takes me almost months to feel comfortable enough or i do it under the influence of alcohol I'm working on myself though, though I'm scared of relationships, it never works either cus she's cheating or if she's as good as my ex, I find a way to mess it all up 4 Likes |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Dragonking: 6:23pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
QueenEdna:If you don't believe adult males can be raped then an adult female too cannot be raped..shikena. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Klinee: 6:27pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
shaybebaby:Why do you tackle the girl now? Are u out of your sense, how can a man rape a boy and u consider it normal with a boy being rape by a female. Comparing the two alone, causes more truama to the boy that was rape by a man, because they are 10000% incomparable. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Klinee: 6:30pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
EggovinMma:Common shut-up rape is not rape. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by MarieSucre(f): 6:35pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
THIS IS NOT TO SAY THAT MALE CHILD MOLESTATION DOES NOT OCCUR AND NO IT IS JUST AS DANGEROUS AND SHOULD NOT BE OVERLOOKED BUT MOST STUDIES SHOW THAT ONE KIND IS MORE PREVALENT THAN THE OTHERS. " The global prevalence of child sexual abuse has been estimated at 19.7% for females and 7.9% for males. [13]" " [14] Most child sexual abuse is committed by men; studies show that women commit 14% to 40% of offenses reported against boys and 6% of offenses reported against girls. [14][15][16]" "The most-often reported form of incest is father– daughter and stepfather–daughter incest, with most of the remaining reports consisting of mother/stepmother– daughter/son incest. [86] Father–son incest is reported less often; however it is not known if the actual prevalence is less or it is under-reported by a greater margin. [87][88][89][90] " More offenders are male than female, though the percentage varies between studies. The percentage of incidents of sexual abuse by female perpetrators that come to the attention of the legal system is usually reported to be between 1% and 4%. [119] Studies of sexual misconduct in US schools with female offenders have shown mixed results with rates between 4% to 43% of female offenders. [120] Maletzky (1993) found that, of his sample of 4,402 convicted pedophilic offenders, 0.4% were female. [121] Another study of a non-clinical population found that, among those in the their sample that had been molested, as much as a third were molested by women. [122]" Global Based on self-disclosure data, a 2011 meta-analysis of 217 studies estimated a global prevalence of 12.7% — 18% for girls and 7.6% for boys. The rates of self- disclosed abuse for specific continents were as follows: [151] Region Girls Boys Africa 20.2% 19.3% Asia 11.3% 4.1% Australia 21.5% 7.5% Europe 13.5% 5.6% South America 13.4% 13.8% USA/Canada 20.1% 8% A 2009 meta-analysis of 65 studies from 22 countries found a global prevalence of 19.7% for females and 7.9% for males. In that analysis, Africa had the highest prevalence rate of child sexual abuse (34.4%), primarily because of high rates in South Africa; Europe showed the lowest prevalence rate (9.2%); and America and Asia had prevalence rates between 10.1% and 23.9%. [13] A ten-country school-based study in southern Africa in 2007 found 19.6% of female students and 21.1% of male students aged 11–16 years reported they had experienced forced or coerced sex. Rates among 16- year-olds were 28.8% in females and 25.4% in males. Comparing the same schools in eight countries between 2003 and 2007, age-standardised on the 2007 Botswana male sample, there was no significant decrease between 2003 and 2007 among females in any country and inconsistent changes among males. " " " A survey by CIET found around 11% of boys and 4% of girls admitted to forcing someone else to have sex with them. [157] " " In 2007, the Ministry of Women and Child Development published the "Study on Child Abuse: India 2007." [165] It sampled 12447 children, 2324 young adults and 2449 stakeholders across 13 states. It looked at different forms of child abuse: physical abuse , sexual abuse and emotional abuse and girl child neglect in five evidence groups, namely, children in a family environment, children in school, children at work, children on the street and children in institutions. The study's [165] main findings included: 53.22% of children reported having faced sexual abuse . Among them 52.94% were boys and 47.06% girls. Andhra Pradesh , Assam , Bihar and Delhi reported the highest percentage of sexual abuse among both boys and girls, as well as the highest incidence of sexual assaults." "[175][176][177] Research in North America has concluded that approximately 15% to 25% of women and 5% to 15% of men were sexually abused when they were children. [14][15][178] In the UK, a 2010 study estimated prevalence at about 5% for boys and 18% for girls[179] (not dissimilar to a 1985 study that estimated about 8% for boys and 12% for girls[180] ). More than 23,000 incidents were recorded by the UK police between 2009 and 2010. Girls were six times more likely to be assaulted than boys with 86% of attacks taking place against them. [181][182] Barnardo's charity estimates that two thirds of victims in the United Kingdom are girls and 1 third boys. Barnardo's is concerned that boy victims may be overlooked. [183]" "The estimates for the United States vary widely. A literature review of 23 studies found rates of 3% to 37% for males and 8% to 71% for females, which produced an average of 17% for boys and 28% for girls, [184] while a statistical analysis based on 16 cross-sectional studies estimated the rate to be 7.2% for males and 14.5% for females. [178]" 1 Like |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Dragonking: 6:35pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Sabrwahaqqo:[size=20pt]You deserve a Presidential handshake [/size] |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Klinee: 6:36pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
JeffreyJamez:See silly bastard! How can you equate the two now, it dosn't make sense at all. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by bollify(m): 6:37pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Let just coment too. I was age 13 then, she was about 11 or so, If i mention her name then people who know me will figure her out. Although very young, I believe she must also have been molested one way or the other cos she sound and look too experience to be younger than me, she was very close, I thought she is a friend. people were calling us husband and wife. Her parent were not that rich but they were comfortable, both were teachers and because of our very poor background we use to consider them rich. To cut the long story short she started smooching me one day and I did my best to resist her. Then she did everything to have it with me and eventhough I love her so much that she ll have been my first love as a child but my background as a Jwit really made me scared of sex but she wont stop. striped naked on some occations to seduce me, it just was frustrating. Alot of things happen between me and this young woman that made me lost my confidence till date, I discovered masturbation through this experience and always scared of the opposite sex that even in ss1 some female classmate called me and instead of me to greet them as a gentleman i ran inside. They took offence with it and till date one of them wont respond to my greetings. I have since read up books and articles to help my self esteem in the presence of a lady but they aint working. This problem no one know about me as ppl consider me alpha male because of my temperament. I hapen to have my first girlfriend at age 24 not that I even ask her out, we were friends and we develop feelings for eachother. We are still together and even though she didnt know it, she has been my only experience of dating close to 6 years now. If child to child molestation can have this much effect on me, I wonder the magnitude of trauma those who had such experience with adults will have to endure. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 6:40pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Dragonking: 6:41pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
EggovinMma:Many guys be they male child or male adult rarely come out to complain because the society believes that you either enjoyed it or since you are a male you should automatically get over it which is not so...This act is one of the major cause of a guy womanizing, masturbating, or even being a rapist in future. 2 Likes |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by don4real18(m): 6:43pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Mine was 14 and she was 16 |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by olayinkaj2(m): 6:46pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Bsc:. Lol, you no go kill person with laughter. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Dragonking: 6:48pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
GTLCYRUSENTERPR:I feel your pain bro, may God heal your wound and reshape your life for good. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by IceDude(m): 6:50pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
cassyrooy:U are right bro. It got to a point i couldnt even concentrate in class cos all i was thinking abt was sexx sexx sexx. I made the move to confessed to my mum one fateful morning during devotion cos her sermon that morning was touching, i opened my mouth but couldnt spk. She made the sweet sin looked so good that all attempts i made to report her proved abortive |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by iPopAlomo(m): 6:53pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
cococandy: fair enough... although... I know you're being sarcastic... but... |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by joywendy(f): 6:55pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
This is serious and extremly sad to read. Seeing this thread reminds me of 2 movies that october 1 movie,how is rage and pain turned him into a maniac and the perks of being a wallflower. Anyways that thread that was created by one of our mods some weeks ago, I was surprised that most people keep refering to one gender forgetting it is a thing that happens to both. I think our media and the orientation of the people is to somehow blame for this. I don't know why some people are taking this as some sort of joke, this is a serious matter.it is very sad and irritating to say the least! People should stop being close minded and also stop puting their blames on others. What does a 2 year old child know what he is doing? How can he enjoy what is being done to him? How do some people reason for God's sakes? A girl is raped she was indecent, a guy is raped he enjoys it. What kinda messed up society do we live in A rehabilitation centre needs to be created for both the rapist and the victim, and more awareness should be put in place to discuss on child/adult molestation/rape for both genders regardless of age. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Lawsimon(m): 6:59pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie:Oh! Don't tell me female rape is very common compare to male. Rather, female rape can easily be detected unlike male rape. 1 Like |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by iPopAlomo(m): 7:01pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
cococandy: Just imagine... so we're all lying... typical female reasoning... |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by MarieSucre(f): 7:03pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Here in lies a major portion of the problem.
" Significant underreporting of sexual abuse of boys by
both women and men is believed to occur due to sex
stereotyping, social denial, the minimization of male
victimization, and the relative lack of research on sexual
abuse of boys. [196] Sexual victimization of boys by their
mothers or other female relatives is especially rarely
researched or reported. Sexual abuse of girls by their
mothers, and other related and/or unrelated adult females
is beginning to be researched and reported despite the
highly taboo nature of female–female child sex abuse. In
studies where students are asked about sex offenses,
they report higher levels of female sex offenders than
found in adult reports. [197] This underreporting has been
attributed to cultural denial of female-perpetrated child
sex abuse, [198] because "males have been socialized to
believe they should be flattered or appreciative of sexual
interest from a female." [120] Journalist Cathy Young
writes that under-reporting is contributed to by the
difficulty of people, including jurors, in seeing a male as a
"true victim". [199] 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Dragonking: 7:05pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
craziebone:[size=20pt]You deserve a presidential award![/size] 2 Likes |
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