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Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by MarieSucre(f): 7:05pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Males who were sexually abused as children more frequently appear in the criminal justice system than in a clinical mental health setting. [29] A study comparing middle-aged women who were abused as children with non-abused counterparts found significantly higher health care costs for the former. [24] [45] Intergenerational effects have been noted, with the children of victims of child sexual abuse exhibiting more conduct problems, peer problems, and emotional problems than their peers. [46] Y'all need to read up on the BACHA BAZI phenomenom in Afghanistan where young boys are groomed by older men to be entertainers and also sexual partners. Its is so sick. I want to puke. Reminds me of the rape of Amir in the novel Kite Runners by Khalid Hussein. 4 Likes |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Klinee: 7:08pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
JeffreyJamez:See silly bastard! How can you equate the two now, it dosn't make sense at all. The likely for boy to suffer truama,die,commit succide,kill, after being rape by a man is 100%. But to be very honest, the likely for boy to suffer any above mentioned is about 0.05%. Yes i know some females molest young boys which i happen to be a victim but i feel no trauma(honest truth). But if it happen to be a man, do u think i can just allow the man pass me by? I swear, i will kill him! |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by MarieSucre(f): 7:15pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Dragonking: You need to redefine what manhood means to you. Shia Labeouf(main actor in the movie franchise Transformers) came out about him being raped recently. Yes, he said he(a grown man) was raped by a woman. And a lot of you guys laughed at him on Twitter. You need to kill that ego, that machoness that is disallowing you from reaching out to each other through an emotional platform to address such issues. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by cococandy(f): 7:16pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
iPopAlomo: It's like you didn't read the post of the guy I quoted. It's guys like him that make things hard for you people but somehow you don't have a problem with him saying it. You only have a problem when I point it to him. I'd bet you're also like him who's not really interested in curbing the incidences of male rape but more interested in looking for gender war. SMH. I'm done with your unreasoning persona. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by aguking: 7:16pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
I was a victim at 22 but I enjoyed it nd even want more right now... pls fine gal shud come nd rape me abeg |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by cococandy(f): 7:17pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
iPopAlomo:Oh I'm being sarcastic. Phew. Bye bye man. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 7:27pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
MarieSucre: my dear, i suspect you are a pretender. You are PROBABLY a feminist who is afraid of knowing that women can be as bad. You really think the guys narating stories here are making it up? Those studies were done only to focus on females. People have never tried to classify the kind of abuse we are hearing on this thread as child abuse and that's why you think its less prevalent. The kind of abuse the older girl does on the youger boy when you tell her to bath him and she sucks him while always looking out to see if anyone is coming, is not seen as abuse by those who took this crooked study. That is why you think male abuse is less prevalent. 6 Likes |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Dragonking: 7:27pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
MarieSucre:@bolded, The funny thing is that you just posted the major reason why men or male child don't come out to cry about rape..See your post below which you copied without giving credit to the source; MarieSucre:Now, the major reason why males don't come out to cry rape is because the society sees it as enjoyment on the part of the male(whether child or adult)....If a guy goes to the police station that he was raped by a female, do you think they will take him serious? The answer is No, hence, men are forced to swallow the bitter pill called rape right from childhood till they die. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by iPopAlomo(m): 7:30pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
joywendy: only woman that said it as it is on this thread... 1 Like |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by situationroom: 7:36pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
dats just d way it is..... things will never be d same don't expect the woman to have more sympathy for you cos society has always favored dem and will always do |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by DONOCHAS(m): 7:40pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
izeeqpotter:mmh, tell us yr story |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by MarieSucre(f): 7:45pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
craziebone: That is not the point of my post mister. There has being a strong prejudice against the Igbo's since the civil war in 1963, the Hausa have also being stereotyped as illiterates and fanatics. Would I also be a pretender and a TRIBALIST if I say the igbos have it worse than the Hausa's in Nigeria. I am not saying that there is nothing like male child molestation. I acknowledge it and I detest it. I am not saying that women do not molest male children or rape grown men. It is twice as disgusting to me. I believe sexual relations must be bound on the principle of #yesmeansyes. Why did I quote the above; this thread like the other thread by that girl about not visiting guys started on a good foot and I believed we could finally have an open discussion about this plague in our society that our enforced gender boxes would not allow us to discuss. But like the other, it quickly descended into falsehoods and generalizations that were in no way helping any of the past or future male rape victims. Pls let the statistic speak for itself. 4 Likes |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 7:54pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
I was a victim of our house maid when I was 8. The problem was I enjoyed the victimization so much, before you know it I was the one victimizing the house maid with my constant demand to be victimized....ikpoke |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by MarieSucre(f): 7:55pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Dragonking: Its sad that it has to be this way for men. Not too long ago a lot of female rape victims were ashamed to report it and lived with the emotional scar in quiet. Thankfully the stigma is being lifted. Is there anything that can be done to change our societies orientation? Maybe we could open a separate thread for men who are victims or those who have witnessed it in one form or the other to air it out. We need a resident nairaland therapist to act as an agony aunt or uncle. Pls, could you do a little research on; *ways to protect your child from sexual predators and paedophiles with emphasis on the male child. *How to cope with trauma of sexual molestation as a male. We can ask the mods to move it to the front page to give it publicity and a wider audience. Its long overdue. The quotes were culled from Wikipedia. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by VickJames(m): 8:00pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
craziebone: Yes, parents should start looking into the matter of male-child molestation. I asked my friend this afternoon while I was reading this thread, he said he has passed through thesame thing too. This thing is really serious and authorities should look into this more than what they have been doing before. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by vedaxcool(m): 8:03pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
I detecting a huge presence of feminist hypocrites in this thread. 1 Like |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 8:06pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Slimzjoe(m): 8:09pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
vedaxcool:. Your English teacher deserves to be Stoned ASAP!! 1 Like |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 8:11pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Lawsimon: Common: Synonyms: more heard of, in public, shared, usual, frequent. I used that word in the very right context. I am very sure the ratio of REPORTED CASES of female child rape to males is more_ but that isn't the issue here. Neither is it a good development. Reported because if we don't know it, how do we fight it? The topic isn't which is more easily detected. Even with your claims of female rape being easily detected, how has that stymied the growing menace? We are looking and hoping for a society where the male child would speak out on such occurrences. Where the perpetrators would be brought to book. Where parents would educate their male child on sensitive body parts, inappropriate touches and how to protect themselves from these monsters. Be it male or female. Where the masses don't see it as normal. ^^^that right there _is the issue. 3 Likes |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by GiftUbani: 8:22pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
lol, sounds so weird |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Dragonking: 8:37pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
MarieSucre:Well for now the society does not recognize male rape victims and men have no choice than to swallow bitter pill. However, for now we can now voice online....also, mothers have a high role to play here in order to curb this from happening... I was lucky that my mom was the proactive type that never trusted any woman..We had a house hhelp but my mum always kept an extra eye on her...The day she caught the house help telling us to rub her legs for no reason, that was the day she left the house...If my mum didn't take that step, who knows, maybe I would have been a victim too...It is high time mothers do their own part and stop leaving the responsibility for the house help or aunty...Another example was a close relative, he said his wife took their son to the saloon, and when she wanted to change their Son's diapers, all the females around were just like woah, your son has a big dick!! Now tell me if she left the child with one of those ladies if they won't molest him? Male child molestation is very high and should be looked into...You will be a mother in the future and I can assure you won't want ur child to have this kind of experience. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Tinyemeka(m): 8:38pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
nnafather: Mkpi like you. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by myheel: 8:39pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
i was raped when i was 5, i could remember every bit of it |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Ewuro4: 8:40pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Awarenes Awaernes Awareness !! |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 8:54pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Dragonking:Hahahaha! Thanks oooo |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 9:20pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
MarieSucre:QES (Quite Easily Said), Source please!!! |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Luckymay(f): 9:25pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Who is talking abt enjoyment here? |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by vedaxcool(m): 9:27pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Double |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by vedaxcool(m): 9:28pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Slimzjoe: Your dad should have taught you violence never solve any problem, shun violence and embrace peace. And fool, a goat would easily detect a typo before your drung ridden brain would. |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 10:10pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
Dragonking: don't mind them. The feminist movement has always been about attacking male psychology and biology. It is about convincing itself that men and women are THE SAME, a thing that will never be! The thing they hate the most about men and patriarchy, is male strength and power-that which makes the man invincible, indomitable and strong. They long to have it but can't and that's why they hate it. It is basic psychology. You hate what you cannot have; just as Americans hate football because they are not a powerhouse in it. Since feminism cannot have the male ego, strength, courage and boldness, it trys to strip the man of it by shaming his ego and blaming his issues on it. It also aims to strip you of your masculinity, a thing feminism longs to have. They do this by labelling it false and with the hope that you will become ashamed of it and try not to identify with it. One thing which they miss is...do what they say and watch yourself, a man, become miserable and become that which they, feminists, won't even like! All feminists in here should get it into their thick skull that men are not like women. THE REASON wE DO NOT CRY LIKE WOMEN DO IS NOT BECAUSE WE TRY TO HOLD IT BACK SO THAT NO ONE LAUGHS AT US; IT IS BECAUSE OUR BODY CHEMISTRY DOESN'T ALLOW FOR THAT LIKE YOUR DOES FOR YOU! TRUTH IS, NOT EVERYTIME WE DON'T SHED TEARS WE ARE TRYING TO HOLD IT BACK. AND YES, WOMEN ALSO TRY TO HOLD BACK TEARS TOO. I HAVE SEEN WHERE WOMEN TRY TO BOX IT IN TOO. omotola said when her father died, she had to be strong for her siblins, so she boxed up tears and try not to show emotions. Does this mean she will comit suicide sometime in the future? You feminists should give it up already and stop lying to the world! 5 Likes |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Nobody: 10:19pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
MarieSucre: the stats are false and misleading because it doesn't take into account the cases like are being cited here. There has been no survey carried out to measure this epidemic before. The right people to question on this issue is not goig to be the females, since women are generally less likely to admit to sexual adventures. It would be the men, amd so far, i have not seen where a questionaire is laid out to get the actuall number of times things like this have happened. 1 Like |
Re: Neglect Of Male Child Rape/molestation By a Female Adult by Amen747: 10:29pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
I was a victim in d hand of 2 so called aunties because I was very sharp as a small boy. I suffered this from the age of 5 till 9yrs and by that time, I was already experimenting with my girls that are my mates and younger girls. Am a little above 30 now and honestly I still live with the pschological trauma today. 1 Like |
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