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Atlantian:
Not how you make a women feel. It's how a woman feels around you. Listen, your environment, how you live. The ambiens, the flowers, the scents of your home. The poolside designs. The jacuzzi. The touch of class in every piece of furniture. The smell of the fabrics you wear. Your upholstery in the car. The perfumes and colognes you wear, determines how a woman feels. The regulated temperature, by the AC in your house. Your kitchen, the choice of wines after each meal. All play key roles in how a woman feels around a man. If you like, live in a one bedroom apartment and lick a woman's feet and pusssy all night under the hot waves from the fan. You are just wasting your energy until the 'real man' comes her way. Sorry.

Atlantian:
The Bible says, and I quote; "MONEY ANSWERS ALL THINGS". I do not need a woman to love me. I am a strong man. But when it comes to women loving me, I can say I am a butterfly with women. They love me, because I am enigma of some sort. My environs is welcoming, soothing and calm. I treat every guest as the queen of heaven, yet I am superficial and eccentric with the humility of a palm wine tapper. I pour the wines as a professional bar man. In the valley of the shadows of death, I make them fear no evil. I rob their hair with oil and their cups runs over with the wines. Their Goodness and mercy follows me all the way down the bed. In the valley of the shadows of their thighs, I fear no evil. My words, soothes their pains, and make light their worries. True love dies, real love is oiled by wealth. Go and hustle my friend.

homirefacuny:
You got me cracking.... The reality is there is no love like that of one's mother and the love of God. Virtuous ladies are really difficult to come by.

Atlantian:
You have a limited knowledge of Nigeria outside the confines of your residence. It is a country of 170 million people with ownership of 146 private jets, third largest ownership of Private Jets in the world aside USA and China. There are hundreds of thousands of millionaires and tens of thousands of billionaires in Nigeria. The government is dysfunctional but on the individual level, people are fuccking rich and wealthy.

CutieViva:
Am a gal & a virtous woman in d makin aswel. Plz 4 dose of u guyz out der dat tink dat moni is evrytin & also a reality in a relationship. U guyz re in a longtin, i mean u guyz re gettin it all wrong bcoz if u want 2 knw if ur goin 2b wealthy in lyf it's d power of a woman bcoz we women ve powers 2 control tins. If u lyk ve all d masion on earth, if u marry a woman dat does'nt ve a vision & focus she wil drag u frm masion 2 mud house. So my dear frends, wether it is 21 century or nt wether or realistist or idealist. D 2ruth remains dat if u marry or date a gal bcoz u ve moni, ur goin 2b doom. 4 my strugglin guyz, my advice is u should kip on 2 show ur woman d luv & appreciate her, if she loves u: she wil b der 4u evn if buhari son is askin her out. Then my general advice & conclusion is dat real women in quote ## VIRTOUS WOMEN## look out 4 men of focus wether stil strugglin or nt, dey look out 4 luv nt moni. while ordinary women look out 4 material tins believin dat moni is all abt luv buh i quote dem all wrong dat moni is nt all abt Luv. gd mornin peeps, 10k u all.

sonofananimal:
YOU KNOW WHAT?

THIS YOUR POST ONLY APPLY TO NAIJA WOMAN!
TRY GO OUT SIDE NIGERIA AND SEE THINGS FOR YOURSELF, I HAVE MEET ALOT OF NON-MATERIALISTIC WOMAN WHO JUST WANT NOTHING BUT TO BE LOVE.

NATURALLY NAIJA WOMEN ARE USELESS, THERE FIND LOVE THROUGH MATERIAL THINGS, AND THAT MAKE WE MEN TRY TO DO ANYTHING TO GET MONEY JUST TO CATCH THOSE EEEDIOT (NAIJA WOMEN)

SHALL I HAVE SEEN THE TRUTH!!
NAIJA WOMEN ARE WORTHLES PIECE OF SHITTE!! DON'T STRESS YOURSELF WITH THEM AND SEE THEM COMING YOUR WAY LIKE FLIES

Kennedyiheme:
all you said is total rubbish, do you know what humanity is? If you do you'll knw tht people arnd you mean a lot more than the swimming pool wey u dey talk.....I was agreeing to your post a bit at first but when I saw this I concluded u aren't thinking well, you watch too much movies........janet jackson wants a divorce despite the fact that her husband is a billioniare, do u wonna tell me he doesn't have swimming pool is his house? Or he doesn't have ferrari? Wiz khalifa seperated frm his wife also, so you think swimming pool and AC, will give u love? If you bcome rich and one filthy girl tell you she loves you and you believe, I will confirm you are jst being foolish, so perfume brings love? I can't believe this

Atlantian:
Captain Swag, go and make real money. Then come back to me, and I will teach you how to keep the wines on your tables and women on your beds. Stop consoling yourself and deceiving others. True love is an illusion of the mind. At some point, the woman's eyes will be opened and she will realize that love and marriage MUST be enjoyed not endured. There is a limit to the tenure of stress and pains. The pursuit of happiness, is the desire of all.

Atlantian:
Yours is not just poverty of the purse alone, you have also been infected with poverty of the mind. A lethal combo that can turn a muslim to a terrorist. Relax my friend. All hope is not lost, you can go and marry that beautiful girl without money, and your rich neighbour will keep her company while you go out for a security job at night. Sorry.

ogaofficer:
Bless my hustle ooo, no be say na me rigtheous pass, no be say na me fine pass.....rapmoney 2 bottle of fayrouz for you. This what i call 'THE TRUTH'.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]You deserve a medal. [/color]

7Alexander:
I do not know why i feel this way, i believe and can relate 100% with what you typed up there, but i do not want to believe you...you see why i feel that way

omoharry:
You are a bitter man.....sorry for your heart break but don't start generalizing unnecessarily just because some one broke your heart....NAIJA WOMEN YOU SAID?...IF YOU HAVE A SISTERS AND FEMALE COUSINS THEN THEY SHOULD NOT BE EXEMPTED FROM YOUR VIEW.

Kennedyiheme:
"eyaaah I'm crying"...... Wow I just met a foolish man that believes AC will bring love, I hope you don't die a miserable death from stroke when you find out your wife is being smashed by smeother cute guy...cos I knw pple like you are ugly, thts why u depend on swimming pool and AC to win a ladies love, how foolish can you get broda?

Rapmoney:
Ignore this post if you are too lazy to read, please!!!

In life, there are two types of people as regards human reasoning; the idealist and the realist. People who hold idealist view of life see events that happen around them as 'how things ought to be but are not' while people who hold realist view of life see events that happen around them as 'real facts or occurences' and should be accepted without pretending as if we didn't know that this is how things truly are!!!

With deep thoughts, I write this post. I am not afraid to face criticism; neither am I afraid to express my thoughts. I am a realist. I believe that events that happen around us as humans are real!!! Often times, things 'ought to be' in a particular way but in reality, they are not; so it becomes necessary to accept bitter and painful facts! Especially, when they are real!!!

We live in a material world and whether you like it or not, material things play a lot of important roles in our everyday life. As a struggling guy, loving only one girl whole-heartedly might end up leaving you with numerous emotional scars! . This is due to the high level of emotional pressure you would put in the relationship and the possible outcome of getting dumped, especially, when you don't have the resources to spice up the relationship. A struggling guy with low funds would find it difficult to spice up his relationship even when he has the intention to do that . In order not to lose the girl, he might start being too protective/desparate and pester the girl with phone calls, texts messages and numerous 'I love you's' in order to be assured that he is still loved! Common!!! That's trash! Are you begging to be loved? After displaying all these, she would dispise you and might even dump you because the truth remains the same...relationships without trips, surprises and outings are as boring as hell!!! Pretend at your own risk!!! . If truth be told, all young ladies want the good things in life, even those that put up what I call 'social media good face'. You cannot obtain total loyalty from a girl when you are lacking! Don't make the mistake of trying to force her to be loyal; you cannot!!!

Women, sometimes need to feel jealous that their man could be taken anytime by another woman. This can put them back on track when they 'backslide' romantically...but this can only be made easy when you have the resources. She knows fully well that ladies will not flock around you if she leaves you today or tomorrow. Don't love just one lady if you are still on 'struggling mode' . The love pressure you would mount on the relationship might make her get fed up quickly with you and eventually get your ass dumped painfully! Again, I am a realist and I am telling you that sooner than later, your ass will be dumped if you don't have the resources to 'oil' the machines of relationships!

As a struggling guy, you should buckle or lace your shoes and tighten your belt very well. You must set your priorities right. There is what economists call 'scale of preference'. What is on top of your scale of preference? Is it your education or career? Or is it trying to please a girl with your meagre earnings all in the name of seeing her pleased with you? Do you want to waste your youthful years trying to please a girl that might end up being married by another dude, who was probably hussling seriously, while you were doing your usual lovey-lovey? Book of Ecclesiastes says 'Money answereth all things'. Take note, 'all things' and not 'some things' . Take the pains now and strive to be comfortable and you will avoid the painful experience of trying to please a girl!!! The love between a man and a woman is not AGAPE LOVE, let us stop deceiving ourselves!!! It is not the type of love described in the Synoptic Gospels and in the Epistles of Apostle Paul...it is called EROS and it costs something!!! Yes, the eros love goes for something; it doesn't come with nothing and that's the bitter truth we all need to accept

Good morning everyone!

sonofananimal:
NEXT TIME, BEFORE YOU GIVE ANY BODY A MEDAL, DO INFORM ME BEFORE TIME

[color=#1980BC]Lol,,Noted sire! [/color]

classicB:
.what is this OP trying to say? That broke guys can't.find.true love?? I know it's rare but it happens. You guys need to set your standard right no girl is ready to date u when u were broke but girls are not begging to date you cos you havr money, cnt u guys see that these kinda girl are not in for the love but for the money
A rich guy should date a rich babe, an independent one for that matter not a broke ass girl.
A woman that loves you will truly stay whether or not u have money. Money cannot buy love, it can only bring the wrong girl if you're not careful.
Consider the love stories of some of our celebrities that started out as a broke girlfriend and boyfriend, now they are making it real big! That's true love, a love that can stand the test of time, not an "already made man" like some females will say whereas they have no money themselves o

Atlantian:
This is reality, but I must add that struggling guys do not need a girlfriend at all.

If you must get married, be sure you are financially stable to provide for your wife, prolonged state of lack drives women into another man's bed, this is a proven fact.

Experience has proven that everyone loves atmosphere of music, alcohol and sex, but sex thrives in the atmosphere of alcohol and music, love isn't necessary for sex to happen.

Experience has proven that the easiest women to lay are the ones in serious relationships and marriages without material supports of 21st century world. Please note that 98% of the women calling me, texting me and begging out-rightly and openly for sex are married or co-habiting ladies whose men are not doing financially well.

There is something wrong with being in love without money to support the lady, you try to prove how much you love by calling, texting, proposing love and you become a nuisance infected with obsessive compulsive disorder, and the lady will eventually run into another man's arm just for comfort, peace of mind and support.

I must stop here.

Atlantian:
Gerrarra hia mehn shi#t. I am young, I am rich and I am handsome.

Kennedyiheme:
lol you are young, rich, handsome on the internet, I bet you are one stupid old tramp, I'm sure my dog is also prettier than you are, keep fooling yourself, give me ur girlfreinds numba let's see if she won't spit on ur face after I finish with her. Foolish tin