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Hello NL,I have a friend that has a GF of which they started dating some months back but after the lady visited him in his family house she started acting strange..They've had a couple of issues after that and it keeps bothering my Guy as he truly loves her,to be honest she has only visited him that once and has since complained that she's busy which I know that if someone cares about you they'll find time for you,she barely calls,tex or even chats him. Please I seek your advice on what could be the cause and how to work it out as my friend is emotionally down.

Maybe she's not comfortable visiting him at his family place. How about him go visit her. Or does she live with her parents too?

ronald4lif:
Maybe she's not comfortable visiting him at his family place. How about him go visit her. Or does she live with her parents too?

She lives with her parent,he has paid her visit on two occasions I can recall..besides I told him same and he promised if she came next time he wud take her to my place and now she's forming busy

Joshmon:
She lives with her parent,he has paid her visit on two occasions I can recall..besides I told him same and he promised if she came next time he wud take her to my place and now she's forming busy

She barely calls, text or chat him up you said? It's obvious she isn't into him. If that's the case then her visiting shouldn't be contemplated. Her action is not one of someone who's interested in the affair. I think he should cease forcing himself on her.

ShutTheFhuckUp:

op, dont b a coward,
dis is abt yhu not ur frnd.

Thank God I have a room for myself and if it was about me and I needed help I would scream to get help..maybe you should look elsewhere

ronald4lif:
She barely calls, text or chat him up you said? It's obvious she isn't into him. If that's the case then her visiting shouldn't be contemplated. Her action is not one of someone who's interested in the affair. I think he should cease forcing himself on her.

Abi o..b4 she injure my friends heart

ronald4lif:
She barely calls, text or chat him up you said? It's obvious she isn't into him. If that's the case then her visiting shouldn't be contemplated. Her action is not one of someone who's interested in the affair. I think he should cease forcing himself on her.

this is just it op,

I always advice, learn how to be happy without any one, it's a great deal