I'll direct her to where I kept some condoms in the house for her in case she's tempted. If she doesn't trust me that I don't trust her too.

Open relationship things.

MRBrownJ:


angry? what would that achieve to be mad at a woman who tries to protect you from her own kind?! she probably knows better than me the workings of desperate women out there... fair enough! the fact that she doesnt trust my judgment or emotional strength in such matter would be the hard part here, but nothing to make a scene out of. if a man knows who he is then why be mad at the low self esteem issues of his partner?! just because she believes that i cheat, doesnt mean that i do. its when she decides to cheat because she foolishly believe that I do too that it becomes a REAL upsetting issue.

You know you are my darling any day MBJ but c'mon now, she's trying to protect you? You are now a minor that's needs to be shielded from women against molestation or what exactly? Let's agree you are not cheating or haven't given her any reasons to think you are and the problem is her insecurity, collecting the condoms without letting her know you are disappointed,only to ask her to leave because she also wants to shield herself from men (using your theory) is a cause for concern, I mean, you can't just ask her to leave because of her self esteem issues, especially not when you had no problems with it while she was trying to protect you, after all, she hadn't used the condoms, no?

Btw, you don't have to make a scene when angry, you do know that, right?

The man shouldn't even accept it,in the first place

enitey:
The man shouldn't even accept it,in the first place

Exactly !

What woman would give her man condoms its like saying .. I approve

Or mayb she was testing him to see .. Dats y she later came out to sdk for hers .. Make two of them they deceive each other

princeifynicky:
look at dem all..... HYPOCRITES. Wat would av happened if she didnt come bak to ask.. Do u think she is daft as well If u can cheat on her and heaven will not fall down... Y cant she do same for u. Afterall, wat is good for d geese... Abi u as d man, yu get 2 heads?. The truth is, she wouldnt dare cheat on u... She is also telling u, not to cheat on her. As a man, keep ur cool, return d condoms intact... Let peace reign.

True same thing i thought
Guess she was testing him . By accepting just telling her that yes im defo gonna get tempted so i need the doms

Pack of condoms that even 14 year old boys can purchase at any pharmacy.
No right-thinking educated husband would collect it from their wives jare.
I trust my Nigerian brothers. they would start forming pious and get upset with the woman for even daring to consider that they would cheat on her in the first place.

emorse:

I'd accept them, return them intact and score massive points in the fidelity test.

Its only a dumb wife dt wud believe u didn't buy anoda n keep hers...

Aids is real she dey protect herself .. Dats how dey cheat n infect each other
Tomorrow now
Husband cheats n infects wife n side chics with hiv ..

LadyBoss1:

Exactly !

What woman would give her man condoms its like saying .. I approve

Or mayb she was testing him to see .. Dats y she later came out to sdk for hers .. Make two of them they deceive each other

The man isn't just matured at all

to be honest, it better not happen to me becouse i wont know what to do

emorse:

I'd accept them, return them intact and score massive points in the fidelity test.

You are telling me you can't actually buy and replace them? Is it customers made??

Ilekeh:


Stop hanging out with jobless women.

Accepting the condoms would make guilty in the first place,any way no need of accepting them from her.

freecocoa:
You know you are my darling any day MBJ but c'mon now, she's trying to protect you? You are now a minor that's needs to be shielded from women against molestation or what exactly? Let's agree you are not cheating or haven't given her any reasons to think you are and the problem is her insecurity, collecting the condoms without letting her know you are disappointed,only to ask her to leave because she also wants to shield herself from men (using your theory) is a cause for concern, I mean, you can't just ask her to leave because of her self esteem issues, especially not when you had no problems with it while she was trying to protect you, after all, she hadn't used the condoms, no?

Btw, you don't have to make a scene when angry, you do know that, right?

sista, you've got this all wrong!!!!
A) she wouldnt be out of my life because of her insecurities, thats why i wouldnt get mad if she hands me condoms (although it is an insult if i am not a cheating man)
B) she would be out of my life simply because SHE is not strong enough to say no to strangers/men (thats why she needed the condoms too, right?).
C) her insecurities is her business, and we can live with that, but i know the kind of man i am (aka a man who can say no to coochie), and therefore, as much as she knows how persuasive some women may be (when they set their mind on a man), she SHOULD trust me fully. without TRUST there is no point in wasting your time with such woman.

thats why she would be out of my life that instant!

chudidonas:
Why would you accept the condom from your wife in the 1st place. It becomes glaring that u cheat on her

What if both parties accept that as a way of life? Can't you see the man wasn't surprised to receive the gift?

MRBrownJ:


sista, you've got this all wrong!!!!
A) she wouldnt be out of my life because of her insecurities, thats why i wouldnt get mad if she hands me condoms (although it is an insult if i am not a cheating man)
B) she would be out of my life simply because SHE is not strong enough to say no to strangers/men (thats why she needed the condoms too, right?).
C) her insecurities is her business, and we can live with that, but i know the kind of man i am (aka a man who can say no to coochie), and therefore, as much as she knows how persuasive some women may be (when they set their mind on a man), she SHOULD trust me fully. without TRUST there is no point in wasting your time with such woman.

thats why she would be out of my life that instant!

B. She needed the condom just incase, which is the reason why she gave it to you too(still your theory), the event has not happened, so you can't say she's cheating, you lost the right to be mad the instant you collected the condoms with no qualms, if you don't see any wrong in taking the condoms whether you cheat or not, you shouldn't see something wrong in her holding onto some too, after all, just like you can be persuaded, so can she, or is temptation gender specific? Why can't you trust her enough not to use the condoms?

Understand that a woman who hands her man condoms(when they aren't in an open relationship)is suspecting him of cheating, no two ways about it, well except maybe a very dumb woman, who believes that it's a woman's fault should a man cheat and according to the OP, the woman in this picture, is very far from dumb.

Toslayem:
this same question came up few weeks ago at a seminar on HIV counseling and testing, and the conclusion was just that the woman may not really have it in mind to cheat on the husband but want him to feel the same pain of always taking the condom whenever he is travelling. Despite the fact that wives are encouraged to help their husband with the so condom to prevent the spread of the virus and other related STI, it takes the grace of God for each wife to be able to withstand such and do as if everything is normal. God will help us all.

I believe this is also a joke in line with the spirit of the thread

Nigerian 'God' na wa

For y'all who quoted this comment:

emorse:

I'd accept them, return them intact and score massive points in the fidelity test.

telling me how I can't prove that its the same condoms she gave to me that I'll return, hope you saw this comment too?

emorse:


My point exactly. She gave the condoms as a test. A lame test.

When I return the condoms intact, she'd realise how dumb the test was.

freecocoa:
B. She needed the condom just incase, which is the reason why she gave it to you too(still your theory), the event has not happened, so you can't say she's cheating,

lol "just in case"!!!! you are talking about cheating like it was some accident bwaaaaah! here is a clue for you: 110% of men who cheated did so because they WANTED to. they may regret their actions afterwards but AT THE TIME they willingly decide to cheat. so pls, stop making it look like something that is unavoidable, because that is an INSULT to all the real men out there who can control themselves and RESPECT their partner.

you lost the right to be mad the instant you collected the condoms with no qualms, if you don't see any wrong in taking the condoms whether you cheat or not, you shouldn't see something wrong in her holding onto some too,

again, if she is insecure and believe i may be cheating then thats all on her, you cant FORCE trust into someone... it should come naturally. so although i may not say anything, there is something wrong in this womans ways and there is very little i can do about it. me accepting the condoms doesnt confirm that i will cheat, it only confirms her insecurities, BUT the minute she needs condoms herself, means that she believes that she may be in a situation where she will need them.... and that (imho) is UNACCEPTABLE!

after all, just like you can be persuaded, so can she, or is temptation gender specific?

i can NEVER be persuaded to cheat, and anyone who tells you that they are is a damn fool. unless you were raped, having sex with someone is a willing conscious decision that each and everyone take. stop making it seem like an accident waiting to happen... and instead people should stand proudly for who they are.

Why can't you trust her enough not to use the condoms?

listen to the garbage you are writing!!!!
i CAN/WILL only trust my partner to be FAITHFUL to me and our union. cheating or anything deceitful will NEVER be accepted! what world are you living in that suddenly cheating is "ok"... or better yet, what happened to you that you believe it is "ok" for your partner to cheat, so long as they wear a condom?! so now wearing a condom makes cheating "acceptable"?!?!?!?!
MY PARTNER DOES NOT NEED CONDOMS, AND NOR DO I!

Understand that a woman who hands her man condoms(when they aren't in an open relationship)is suspecting him of cheating, no two ways about it, well except maybe a very dumb woman, who believes that it's a woman's fault should a man cheat and according to the OP, the woman in this picture, is very far from dumb.

again, her insecurities is the problem here and this man is (so far) not guilty of anything. she can suspect all she wants, but unless she has confirmation of unfaithfulness, this is all in her head.

sadly, the problem here AGAIN is women who, instead of solving an issue, they desperately trying to sweep it under the rug. if you suspect your man of cheating, dont hand him condoms because it certainly WONT solve the problem... and instead you should sit him down and sort this issue maturely!

She loves u dats y she gave u dat pack but u have to trust her too

MRBrownJ:


lol "just in case"!!!! you are talking about cheating like it was some accident bwaaaaah! here is a clue for you: 110% of men who cheated did so because they WANTED to. they may regret their actions afterwards but AT THE TIME they willingly decide to cheat. so pls, stop making it look like something that is unavoidable, because that is an INSULT to all the real men out there who can control themselves and RESPECT their partner.



again, if she is insecure and believe i may be cheating then thats all on her, you cant FORCE trust into someone... it should come naturally. so although i may not say anything, there is something wrong in this womans ways and there is very little i can do about it. me accepting the condoms doesnt confirm that i will cheat, it only confirms her insecurities, BUT the minute she needs condoms herself, means that she believes that she may be in a situation where she will need them.... and that (imho) is UNACCEPTABLE!



i can NEVER be persuaded to cheat, and anyone who tells you that they are is a damn fool. unless you were raped, having sex with someone is a willing conscious decision that each and everyone take. stop making it seem like an accident waiting to happen... and instead people should stand proudly for who they are.




listen to the garbage you are writing!!!!
i CAN/WILL only trust my partner to be FAITHFUL to me and our union. cheating or anything deceitful will NEVER be accepted! what world are you living in that suddenly cheating is "ok"... or better yet, what happened to you that you believe it is "ok" for your partner to cheat, so long as they wear a condom?! so now wearing a condom makes cheating "acceptable"?!?!?!?!
MY PARTNER DOES NOT NEED CONDOMS, AND NOR DO I!



again, her insecurities is the problem here and this man is (so far) not guilty of anything. she can suspect all she wants, but unless she has confirmation of unfaithfulness, this is all in her head.

sadly, the problem here AGAIN is women who, instead of solving an issue, they desperately trying to sweep it under the rug. if you suspect your man of cheating, dont hand him condoms because it certainly WONT solve the problem... and instead you should sit him down and sort this issue maturely!

Lol, I'm glad reading this, you need to understand that I don't support what the woman did, neither do I support cheating, I am well aware that cheating is no mistake, we are having this conversation because
you implied that she may have given you the condoms to shield you from desperate women, I was just trying to show you why that statement is flawed.

airex:
so ur single friends are too broke to buy condom abi?

Every real men knows that is not that your friend is broke if he asks you for a condom. Just like going to bar with your friends and declaring for all them. You're not implying that they are broke neither do you mean you are richer than them. It is all part of brotherhood love and bond. As a matter of fact, I can't count the number of times I've asked my friends for condom neither can I count the number of my friends that had asked me for condoms. Be a real man and give your friends condom if they ask for one.

lozanni:


You don dey support bad thing, abi ?

I'm suggesting ways to avoid quarrels.

emusmith:
Hmm...

I suppose it's a Male condom.
So, will she now distribute CD to her bfs? Shouldn't they come with theirs?
[b]
Women hardly cheat joor! I'll [/b]give a smile and say, OK.

She did that out of her "confused" state of mind ATM. She is suspecting him, scared of telling him not to cheat and also wishing he wouldn't.

Awh, how cute! That's exactly what they want you to think.

freecocoa:
Lol, I'm glad reading this, you need to understand that I don't support what the woman did, neither do I support cheating, I am well aware that cheating is no mistake, we are having this conversation because
you implied that she may have given you the condoms to shield you from desperate women, I was just trying to show you why that statement is flawed.

that statement is not flawed sista, because we all know the tricks some women use in order to catch/entrap weak men out there. so yes, some women use their charms/body etc to entice WEAK men to sleep with them (important word here is WEAK ) and therefore some wife/gf would give condoms to their partner in order to protect them form these biatches... but, that would strongly suggest that my woman thinks i am a weak man (if she gives me condoms), and that in itself is THE MAIN INSULT.

Accept d condoms tnk her n tell her ur not in need of them.period.
But if u have collected it n in d car u better give her all n claim nothing has happened.

pharmow:


Every real men knows that is not that your friend is broke if he asks you for a condom. Just like going to bar with your friends and declaring for all them. You're not implying that they are broke neither do you mean you are richer than them. It is all part of brotherhood love and bond. As a matter of fact, I can't the number of times I've asked my friends for condom neither can I count the number of my friends that had asked me for condoms. Be a real man and give your friends condom if they ask for one.

What a shame!

airex:
What a shame!

You got some growing up to do bro

pharmow:

You got some growing up to do bro

Still a shame