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I just want to hear your opinions....
..how do you cut ties with someone you really don't like being around, but can't tell them,cos you are afraid you will hurt them with your words?
girl or boy

Same here...but I am juz trying to ignore their calls n text...I hate doing this but I have too coz I hate getting things complicated.

KashyBaby:
Same here...but I am juz trying to ignore their calls n text...I hate doing this but I have too coz I hate getting things complicated.

I've tried that.....just didn't work out for me...if its working for you r lucky

hertz9te:
I've tried that.....just didn't work out for me...if its working for you r lucky

It aint easy but I believe tat one day they will juz get tired of calling my attention...I have my own life to deal with anyway...

there are no 2 ways about it, you must take your heart and tell them exactly that, in a non threatening manner!

MRBrownJ:
there are no 2 ways about it, you must take your heart and tell them exactly that, in a non threatening manner!

very
very

HArd

hertz9te:
very
very

HArd

who told you that LIFE was going to be easy?!

MRBrownJ:
who told you that LIFE was going to be easy?!

I wish I had your heart bro

What are you afraid of?

Youngpo413:
What are you afraid of?

telling them off

Well, I've done this several times because people can get on your nerves sometimes. What I do is I send them a text, telling them exactly what I think of them. There's no other way to go about it imo. You have to be honest & get the message across loud & clear. The only time it gets uncomfortable is when someone decides to confront you face to face after they've received such text. Oh boy! You wish the earth would swallow you. I had one such uncomfortable encounter & things escalated into a heated argument very fast. By the end of it, however, I was still sure I never wanted to speak or see that person ever again & I didn't. It's been a couple of years & I don't regret it one bit.

PunkyVeer:
Well, I've done this several times because people can get on your nerves sometimes. What I do is I send them a text, telling them exactly what I think of them. There's no other way to go about it imo. You have to be honest & get the message across loud & clear. The only time it gets uncomfortable is when someone decides to confront you face to face after they've received such text. Oh boy! You wish the earth would swallow you. I had one such uncomfortable encounter & things escalated into a heated argument very fast. By the end of it, however, I was still sure I never wanted to speak or see that person ever again & I didn't. It's been a couple of years & I don't regret it one bit.

the way you say it. how I wish I could just do it......God need strength for this shit

hertz9te:
I just want to hear your opinions....
..how do you cut ties with someone you really don't like being around, but can't tell them,cos you are afraid you will hurt them with your words?
girl or boy

....ok..so u sayn u owe them moiney but wanto cut ties coz u don't wanna pay?..... You homebase people mennn!! (no ofeinse)

MrCork:
....ok..so u sayn u owe them moiney but wanto cut ties coz u don't wanna pay?..... You homebase people mennn!! (no ofeinse)

*Alert* Mr Corkroach is crazy and jobless, he may beg u for money too.

hertz9te:
I wish I had your heart bro

well, you can live a life where you are at peace with yourself, or live a fake life where everyone in your life is at peace but you.