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Blizzyblinkzy:
ok thanks.
So my boyfriend loves me?

charijee:
[color=#CD1076]I know[/color]

JeffreyJamez:
You have no idea.....trust me

Btw, how's the squad?

So cool ...gist me what's new

charijee:
[color=#CD1076]So cool ...gist me what's new[/color]

JeffreyJamez:
Apart from the fact that I'm now a glorified junkie..... nothing is new.

Huh? ....meaning what exactly?

charijee:
[color=#CD1076]Huh? ....meaning what exactly?[/color]

JeffreyJamez:
What does "junkie " mean?.. Lol.....

Oh I forgot to add....I dey look for who get 50k wey them no dey use

charijee:
[color=#CD1076][i][Don't get you at all....Speak the language I'll understand/i][/color]

JeffreyJamez:
I'm on drugs

charijee:
[color=#CD1076]Seen it?[/color]

iamrealdeji:
Op's writes this like Tosyne2much

Oh seriously ?

zadok60:
hmmmm...it feels good to know someone you love feels same way also to you.

Glowstone:
n then u know u'v been friend zoned and scammed

zadok60:
We all fall in love for someone at least once in a
lifetime.Love is that indescribable and unmeasurable
feeling of joy that fills our entire body.It’s an
amazing feeling that can bring us the happiest
moments in our lives, as well as the worst.

You dedicate completely to that person to the point
that all your needs are second place compared to her
needs. But what happens when that person doesn’t
love you back?

1. The pain will come
You’ll start feeling that the world is tearing apart and
you’ll feel like every single piece of you is shattering
into pieces. You can’t believe that after everything
you’ve done and all you’ve been through, someone
else got that place in her heart. Pain will slowly take
possession of your body and eventually you’re gonna
cry. Yes, you’re gonna cry no matter how tough you
are, because you really loved her and losing her
wasn’t on your plans.

2. …and then the denial
You’re gonna deny the fact that she’s in love with
someone else. You’re gonna try not to face the truth
about the situation and will try to convince yourself
that it’s just a bad dream. Every part of you knows the
truth, but you won’t face it and that will make you
feel even more pain. Probably you’ll ask her to have
lunch together and she’ll tell you that she has plans
with her date and you will be in that awkward
moment when you’re left speechless and you will tell
her how happy you’re for her, but you’re going
through a heartbreak that will make you cry again.

3. She’ll be closer to you than ever
To add salt to the wound, she’ll be closer to you than
ever. She’ll tell you everything about the guy she’s
dating and how nervous she is about him because
she’s really into him and you’ll be like “please stop,
don’t you see I love you and it hurts me to know all of
this…” She’ll tell you how much she needs you right
now and even though you don’t like the idea you will
support her just to be near her and to make her
happy. Her smile will motivate you and little by little
the pain will be replaced with hope that someday
maybe she’ll be interested in you.

4. One day she’ll introduce you to the guy
The day you meet the guy will be a tough one. You’ll
question yourself why she chose him over you. It will
be really hard to be neutral with your comments,
because you’d want to tell her she’s making a terrible
mistake, but you won’t do it because you want her to
be happy even if that means to let her go.

5. And then comes the moment of truth
Either she will be the guy’s girlfriend, or she’ll change
her mind and leave him. Let’s be honest, the first one
is the most probable option. You will still be hurt, but
the wounds will start healing, and the fact that she’s
happy will make you feel a bit better.

6. Someday you’ll find someone else in which you’ll fall for
You’ll eventually heal, but you’ll always remember her
and that will haunt you for some time. You’ll be
scared to let love come to your life again. Calm down,
it’s normal. When something or someone hurts us it’s
difficult to forget it and we tend to be scared, but
someone will eventually help us heal. Someday you’ll
meet another girl that will make you fall for her and
the feelings that once belonged to another girl will
awaken and fill your heart with hope. And at that
moment, you’ll make a tough choice between giving
yourself a chance to love again, or not. Hopefully that
person you fell for will love you too.

zadok60:
We all fall in love for someone at least once in a
lifetime.Love is that indescribable and unmeasurable
feeling of joy that fills our entire body.It’s an
amazing feeling that can bring us the happiest
moments in our lives, as well as the worst.

You dedicate completely to that person to the point
that all your needs are second place compared to her
needs. But what happens when that person doesn’t
love you back?

1. The pain will come
You’ll start feeling that the world is tearing apart and
you’ll feel like every single piece of you is shattering
into pieces. You can’t believe that after everything
you’ve done and all you’ve been through, someone
else got that place in her heart. Pain will slowly take
possession of your body and eventually you’re gonna
cry. Yes, you’re gonna cry no matter how tough you
are, because you really loved her and losing her
wasn’t on your plans.

2. …and then the denial
You’re gonna deny the fact that she’s in love with
someone else. You’re gonna try not to face the truth
about the situation and will try to convince yourself
that it’s just a bad dream. Every part of you knows the
truth, but you won’t face it and that will make you
feel even more pain. Probably you’ll ask her to have
lunch together and she’ll tell you that she has plans
with her date and you will be in that awkward
moment when you’re left speechless and you will tell
her how happy you’re for her, but you’re going
through a heartbreak that will make you cry again.

3. She’ll be closer to you than ever
To add salt to the wound, she’ll be closer to you than
ever. She’ll tell you everything about the guy she’s
dating and how nervous she is about him because
she’s really into him and you’ll be like “please stop,
don’t you see I love you and it hurts me to know all of
this…” She’ll tell you how much she needs you right
now and even though you don’t like the idea you will
support her just to be near her and to make her
happy. Her smile will motivate you and little by little
the pain will be replaced with hope that someday
maybe she’ll be interested in you.

4. One day she’ll introduce you to the guy
The day you meet the guy will be a tough one. You’ll
question yourself why she chose him over you. It will
be really hard to be neutral with your comments,
because you’d want to tell her she’s making a terrible
mistake, but you won’t do it because you want her to
be happy even if that means to let her go.

5. And then comes the moment of truth
Either she will be the guy’s girlfriend, or she’ll change
her mind and leave him. Let’s be honest, the first one
is the most probable option. You will still be hurt, but
the wounds will start healing, and the fact that she’s
happy will make you feel a bit better.

6. Someday you’ll find someone else in which you’ll fall for
You’ll eventually heal, but you’ll always remember her
and that will haunt you for some time. You’ll be
scared to let love come to your life again. Calm down,
it’s normal. When something or someone hurts us it’s
difficult to forget it and we tend to be scared, but
someone will eventually help us heal. Someday you’ll
meet another girl that will make you fall for her and
the feelings that once belonged to another girl will
awaken and fill your heart with hope. And at that
moment, you’ll make a tough choice between giving
yourself a chance to love again, or not. Hopefully that
person you fell for will love you too.

tosyne2much:
Oh seriously ?

reminiscing:
very true

malele:
I have been in this shoes. Atimes it can take 5 to 6 months before u can move on.