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Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 3:36pm On Aug 31, 2015
Kimoni:
Edwife don wake up finally cheesy
Me and you dey share the bed,you no know before?Your own still fresh sha... grin
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 6:02pm On Sep 01, 2015
@ Coogar

I just read Senator Shehu Sanni's reply to Ayo Fayose and I don't know why, but every line I was reading seemed like I was reading from Coogar. Did you guys to the same school by any chance? grin grin

That guy is wicked!!!
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 9:02pm On Sep 01, 2015
Coogar is a mean person nau. I'm the only person he us ever nice to.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by 5minsmadness: 7:31pm On Sep 02, 2015
kramfonos:
The Men's Lounge in the Family Section? There's nothing much to miss there. The men there are sexist and there are always back-and-forths with 'intruding' women who double as feminists. Next they discuss football, politics and reoccuring issues from Family Section threads.

The hate there is REAL, trust me. It's one of the reasons I am not regular there.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 7:32pm On Sep 02, 2015
grin grin grin grin
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Idowuogbo(f): 8:10pm On Sep 02, 2015
[quote author=5minsmadness post=37605802][/quote]cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

You be mad man I swear
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 8:43am On Sep 03, 2015
Peeping....
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 10:11am On Sep 03, 2015
Kimoni:
@ Coogar

I just read Senator Shehu Sanni's reply to Ayo Fayose and I don't know why, but every line I was reading seemed like I was reading from Coogar. Did you guys to the same school by any chance? grin grin

That guy is wicked!!!
bodashee:
Coogar is a mean person nau. I'm the only person he us ever nice to.
you guys should learn to appreciate the finer points of bad behaviour.
sometimes, there's a bit of good in evil. grin
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 10:14am On Sep 03, 2015
coogar:
you guys should learn to appreciate the finer points of bad behaviour.
sometimes, there's a bit of good in evil. grin
But seriously Coogar, have you read what that guy wrote??

Bodashee, tell me about it wink
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 10:16am On Sep 03, 2015
Kimoni:
But seriously Coogar, have you read what that guy wrote??

Bodashee, tell me about it wink
i saw it....
the penmanship was excellent. someone needed to put a leash on the rabid dog known as fayose.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 10:21am On Sep 03, 2015
coogar:
i saw it....
the penmanship was excellent. someone needed to put a leash on the rabid dog known as fayose.
grin grin Coming from an Hausaman, I was quite shocked. Forget Fayose, some people cannot just be tamed; I don't see him changing.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 10:27am On Sep 03, 2015
Kimoni:
grin grin Coming from an Hausaman, I was quite shocked. Forget Fayose, some people cannot just be tamed; I don't see him changing.
fayose will change if people keep bashing him like senator shehu did.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 10:41am On Sep 03, 2015
coogar:
fayose will change if people keep bashing him like senator shehu did.
Lol...you think so? I doubt it sha. It's just like saying FFK will change. Those guys have a consistent history
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f):
coogar:
fayose will change if people keep bashing him like senator shehu did.
He didn't bash anything,he only used the dictionary to exercise his vocabulary,instead of him to address fayose accusations,he turned it to a rap battle,abi e no see rap section?
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 11:31am On Sep 03, 2015
Kimoni:
Lol...you think so? I doubt it sha. It's just like saying FFK will change. Those guys have a consistent history
HAHAHAHA I don't know but i love these two,we need to have some clowns in the country-otherwise it will be boring....

We are back here again? grin some people will die this time around. tongue
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 11:40am On Sep 03, 2015
edwife:
HAHAHAHA I don't know but i love these two,we need to have some clowns in the country-otherwise it will be boring....

We are back here again? grin some people will die this time around. tongue
That's exactly what both of them are to me - clowns. Not to be taken seriously grin

It's just they can be annoying sometimes angry
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 11:44am On Sep 03, 2015
FFK and Fayose, those two I have no words. That anyone takes them seriously is amazing. I just flip the page with them two
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 12:09pm On Sep 03, 2015
Kimoni:
grin grin Coming from an Hausaman, I was quite shocked. Forget Fayose, some people cannot just be tamed; I don't see him changing.
Lol. Hausa people have brains too, you know? I did secondary education in Niger State and I realised everybody is the same. My bunk mates younger brother(Fulani guys) had his article published by Punch Newspaper, they took it off his Facebook page o, he didn't send it to them. They published it withoit giving due credit, he lambasted them and they did the needful. This guy was two years my junior in secondary school; and he has actually written books with regard to the Nigerian polity. Forget all the senseless stereotyping you hear and read. There are imbeciiles and geniuses in every ethnic group. Isn't Fayose supposed to be a product of the "Fountain of Knowledge"?
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 12:18pm On Sep 03, 2015
Timbuktou:
Lol. Hausa people have brains too, you know? I did secondary education in Niger State and I realised everybody is the same. My bunk mates younger brother(Fulani guys) had his article published ny punch and has actually written books with regard to the Nigerian polity. Forget all the senseless stereotyping you hear and read. There are imbeciiles and geniuses in every ethnic group. Isn't Fayose supposed to be a product of the "Fountain of Knowledge"?
I must confess I was guilty of (maybe still guilty) of the stereotyping until I went to serve. I didn't even know there were Christians in Maiduguri back then shocked shocked I had to embark on a deliberate research to get to know more about them. Now, they are my best friends cheesy
But I was still shocked at those words from Shehu Garba, nevertheless. Maybe because I still look at them as being gentle and meek. Did you read those lines by the way?
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 12:47pm On Sep 03, 2015
Kimoni:
I must confess I was guilty of (maybe still guilty) of the stereotyping until I went to serve. I didn't even know there were Christians in Maiduguri back then shocked shocked I had to embark on a deliberate research to get to know more about them. Now, they are my best friends cheesy
But I was still shocked at those words from Shehu Garba, nevertheless. Maybe because I still look at them as being gentle and meek. Did you read those lines by the way?
Lol. It's a widespread issue, I must confess. I remember going to the Kainji Lake National Park in SS1, I think for a class field trip. We get to the community where the park's located and I'm hungry and decided to buy fruits and I approach this elderly looking "unlearned" abokii and in my slowest pidgin ask for mangoes. The guy then replies "three (θriː) for 10 naira" in English better than the Queen's angry . I felt stewpid. grin. My pops told me he was shocked at Tafawa Balewa's speech at Independence. He thought they were all cattle-rearing nomads grin

No, I haven't. Could you post a link?
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 12:52pm On Sep 03, 2015
Timbuktou:
Lol. It's a widespread issue, I must confess. I remember going to the Kainji Lake National Park in SS1, I think for a class field trip. We get to the community where the park's located and I'm hungry and decided to buy fruits and I approach this elderly looking "unlearned" abokii and in my slowest pidgin ask for mangoes. The guy then replies "three (θriː) for 10 naira" in English better than the Queen's angry . I felt stewpid. grin. My pops told me he was shocked at Tafawa Balewa's speech at Independence. He thought they were all cattle-rearing nomads grin

No, I haven't. Could you post a link?
http://www.naijaspice.net/2015/09/ewwooo-fayose-is-glorified-tout-sen.html

When I got to "Fayose's utterances are farts from a rotten roadside beans meal", it was at that point I just had to come and ask Coogar if they were school mates. Choi!! grin grin grin
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody: 1:01pm On Sep 03, 2015
Kimoni:
http://www.naijaspice.net/2015/09/ewwooo-fayose-is-glorified-tout-sen.html

When I got to "Fayose's utterances are farts from a rotten roadside beans meal", it was at that point I just had to come and ask Coogar if they were school mates. Choi!! grin grin grin
Lol. Short and sweet. Fayose can't respond to that in any intelligible fashion. I wonder how he became governor really. All the good brains in Ekiti are outside Ekiti state. They have become too good for their home and have left it to the clowns who would vote for the likes of Fayose. Pitiful.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by edwife(f): 1:10pm On Sep 03, 2015
I recognise the fundamental rights of Ekiti state governor to freedom of expression. I unreservedly condemn his divisive, inciting, provocative and mischievous tantrums and invective against President Muhammadu Buhari. The Ekiti governor is a relic of the old order; he represents the old Nigeria of waste, of hollow ritual of noise and nuisance. Fayose is a man suffering from political depression in the aftermath of the defeat of his patriarch Goodluck Jonathan. He is a hallucinating man of the ancient, yet to come to terms with the realities of a new dawn and new Nigeria.
The Ekiti governor is a man on the loose, ready to use stones, sticks and any object to inflict harm and to be noticed. Fayose failed to stop the election of President Muhammadu Buhari by the use of false, misleading and subversive propaganda laced with lies and deceit and now resorts to firing arrows of hate, smear and distortions. He is a glorified tout, deficient in morals, character and courteousness. His imprudent utterances are nothing but an attempt to incite Nigerians from the south against those from the north. The Ekiti governor’s utterances are unbecoming of a state governor who should symbolise, exemplify and personify national unity and peace.
Fayose’s utterances are farts from a rotten road side beans meal. The constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria guarantees all Nigerians the right to freely express their opinion and criticize the operations of Government. The Ekiti governor is simply on a toxic smear campaign against PMB. President Muhammadu Buhari is not a ‘northern president. He is a Nigerian president out to correct the wrong of the erstwhile sectional president whom the Fayoses of Nigeria supported and collaborated with. Fayose is a weeping and whipping boy of the dead PDP. I call on the APC Governors to appropriately respond to their peer, Fayose and return him to the cesspit pit, where he rightly belongs.” he said
grin grin grin I swear,coogar has been stealing from him.... cheesy
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 1:19pm On Sep 03, 2015
edwife:
grin grin grin I swear,coogar has been stealing from him.... cheesy
or he's been stealing from coogar. all these naija politicians view as guests on this forum.

edwife:
He didn't bash anything,he only used the dictionary to exercise his vocabulary,instead of him to address fayose accusations,he turned it to a rap battle,abi e no see rap section?
rap battle is about bashing.
putting words together to disrespect one's opponent.

Kimoni:
Lol...you think so? I doubt it sha. It's just like saying FFK will change. Those guys have a consistent history
FFK and fayose are yet to meet their match.
no one has actually done extensive damage to what is left of their credibility. they should hire me for such a job.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by raumdeuter: 3:45pm On Sep 03, 2015
Coogar, No be your state governor Fayose dem dey bash so?
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 5:07pm On Sep 03, 2015
For a long time now – certainly as far back as I can remember – men have been increasingly socialised to make pleasing women a driving achievement..

It’s quite obvious if one cares to look, not even too deeply sef. Most especially in the music and the movies. I’ll give a few examples below, but think about it. Magazines, TV, it’s everywhere.

Everything from Percy Sledge’ song “when a man loves a woman”, to the film “Pretty Woman”, indoctrinating men to make securing the love of women paramount – and even women of dubious nature – is relentlessly sold.

In male/female interaction – most especially of the romantic kind – it is women that can lose themselves in the love of a man, not vice-versa. A man has to see beyond his feelings for a woman – and more importantly her emotions and desires – remain focused and act strategically without being unduly influenced by either.

Failure to do so can have dire consequences. Ironically enough, a woman who feels you are subject to her whims will invariably lose respect for you and/or leave you, or cheat on you.

You job as a man is to present as one, enunciate clearly and even be somewhat chauvinist in your manhood. Revel in it, be proud of it and don’t let it be unduly compromised or coloured by any female influence. Proper manhood comes unwrapped and un-whipped.

One of the things that will engender trust, security and submissiveness in your woman is the fact that she knows you are clear-headed and focused, not subject to her whims or even your own impulses.

That you love, hour and cherish her is fine, just as long as she knows that you will not on account of that be weak, compromise or undermine your own integrity.

As a husband, don’t focus on pleasing your wife, focus on being a good husband. I say “nyet” to the saying “Happy wife, happy home”. “It’s commanding husband, strong family”.

I never ever think of pleasing my wife as the key – or even paramount – to running a successful home. I do all the things demanded of a man and husband, and she is happy or not, as the case may be.

If she feels some things need changing, or could be improved or done differently or has an idea, fine, we are always talking. I may even agree. However, her being happy is not the primary driver or of utmost importance.



TV
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 6:47pm On Sep 03, 2015
Nice points TV01

I think this is so important against the backdrop of Metrosexualisation of men
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by netotse(m): 7:20pm On Sep 03, 2015
@TV

One question:

when you say commanding, what do you mean? the general idea of a "commanding" person is someone who is overbearing and insists on having his way everytime, I'm not certain that's what you're driving at, is it?
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by netotse(m): 7:27pm On Sep 03, 2015
@kimoni, bodashee, 5minsmadness et al
the reply left me blank, it was an ad hominem pure and simple, all the dude was doing was showing that he has good command of the english language, he didn't make any points or pass any worthwhile message across.

If his goal was to touch something in Fayose then he missed the goalpost by a mile. For people like that(people with tunnel vision), insults don't work. It's either you defeat him with logic or you ignore him.
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Nobody:
netotse:
@kimoni, bodashee, 5minsmadness et al
the reply left me blank, it was an ad hominem pure and simple, all the dude was doing was showing that he has good command of the english language, he didn't make any points or pass any worthwhile message across.

If his goal was to touch something in Fayose then he missed the goalpost by a mile. For people like that(people with tunnel vision), insults don't work. It's either you defeat him with logic or you ignore him.
I agree with you, but I really do not think Fayose is worth the effort. He can never change. Lai Lai.

Kimoni:
http://www.naijaspice.net/2015/09/ewwooo-fayose-is-glorified-tout-sen.html
When I got to "Fayose's utterances are farts from a rotten roadside beans meal", it was at that point I just had to come and ask Cougar if they were school mates. Choi!! grin grin grin
Coogar must have been his school father
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