freecocoa:
I guess I should not go, whenever I run into an old friend of ours, they always say something about he and I, my sister said maybe they've said it in her presence or something, so the lady just wants to meet me.

freecocoa:
Here's the thing, an ex called me last week(my first boyfriend) to invite me to his wedding, the issue now is that I don't know if I should honour the invite, he said his wife insist he invites me(he didn't want to )I know he did love me and he was quite the model boyfriend then(he could pass for the types in mills$boons )and we have talked since the break up but I never thought he wouldn't invite me to his wedding, and now to call me to say his wife insists he invites me is kinda shocking/confusing, I always knew I would honour the invites I have the time to attend to,still I'm wondering if I should sit this one out, I partly want to go because it will be like a kind of reunion with old friends(even some who have to travel from very far for this) yet somehow, I feel like not going, he didn't sound happy to invite me, he was cold.

Would you go if you were the one?

ifecx4real:
Probably might just be that he really wants you to come so used the wife as excuse. Could that be possible?

to rub it in your face that she won the 'prize'

slimz10:
To the OP

If I should reason like most typical Nigerian, I would go with this line of thought by favolly



but on the long run, the lady in question may mean no harm just to see you.... maybe your ex told her that you were his first
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My thought thou.

YourMain:
Yeah. I'd turn up looking sexy.

Favolly:

I wouldn't insist that my husband's first attend our wedding. I'm sure most ladies won't either.
I don't think that explains it

YourMain:
Yeah. I'd turn up looking sexy.

iameugene:
If the wife wants you there.. Girl she wants you jealous trust me

freecocoa:
Here's the thing, an ex called me last week(my first boyfriend) to invite me to his wedding, the issue now is that I don't know if I should honour the invite, he said his wife insist he invites me(he didn't want to )I know he did love me and he was quite the model boyfriend then(he could pass for the types in mills$boons )and we have talked since the break up but I never thought he wouldn't invite me to his wedding, and now to call me to say his wife insists he invites me is kinda shocking/confusing, I always knew I would honour the invites I have the time to attend to,still I'm wondering if I should sit this one out, I partly want to go because it will be like a kind of reunion with old friends(even some who have to travel from very far for this) yet somehow, I feel like not going, he didn't sound happy to invite me, he was cold.

Would you go if you were the one?

tpiah01:


he didnt sound happy, obviously he doesnt want you to attend his wedding but the wife is insisting, you yourself are having doubts about going, why then must you go?

I'm surprised you asked such a question.

Tashaamania:

Like this?

5minsmadness:
So what about your ex, the one u were always talking about?

What about her?

Well aren't u going to invite her?

Erm, I don't know, I was thinking I would, that's if you don't mind....

Lol, of course I don't mind! Let her come, it will be an opportunity to see this your first love av heard so much about. Not that she was so perfect else u would have married her abi?

(uncomfortable) it's no biggie, she doesn't need to come...

Nonsense. I INSIST. Make sure u send her an invite. Let her come, let it not be like it's me preventing you two from seeing each other one last time....

(more uncomfortable) em, I really don't think it's necessary to invite her....

Look, there's no problem. Make sure u send her an invite. Deliver it personally even. I insist!















Caveat: The above short discussion is a work of fiction. Any semblance to real occurrences is purely coincidental.

staymore:
Women and their fish brain. Go there and half of the people will know the same woman that wanted to snatch her husband still have the guts to attend her wedding.

freecocoa:
Do you have to be insulting to make your point? How fish brain take enter the matter now?