Virtue11:


I am not expecting anything better from your response. The response above is more applicable to describe your present dilemma judging from the content of your post. I have told you the truth. Why are you offended by it. Please don't be offended; It just show your real personality behind the screen. Please go and walk on your life. Truths are bitter but they will make you free.

Thanks

Virtue11:
Go and think about how to get your own husband and marry instead of worrying yourself with useless invite that can not do you any good. It appear that since the break up, you have not succeeded to find a suitable man. If you have , you wouldn't be here contemplating on how to attend the wedding of a man who has probably used you and had moved on. He is even planning marriage with all your acclaimed thoughts that you dumped him. You are wasting precious time on a wild goose chase. Use this time to invest in your life, plan your own marital life and cancel the syndrome of Ex's over your life. How many Ex,s do you want have before you finally settle down? Women should be ashamed of referring to Ex,s as if it is a trivial thing. Each Ex,s always leave a mark of usage on your body and soul regardless even if you are the one that ended the relationship. I am surprised a woman can even post trash like this. What do you want to achieve. Get over this and give yourself a sense of goal in life. it appear you are not focused at the moment. I don't mean to offend. Just telling you the pure truth.

Thanks

freecocoa:
Come that's not the purpose of this thread, trying to scrutinise my sex life that is.

We dated for about 2 years if you must know, intimate activities include spooning and touching, I don't see how that is contradictory.

Amebo.

UjSizzle:
This one's simple.
He doesn't want you there = don't go.
Call before the wedding and apologise for your inability to attend. Wish them all the best and just steer clear of those two.
That your ex isn't comfortable with your presence is reason enough to decline an invitation. Who the heck is his wife? She doesn't count here whatever her intentions may be.

emmylight4u:
I attended one but it was not funny. The lady cried all tru the wedding when sited me. She even left the husband to dance with me more than 3munites with serious tears in her eye. I left embarrassed.

underGodscare:


Her intention is to show you she has won the prize (the man). Going will make you unhappy if you are still single. Besides, she may later accuse you of being the witch who gave her a wicked wedding gift if you go there. What if she poisons you? Don't you know some wives are suspicious and resentful of their men's exes?

Simply post a Happy Married Life on their Facebook walls and move on with your life.

freecocoa:
Here's the thing, an ex called me last week(my first boyfriend) to invite me to his wedding, the issue now is that I don't know if I should honour the invite, he said his wife insist he invites me(he didn't want to )I know he did love me and he was quite the model boyfriend then(he could pass for the types in mills$boons )and we have talked since the break up but I never thought he wouldn't invite me to his wedding, and now to call me to say his wife insists he invites me is kinda shocking/confusing, I always knew I would honour the invites I have the time to attend to,still I'm wondering if I should sit this one out, I partly want to go because it will be like a kind of reunion with old friends(even some who have to travel from very far for this) yet somehow, I feel like not going, he didn't sound happy to invite me, he was cold.

Would you go if you were the one?

freecocoa:


Would you go if you were the one?

EzeeYFB:
c madness, ladies can b somtin else guun

freecocoa:
Here's the thing, an ex called me last week(my first boyfriend) to invite me to his wedding, the issue now is that I don't know if I should honour the invite, he said his wife insist he invites me(he didn't want to )I know he did love me and he was quite the model boyfriend then(he could pass for the types in mills$boons )and we have talked since the break up but I never thought he wouldn't invite me to his wedding, and now to call me to say his wife insists he invites me is kinda shocking/confusing, I always knew I would honour the invites I have the time to attend to,still I'm wondering if I should sit this one out, I partly want to go because it will be like a kind of reunion with old friends(even some who have to travel from very far for this) yet somehow, I feel like not going, he didn't sound happy to invite me, he was cold.

Would you go if you were the one?

Virtue11:
Go and think about how to get your own husband and marry instead of worrying yourself with useless invite that can not do you any good. It appear that since the break up, you have not succeeded to find a suitable man. If you have , you wouldn't be here contemplating on how to attend the wedding of a man who has probably used you and had moved on. He is even planning marriage with all your acclaimed thoughts that you dumped him. You are wasting precious time on a wild goose chase. Use this time to invest in your life, plan your own marital life and cancel the syndrome of Ex's over your life. How many Ex,s do you want have before you finally settle down? Women should be ashamed of referring to Ex,s as if it is a trivial thing. Each Ex,s always leave a mark of usage on your body and soul regardless even if you are the one that ended the relationship. I am surprised a woman can even post trash like this. What do you want to achieve. Get over this and give yourself a sense of goal in life. it appear you are not focused at the moment. I don't mean to offend. Just telling you the pure truth.

Thanks

Truckpusher:
Who is a misogynist here now?

Bia, no spoil my career for here o.

I dey available sha - Just in case you dun change mind like trailer driver.

onyibajoe:
It is safer not to know somethings

babygirlfl:


You see why you should show your good side a little bit more. Now you have given Freecocoa the idea that you are a misogynist even when we know you are not.

freecocoa:
Lol, you wey wan marry as many wives as possible because you believe a man should if he can afford to, if that's not misogyny, tell me what is.

Idowuogbo:
Kai see as freecocoa just dey jabo for nl. Spooning, touching hian! Ok oo...

armyofone:
description of spooning, forking, and knives ing please.

Marineremmanson:
He is a real man, I think him seeing u on that day would set his mind emotionally and psychologically off his wedding
Imagine how he would feel. He can even end d wedding instanta

joanana:
YES, I WILL 100 times over, m over him and m inlove with someone else Truthfully, i attended one last month and it was fun!!!! m not angry with him, m happy for him and i wish him the best!!!