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Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 6:27pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Here's the thing, an ex called me last week(my first boyfriend) to invite me to his wedding, the issue now is that I don't know if I should honour the invite, he said his wife insist he invites me(he didn't want to )I know he did love me and he was quite the model boyfriend then(he could pass for the types in mills$boons )and we have talked since the break up but I never thought he wouldn't invite me to his wedding, and now to call me to say his wife insists he invites me is kinda shocking/confusing, I always knew I would honour the invites I have the time to attend to,still I'm wondering if I should sit this one out, I partly want to go because it will be like a kind of reunion with old friends(even some who have to travel from very far for this) yet somehow, I feel like not going, he didn't sound happy to invite me, he was cold. Would you go if you were the one? 4 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by tpiah01: 6:27pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Yes. didn't read your post though. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 6:30pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
tpiah01:Lol, Tpia please don't let coogar see this post of yours. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by cold(m): 6:33pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Since the break up wasn't an acrimonious one,you can go if you feel like it. No harm done. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by woky: 6:35pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Only if I'm invited. 5 Likes |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by mployer(m): 6:35pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Yes. I have been There before. 3 Likes |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Blizzyblinkzy(f): 6:36pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
I will go if we ended our relationship in peace. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by woky: 6:37pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
tpiah01:is not a must though |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Deejavuu(f): 6:39pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
He didn't want to invite you maybe because you presence will stir up old feelings. Just saying! Still honour the invite, there's nothing there cold voice or not, take it like you wrote, "as a kind of re-union with old friends". Bring jollof rice take away 40 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by maryam6(f): 6:40pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
To me, it's okay since it is d wife's wish. Jst be urself there. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Noloss(f): 6:44pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Here to read comment 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by tpiah01: 6:48pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
woky: No, it's not. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Was the break up a hell o' a drama? Why think he'll never invite you to his wedding? If what I'm thinking is right, it's best to sit out. But if there isn't any sticky string btw ya, Go. Yeah. Don't think too much. Just honour the invitation, Daisy. Dress well and attractive also. Very important. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:00pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Aprime:I said I never thought he wouldn't, not that he'll never. There was a little drama but we both decided to be mature about it. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 7:02pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Do you have the impression that he doesn't want to have you there? 1 Like |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:05pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Mindfulness:I'm not sure, not like he doesn't want me there per se, more like, it could be a distraction. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by ronald4lif(m): 7:06pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
What's the relationship between you and the would-be wife. How did she know you to insist you grace her wedding 56 Likes |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 7:08pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
freecocoa: So what does your gut feeling tell you? Why does his wife want you there? Is she a friend? 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:09pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
ronald4lif:My dear that's the part I find shocking and confusing. I don't know his wife. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:10pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Mindfulness:I don't know her. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 7:11pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
freecocoa: You have not answered my other question. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by johnydon22(m): 7:12pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Yes i certainly would go if i was invited nicely not because his wife wants me there and definitely must go with a nice gift... 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by cococandy(f): 7:12pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
If he sounded cold, pls don't go. He hopes you won't come but is only inviting you to please his wife. And why on earth does she even want you there? 74 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:14pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Mindfulness:Oh! Well I won't lie, I have mixed feelings, I don't know if it'll be comfortable for him or even me. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by ronald4lif(m): 7:15pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
freecocoa: Then when next he brings up the issue of whether you will attend or not be reluctant to give a definite answer or say no. When he mentions that his fiancée is insisting you show up again then grill him about how did she knows about you. What has been he telling her about you and for what purpose. This you must find out and from there you would be able to arrive at a better decision, to attend or not. 16 Likes |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 7:15pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
freecocoa: Then you do not need this thread to know the answer to your question. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by lilmax(m): 7:16pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Wife wants ex to see something 47 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:18pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
cococandy:I guess I should not go, whenever I run into an old friend of ours, they always say something about he and I, my sister said maybe they've said it in her presence or something, so the lady just wants to meet me. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:21pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
Mindfulness:A part of me reaaaalllyyyy want to go, I've made my peace with the break up a long time ago but I seem to just wonder, if you know what I mean. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:24pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
ronald4lif:I doubt he'll call again, I just gave him a maybe though. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
freecocoa: If you want to go and feel comfortable with the decision, then go. |
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Favolly(f): 7:56pm On Sep 05, 2015 |
I think it's really weird that the wife wants you there. Why?? To rub it in your face that she won the 'prize'? Or is she just one of those overly-pleasant people who don't know what awkward means? Because insisting that you attend her wedding seems kinda awkward to me 50 Likes 4 Shares |
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