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Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 6:27pm On Sep 05, 2015
Here's the thing, an ex called me last week(my first boyfriend) to invite me to his wedding, the issue now is that I don't know if I should honour the invite, he said his wife insist he invites me(he didn't want to )I know he did love me and he was quite the model boyfriend then(he could pass for the types in mills$boons grin)and we have talked since the break up but I never thought he wouldn't invite me to his wedding, and now to call me to say his wife insists he invites me is kinda shocking/confusing, I always knew I would honour the invites I have the time to attend to,still I'm wondering if I should sit this one out, I partly want to go because it will be like a kind of reunion with old friends(even some who have to travel from very far for this) yet somehow, I feel like not going, he didn't sound happy to invite me, he was cold.

Would you go if you were the one?

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by tpiah01: 6:27pm On Sep 05, 2015
Yes.

didn't read your post though.

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 6:30pm On Sep 05, 2015
tpiah01:
Yes.

didn't read your post though.
Lol, Tpia please don't let coogar see this post of yours.grin

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by cold(m): 6:33pm On Sep 05, 2015
Since the break up wasn't an acrimonious one,you can go if you feel like it. No harm done.

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by woky: 6:35pm On Sep 05, 2015
Only if I'm invited.

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by mployer(m): 6:35pm On Sep 05, 2015
Yes.

I have been There before.

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Blizzyblinkzy(f): 6:36pm On Sep 05, 2015
I will go if we ended our relationship in peace.

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by woky: 6:37pm On Sep 05, 2015
tpiah01:


didn't read your post though.
is not a must though
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Deejavuu(f): 6:39pm On Sep 05, 2015
He didn't want to invite you maybe because you presence will stir up old feelings. Just saying! Still honour the invite, there's nothing there cold voice or not, take it like you wrote, "as a kind of re-union with old friends".

Bring jollof rice take away smiley

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by maryam6(f): 6:40pm On Sep 05, 2015
To me, it's okay since it is d wife's wish.


Jst be urself there.

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Noloss(f): 6:44pm On Sep 05, 2015
Here to read comment

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by tpiah01: 6:48pm On Sep 05, 2015
woky:
is not a must though

No, it's not.
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Sep 05, 2015
Was the break up a hell o' a drama?
Why think he'll never invite you to his wedding?

If what I'm thinking is right, it's best to sit out.
But if there isn't any sticky string btw ya, Go.

Yeah. Don't think too much.
Just honour the invitation, Daisy.

Dress well and attractive also. Very important.

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:00pm On Sep 05, 2015
Aprime:
Was the break up a hell o' a drama?
Why think he'll never invite you to his wedding?

If what I'm thinking is right, it's best to sit out.
But if there isn't any sticky string btw ya, Go.

Yeah. Don't think too much.
Just honour the invitation, Daisy.

Dress well and attractive also. Very important.
I said I never thought he wouldn't, not that he'll never.

There was a little drama but we both decided to be mature about it.
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 7:02pm On Sep 05, 2015
Do you have the impression that he doesn't want to have you there?

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:05pm On Sep 05, 2015
Mindfulness:
Do you have the impression that he doesn't want to have you there?
I'm not sure, not like he doesn't want me there per se, more like, it could be a distraction.

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by ronald4lif(m): 7:06pm On Sep 05, 2015
What's the relationship between you and the would-be wife. How did she know you to insist you grace her wedding

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 7:08pm On Sep 05, 2015
freecocoa:
I'm not sure, not like he doesn't want me there per se, more like, it could be a distraction.

So what does your gut feeling tell you?

Why does his wife want you there? Is she a friend?

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:09pm On Sep 05, 2015
ronald4lif:
What's the relationship between you and the would-be wife. How did she know you to insist you grace her wedding
My dear that's the part I find shocking and confusing.

I don't know his wife.
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:10pm On Sep 05, 2015
Mindfulness:


So what does your gut feeling tell you?

Why does his wife want you there? Is she a friend?
I don't know her.
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 7:11pm On Sep 05, 2015
freecocoa:
I don't know her.

You have not answered my other question.
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by johnydon22(m): 7:12pm On Sep 05, 2015
Yes i certainly would go if i was invited nicely not because his wife wants me there and definitely must go with a nice gift...

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by cococandy(f): 7:12pm On Sep 05, 2015
If he sounded cold, pls don't go. He hopes you won't come but is only inviting you to please his wife.

And why on earth does she even want you there?

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:14pm On Sep 05, 2015
Mindfulness:


You have not answered my other question.
Oh!

Well I won't lie, I have mixed feelings, I don't know if it'll be comfortable for him or even me.
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by ronald4lif(m): 7:15pm On Sep 05, 2015
freecocoa:
My dear that's the part I find shocking and confusing.

I don't know his wife.

Then when next he brings up the issue of whether you will attend or not be reluctant to give a definite answer or say no. When he mentions that his fiancée is insisting you show up again then grill him about how did she knows about you. What has been he telling her about you and for what purpose.

This you must find out and from there you would be able to arrive at a better decision, to attend or not.

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 7:15pm On Sep 05, 2015
freecocoa:
Oh!

Well I won't lie, I have mixed feelings, I don't know if it'll be comfortable for him or even me.

Then you do not need this thread to know the answer to your question. wink
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by lilmax(m): 7:16pm On Sep 05, 2015
Wife wants ex to see something cheesy

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:18pm On Sep 05, 2015
cococandy:
If he sounded cold, pls don't go. He hopes you won't come but is only inviting you to please his wife.

And why on earth does she even want you there?

I guess I should not go, whenever I run into an old friend of ours, they always say something about he and I, my sister said maybe they've said it in her presence or something, so the lady just wants to meet me.
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:21pm On Sep 05, 2015
Mindfulness:


Then you do not need this thread to know the answer to your question. wink
A part of me reaaaalllyyyy want to go, I've made my peace with the break up a long time ago but I seem to just wonder, if you know what I mean.wink
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by freecocoa(f): 7:24pm On Sep 05, 2015
ronald4lif:


Then when next he brings up the issue of whether you will attend or not be reluctant to give a definite answer or say no. When he mentions that his fiancée is insisting you show up again then grill him about how did she knows about you. What has been he telling her about you and for what purpose.

This you must find out and from there you would be able to arrive at a better decision, to attend or not.
I doubt he'll call again, I just gave him a maybe though.

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Sep 05, 2015
freecocoa:
A part of me reaaaalllyyyy want to go, I've made my peace with the break up a long time ago but I seem to just wonder, if you know what I mean.wink

If you want to go and feel comfortable with the decision, then go.
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Favolly(f): 7:56pm On Sep 05, 2015
I think it's really weird that the wife wants you there. Why??
To rub it in your face that she won the 'prize'? Or is she just one of those overly-pleasant people who don't know what awkward means? Because insisting that you attend her wedding seems kinda awkward to me

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