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Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by viktor01(m): 10:24pm On Sep 05, 2015
what....! NEVER.....my mum specifically warned me against such.
Whether you believe it or not, women are naturally domineering, it's innate in everyone of them and money is the fertilizer on which it grows.
ever wonder why your female superiors who always want to exhibit authority over the male? it runs in their DNA.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by godoluwa(m): 10:25pm On Sep 05, 2015
kstadaura:
Can you marry a lady that is more educated,richer than you?. or she is working and you are unemployed?

Is she going to be loyal in the long run?
why nt? infact ma galfriend dat we gonna wed next month is well educated, well exposed nd richer than me. she has travelled to 5different countries more than a time. wealth, exposure, academics qualification does nt make a happy home but love nd understanding does

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by SmartMugu: 10:27pm On Sep 05, 2015
oreos:

Na witchcraft o. E strong wella
Leave me alone o....Karishika.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by butanep(m): 10:27pm On Sep 05, 2015
lolababe331e:


They marry counterparts that they are equals with. No one needs control another in a healthy marriage


what do you mean by being equal?

Don't be fooled! It's either the man is in control or the woman. You can't have two captain in a ship.

If a man is not in control, he becomes a remote control...

Don't talk like someone who can be manipulated by a woman. Women craved for men that can control them. Asked you girlfriend if you have one.

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 10:28pm On Sep 05, 2015
pessu4life:

its the true. what i'm saying here is for the matured mind.
I was being sarcastic. Why don't you go and find a village woman? Mtchewww

like they go spare a thought for you sefcheesy

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by tartarus(m): 10:28pm On Sep 05, 2015
Nigerian men - over grown, low self esteemed babies! cheesy
An independent woman will always hurt a typical nigerian man's ego! Pathetic

YES and YES, I can marry a woman with those attributes, we'll build an empire together! wink

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by SmartMugu: 10:30pm On Sep 05, 2015
godoluwa:
why nt? infact ma galfriend dat we gonna wed next month is well educated, well exposed nd richer than me. she has travelled to 5different countries more than a time. wealth, exposure, academics qualification does nt make a happy home but love nd understanding does
That's great to know. There's nothing really wrong with that if she won't throw it in your face later. That's what some men dread. Goodluck on your wedding!

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by aderonila18: 10:30pm On Sep 05, 2015
tartarus:
Nigerian men - over grown, low self esteemed babies! cheesy
An independent woman will always hurt a typical nigerian man's ego! Pathetic

YES and YES, I can marry a woman with those attributes, we'll build an empire together! wink

God bless you. They have such low self esteem and all the nonsense talk of control shows you wrongly people view marriages . Control ko, control ni

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by RAO1(m): 10:31pm On Sep 05, 2015
A question to the singles
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by butanep(m): 10:33pm On Sep 05, 2015
godoluwa:
why nt? infact ma galfriend dat we gonna wed next month is well educated, well exposed nd richer than me. she has travelled to 5different countries more than a time. wealth, exposure, academics qualification does nt make a happy home but love nd understanding does


Bros don't be blinded by love... Get it into your head that she will always act in control by the time you get married to her. You can't know a woman fully until she becomes you wife. Asked your dad, if he his still alive...

Don't be blabbing here, just find a way and groomed yourself. Double your hustling potentials and never allow her to take your responsibility...

Best of luck

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Haywhymido(m): 10:33pm On Sep 05, 2015
An2elect2:



Am sorry but buhahahahhahaha

If your poor/average wife becomes wealthier in future, you going to divorce her shebi?
n in what part in the above,did i advise ur husband to divorce u if u get wealthier in future
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by An2elect2(f): 10:43pm On Sep 05, 2015
Haywhymido:
n in what part in the above,did i advise ur husband to divorce u if u get wealthier in future

nawa o.

You wont marry her if she is richer, your point. Fine. And i ask what your reaction will be if your 'lesser' wife turns out rich...richer than you tomorrow. Simple.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by just2endowed: 10:49pm On Sep 05, 2015
Educated yes, richer it depends but I will go for it
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by EmmyUch(m): 10:49pm On Sep 05, 2015
Yes....... I can
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by hensben(m): 10:50pm On Sep 05, 2015
Gaborone:



More reason why you should stick to your level. That way, you'll rest assured that no one will try and intimidate you.

#rolls eyes.
with your comment, men riding their wives as slave in their home is justifiable right.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by oshaosha2014(m): 10:50pm On Sep 05, 2015
You have to leave the wonderland and join us in the reality.
Gaborone:


SonofEl, your last post was a good read.

But then, I'm worried by your use of words: "put her in her place.. ", " humbled her"... what's all that about? And it raises a welter of questions.

Are you sure that's not the 'breaking' I was talking about earlier? Why can't a man meet a rich intelligent woman, and just flow with her, and not make any attempts to make her feel like her wealth and intelligence is something she should be apologizing for? Why cant he just hear the opposing view of his medical student of a girlfriend, without interpreting it to mean she is trying to supersede him because he read food and nutrition? W hy cant he just enjoy an intelligent discuss with her, without interpreting it to mean she is 'showing herself'. Why can't her just befriend and love her, give her a chance to let him know who she really is, before judging her as proud and insubordinate?

Why does he have to 'humble' her? What does that even mean?

Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by oshaosha2014(m): 10:51pm On Sep 05, 2015
You have to leave the wonderland and join us in the reality. You are watching too much of american films.
Gaborone:


SonofEl, your last post was a good read.

But then, I'm worried by your use of words: "put her in her place.. ", " humbled her"... what's all that about? And it raises a welter of questions.

Are you sure that's not the 'breaking' I was talking about earlier? Why can't a man meet a rich intelligent woman, and just flow with her, and not make any attempts to make her feel like her wealth and intelligence is something she should be apologizing for? Why cant he just hear the opposing view of his medical student of a girlfriend, without interpreting it to mean she is trying to supersede him because he read food and nutrition? W hy cant he just enjoy an intelligent discuss with her, without interpreting it to mean she is 'showing herself'. Why can't her just befriend and love her, give her a chance to let him know who she really is, before judging her as proud and insubordinate?

Why does he have to 'humble' her? What does that even mean?

Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Ayus34(m): 10:52pm On Sep 05, 2015
kstadaura:
Can you marry a lady that is more educated,richer than you?. or she is working and you are unemployed?

Is she going to be loyal in the long run?
of course yes....if more humble than me and submissive!
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 10:52pm On Sep 05, 2015
Why not.Guys are not attracted to a woman because of her wealth.A rich guy can date a broke girl,but the reverse is not the case.If she do anyhow yagayaga I go divorce her.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Haywhymido(m): 10:53pm On Sep 05, 2015
An2elect2:


nawa o.

You wont marry her if she is richer, you point. Fine. And i ask what your reaction will be if your 'lesser' wife turns out rich...richer tomorrow. Simple.
FIXED, same thing dat will happen when i become richer. Two growing better together is better dan one (female) to come n marry sumone she is far above. It wont end well.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 10:55pm On Sep 05, 2015
yomi007k:

Sad enuf, Love don't exist. wink
Eeyaaa, i was once there,but i have passed that level, it truely does exist cos am having the best of it now grin

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by GodblessNig247(m): 11:02pm On Sep 05, 2015
MarvellousGod:
Op, more educated or richer to me is immaterial as long as she has a good character. .... Some business men that didn't go to school marry educated working class ladies who help out when business is in crisis and they're living happily. ...

You may even become richer and more educated tomorrow. ..so??

Anyway, it depends on what each individual looks out for in a partner. ....

ope-rationalize 'good character' undecided
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by yomi007k(m): 11:02pm On Sep 05, 2015
Midehi:

Eeyaaa, i was once there,but i have passed that level, it truely does exist cos am having the best of it now grin

How long have u been on it?
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by uzo4real(m): 11:03pm On Sep 05, 2015
No big deal......as long as u take ur stand as the man. Even if she is richer or so....just take care of the home wit wateva u have and she wld respect u.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 11:05pm On Sep 05, 2015
yomi007k:

How long have u been on it?
2 yrs
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Georgioamani(m): 11:08pm On Sep 05, 2015
Of course I can. And I plan on doin so. After all, am goin 2 be d man in d relationship. I wud make sure I determine d terms in d relationship. Even if it means using force.
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by IYANGBALI: 11:08pm On Sep 05, 2015
I can't marry someone that is reacher than me or education than,because me myself I am reach and education. I tooked first class in the unifasity and I has money

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by Nobody: 11:10pm On Sep 05, 2015
kstadaura:
Can you marry a lady that is more educated,richer than you?. or she is working and you are unemployed?

Is she going to be loyal in the long run?
.

Either rich/poor

Either literate/illiterate

Either religious/atheist

Real 'love' doesn't long 4 status
I've nt lived dat long bt I can stil point 2 countless around me........
Wat u really go 4 matters alot
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by yomi007k(m): 11:11pm On Sep 05, 2015
Midehi:

2 yrs

And u think that is long enuf to confirm its existence?
Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by theplushist: 11:12pm On Sep 05, 2015
agarawu23:
good question.
She jam her luck under my roof so therefore the money will be 70/30 grin 70 for me 30 for her. After all I am still the head of the family and the family responsibility is still on me smiley if you marry your 'own' wife, she can even put the money under your care as the head

I'm sorry, How old are you?

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Re: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by hulega(m): 11:19pm On Sep 05, 2015
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