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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Appareil(m): 12:58am On Sep 06, 2015
Mastubation is a sin.
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Emeskhalifa(m): 12:59am On Sep 06, 2015
Spybradd:
masturbation is a deadly sin,it all about getting organism in a way NOT ORDAINED BY GOD..ITS WISDOM OF THE DEVIL AND WHAT IS DERIVED IS NOTHING BUT DEMONIC PLEASURE..

IT KILLS,IT DESTROYS ONES DESTINY,IT BESETS,ITS LITTLE FOXES THAT DESTROYS THE VINE,IT OPENS DOORS TO DEMONS AND WATER SPIRITS,IT IS SEX WITH DEMONS,IT BRINGS BAD DREAMS AND BAD LUCK, IT DEFILES THE BODY AND SPIRIT AND MAKES ONE A HAVEN FOR DEMONS,......IT SEPARATES ONE FROM GOD AND THE HOLY SPIRIT,....BE WARNED..
and the end......it's still.better than for wan to commit adultery so take a chill pill

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 1:02am On Sep 06, 2015
Chizzled06:
Keep your decision on bedroom issues between you and your spouse. Sex is not the beginning and end of a relationship but it is vital. Talk about the situation and lay out your impressions and worries to your significant other. Whatever resolution you both arrive at, trust me your clear conscience while you're at it will assure you that you're sinning against no man or God.

Not every clear conscience is pure.

An assassin's conscience is clear to himself but not pure.


Titus 1:15 Unto the pure all things are pure: but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and conscience is defiled.

Follow the Bible to the letter!
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Chizzled06(m): 1:03am On Sep 06, 2015
GlorifiedTunde:


Who is ignorant? I who read and know my Bible or you?

Which is the first marriage in the Bible?

Why did God not make more than one for Adam?

Why didn't God get two women from.his ribs?

God didn't know.better abi?

The polygamy era was the old testament - the era of the LAW!

There were too many things wrong with the Law. And that's why Jesus came - Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law ...

And who says Jesus did not speak on marriage

Ignorance is trully bliss


So the old testament is wrong? All of it? Or just the part about polygamy being okay? I thought the whole bible was God's written word?
Jesus said: "Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law (the Old Testament) or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.  I tell you the truth, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke or a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law (the Old Testament) until everything is accomplished.  (Matthew 5:17-18)"
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Emeskhalifa(m): 1:04am On Sep 06, 2015
GlorifiedTunde:


Who is ignorant? I who read and know my Bible or you?

Which is the first marriage in the Bible?

Why did God not make more than one for Adam?

Why didn't God get two women from.his ribs?

God didn't know.better abi?

The polygamy era was the old testament - the era of the LAW!

There were too many things wrong with the Law. And that's why Jesus came - Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law ...

And who says Jesus did not speak on marriage

Ignorance is trully bliss
pardon my interfrnce..... the LAW ur tokin bou, r u refferin to Torah??
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 1:05am On Sep 06, 2015
Chizzled06:



So the old testament is wrong? All of it? Or just the part about polygamy being okay? I thought the whole bible was God's written word?
Jesus said: "Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law (the Old Testament) or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.  I tell you the truth, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke or a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law (the Old Testament) until everything is accomplished.  (Matthew 5:17-18)"



Oya! Then which law of Moses says you can have more than a wife?

By fulfill, Jesus meant right the wrongs.

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Chizzled06(m): 1:06am On Sep 06, 2015
GlorifiedTunde:


Who is ignorant? I who read and know my Bible or you?

Which is the first marriage in the Bible?

Why did God not make more than one for Adam?

Why didn't God get two women from.his ribs?

God didn't know.better abi?

The polygamy era was the old testament - the era of the LAW!

There were too many things wrong with the Law. And that's why Jesus came - Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law ...

And who says Jesus did not speak on marriage

Ignorance is trully bliss

Lomg story short, the bible is a storybook. Fictional work. If you were curious enough, you'll realize that by now
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Chizzled06(m): 1:08am On Sep 06, 2015
GlorifiedTunde:


Not every clear conscience is pure.

An assassin's conscience is clear to himself but not pure.


Titus 1:15 Unto the pure all things are pure: but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and conscience is defiled.

Follow the Bible to the letter!



Following that fictional book to the letter will lead you nowhere. If choose to live your life by the words of one book, the least you can do is first find out where it came from

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Emeskhalifa(m): 1:08am On Sep 06, 2015
Chizzled06:



So the old testament is wrong? All of it? Or just the part about polygamy being okay? I thought the whole bible was God's written word?
Jesus said: "Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law (the Old Testament) or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.  I tell you the truth, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke or a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law (the Old Testament) until everything is accomplished.  (Matthew 5:17-18)"


ur blessed. was gonna ask him The old testament is wrong?
but am happy u did
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 1:09am On Sep 06, 2015
Chizzled06:


Lomg story short, the bible is a storybook. Fictional work. If you were curious enough, you'll realize that by now

Oh! Now I get!

I picked the wrong person to reason with. Ciao!

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Fearcom(m): 1:09am On Sep 06, 2015

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by omoikea(m): 1:10am On Sep 06, 2015
there are always two sides to everything ...the truth i want to tell you is that people's opinions doesn't really count when it comes to your life. it's only you that can live your life... forget all those comments that tries to judge you, they are mere religious views, IF YOU ARE COMFORTABLE WITH IT, THEN DO IT! ...TO THE FULLEST I MEAN WITHOUT ANY GUILT.

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Chizzled06(m): 1:10am On Sep 06, 2015
GlorifiedTunde:


Oh! Now I get!

I picked the wrong person to reason with. Ciao!

Lol if you could actually "reason", maybe you might not choose to live your life by the words of prehistoric herdsmen
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 1:11am On Sep 06, 2015
Emeskhalifa:

ur blessed. was gonna ask him The old testament is wrong?
but am happy u did

Didn't say it was wrong, but there are lots of corrections Jesus came to make ...

For instance... "An eye for an eye"

more...

Matthew 5:21 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not kill; and whosoever shall kill shall be in danger of the judgment: 5:22 But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council: but whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire.



Matthew 5:27 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: 5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by GlorifiedTunde(m): 1:13am On Sep 06, 2015
Chizzled06:


Lol if you could actually "reason", maybe you might not choose to live your life by the words of prehistoric herdsmen

Ok.

My ways are not your ways man.

I decide how I reason.

Good luck to you! wink

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Chizzled06(m): 1:14am On Sep 06, 2015
GlorifiedTunde:


Ok.

My ways are not your ways man.

I decide how I reason.

Good luck to you! wink

Your ways are not your ways either. You are living someone else's made up fantasy
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by dapsonlou(m): 1:17am On Sep 06, 2015
ExtraUniqueGuy:
your body is a holy temple to your God

Trust me God have better things to do than worry about your Orgasm. Don't commit adultery , Masturbation is not Included. I

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by dapsonlou(m): 1:22am On Sep 06, 2015
Fearcom:
"Flee youthful lusts" 2 Tim 2:22, "Flee fornication" 1 Cor 6:18
In continuation,
5. Sex is good, but biblically speaking, the ONLY relationship God endorses sexual pleasures is in a marriage relationship, 6. People make s.tupid decisions that they later live to regret. Your marriage will suffer strain if you and your spouse are far apart for a considerable period of time.7. People that have kept themselves when they were still single and remained pure have a high percentage of remaining faithful should their marriage suffer crisis I.e husband getting sick, having an accident or other issues like traveling for a brief period(not extended) 8. When a husband and wife are apart from each other for long 2-3 years, Satan will work on you both with rigorous temptation and he will keep at it until one of you slips up: and He has the advantage because he's been here for thousands of years and because both of you foolishly made the choice to put your marriage in serious jeopardy.

So she Should not Masturbate if her husband is away for 2years. You yourself can't last 6months
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by DedeNkem: 1:24am On Sep 06, 2015
emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)

Cut the "sin" crap. Every woman should masturbate for the following reasons;

1. It can help relieve menstrual cramps in women.
2. It can help you sleep.
3. It can help improve your body image.
4. Which means women who masturbate also experience an overall higher self-esteem.
5. It can improve the muscle tone in the pelvic area, which can help reduce involuntary urinal leakage in women.
6. It can greatly help reduce stress.
7. You don’t have a chance of contracting an STD through masturbation.
8. It helps flush out bad bacteria in your pelvic area.
9. Masturbating can also help strengthen your overall immune system.
10. It may go without saying, but women who masturbate regularly have reported a general feeling of overall happiness.
11. There are virtually zero health risks associated with masturbation.
12. Regular masturbation will expand your ability to climax more often!
13. If you're in a relationship, it's a great way to mix things up - and keep you coming back for more.
14. Multiple. Orgasms. Understanding how your body works helps you know exactly how to pleasure it.
15. It feels f*ucking amazing!

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Fearcom(m): 1:29am On Sep 06, 2015
dapsonlou:


So she Should not Masturbate if her husband is away for 2years. You yourself can't last 6months

Read the post again: Why should husband and wife be apart from each other for two years
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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by 812clothings(m): 2:43am On Sep 06, 2015
arusoncd:
A bat and ball cost a dollar and 10 cents. The bat costs a dollar more than the ball. How much does the ball cost?
5 cents and why did you divert the topic?
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by 812clothings(m): 2:43am On Sep 06, 2015
arusoncd:
A bat and ball cost a dollar and 10 cents. The bat costs a dollar more than the ball. How much does the ball cost?
5 cents and why did you divert the topic?
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by 812clothings(m): 2:48am On Sep 06, 2015
Spybradd:
masturbation is a deadly sin,it all about getting organism in a way NOT ORDAINED BY GOD..ITS WISDOM OF THE DEVIL AND WHAT IS DERIVED IS NOTHING BUT DEMONIC PLEASURE..

IT KILLS,IT DESTROYS ONES DESTINY,IT BESETS,ITS LITTLE FOXES THAT DESTROYS THE VINE,IT OPENS DOORS TO DEMONS AND WATER SPIRITS,IT IS SEX WITH DEMONS,IT BRINGS BAD DREAMS AND BAD LUCK, IT DEFILES THE BODY AND SPIRIT AND MAKES ONE A HAVEN FOR DEMONS,......IT SEPARATES ONE FROM GOD AND THE HOLY SPIRIT,....BE WARNED..
had this be known....,no regret,GOD is in control and will restore lost glory.
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by 812clothings(m): 3:04am On Sep 06, 2015
Chizzled06:


Your ways are not your ways either. You are living someone else's made up fantasy
at least,every human has choice(s)/decision(s) to make which in turn makes them.
Kindly spare him to preach the gospel here.
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Arijosh(m): 3:09am On Sep 06, 2015
raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be sad sad

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period tongue).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome wink
Guess you see masturbation as harmless way to relieve sexual tension and stress, or something in between. Sexuality is designed for relationship. Masturbation, in contrast, most often isolates and drives a person away from real relating, guess you think it helps you fight the
loneliness of not being in a relationship,or it's about sexual curiosity?You heard or
saw something that made you curious, so you
experimented with your body.You experienced touch during play with friends that made you curious, or you have been abused or masturbate to
rekindle the feeling of being wanted by a man? Dear, pull the mask and come out of this uncleanliness, low self esteem, addiction,lust .....Yes your first experiment soon became a
habit. You liked how you felt for the first few
minutes afterwards,I guess you feel extremely
guilty. Flee from it....."Flee from sexual immorality" (1 Corinthians 6:18,
NIV).
In order to "flee," get away things that brings that thinking and run to God to help you.... He will.."God doesn't expect you to focus on
your failures, Instead, God wants you to
ask for forgiveness and then look to him for help."masturbation is an the empty imitations of love that you may think
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by bbdd: 3:17am On Sep 06, 2015
emusmith:

Sub- Topic :How do married women whose husbands are in diaspora cope sexually?

Having heard how some women lament how their husbands have been in diaspora for years, I feel compassion for them and to think that they are not better than widows beat my imagination.

The average married women rather die than cheat especially if she is Christian and wouldn't give in to adultery.

This is quite logical, spiritual and emotional. Is there an exception to them?

What do you think? (Mature Contributions)

Why are you specific about women whose husbands are in the diaspora.
There are lots of other instances. Diaspora seems far fetched to me.


Anyway to answer your question, this is a problem for long distance couples. It's a fact. I chatted with a white girl recently and I asked her if she masturbates and she said " who doesn't".
To all those quoting Bible. We have seen your Bible verses, we don't follow you to your bedroom so save your sermons. Na una dey nack pass sef. grin

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Chizzled06(m): 3:29am On Sep 06, 2015
812clothings:
at least,every human has choice(s)/decision(s) to make which in turn makes them.
Kindly spare him to preach the gospel here.

This my Gospel. I think organised religion does more harm than good for humanity.
The atrocities perpetrated worldwide in the name of your Gods are unspeakable. I grew up bombarded with the propaganda of indoctrination but with my level of curiosity, it was only a matter of time before I broke free.
I accept that some people require the aspect of spirituality to make sense of life, but I think religion should be personal at best.
Advertising hypocrisy and quoting of fictional books to dictate how others live their lives, I can't tolerate.
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by emmanuel596(m): 3:44am On Sep 06, 2015
menesheh:
There is nothing sinful there. Just do it yourself.
Don't shit is a sin pls don't lead people astray
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by flaminReed: 4:12am On Sep 06, 2015
Every argument is marvelously resolved in the Holy Writ.. Paul stated clearly, 'defraud not one another except it be with consent for a time, in order to fast and pray, THAT SATAN TEMPT YOU NOT FOR YOUR INCONTINENCE'.. Our relationship with God suffers shipwreck when the prime purpose of our salvation in Jesus Christ our Lord is neglected.. The question is, who do you want to please? God, self, the society, Satan or your spouse? If we please God then our Christian profession makes sense. We can't serve God and mammon.. No man can serve two masters.. If you really love God and want to get to heaven, a question as self-servicing shouldn't arise.. The Bible says, ' the man has no power over his own body, but the woman, and vice versa'. We're not permitted to rouse ourselves or give ourselves sexual pleasure in any way, even though the urge comes naturally. Self-servicing is a kind of uncleanness that transgresses God's natural order.. You could be a fool by shunning God completely to live as weirdly as you possibly can.. But if God is your chief priority, you'll not offend him on one hand and you'll try and obey Him on the other. To believers in Jesus, abstain from uncleanness; and ensure your spouses are within physical reach all the time
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by onunwa21(m): 4:36am On Sep 06, 2015
Read matt 5 vs 28
Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 4:42am On Sep 06, 2015
OP, I pray you get saved from the black man mentality. So you need a white man's Bible to judge whether mastu.rbation is a sin or not?

You are a slave.

Nothing wrong in mast.urbation, but too much of it is not good.

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