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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 10:37pm On Sep 05, 2015

IYANGBALI:
go drink alomo

lol

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by nonjebose(m): 10:39pm On Sep 05, 2015

Can we get scriptures that says masturbation in couples is a sin. Op said couples. So how is it a sin

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by cbrass(m): 10:40pm On Sep 05, 2015

Ilekeh:
Why are Nigerians so backwards like this?

Kilo ti e de gan? Ta ni a se? Ta lo n binu si wa?

Anyway, where in your bible did God mention "self-service"? Who told you Jesus didn't jerk off when Jazabel denied him Mouth Gig?

Are you a Christian? undecided

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by raayah(f): 10:40pm On Sep 05, 2015

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by dust88: 10:40pm On Sep 05, 2015

Abeg wetin be masturbation ? I no go school !

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by godson99(m): 10:41pm On Sep 05, 2015

raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

The bible does not condemn or approve of masturbation.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period ). I commend u for bin real about how u feel..
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by driy65(m): 10:41pm On Sep 05, 2015

Ilekeh:
Why are Nigerians so backwards like this?

Kilo ti e de gan? Ta ni a se? Ta lo n binu si wa?

Anyway, where in your bible did God mention "self-service"? Who told you Jesus didn't jerk off when Jazabel denied him Mouth Gig?

guy u are cursed**spits**

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by godson99(m): 10:42pm On Sep 05, 2015

I commend u for bin real..

raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

The bible does not condemn or approve of masturbation.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period ).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by cbrass(m): 10:43pm On Sep 05, 2015

rallymento:
Masturbation damages the sexual organs, why damage ur body....

Its a lie pls. Because you don't people to do something doesn't give you the reason to tell lies

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by teemy(m): 10:44pm On Sep 05, 2015

lastly, the only self evaluation christ gave was that anyone that lusts after a woman is no different from actually having sex with her. if your desired is your spouse everything goes. everyone masturbates during sex. don't burden the married.

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Symdy(m): 10:44pm On Sep 05, 2015

Let me ask my neighbour whose hubby leaves in South Africa how she is managing

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by nonjebose(m): 10:45pm On Sep 05, 2015

sparkleice:
Tho s a sin bt s bettr do it dan to cheat on ur hubby.anythng dat mks u happy pls do it bt nt to cheat.

I don't believe it is a sin for married couples. Reasons abound

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by edward1106(m): 10:47pm On Sep 05, 2015

lust btw a couple aint no sin. self service(a product of unsatisfied lust in d case of a normal couple) is nt a sin as d lust is still channelled btw both. lets b frank here, there is jst two people here in ds scenerio with a ring to show lawfulness. A lust outsyd of ds bond is adultery so d bible says. I belive it aint a sin but subject to acceptance by d couple. I av heard cases of men n women stimulatin themselves right on front of their partners for rigid erection n increased arousal respetively. is dat nt self service as wel? Acceptance of self service btw couple shd b the discussion not sin. compare self service for a couple as a mins to satisfy sexual urge to usin ones hands instead of spoon to eat rice. if d concerned parties okay it, den its no big deal

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by viktor01(m): 10:48pm On Sep 05, 2015

Instead of fornication, self service. instead of adultery, fornicate. instead of bestiality and incense, commit adultery and instead of homosexuality and lesbianism, commit bestiality and incense.

Conclusion: Sin is Sin and self servicing is a sin just as homosexuality is a sin.

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 10:49pm On Sep 05, 2015

Symdy:
Let me ask my neighbour whose hubby leaves in South Africa how she is managing

Good example. Pls do

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Tjayjosh(m): 10:49pm On Sep 05, 2015

“Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body” ( 1 Corinthians 6:19-20). This great truth should have a real bearing on what we do with our bodies. In light of these principles, the conclusion that masturbation is a sin is biblical. Clearly, masturbation is not glorifying to God; it does not avoid the appearance of immorality, nor does it pass the test of God’s having ownership over our bodies.

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by handsomeyitayo(m): 10:51pm On Sep 05, 2015

raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

The bible does not condemn or approve of masturbation.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period ).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome

Nah so d thn dey be ?

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by raayah(f): 10:52pm On Sep 05, 2015

handsomeyitayo:
Nah so d thn dey be ?

im very sleepy

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by nonjebose(m): 10:52pm On Sep 05, 2015

teemy:
lastly, the only self evaluation christ gave was that anyone that lusts after a woman is no different from actually having sex with her. if your desired is your spouse everything goes. everyone masturbates during sex. don't burden the married.

Well said. The image created in d mind is what matters. It is a sin for d single for d reason of lusting after a woman they are not married to.

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by saint2ace(m): 10:52pm On Sep 05, 2015

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emusmith:

Thanks for seeing. I used to have a friend who's married. She told me her hubby has been in US for 3 straight years... I was like...how?

Exactly, how's she supposed to cope?? Especially in a time and age that ur financial abilities are as important as ur next pair of clean boxers.

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Nobody: 10:53pm On Sep 05, 2015

Tjayjosh:

“Do you not know that your body
is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who
is in you, whom you have
received from God? You are not
your own; you were bought at a
price. Therefore honor God with
your body” ( 1 Corinthians
6:19-20). This great truth should
have a real bearing on what we
do with our bodies. In light of
these principles, the conclusion
that masturbation is a sin is
biblical. Clearly, masturbation is
not glorifying to God; it does not
avoid the appearance of
immorality, nor does it pass the
test of God’s having ownership
over our bodies.

Don't you think we know that?

Nowz place yourself as a married women whose husband travelled to Yankey for 3 years. How would you cope? I'm not supporting anyone.

Quite the scripture again.

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by blessedly(f): 10:55pm On Sep 05, 2015

one true facts that I know about masturbation is that it can desensitize it's victims especially when addicted. the urge to always do it for oneself might be inevitable hence creating insatisfaction from the partner. I don't know what makes it a sin. it is far better than fornication/adultery. come to think of it; if your partner romanced you deeply and you got your fun and in the absence of your partner, you did it for yourself and still get satisfied.... what's the difference?
the help or the helper?

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by Mobebi(m): 10:55pm On Sep 05, 2015

raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

The bible does not condemn or approve of masturbation.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period ).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome

love your honesty. Personally, I don't see the wrong thing when people masturbate...

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by handsomeyitayo(m): 10:55pm On Sep 05, 2015

raayah:

im very sleepy

why do u do such thng? dnt u collect joystick ?

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by raayah(f): 10:56pm On Sep 05, 2015

handsomeyitayo:
why do u do such thng? dnt u collect joystick ?

No ...

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by GodblessNig247(m): 10:57pm On Sep 05, 2015

janefrancisca:
Self service is a sin, whether is committed by either the single folks or the married ones. The Bible teaches us in 1 Cor 10 vs 31 that to, whatever we do, be it eating or drinking , we should do it all for the glory of God”. If you cannot give God glory for something, you should not do it. If a person is not fully convinced that an activity is pleasing to God, then it is a sin: “Everything that does not come from faith is sin” (Romans 14:23). Further more, let us remember that our bodies have been redeemed and belong to God. “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body” (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). This great truth should have a real bearing on what we do with our bodies. In light of these principles, the conclusion that masturbation is a sin is biblical. Clearly, masturbation is not glorifying to God; it does not avoid the appearance of immorality, nor does it pass the test of God’s having ownership over our bodies. So endure the KONJI, you can. It is a matter of discipline.

what abt if that person's husband becomes impotent and can not have sex with her husband. Do u prefer she divorces her husband? u know thats not biblical or you prefer she cheats on her husband? In that kind of precarious situation what do u expect the 23years old christian to do? Pls just be objective and dispassionate in ur reply. Thank u pastor

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Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 10:58pm On Sep 05, 2015

raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

The bible does not condemn or approve of masturbation.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period ).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome

You? Masturbate? With all your fineness! You can mise o!! shocked

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by teemy(m): 10:58pm On Sep 05, 2015

@tjayjoy i beg to differ on your conclusion with that scripture. sex itself is dirty business. have we not wondered why God made them naked in the garden and said it was good. man's greatest desires of food and intimacy was made available to them

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by raayah(f): 10:59pm On Sep 05, 2015

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

You? Masturbate? With all your fineness! You can mise o!!

Lol... im ashamed of myself

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by danduj(m): 10:59pm On Sep 05, 2015

am only here to read comments

Re: Is Self Servicing A "SIN" For A Couple Whose Partner Is Hardly Around? by danduj(m): 11:01pm On Sep 05, 2015

raayah:
It depends on your relationship, if your partner is comfortable with it, go for it.

The bible does not condemn or approve of masturbation.

For all of you metioning me... Guess what, I MASTURBATE and I dont give two flying pigs.

Let me be

For the ladies.. Lie down on your bed tonight and spread those legs (sorry if you are on your period ).
Use your fingers to find the spot.. (once you find it u will know).
Now stroke it in circular motions..
Keep going, it feels like you want to pee, just keep going.
You will get to that sweet sweet land....

You're welcome

r u kidding me??which do u prefer??

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