permsec:
Thats tales by moonlight from the sister. she is just claiming not to know that you and the bro has pathed ways and u fell for it! Chai women sha!

permsec:
Judging by ur post i must say u still like him op(atleast an iota). I've been there before and believe me u'll end up regreting ur action if u eventually go.

All the wife-to-be want is just to acess u physically et al and run comparisms btw herself and U cos she must have heard alot about you from ur ex and his friends and family.

Again she wants to tests her hubby's countenance towards u that very day. things like eye contact, seductive smiles and all oda yeye tins.

Make urself very occupied on the wedding day with whateva that gives u happiness......

As for me i let byegones be byegones. life anagaga!

freecocoa:
Na wa o, I already decided not to go sha, I just was taken aback by the manner of invite.

It's not even like I didn't apologise for breaking his heart(his words), though he kept trying for us to get back together but it just wasn't for me again, if he's still bearing grudge na him sabi.

Davijunson:


Wait are you the only Ex that is Invited or is he Inviting all his Ex becos i'm pretty sure you were not the only Ex he's eva had.

freecocoa:
him sister sef call me dey tell me say so finally no be me him marry, say she still dey find am hard to believe .

permsec:
This is what prompted my argument. Isnt the sister among the wedding planners? Isnt she aware of who the bro is getin married to long ago? why the unecessary eyeservice? I neva said any oda thing as regards to the brain part u mentioned. Or maybe am misunderstandin the whole sister role here!

freecocoa:
She was just trying to say that, she knew how much in love we were and how he took me, not that she didn't know we were no longer together, she's not resident in Nigeria, hasn't been for a long time and she's not back yet.

She and I used to be very good friends back then, guess she was just talking like a friend would.

My bad on the brain comment, you know how many guys always say women have fish brain, I thought that was what you were referring to.

permsec:
Now i get the picture! Btw op, Ur blood dey hot oooo! seems u are a very hot-tempered person. lol. take am easy ooo. i like ur dp anyway

cococandy:
If he sounded cold, pls don't go. He hopes you won't come but is only inviting you to please his wife.

And why on earth does she even want you there?

freecocoa:
How am I to know who and who he is inviting?

nairamaniac:


heeyyyy youuu. cococandy! goshhh I missed u.
u are soooo lost&found. I'm quoting on this thread cos of you. your moniker rung a bell, I opened ur profile and saw it was you.
how can I miss this cute-Tyra-Banks fore-head of yours.


Remember me? The smooth-talker-stalker. The one u promised your twin.
I took you very seriously. having one of you Doppelganger WD be a blessing, even as a friend(@least).
Is she as interesting&enlightened as u. I doubt that. let me guess, she's the Elena BTW u both, while you are the Katherine.

Let me shed some light on the op's post.

Dear O.P,
I advice you not to honour the invitation. Use your head. The bride needs your presence to massage her ego. Your ex(her fiance) and his relatives have sed nice things bout you. she needs you around as a point of reference to show invited quest the strong rivals/contestants that she defeated to win the groom.
if her motive was sincere she WD HV stretched her arm of friendship to you off-camera, not on the floor of her ocassion whereby she's the star of the movie.

She's not a very nice person.
That's not very considerate of her. A nice bride shd empathise more with her groom's ex'es. Not mock them or make them a yardstick of case-study.
if you wanna go, don't go alone. rent-a-date. u can pick up a denzel or Boris kodjo for that day. someone hotter than both the bride&groom, put 2geda.
Don't even stay long. make them both look stupid. like its his loss, that he lost you.

I for one(as a guy), have never honoured invitation to any of my ex'es wedding, cos the day belongs to her groom and not me. I find it selfish&insensitive.


Cc: freecocoa

cococandy:
Lol. Hi you too. How are you?

nairamaniac:

I'm fine o. This post and entire Nairaland can't contain us if we start on this thread. it WD take more than seun to drive me out of here.
how's our Oga(ur Husband)? hop kool.
but u no try at all o. u just 4get me since last time we crossed parts down here.

what's ur take As per my opinion/suggestion to the o.p?

freecocoa:
Yea, not going is already the only option, I'm only ever nice to him considering he was absolutely loving/I was the one that ended things, so I have that part covered.

I'm single and still not sure about marriage yet, plus I don't do misogynists.

cococandy:

Oga is fine. We are all fine. Thanks for asking.

Per your opinion, Yea I think she shouldn't go too.

permsec:
Lmao! we call them PAST yet they rule the present and possibly the future.
Any small misunderstanding with the newly wedded couple, they'll use op as the crux of their wahala.

Then the hubby's body language will be stronger than that of PMB. Use ur head madam!

Ilekeh:
He's just beinga n idiot by claiming that his fiancee insisted you come. Wetin concern his fiancee with you.

He wants you there.

Ok, maybeh is fiancee wants you there to confirm that he doesn't love you anymore. I doubt she's trying to make you jealous.

But it's insulting to implyt hat the only reason he's inviting you is because of her.

Truckpusher:
My friend you need to enroll for anger management class asap.

If by next week you don't show me your certificate for a successful completion of that course I will personally send you to Guantanamo bay on 5 weeks probation.

Truckpusher:
Aha! oya come advice ya sister before she go break plate for another woman wedding.

Ilekeh:


When did we become friends? egbami o. Kila gbe kile ju?

Truckpusher: