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na wa o....all dese to get a girl I must b a lucky guy den, even rejecting offers frm some of em

so u want every girl u ask out to say yes? lol Dats not possible my dear cus one man's meat is another man's poison wen a girl likes u for whom u are den u don't have to stress Urself too much b4 she accept u but except she dont

Nonsense

With guyz like the op,girls go dey feel pompous on guyz.You no even write books on wealth creation,rather na how to woo a girl you like.Abi,no be wealth dey bring bitches?

Big boys don't woo girls dia money dey do d wooing. Jst double cross her with a clean mob and see how she will b wooing u like pikin dey find mama brest.

N1one:
Tales by moonlight..
Go and make money and all girls will be yours..

easy

Abi oo? Even Mr Charles wants to make Money, all these Long stories na to sell ebook.

CharlesNneji1:
Hey bro…


You are special, you know it. You are a blessing to women, and you know it.


So how dare a girl reject you? How dare her say she doesn’t feel anything for you?

Now, stay with me.

The biggest problem most Nigerian guys face in their love life is when they walk up to a girl, tell the girl how they feel about her and the girl out rightly rejects him. It is painful.


As in, the girl looks you in the face and tells you that she can’t date you. That she doesn’t feel anything for you. Sometimes the polite ones would lie to you that they have a boyfriend, just to put you off.


The wicked ones will give you hope then allow you to spend on her and her friends before calling you up one day to tell you she can’t continue with you.


In Fact; there is one sentence a girl uses when she wants to play hard to get and that sentence is: “I will think about it”. When a girl gives you that line, her hard to get mode is on.


You tell her how you like her and how you would want to date her and, bam, she tells you she will think about it. Then the next thing she does is to start avoiding you.


If you’ve experienced this in the past or is going through it now, I’m about to show you, right away, what causes a girl to play hard to get and how you can avoid it and make sure a girl finds you irrestible.

Let’s take it one by one:

THE MAJOR REASON WHY A GIRL WILL PLAY HARD TO GET

See, I want you to really really understand what I’m about to show you. So I will show you an illustration. Just to make it clear to you.
Stay with me, this is important.

Now, imagine you are interested in buying a land from a man.

So you walk up to the man and say: “Hey, I like that land your are selling. You are selling it for 2 million naira. I have 3 million naira for the land but I will try and get you to sell it to me for 1.5 million naira”

What do you think would happen? Think about it.

Very simple, you will never get that land at 1.5 million naira. In Fact; the man would probably increase the price.

Why?


Because he already knows what you are thinking.


Now. Case two; Let us assume it happens the other way round, you walk up to the same man and you don’t tell him how much you have; you just start negotiating the price to beat it down to 1.5 million naira


Consider the two cases and you will agree with me that the chances of getting that land at the price you want is higher in the second case


HOW DOES THIS APPLY TO THAT GIRL WHO IS PLAYING HARD TO GET FOR YOU?

If you are smart then you already get it. But I will explain.

Stay with me.

When you meet a girl, she doesn’t know zip about you. She doesn’t know you, she doesn’t feel anything for you. Somehow, some really “jonsing” guys feel that the best way to get the girl to like them is to just tell them how they feel and ask them to date him. Hoping that, somehow somehow, the girl will feel the same way…

…Just because he told her how he feels about her.

Just think about it, does it make sense?

It is like showing the games and cards you have to an opponent when playing Whot (bridge). It is dangerous to the outcome of your game.

Why?

Because girls are trained to play hard to get, they are trained to never give in to a guy easily. If they give in easily to you they will feel cheap. So when she knows you are interested in her, she will shut down and lock up her feelings for you – it is a natural reaction. Then the shakara will start. Then she tells you she will “think about it”, so you can put more effort.


When this shakara starts, the natural reaction is for the guy to start chasing the girl. To try to get the girl to like him by all means…
And that is where the mistake starts;

You start trying hard to impress the girl. I mean, that is the same thing you see in the movies, right. Movies seem to paint that girls fall for guys who worship them and go crazy about them.


So you go crazy about her, you show her how bad you love her by Buying her things, calling her up regularly, always telling her you love her (even though she never says she likes you, talk more of loving you), you keep asking her weather she loves you, you keep asking her why she
doesn’t love you, you almost beg her to return the feeling you have for her.


I[b] WILL GIVE YOU ONE SECRET:[/b]

All these things will kill every single chance you have with that girl. Just think back to everybody who has ever tried hard to impress you, as in, really hard to impress you – chances are that, although you liked the attention, you never took that person as an equal.

A girl you do all those things to will never take you as an equal. You have to approach a girl like she is your equal and not a goddess to be worshipped.

A girl will never feel attracted to a guy she has absolute control over. A girl wants a man. Someone who is in charge of the relationship. A girl doesn’t want a worshipper – she wants a real man and not a guy who allows her take charge of the relationship


I will also tell you another secret; telling a girl that you like her before she feels anything for you RARELY works. It is the main reason most girls have been turning you down. You are showing her what you think before she gets to think the same thing.
I know what you are thinking.


You are wondering how you can get a girl to like you when you don’t make your intention known to her, right?

THE RIGHT WAY TO WOO A GIRL

The right way to woo a girl, funny enough, always stare right at us when we watch American movies. A guy and a girl meet, they get to know themselves – they kiss, then before the “I love you” talk.
Understand the process.


The correct step is; meet a girl, make her fall for you first before you show her that you are interested in her. A girl will find it harder to reject a guy she already likes than a girl she doesn’t like already. if you show her you are interested first before making her fall for you then you are making a big mistake.


So how can you get a girl to fall for you, how can you get her to feel some form of interest in you?; it is super easy (trust me) – you can achieve this by reading all my articles here on Nairaland and using the strategies in them (just click my username to see a list of my articles) – I exposed some powerful secrets in most of them. You can also read some more articles on my website (see my profile for the address of the website).


If you want more advanced secrets that you can use to get a girl crazy about you, I compiled and packed them all in my eBook, The Bang Rule. In it I explained the easy to use effective secrets that most players you know use to effortlessly get the girls they like to like them back (see my profile for numbers to contact to get it now)


To be continued....

nice points OP, but you risk losing her to another smarter dude if you dont tell her abt ur feelings on time. So how do u strike a balance?

Topman0001:
I think i'm posessed. I just woo girls anyhow and none has ever turned me down and i'm sure it will never happen.

Go and woo Genevieve Nnaji. I heard she is still single.


You Can also try Linda Ikeji on your way back.

Op God will reward u of ur wickedness to mankind,so after I read all the long letter thinking u will write d solution at d end. God is watching u,keep it up.

Sharp212:
In summary, always apply wisdom

; D , , your signature is very funny, i swear. Thank you for cracking me up tonite

chai i pity guys that listen to this charles, you can apply some bt not all, cux applying all makes you weird and unattractive

jazinogold:
so upon all d long story no solution!



this is d reason y students fail exam. there book go full but no relevant answer!

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If I had my way , I'll give you straight 200likes

bang rule?

I have a better tip .....

Atlantian:
Story. Not in today's world. Once you hold serious bar, buy yourself a G65AMG and park the latest of Bentley in the garage every girl gets wet before you even say " Will you be one of my many girlfriends".

Haha, You get the Drift.

Can you see the multitude viewing this thread Oluwa oooo... If you like read the complete new edition of e bang rule, Que Sera Sera, if she is not for you, your waterloo will be wider than Mississippi.

All na wash...av wat it takes to be a man, all oda goodies follow wit ease

dryakson:
After reading you "bang Rules" and the "advanced Bang Rules" girls CAN'T play hard to get I swear. I use to manipulate there mind to the extent that a frnd of my accused me of using charm.. Lol.
Never regret purchasing your ebook wallahi.
Am now girls Magnet

Hmm..#looks at him suspiciously #

How much?

LatestTrend:
Be yourself !!

Be of good character !!

Pursue your dreams !!

You gonna meet each other along the line !!

True Word.

It won't help me, I have done all to have MISSNORA but she thinks am a playboy and I love her so much....

classicB:
.this is one of the most silly post have read here so far, lemme assume that the OP isn't yet a man, cos if you're then u wouldn't come up with this kinda trash u call a post.

are you trying to say a girl u woo cannot say no and mean it?? what makes you think she is forming hard to get when she doesn't have you in mind at all.??
I have a guy that as been asking me out for over 2years now and i have told him NO from the onset but he kept persisting simply because he has a fish brain like the OP , he must be thinking am forming hard to get.
if we don't love you then we don't!!!! you can't force your love on us and if u insist we agree for you then welcome to the friendzone arena, and pls remember not to complain about being friendzoned afterwards
tnks

And you will be killing yourself on top a guy that doesn't give a derm about u also. Smh

Doctor or women afairs

Clinton594:
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If I had my way , I'll give you straight 200likes

bros na lie I talk? I balance read d story carry jotter wan jot point Wey I go use go track tracy 2mao! was disappointed seeing click here for d tip!

Wats d difference BTW dis post n Weytin gnld dy do?

op na wygant n mystery descendant...

Truckpusher:
All these epsitle for the same girls that lines up in the streets across major cities of Nigeria even all over the world waiting for men to say hi!?

Bros ,this topic was meant for people in the 8os nowadays these girls got eagle's eyes - They pick you ,you don't pick them.

I'm just imagining a guy going through all these just to attract and get laid to a woman, really. He'd have to give up whatever he does, work or studies, just to emerge successful. Coz from my discernment this should be a full time job as even the vigorous task that comes with daily jobs can't be this arduous. All for a punna that's abound everywhere. Joker.

Demigods:
Are you too big to reply my quotes or mails?

So this forker quoted the whole journal just to write one sentence. Smh

He's right it's really stupid to tell a girl you love her after meeting her for only 10 minutes she won't take you seriously it's one of the many mistakes guys make with women

hmmmmm oga so upon all this copy and paste no solution

ronald4lif:
I'm just imagining a guy going through all these just to attract and get laid to a woman, really. He'd have to give up whatever he does, work or studies, just to emerge successful. Coz from my discernment this is should be a full time job as even the vigorous task that comes with daily jobs can't be this arduous. All for a punna that's abound everywhere. Joker.

At a point I was even thinking that the whole thing was a copy and paste job but this guy actually took his time to type this eyesore....smh

The gods must be truly crazy indeed.

I'm not convince in anyway, bcoz all u will write in the book will still be subjective. diff rules for diff games I.e football rules is diff from tennis rules same wit ladies, i giv u the room to convince me dat's my statement is wrong. I love ur marketing strategy both the one u use here and that on ur site. nic one 4 u.

I DID NOT SEE ANYTHING IMPORTANT OUT OF YOUR LONG STORY, YOU WHERE ONLY TALKING STORY THAT DONT MAKE SENSE,,,,, IN YOUR SUBJECT YOU SAID “Why Girls Play Hard To Get & How To Make Them Not Do It Around You" BUT ALL YOU EXPLAIN DID NOT MARCH WITH YOUR SUBJECT