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Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by misspicy(f): 10:01am On Sep 11, 2015
PunkyVeer:
It's disturbing, isn't it? Smh. Thank God authorities are starting to take stalking very serious. People with his mentality will soon be taught no means no. Frankly speaking, I think they have mental issues. Where's the pride when you do weird things just to get the attention of someone that doesn't want you? That's madness.
Some guys think they are God's gift to women..like seriously?some even think without them women wunt breathe or make it in life...

Well I know not all guys are dat dumb,so amma just relate wif d sensible ones....

besides are u at work?
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 10:24am On Sep 11, 2015
misspicy:
Some guys think they are God's gift to women..like seriously?some even think without them women wunt breathe or make it in life...

Well I know not all guys are dat dumb,so amma just relate wif d sensible ones....

besides are u at work?
True dat! Yeah I am. Quiet morning though so I got time on my hands. And you?
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by misspicy(f): 10:29am On Sep 11, 2015
PunkyVeer:
True dat! Yeah I am. Quiet morning though so I got time on my hands. And you?
same page you are in...

Well I lik u...noo lesbo wink
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by adedayourt(m): 10:29am On Sep 11, 2015
SOME WOMEN GO DEY FORM HARD TO GET TILL DEY ARE 35
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by sinaj(f): 10:31am On Sep 11, 2015
misspicy:
Long tym bae...where af u been
Av bin on low key dearie smiley
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 10:31am On Sep 11, 2015
misspicy:
same page you are in...

Well I lik u...noo lesbo wink
Aww, hun kiss Thank you *hugs*

Can I follow you?
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 10:36am On Sep 11, 2015
BirdOfParadise:
Stop this at once...!
Simply ignore it
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by misspicy(f): 10:43am On Sep 11, 2015
PunkyVeer:
Aww, hun kiss Thank you *hugs*

Can I follow you?
Yes...why dont we both do the following.

I just need to think outside the box am in,in my country,am I welcomed?
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 10:51am On Sep 11, 2015
misspicy:
Yes...why dont we both do the following.

I just need to think outside the box am in,in my country,am I welcomed?
Yes hun, I already added you smiley
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by misspicy(f): 11:02am On Sep 11, 2015
PunkyVeer:
Yes hun, I already added you smiley
Thanks kiss
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 11:15am On Sep 11, 2015
PunkyVeer:
Yeah, yours is scary as hell. He sounds delusional. Funny thing about going through something like this is that, it makes you very paranoid. Makes you believe that everyone is capable of it. It took me time to trust again after him because I looked at every man as a ticking time bomb.

I met a guy while coming from the store the other day. He offered to give me a lift but I declined because something "felt" crazy about him. Anyway, I've seen him a couple more times after that & he always waves or say something. Now my suspicions have sky rocketed, because I'm not sure if he is following me or it's just a coincidence. Yesterday I saw him again but pretended not to see him but of course he saw me & had to say something as usual. Sometimes I think I have a crazy people magnet. If they're insane, chances are, I'm going to meet them somehow. From flashers to the mentally unstable. It makes dating very scary.
No dear. You don't have a crazy people magnet. It's just that silly things do happen in life. What I do is, if I come across such pricks, I tell them off from the onset. Some may be heady, but when they get that way, I involve the police. Believe it or not, some people are solely in this world to upset others.
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 11:18am On Sep 11, 2015
Don't mind him. He lacks wisdom.
misspicy:
Lolz....like seriouslyhuh ....
so stalking is now a sort award winning behaviour in nigeria,so to marry now shuld be tru stalking...lolz
So getting married to a complete stranger who is stalking one now is d trend....i cnt stop laffing
Hahahaha....some nigerian men are just d most fvckedup set of people on earth....lolz.



Punkyveer come and see wat I just saw this early mawnin
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 11:19am On Sep 11, 2015
Well said! Kudos darling.
PunkyVeer:
It's disturbing, isn't it? Smh. Thank God authorities are starting to take stalking very serious. People with his mentality will soon be taught no means no. Frankly speaking, I think they have mental issues. Where's the pride when you do weird things just to get the attention of someone that doesn't want you? That's madness.
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 11:22am On Sep 11, 2015
adedayourt:
SOME WOMEN GO DEY FORM HARD TO GET TILL DEY ARE 35
ASK GOD FOR WISDOM.
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 11:25am On Sep 11, 2015
And I'm adding you both.
PunkyVeer:
Yes hun, I already added you smiley
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 11:26am On Sep 11, 2015
BirdOfParadise:
And I'm adding you both.
Added smiley
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by adedayourt(m): 11:27am On Sep 11, 2015
BirdOfParadise:
ASK GOD FOR WISDOM.
PROVE TO ME U GOT ONE undecided

ELSE U REMAIN ON D OTHER END OF A WISE FELLOW
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Kingsley1000(m): 12:46pm On Sep 11, 2015
adedayourt:
SOME WOMEN GO DEY FORM HARD TO GET TILL DEY ARE 35
no mind them lol
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 2:24pm On Sep 11, 2015
Like seriously?!¿
Kingsley1000:
no mind them lol
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Moneyab(m): 2:39pm On Sep 11, 2015
@punkyveer grin cheesy you got me laughing hard. He appeared behind a tree? Must have been a nut case
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 2:50pm On Sep 11, 2015
Moneyab:
@punkyveer grin cheesy you got me laughing hard. He appeared behind a tree? Must have been a nut case
Dude, he did. Amazingly, stalkers tend to display same behaviours because it's not unusual to hear about them
lurking in dark places to spy on their target. I have since read about the topic because I wanted to know the early warning signs & was surprised by the similarities in stories of stalking victims. I guess I'm lucky my ex wasn' t the type to send me dead animals to scare me. That's common too. They love sending dead things. I've heard of people receiving cat ears in the mail etc. It's insane.
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by ValentineMary(m):
There was this time this girl was always calling and sending me love text messages and telling me that she is the current miss Nigeria. I later found out that she was correct but I still warned her to stop that my gf would be jealous but she did not. So I changed my phone number(I now wonder how she got my number) believe at ur own peril
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 5:27pm On Sep 11, 2015
PunkyVeer:
Dude, he did. Amazingly, stalkers tend to display same behaviours because it's not unusual to hear about them
lurking in dark places to spy on their target. I have since read about the topic because I wanted to know the early warning signs & was surprised by the similarities in stories of stalking victims. I guess I'm lucky my ex wasn' t the type to send me dead animals to scare me. That's common too. They love sending dead things. I've heard of people receiving cat ears in the mail etc. It's insane.
I'm lucky I didn't receive any dead stuff... My ex would only call after our break-up. He wasn't spooky. Strangers re creepy. God save us all.
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 5:30pm On Sep 11, 2015
ValentineMary:
There was this time this girl was always calling and sending me love text messages and telling me that she is the current miss Nigeria. I later found out that she was correct but I still warned her to stop that my gf would be jealous but she did not. So I changed my phone number(I now wonder how she got my number)
A stalker would go to any length to get your contact details. They are extremists. Stalking is not exclusive to the poor or unemployed, it has no class restriction.
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 5:31pm On Sep 11, 2015
BirdOfParadise:
I'm lucky I didn't receive any dead stuff... My ex would only call after our break-up. He wasn't spooky. Strangers re creepy. God save us all.
*hugs*
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by bdchange(m): 7:29pm On Sep 11, 2015
misspicy:
Some guys think they are God's gift to women..like seriously?some even think without them women wunt breathe or make it in life...

Well I know not all guys are dat dumb,so amma just relate wif d sensible ones....

besides are u at work?
Okay let's be serious here, can u stalk someone u secretly admire xo much? Even as a gal
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by bdchange(m): 7:35pm On Sep 11, 2015
BirdOfParadise:
A stalker would go to any length to get your contact details. They are extremists. Stalking is not exclusive to the poor or unemployed, it has no class restriction.
dis got me craackn** re u sayin convincingly dat ppl cant stalk for d ryt reason or person. nd probably gets a positive answer out of it......cos not all stalkers re dead brain
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by tohphunmie(f): 7:50pm On Sep 11, 2015
Yes oo...many times sef but there was this guy that really frustrated that i cried so many times then sad
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 8:33pm On Sep 11, 2015
Thanks **hugs back**
PunkyVeer:
*hugs*
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 8:36pm On Sep 11, 2015
Read my post well please.
bdchange:
dis got me craackn** re u sayin convincingly dat ppl cant stalk for d ryt reason or person. nd probably gets a positive answer out of it......cos not all stalkers re dead brain
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by Chelseafan1: 6:53am On Sep 13, 2015
tohphunmie:
Yes oo...many times sef but there was this guy that really frustrated that i cried so many times then sad
lol....u cried for real?? eyah, u must av really been frustrated, y u sef non fine like ds na smiley

and kilode to oo fi fe gba fun boy yen?
Re: Have You Ever Been Stalked? Share Your Experience. by tohphunmie(f): 6:22pm On Sep 13, 2015
Chelseafan1:
lol....u cried for real?? eyah, u must av really been frustrated, y u sef non fine like ds na smiley

and kilode to oo fi fe gba fun boy yen?
I cried for real oo. There was even a time i was crying at 4:00am and i called customer care if there was a way i could block his line from not calling/texting. The C.C.A i spoke with then was a guy, he said i couldn't and when he noticed i was crying he said maybe i should be telling him what i know would piss him off like preaching the word of God and so on.....the foolish guy really frustrated my life and funny enough i don't know the foolish boy o but he knew me so well then.
Lol...thanks dear @ ur last sentence kiss
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