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Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Adasun(m): 2:04pm On Sep 11, 2015
Rapmoney:
Another plate of eba and banga soup for this guy! cheesy
so na eba u get to offer person abi?
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by misspicy(f): 2:08pm On Sep 11, 2015
Rapmoney:
Why not fault guys on a thread? No one is perfect you know wink
Thats an idea am considering buh aint got time for it as at now...will put it in mind tho...,for the time being I would just stick to commenting on this threads.....

Thank u

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Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Rapmoney(m): 3:04pm On Sep 11, 2015
Adasun:
so na eba u get to offer person abi?
There's nothing compared to hot eba and banga soup! cheesy
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Rapmoney(m): 4:34pm On Sep 11, 2015
Swaggzkid:
Gals are cheats............ Especially those that fix artificial longest nails.



Talking from experience, I just need to look at them and tell who really they are.
Nails cannot tell you all bro cheesy
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Rapmoney(m): 4:35pm On Sep 11, 2015
falconey:
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This is a new development I must say grin
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by falconey(m): 4:51pm On Sep 11, 2015
Rapmoney:
This is a new development I must say grin

roar!!!!!!!!!
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by damiloladuke: 5:58pm On Sep 11, 2015
good points



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Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:00pm On Sep 11, 2015
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Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by 1miccza: 6:06pm On Sep 11, 2015
YourMain:

I live in Ireland and I know women who do that to their boyfriends.
So its not for the Nigerian environment no ?
You mean Lagos ireland? grin grin

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Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by sandracoopert(f): 6:07pm On Sep 11, 2015
If I tell you guys I am a virgin now, u will say I am lying. So lemme just shatap. #shy#
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:09pm On Sep 11, 2015
1miccza:


You mean Lagos ireland? grin grin

Yeah. That's exactly what I meant smiley.

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Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by veraponpo(m): 6:09pm On Sep 11, 2015
Rapmoney:
It shouldn't be an issue to debate on that 'love' and 'loyalty' are two different phenomenons entirely, yet, they go hand-in-hand with each other. Getting loyalty from the 'modern' Nigerian city girls sometimes, could be like the proverbial camel passing through the eyes of the needle, as projected by Christ in the Holy Bible!!! wink...and especially, when your funds are low!

The average Nigerian girl that lives in the city might be a pain in the ass for you if you take her issues so seriously; carrying it on your head as if it was your destiny...especially, the flashy and trendy ones whose only dream in life is to surround themselves with as much material things as they can get wink. This situation might even prove worse when you are not aware of the ingredients that can bring about this loyalty. It is true that no one can be absolutely loyal, as other factors sometimes play their roles but disloyalty can be curtailed seriously when in relationship

1) She disappears during festive periods: If you are dating a Nigerian babe and she is fond of disappearing during festive times such as Christmas, New Year, Valentine's Day, Easter, Eide-Kabir, etc, just know she is the disloyal type. She fake herself to be so busy during these times and absolutely make herself unavailable to you! She's probably in the warm hands of another man who she feels can cater for her expensive taste and needs during the celebration season!!! Young man, you have no business with such a lady! I thought festive seasons were meant to be enjoyed together with friends and loved ones o:

2) She uses baseless excuses to explain her unavailability: Disloyal ladies hardly spend quality time with you except they stand to gain one material benefit or the other from you! To you, you are in a relationship. To them, it is 'business' as usual! cheesy. They always put the blame on rain, too much sunshine, breeze, traffic, friend's wedding, etc, to avoid meeting with you but just tell her to come and collect a large sum of money you promised her and she will happily take the next available cab even if the whole rain in China, Vietnam and Cambodia combined is nothing compared to the rain pouring in the area where she resides!!! grin. Observe watchfully, bro! wink

3) She is so familiar with the joints you have taken her to and the regular male visitors there: She would know the prices of the range of drinks they have and the amounts they sell the ranges of foods they have in these places!!! She attracts 'funny' eye contacts and body languages from male folks around often and she sometimes wave at them when you act as if you are not looking! grin. How did she come to know about these places and what they offer if she hasn't been taken to these places by different men on several occassions?

4) Her phone hardly rings in your presence: Yes! Funny as it sounds, it is true. It is a tactful act that you should be a aware of...'your' girl (everybody's friend) could be the disloyal type. If she switches off her phone, you might suspect so she might put an old sim card that no one calls to disguise as a 'good girl' in your presence. This is an expo...if you notice something like this too often when she visits, try to call her number on your phone and see if it goes. If it doesn't, don't try to bother her on why she is using another sim she didn't tell you about!!! Just know she is the disloyal type! You have an option...you can get up and dust your ass to save yourself further stress!!! wink

5) She spends your money but you can never see her penny: If she is the type that keeps her 20k to feast on your little 5k, just see her as disloyal! I wonder how some young men spend hugely on ladies who have never bought them a boxers or singlet before! Relationship is give and take. If she gives you sex and nothing more for the financial benefits she gets from you, then she's a pros!!! If not, what's the transaction between a guy and a pros? Money for hand=back for ground grin grin. After all, who yansh dor help abeg!

Shine your eyes and be a Realist!!!
In the name of success, all women are bound to be loyal and confess that you are the man!!!


Very correct.


So on point.
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by agarawu23(m): 6:10pm On Sep 11, 2015
Rapmoney, nice one
.I miss the thread sha

No1 & No 4 is very important for guys to take not of
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by 1miccza: 6:12pm On Sep 11, 2015
YourMain:

Yeah. That's exactly what I meant smiley.
Eeeeheeennn as in the lokito area of Lagos Ireland abi??
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by FreshOhio: 6:13pm On Sep 11, 2015
Niccas be here snitching on themselves describing their ex girlfriends that dumped their sorry ass... First sign your girl is cheating is you a loser period...

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Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:14pm On Sep 11, 2015
1miccza:


Eeeeheeennn as in the lokito area of Lagos Ireland abi??

That exact area. Wherever it is.
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by victorazy(m): 6:15pm On Sep 11, 2015
YourMain:
This describes any disloyal person really

So man eat ur moni too?
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:19pm On Sep 11, 2015
victorazy:


So man eat ur moni too?

Ehm. No I don't think so
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:23pm On Sep 11, 2015
misspicy:
some girls will not do all what OP typed buh are still disloyal to their partner...

Buh why must every thread on NL be biased...like seriously Even guys do this yet all of you focus on girls...well ur cups of tea......

Everyone just assumes guys do all the cheating in relationship and girls are all pure during relationships. OP is just trying to wake up any naive guy so he doesn't fall prey to this type of girl.

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Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by victorazy(m): 6:24pm On Sep 11, 2015
YourMain:


Ehm. No I don't think so

So why that comment?
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by j4sure(m): 6:24pm On Sep 11, 2015
Wow
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:24pm On Sep 11, 2015
FreshOhio:
Niccas be here snitching on themselves describing their ex girlfriends that dumped their sorry ass... First sign your girl is cheating is you a loser period...

So it's automatically the dudes fault abi? I mean yeah maybe the guy wasn't satisfying her or whatever other reason, but don't justify these girls crazy behavior.
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by singlefade25(f): 6:28pm On Sep 11, 2015
FreshOhio:
Niccas be here snitching on themselves describing their ex girlfriends that dumped their sorry ass... First sign your girl is cheating is you a loser period...
hahahaha, everybody is now a professor of love and relationship.
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by viktor01(m): 6:28pm On Sep 11, 2015
The only part of your piece that thrilled me was the Introductory part where you said 'Taking her issues serioisly as if it is your destiny'
Nice one there. They aren't worth breaking your head over.
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by NOTRIBE: 6:33pm On Sep 11, 2015
YELLOWBAR CHICKS BEHAVIOUR...BEWARE!!!
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by CandyBar: 6:34pm On Sep 11, 2015
Girls got tired of being a thing of experiments for guys, so they learned and have almost bettered the antics of men.

"what a man can scheme, a woman can scheme better"

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Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by 1miccza: 6:35pm On Sep 11, 2015
YourMain:

That exact area. Wherever it is.
As in the isale gangan area where Sule fighter and Oluomo grew up from abi??

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Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:36pm On Sep 11, 2015
1miccza:


As in the isale gangan area where Sule fighter and Oluomo grew up from abi??

Yeah. Totally.

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Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by MISSNORA(f): 6:41pm On Sep 11, 2015
YourMain:
This describes any disloyal person really
exactly
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by 1miccza: 6:42pm On Sep 11, 2015
YourMain:


Yeah. Totally.

Chinnneeeekkkeee of Amerikan eeehhhh!!!! So your sekan name yis sidikatu omo iya elewa you wa d person who break Raufu's eye abi??
Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by delectablegyal(f): 6:42pm On Sep 11, 2015
She is pretty. 90.9 per cent of pretty girls ain't loyal.

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Re: 5 Signs To Know Your Girlfriend Is Not Loyal In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:44pm On Sep 11, 2015
1miccza:


Chinnneeeekkkeee of Amerikan eeehhhh!!!! So your sekan name yis sidikatu omo iya elewa you wa d person who break Raufu's eye abi??

Oh my god. How did you know. Wow. You are a genius

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