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MISSNORA:
exactly

Always hating on Nigerian women its ridiculous.

YourMain:
Oh my god. How did you know. Wow. You are a genius

Lol i hear you......

Ok

nonsense

What if she stays with family during festive period or whatever?

Concerning the 4th point, op is just being paranoid lyk really. so u expect ur girl's phone to be ringing every second while u both are on a date? den if she sees the call and cuts the call or doesnt answer the call, u'll conclude dat its a guy dats calling her and she doesnt want u to listen in on their conversation. u cud also complain that shez answering so many calls on ur date instead of it being a quiet time for both of u. Nigerians can like to complain n judge. now she off fone for date op dey complain say she no dey loyal, are u kidding me?

misspicy:
some girls will not do all what OP typed buh are still disloyal to their partner...

Buh why must every thread on NL be biased...like seriously Even guys do this yet all of you focus on girls...well ur cups of tea......

abeg give me sugar make I put inside d tea

Missy89:
nonsense
What if she stays with family during festive period or whatever?

I hear

sandracoopert:
If I tell you guys I am a virgin now, u will say I am lying. So lemme just shatap. #shy#

heheheheheeee.....Sandra.!!!

Rapmoney:
It shouldn't be an issue to debate on that 'love' and 'loyalty' are two different phenomenons entirely, yet, they go hand-in-hand with each other. Getting loyalty from the 'modern' Nigerian city girls sometimes, could be like the proverbial camel passing through the eyes of the needle, as projected by Christ in the Holy Bible!!! ...and especially, when your funds are low!

The average Nigerian girl that lives in the city might be a pain in the ass for you if you take her issues so seriously; carrying it on your head as if it was your destiny...especially, the flashy and trendy ones whose only dream in life is to surround themselves with as much material things as they can get . This situation might even prove worse when you are not aware of the ingredients that can bring about this loyalty. It is true that no one can be absolutely loyal, as other factors sometimes play their roles but disloyalty can be curtailed seriously when in relationship

1) She disappears during festive periods: If you are dating a Nigerian babe and she is fond of disappearing during festive times such as Christmas, New Year, Valentine's Day, Easter, Eide-Kabir, etc, just know she is the disloyal type. She fake herself to be so busy during these times and absolutely make herself unavailable to you! She's probably in the warm hands of another man who she feels can cater for her expensive taste and needs during the celebration season!!! Young man, you have no business with such a lady! I thought festive seasons were meant to be enjoyed together with friends and loved ones o:

2) She uses baseless excuses to explain her unavailability: Disloyal ladies hardly spend quality time with you except they stand to gain one material benefit or the other from you! To you, you are in a relationship. To them, it is 'business' as usual! . They always put the blame on rain, too much sunshine, breeze, traffic, friend's wedding, etc, to avoid meeting with you but just tell her to come and collect a large sum of money you promised her and she will happily take the next available cab even if the whole rain in China, Vietnam and Cambodia combined is nothing compared to the rain pouring in the area where she resides!!! . Observe watchfully, bro!

3) She is so familiar with the joints you have taken her to and the regular male visitors there: She would know the prices of the range of drinks they have and the amounts they sell the ranges of foods they have in these places!!! She attracts 'funny' eye contacts and body languages from male folks around often and she sometimes wave at them when you act as if you are not looking! . How did she come to know about these places and what they offer if she hasn't been taken to these places by different men on several occassions?

4) Her phone hardly rings in your presence: Yes! Funny as it sounds, it is true. It is a tactful act that you should be a aware of...'your' girl (everybody's friend) could be the disloyal type. If she switches off her phone, you might suspect so she might put an old sim card that no one calls to disguise as a 'good girl' in your presence. This is an expo...if you notice something like this too often when she visits, try to call her number on your phone and see if it goes. If it doesn't, don't try to bother her on why she is using another sim she didn't tell you about!!! Just know she is the disloyal type! You have an option...you can get up and dust your ass to save yourself further stress!!!

5) She spends your money but you can never see her penny: If she is the type that keeps her 20k to feast on your little 5k, just see her as disloyal! I wonder how some young men spend hugely on ladies who have never bought them a boxers or singlet before! Relationship is give and take. If she gives you sex and nothing more for the financial benefits she gets from you, then she's a pros!!! If not, what's the transaction between a guy and a pros? Money for hand=back for ground . After all, who yansh dor help abeg!

Shine your eyes and be a Realist!!!
In the name of success, all women are bound to be loyal and confess that you are the man!!!

Whaaaaat.!!!! u just bust jack as..ses

My ex exhibited most of these traits but I was blind to them not untill she crossed the line and it became obvious that she's not to be relied on. Nice work, op, am sure most ladies won't be happy with this thread.

[size=18pt]Please, give them a break.
You don't own your girlfriend.
She is not your private property.
You are not her father, husband or even landlord.
All these making rules for girlfriend is nothing but bullying.
Many so called boyfriends are nothing more than bullies.
The only reason they even have girlfriends is for bragging rights and sexual pleasures.

When a guy tells you he needs a girlfriend, he is only looking for a sex partner more than a friend.
If you want to know if your boyfriend really values your friendship, refuse to have sex with him and he will show you his true colours.
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The more reason why I am still so afraid of relationships at this age of mine....





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Op seems to be holding phd in this dating thing, you are so absolute with all the points.

Ok

misspicy:
some girls will not do all what OP typed buh are still disloyal to their partner...

Buh why must every thread on NL be biased...like seriously Even guys do this yet all of you focus on girls...well ur cups of tea......

Supported.. Smh seriously for sum guys.

All these kind of threads enh

Don't know why NL guys really like topics like this.

How then do we know that our guy is cheating on us?

What about a man he that always finds silly excuses in other not to spend quality time with his girl?

Rubbish talk

Rapmoney:
It shouldn't be an issue to debate on that 'love' and 'loyalty' are two different phenomenons entirely, yet, they go hand-in-hand with each other. Getting loyalty from the 'modern' Nigerian city girls sometimes, could be like the proverbial camel passing through the eyes of the needle, as projected by Christ in the Holy Bible!!! ...and especially, when your funds are low!

The average Nigerian girl that lives in the city might be a pain in the ass for you if you take her issues so seriously; carrying it on your head as if it was your destiny...especially, the flashy and trendy ones whose only dream in life is to surround themselves with as much material things as they can get . This situation might even prove worse when you are not aware of the ingredients that can bring about this loyalty. It is true that no one can be absolutely loyal, as other factors sometimes play their roles but disloyalty can be curtailed seriously when in relationship

1) She disappears during festive periods: If you are dating a Nigerian babe and she is fond of disappearing during festive times such as Christmas, New Year, Valentine's Day, Easter, Eide-Kabir, etc, just know she is the disloyal type. She fake herself to be so busy during these times and absolutely make herself unavailable to you! She's probably in the warm hands of another man who she feels can cater for her expensive taste and needs during the celebration season!!! Young man, you have no business with such a lady! I thought festive seasons were meant to be enjoyed together with friends and loved ones o:

2) She uses baseless excuses to explain her unavailability: Disloyal ladies hardly spend quality time with you except they stand to gain one material benefit or the other from you! To you, you are in a relationship. To them, it is 'business' as usual! . They always put the blame on rain, too much sunshine, breeze, traffic, friend's wedding, etc, to avoid meeting with you but just tell her to come and collect a large sum of money you promised her and she will happily take the next available cab even if the whole rain in China, Vietnam and Cambodia combined is nothing compared to the rain pouring in the area where she resides!!! . Observe watchfully, bro!

3) She is so familiar with the joints you have taken her to and the regular male visitors there: She would know the prices of the range of drinks they have and the amounts they sell the ranges of foods they have in these places!!! She attracts 'funny' eye contacts and body languages from male folks around often and she sometimes wave at them when you act as if you are not looking! . How did she come to know about these places and what they offer if she hasn't been taken to these places by different men on several occassions?

4) Her phone hardly rings in your presence: Yes! Funny as it sounds, it is true. It is a tactful act that you should be a aware of...'your' girl (everybody's friend) could be the disloyal type. If she switches off her phone, you might suspect so she might put an old sim card that no one calls to disguise as a 'good girl' in your presence. This is an expo...if you notice something like this too often when she visits, try to call her number on your phone and see if it goes. If it doesn't, don't try to bother her on why she is using another sim she didn't tell you about!!! Just know she is the disloyal type! You have an option...you can get up and dust your ass to save yourself further stress!!!

5) She spends your money but you can never see her penny: If she is the type that keeps her 20k to feast on your little 5k, just see her as disloyal! I wonder how some young men spend hugely on ladies who have never bought them a boxers or singlet before! Relationship is give and take. If she gives you sex and nothing more for the financial benefits she gets from you, then she's a pros!!! If not, what's the transaction between a guy and a pros? Money for hand=back for ground . After all, who yansh dor help abeg!

Shine your eyes and be a Realist!!!
In the name of success, all women are bound to be loyal and confess that you are the man!!!

i taya for yu OP, y yu dey black-mail our ministry now? Wetin we do yu?

panachuku:
calls u once in a while, in the afternoons, well shes one her way to anoda guys house, by callin u, u wont bother calling her till shes done in the guys house

very funny

The simplest remedy? Never carry any girl matter for head.

And never in your life (even in marriage, Yes marriage) entertain the notion that a woman 'belongs' to you. It is the surest way to madness and early grave.

these hoee*s ain't loyal... *singing

What of the signs that will make u know if ur boyfriend is not loyal?

Rapmoney:
It shouldn't be an issue to debate on that 'love' and 'loyalty' are two different phenomenons entirely, yet, they go hand-in-hand with each other. Getting loyalty from the 'modern' Nigerian city girls sometimes, could be like the proverbial camel passing through the eyes of the needle, as projected by Christ in the Holy Bible!!! ...and especially, when your funds are low!

The average Nigerian girl that lives in the city might be a pain in the ass for you if you take her issues so seriously; carrying it on your head as if it was your destiny...especially, the flashy and trendy ones whose only dream in life is to surround themselves with as much material things as they can get . This situation might even prove worse when you are not aware of the ingredients that can bring about this loyalty. It is true that no one can be absolutely loyal, as other factors sometimes play their roles but disloyalty can be curtailed seriously when in relationship

1) She disappears during festive periods: If you are dating a Nigerian babe and she is fond of disappearing during festive times such as Christmas, New Year, Valentine's Day, Easter, Eide-Kabir, etc, just know she is the disloyal type. She fake herself to be so busy during these times and absolutely make herself unavailable to you! She's probably in the warm hands of another man who she feels can cater for her expensive taste and needs during the celebration season!!! Young man, you have no business with such a lady! I thought festive seasons were meant to be enjoyed together with friends and loved ones o:

2) She uses baseless excuses to explain her unavailability: Disloyal ladies hardly spend quality time with you except they stand to gain one material benefit or the other from you! To you, you are in a relationship. To them, it is 'business' as usual! . They always put the blame on rain, too much sunshine, breeze, traffic, friend's wedding, etc, to avoid meeting with you but just tell her to come and collect a large sum of money you promised her and she will happily take the next available cab even if the whole rain in China, Vietnam and Cambodia combined is nothing compared to the rain pouring in the area where she resides!!! . Observe watchfully, bro!

3) She is so familiar with the joints you have taken her to and the regular male visitors there: She would know the prices of the range of drinks they have and the amounts they sell the ranges of foods they have in these places!!! She attracts 'funny' eye contacts and body languages from male folks around often and she sometimes wave at them when you act as if you are not looking! . How did she come to know about these places and what they offer if she hasn't been taken to these places by different men on several occassions?

4) Her phone hardly rings in your presence: Yes! Funny as it sounds, it is true. It is a tactful act that you should be a aware of...'your' girl (everybody's friend) could be the disloyal type. If she switches off her phone, you might suspect so she might put an old sim card that no one calls to disguise as a 'good girl' in your presence. This is an expo...if you notice something like this too often when she visits, try to call her number on your phone and see if it goes. If it doesn't, don't try to bother her on why she is using another sim she didn't tell you about!!! Just know she is the disloyal type! You have an option...you can get up and dust your ass to save yourself further stress!!!

5) She spends your money but you can never see her penny: If she is the type that keeps her 20k to feast on your little 5k, just see her as disloyal! I wonder how some young men spend hugely on ladies who have never bought them a boxers or singlet before! Relationship is give and take. If she gives you sex and nothing more for the financial benefits she gets from you, then she's a pros!!! If not, what's the transaction between a guy and a pros? Money for hand=back for ground . After all, who yansh dor help abeg!

Shine your eyes and be a Realist!!!
In the name of success, all women are bound to be loyal and confess that you are the man!!!

Chai, Girls don show this O.P. N K A N!!

Noted. Henceforth I'll be on the lookout.

prettyboi1989:
Concerning the 4th point, op is just being paranoid lyk really. so u expect ur girl's phone to be ringing every second while u both are on a date? den if she sees the call and cuts the call or doesnt answer the call, u'll conclude dat its a guy dats calling her and she doesnt want u to listen in on their conversation. u cud also complain that shez answering so many calls on ur date instead of it being a quiet time for both of u. Nigerians can like to complain n judge. now she off fone for date op dey complain say she no dey loyal, are u kidding me?

guy guy!!, you need a knock??,,

crayguy:
guy guy!!, you need a knock??,,

come knock na, ow does ma post affect ur life? if u dnt av somthing to do y nt sleep. is it a must to mention som1? u myt aswell make ur own stand alone post if u av a different view abt things rather than subject urself to d use of condenscending words.

no 1 and 2 is almost sayin same thing

agarawu23:
Rapmoney, nice one
.I miss the thread sha

No1 & No 4 is very important for guys to take not of

Thanks man! I appreciate!!!

These hoes aint loyal!