₦airaland Forum

Gloryblossom:
Op ur point there were so meaniless,sorry i said that but the fact is none of them make sense....I tink u hv some inch towards nija ladies hmmmmm,try tellin us tinz abt guys cux d forum is meant for both sex.

Rapmoney:
It shouldn't be an issue to debate on that 'love' and 'loyalty' are two different phenomenons entirely, yet, they go hand-in-hand with each other. Getting loyalty from the 'modern' Nigerian city girls sometimes, could be like the proverbial camel passing through the eyes of the needle, as projected by Christ in the Holy Bible!!! ...and especially, when your funds are low!

The average Nigerian girl that lives in the city might be a pain in the ass for you if you take her issues so seriously; carrying it on your head as if it was your destiny...especially, the flashy and trendy ones whose only dream in life is to surround themselves with as much material things as they can get . This situation might even prove worse when you are not aware of the ingredients that can bring about this loyalty. It is true that no one can be absolutely loyal, as other factors sometimes play their roles but disloyalty can be curtailed seriously when in relationship

1) She disappears during festive periods: If you are dating a Nigerian babe and she is fond of disappearing during festive times such as Christmas, New Year, Valentine's Day, Easter, Eide-Kabir, etc, just know she is the disloyal type. She fake herself to be so busy during these times and absolutely make herself unavailable to you! She's probably in the warm hands of another man who she feels can cater for her expensive taste and needs during the celebration season!!! Young man, you have no business with such a lady! I thought festive seasons were meant to be enjoyed together with friends and loved ones o:

2) She uses baseless excuses to explain her unavailability: Disloyal ladies hardly spend quality time with you except they stand to gain one material benefit or the other from you! To you, you are in a relationship. To them, it is 'business' as usual! . They always put the blame on rain, too much sunshine, breeze, traffic, friend's wedding, etc, to avoid meeting with you but just tell her to come and collect a large sum of money you promised her and she will happily take the next available cab even if the whole rain in China, Vietnam and Cambodia combined is nothing compared to the rain pouring in the area where she resides!!! . Observe watchfully, bro!

3) She is so familiar with the joints you have taken her to and the regular male visitors there: She would know the prices of the range of drinks they have and the amounts they sell the ranges of foods they have in these places!!! She attracts 'funny' eye contacts and body languages from male folks around often and she sometimes wave at them when you act as if you are not looking! . How did she come to know about these places and what they offer if she hasn't been taken to these places by different men on several occassions?

4) Her phone hardly rings in your presence: Yes! Funny as it sounds, it is true. It is a tactful act that you should be a aware of...'your' girl (everybody's friend) could be the disloyal type. If she switches off her phone, you might suspect so she might put an old sim card that no one calls to disguise as a 'good girl' in your presence. This is an expo...if you notice something like this too often when she visits, try to call her number on your phone and see if it goes. If it doesn't, don't try to bother her on why she is using another sim she didn't tell you about!!! Just know she is the disloyal type! You have an option...you can get up and dust your ass to save yourself further stress!!!

5) She spends your money but you can never see her penny: If she is the type that keeps her 20k to feast on your little 5k, just see her as disloyal! I wonder how some young men spend hugely on ladies who have never bought them a boxers or singlet before! Relationship is give and take. If she gives you sex and nothing more for the financial benefits she gets from you, then she's a pros!!! If not, what's the transaction between a guy and a pros? Money for hand=back for ground . After all, who yansh dor help abeg!

Shine your eyes and be a Realist!!!
In the name of success, all women are bound to be loyal and confess that you are the man!!!

CzarChris:
OP, 1plate of owoh soup and starch for you. That #3 can be so disheartening. I once took one "smallie" wey I catch on a romantic date to one upscale restaurant in ph (imagine me feeling like a boss). After the waiter took our order, the manager of the restaurant walked to our table greeted my "smallie" with reverence and thanked her for coming again to their restaurant. She even went to the kitchen and gave them a tongue lashing when our food kinda delayed. To cut the long story short, I went home that day chastened, my "smallie" really big pass me.
#truestory

CandyBar:
Girls got tired of being a thing of experiments for guys, so they learned and have almost bettered the antics of men.

"what a man can scheme, a woman can scheme better"

Rapmoney:
Starch and Owo soup? E be like say u be real Urhobo man o! . That babe must have been up to so many things!

JumiaQuickSales:
Poor guys been lamenting since 1900. you can't catch a well-to-do guy with such a post. Oya, Likes of op, join him in sharing your poverty-stricken experiences.....

JumiaQuickSales:
Poor guys been lamenting since 1900. you can't catch a well-to-do guy with such a post. Oya, Likes of op, join him in sharing your poverty-stricken experiences.....

JumiaQuickSales:
Poor guys been lamenting since 1900. you can't catch a well-to-do guy with such a post. Oya, Likes of op, join him in sharing your poverty-stricken experiences.....

janefrancisca:
wow..hmm, so men hate catching fun with different gals right and they are loyal to just one gal? pfftt wot a big joke. You know you can't eat your cake and have it, if u are not a loyal partner, then you have no right to expect loyalty from your partner.

JumiaQuickSales:
Poor guys been lamenting since 1900. you can't catch a well-to-do guy with such a post. Oya, Likes of op, join him in sharing your poverty-stricken experiences.....

Cutehector:
what am I up to?

JumiaQuickSales:
Poor guys been lamenting since 1900. you can't catch a well-to-do guy with such a post. Oya, Likes of op, join him in sharing your poverty-stricken experiences.....

MzErica:
Married igbo women sabi fccck outside their marrage eeeeehn

JumiaQuickSales:
Poor guys been lamenting since 1900. you can't catch a well-to-do guy with such a post. Oya, Likes of op, join him in sharing your poverty-stricken experiences.....

NEROSKY:
Well I'm not poor nor broke, the op is 100% correct... Come up with ur own list... Becos men ain't perfect as well, just that our girls are worst

IamNat:
Guys use to call her in my presence,does that mean she is disloyal?

Is it bad for receiving guys calls when a lady is with her man? Life tire me oooo

aim5:
You're so ignorant. So because a guy is rich, he can't be screwed over by a female? I hope more guys like OP come out and expose most of you foolish females for the hypocrites and liars y'all are.

Rapmoney:
We must expose them!!! See the way she dey vex! The thing pain her!

otunsman:
It goes in both ways.It's just that girls form to be loyal while they are not.

Rapmoney:
It shouldn't be an issue to debate on that 'love' and 'loyalty' are two different phenomenons entirely, yet, they go hand-in-hand with each other. Getting loyalty from the 'modern' Nigerian city girls sometimes, could be like the proverbial camel passing through the eyes of the needle, as projected by Christ in the Holy Bible!!! ...and especially, when your funds are low!

The average Nigerian girl that lives in the city might be a pain in the ass for you if you take her issues so seriously; carrying it on your head as if it was your destiny...especially, the flashy and trendy ones whose only dream in life is to surround themselves with as much material things as they can get . This situation might even prove worse when you are not aware of the ingredients that can bring about this loyalty. It is true that no one can be absolutely loyal, as other factors sometimes play their roles but disloyalty can be curtailed seriously when in relationship

1) She disappears during festive periods: If you are dating a Nigerian babe and she is fond of disappearing during festive times such as Christmas, New Year, Valentine's Day, Easter, Eide-Kabir, etc, just know she is the disloyal type. She fake herself to be so busy during these times and absolutely make herself unavailable to you! She's probably in the warm hands of another man who she feels can cater for her expensive taste and needs during the celebration season!!! Young man, you have no business with such a lady! I thought festive seasons were meant to be enjoyed together with friends and loved ones o:

2) She uses baseless excuses to explain her unavailability: Disloyal ladies hardly spend quality time with you except they stand to gain one material benefit or the other from you! To you, you are in a relationship. To them, it is 'business' as usual! . They always put the blame on rain, too much sunshine, breeze, traffic, friend's wedding, etc, to avoid meeting with you but just tell her to come and collect a large sum of money you promised her and she will happily take the next available cab even if the whole rain in China, Vietnam and Cambodia combined is nothing compared to the rain pouring in the area where she resides!!! . Observe watchfully, bro!

3) She is so familiar with the joints you have taken her to and the regular male visitors there: She would know the prices of the range of drinks they have and the amounts they sell the ranges of foods they have in these places!!! She attracts 'funny' eye contacts and body languages from male folks around often and she sometimes wave at them when you act as if you are not looking! . How did she come to know about these places and what they offer if she hasn't been taken to these places by different men on several occassions?

4) Her phone hardly rings in your presence: Yes! Funny as it sounds, it is true. It is a tactful act that you should be a aware of...'your' girl (everybody's friend) could be the disloyal type. If she switches off her phone, you might suspect so she might put an old sim card that no one calls to disguise as a 'good girl' in your presence. This is an expo...if you notice something like this too often when she visits, try to call her number on your phone and see if it goes. If it doesn't, don't try to bother her on why she is using another sim she didn't tell you about!!! Just know she is the disloyal type! You have an option...you can get up and dust your ass to save yourself further stress!!!

5) She spends your money but you can never see her penny: If she is the type that keeps her 20k to feast on your little 5k, just see her as disloyal! I wonder how some young men spend hugely on ladies who have never bought them a boxers or singlet before! Relationship is give and take. If she gives you sex and nothing more for the financial benefits she gets from you, then she's a pros!!! If not, what's the transaction between a guy and a pros? Money for hand=back for ground . After all, who yansh dor help abeg!

Shine your eyes and be a Realist!!!
In the name of success, all women are bound to be loyal and confess

that you are the man!!!

MzErica:

Omotayor123:
Iyale mi.. Where you hide our hubby now

Scentmarlc where art thou

scentmarlc:
Hehehe hide kwa

Am here oooo xup xup

Tutu wataguan. Today is anoda episode ooo

janefrancisca:
There are still loyal gals out there...though the percentage may be on the low side and i tell you, its reducing by the second due to some factors ranging from tagging having many boyfriends as being a hot chick, materialism, trends etc. God help our generation.

IAMWEALTHY:
This is totally baseless. That a woman knows about all the joints and resturants in town, and that she knows how much their foods are drinks are does not mean disloyalty. That a womans phone does not ring when she is with you shows she respects you and not otherwise. Please try and come up with the good reasons. Well it all depends on the types of ladies you are talking about. There are lots of ladies who work very hard for their money. These ladies work monday through friday, and weekends they move around the town to have fun with friend and family, go from one joints to the other with their own money, check out the menu and other fun-fair they have going on in town.