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Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by Mintayo(m): 7:34am On Sep 12, 2015
Toks2008:
Its a mazing how people decieve themselves.


I remember the last time i had a sexless affair for 4long years i kept asking if it was really sexless

enough m action and infacr we did virtually everthng xcpt actual pnetration.

My brother please stop fooling yourself,if you date a lady these days for even one year without sex then you must be extrenely decent.

i wll state again and again,a man needs not waste ur years before taking you to the alter.
That is you, what about those that dated for long in a courtship and yet we're married?
Its not everybody that can't hold their pants, long courtship to me is okay as long as both parties know what they wanted.
I have even seen couples who we're in. Courtship for like 6 years, did everything apart from sex and today they are both married!
Individuals should define and know what they want before heading into anything!
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by MissMakas(f): 10:40am On Sep 12, 2015
JoeCutie:
This is a perfect analysis.

Just contrary to 'public' opinion, sex does not break relationship, it makes it. I always advice people to stay away from 'I-just-wan-satisfy-my-konji' kinda sex. If konji is catching you, and you must 'satisfy' it, you should do so with someone with whom you have a sorta emotional understanding. Not just anybody. If you do it with 'just' anybody, that's when it breaks, and not make.

There are things I still hold in a very valuable esteem no matter how decadent the morality of the society is; and sex is one of them. I'm a crazy guy, very crazy. I'm naughty, raw and in fact, I could be a 'bad' boy. I could do or say anything to/with you, but whenever it comes to sex part, I kowtow. If I discuss sex with you, you're not 'just a friend'. You're special, and I feel something for you. I could wait for a whole year just to do it 'that' person. It's not a new thing.

I, some time ago, wrote this on my diary; sex is not something you do just to impress. It is something you do with emotions, with some sense of connection, sacredness and responsibility. Sex is more that the physical intercourse we engage in. It's deeper than that. If I have sex with you, I'll 'have something to do with you'.

And like you said, sex is important. But you didn't add that it's sweet too. cheesy It's very sweet when done well and with emotion. (well, you should know better) smiley

But these days, people abuse sex. It's so unfortunate. embarassed
That's my boy. kiss
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by JoeCutie(m): 10:53am On Sep 12, 2015
MissMakas:
That's my boy. kiss
And that's my girl. wink
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by Ishilove:
dinachi:
A worse fate awaits you.
You will die a sad lonely,broke and battered lady with no one to shed a tear for you. At night,you will wish it was day and in the day you will wish it was nite.You carry a generational curse.Until you are shamefully removed from this earth your family and friends will know nothing but sorrow and shame from you.
Dinachi, this is apalling! What is it about the lady's post that warrants this kind of vitriol? huh
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by talk2yommex2000(m):
Ishilove:
Dinachi, this is apalling! What is it about the lady's post warrants this kind of vitriol? huh
u just yarn my mind o. i had to read the quotes all together to really verify what wrong the lady has done to warrant such response. Maybe it's wrong quoting or something because there is no correlation at all.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by Pidggin(f): 3:55pm On Sep 12, 2015
Ishilove:
Dinachi, this is apalling! What is it about the lady's post that warrants this kind of vitriol? huh
He can't help hating women that's his problem. I think he has unresolved mental health issues anyway. He also has such a dark demonic soul going by his posts
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by Ishilove: 3:59pm On Sep 12, 2015
Pidggin:
He can't help hating women that's his problem. I think he has unresolved mental health issues anyway. He also has such a dark demonic soul going by his posts
It is so shocking and distasteful. Even if you guys have issues before his post is still excessively bile filled. undecided
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by Pidggin(f): 4:22pm On Sep 12, 2015
Ishilove:
It is so shocking and distasteful. Even if you guys have issues before his post is still excessively bile filled. undecided
It seems he has made me his project on here cheesy cheesy so funny. He has issues with himself not me. I hope he lives long enough to see all his efforts and prayers are futile, but I seriously doubt he would. In anycase such people end up as loners with empty homes and a life full of regrets.. Dinachi you're a kid and nothing else.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by otusnorahs(f): 2:04pm On Sep 13, 2015
Goodboiyy:
And ur frnd is still dating d said guy ?

must u seek 4 advice every time, can't u use ur tongue to count ur teeth, my dear tell ur frnd to let go jor
.
GiZUS, 10 wat, 10 yrs oh no
as we speak, me n her re not ion good terms because of this issue.I don't no wat to do abt her case. I'm jst so vexed. The guy even told her I am a bad person that I'm brain washing her. I'm worried sick for her.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by otusnorahs(f): 2:09pm On Sep 13, 2015
jesussaves22:
If the guy dont have money the girl would have gone ok . It is because the guy have money and she is testing the money thats why she cant leave the guy and move on. Simple.
she's equally working. Even earning better than d guy. D guy is jst a bad guy.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by otusnorahs(f): 2:16pm On Sep 13, 2015
My sis in law dated her man for 15yrs, d guy later left her n married a younger gal saying she's too old. Nw she's abt 40, no husband. Girls shld be ccareful abeg, no tym to waste.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by babasade(m): 7:25pm On Sep 27, 2015
AgbenuAnna:
,OK oh
hope u don write all the lessons u learnt..you can send ur money mk i give u handout,so dat u can read ahead
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by Sunnypar(m): 5:35am On Feb 27, 2016
Hian!
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by Toks2008(op): 3:48pm On Feb 27, 2016
Sunnypar:
Hian!
Lol
That got me cracked up.
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by Nobody: 6:36pm On Feb 27, 2016
otusnorahs:
My sis in law dated her man for 15yrs, d guy later left her n married a younger gal saying she's too old. Nw she's abt 40, no husband. Girls shld be ccareful abeg, no tym to waste.
shocked cry dats so sad
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by Toks2008(op): 7:03pm On Feb 27, 2016
otusnorahs:
My sis in law dated her man for 15yrs, d guy later left her n married a younger gal saying she's too old. Nw she's abt 40, no husband. Girls shld be ccareful abeg, no tym to waste.
O.M.G
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by Toks2008(op): 8:09pm On Aug 05, 2017
Reminiscing
Re: 10 Reasons Why Long Courtship Should Be Avoided By Ladies. by martius101(m): 6:37am On Mar 13, 2019
Toks2008:
Lol..you dey laugh me?

Na so nah. 1sec in hell and you will forget the sweetness of all the holes you have sampled.

I believe in going for just one chic of my choice and staying put rather than fooling around sleeping with ogbanjes,snakes and marmaids.

Even if na witch i carry put for house at least she go happy say i no cheat on am.
You sef no go want cheat
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