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We know that in any affair,men cheat as well as women but im not here to advice the men on what to do but this is about sending a very deep taught provoking advice to the women who find themselves in a union with a cheating spouse.

Its one thing to be the best you can be for your man and have every reason to castigate him for cheating on you and its another thing to be a sucker in the affair and expects the man to remain faithful to you so be the best you can be for him and yourself by being

1.A good cook
2.Financially independent
3.Sexually active and appealing
4.Humble
5.Being faithful to him and
6.God fearing

Then leave him to his conscience.

If i were a lady and i find myself in a situation where i have to decide whether to break up with a sexually unfaithful hubby or not,given the hopeless cheating nature of most men,before i make up my mind on what to do i will ask myself these very important questions;

1.Can i remain a celibate forever?
2.Is there a guaranty that the next man will not do same or even worse?
3.As a sexually active lady who is out of my marriage is it really worth it leaving a cheating husband to start sleeping around with men that may likely be cheating with me on their ladies too?

There is more to a woman's life than hinging her happiness on a man's fidelity towards her or freaking out over a man's sexual infidelity and the best any lady can do for herself is to expect that polygamous side of her man to manifest someday irrespective of the unfading love he promises from time to time and if that never happens,good but if it does happen you are prepared emotionally anyways and the lady should switch to "indifferent mode" and start seeing that man as a mare sex partner who services her whenever she needs it and no longer a faithful husband to her and she must never think of revenge but should focus on her life and that of her child(ren)

This is one of the greatest secrets why our mothers stayed in their marriages and this is also one of the best ways to be happy in any marriage any lady finds herself because no man is really worth the headache and nobody has the key to your matrimonial happiness except you.

This write up is not about justifying infidelity or about asking a woman to stay with a philandering hubby but an humble advice for any lady to consider and weigh her choices before making up her mind.

I hope this makes sense.

okay...

Saving this page for Ejiro. She no dey allow me drink water keep cup. I worked with All States bank not Fidelity bank!

I just knew someone will hit that height af craze to come up with this... How interesting !

Interesting. I personally know two lady divorcees who ended up with married men and i kept asking; who dey fool who?

You left your marriage claiming your hubby cheated on you and you now end up with a married man who now cheats on his wife with you.How foolish?

Nice advice but i hope they learn.

wrongnumber:
Interesting. I personally know two lady divorcees who ended up with married men and i kept asking; who dey fool who?

You left your marriage claiming your hubby cheated on you and you now end up with a married man who now cheats on his wife with you.How foolish?

Nice advice but i hope they learn.

Only the married women will understand and this is for them anyways.

Food for thought..

NONSENSE

CUM4WHAT:
NONSENSE

I know say dem send you after me for this forum lol! were

If na your wife dey cheat na this same thing you go tell yourself too, huh?

jmoore:
If na your wife dey cheat na this same thing you go tell yourself too, huh?

Its a cruel world of men and im not asking any woman to stay or leave.She should simply consider the options and make up her mind. Simple

Toks2008:
Its a cruel world of men and im not asking any woman to stay or leave.She should simply consider the options and make up her mind. Simple

I asked you latin and you are talking chinese.

jmoore:
I asked you latin and you are talking chinese.

You are on your own.