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pinkbee:
Ehen! With all this that I do n they still don't go away.







@OP, please tell me how to chase the guys away after everything I do to push them off

just tell him u miss ur period already

whizqueen:
How can I leave him alone for a minute when he's like the air I breathe

NA WA OOOO

ZaraBrains:
NA WA OOOO

No be my fault na

I'm addicted to sweet things

whizqueen:
No be my fault na

I'm addicted to sweet things

Enjoy dear buh beware of diabetes

PunkyVeer:
I see. Shrugs.

Some other guy might be snoozing around you too...

CHUKSKALIDONN:

Some babe will be forming principles...


If you become so strict, I will look for a flexible one...

Case closed.

chrisbaba1:
[size=16pt]- Coming to my place uninvited

- Talking about marriage when you just met.[/size]

Coming to my place uninvited or without telling me. It's so crazy. Some ladies just feel because you are dating, they can invade your privacy at any time. When they come, they want you to do what they want. That my ex hear am strong shall. I don't take nonesense especially when you do it deliberately.

Cutehector:
just tell him u miss ur period already

That one is learning work. Tell me something worse than a hot slap

ZaraBrains:
Enjoy dear buh beware of diabetes

I will take injection

PunkyVeer:
Ok, hypothetical question-here is this one girl & one boy, right? Now the girl feels like she's doing all the reaching out to him 1st via phone call, text, whatever & she stops. He reaches out only to resort back to waiting
for the girl to reach out to him 1st. Now we've concluded that he's just not that into her. But what I'm trying to understand is, why does he reach out to her when she stops when it's obvious he's not interested? Because personally, I'd be popping champagne if someone I'm not interested in stopped bothering me. I'm just trying to understand the motivation of continuing to talk with someone you don't want.

The reason why the guy still calls the girl is just to make her feel that he loves her, bt trust me ,inside the guys mind, he is very happy she didn't call or text.

...too much talk
1: asking "where are you" like it solves your problems. Abi you want me to get tou something where ever onfind myself.

2: asking for a new phone because your present one is slow and the new model is out. Dummy!! What about school fees

3: making all your family members prone to one accident, surgery, gunshot wounds, diabetes and cancer ailments every month you want money to trip with your girlfriends

4: calling me baby.. or sweetie or bae. What happened to my name??

5: asking if i like your friend.. wtf!! What do you think?

Nice thread from a lady.


Wish all ladies can learn & practice this ethics, the rate at which relationship crash will reduce.


Just pray that my babe read this thread because she hates the truth.

***yawns***

pinkbee:
That one is learning work. Tell me something worse than a hot slap

lie to him u hav hiv.. Dat u just found out...Make it dramatic.. Like put on some tears...

my babe feels that it is my obligation alone to b calling her. I decided not to call her anymore until she change. for six days now I have not called her & I'm tired of complaining. she is too selfish

emperorchedda:
About the best article i've read here. I'd have said more but I'm critically ill

Get well soon
sending healing prayers your way
...cheers

nairaland.com

hmmmm

@op u are a relationship god....I broke up with my woman coz na this same matter make me free her.... ur writeup clealy looks like my heart story..... Take a bow....eveen if agbani gree for me and get thos yeye rules n principles I no want....

My last real gf was guilty on all count and she knew it. She almost choked me wit her incessant 'correction' Aside all that she's a real darlyn.

PunkyVeer:
Ok, hypothetical question-here is this one girl & one boy, right? Now the girl feels like she's doing all the reaching out to him 1st via phone call, text, whatever & she stops. He reaches out only to resort back to waiting
for the girl to reach out to him 1st. Now we've concluded that he's just not that into her. But what I'm trying to understand is, why does he reach out to her when she stops when it's obvious he's not interested? Because personally, I'd be popping champagne if someone I'm not interested in stopped bothering me. I'm just trying to understand the motivation of continuing to talk with someone you don't want.

We'll, this maybe another reason why this guy is acting this way.
Some men can't stand being alone, that means they just can't stand not having a companion. They want to tell themselves that some woman must be interested in them at all times, they feed off the attention we give them. When u stop calling or texting, he will come back for it cos that's what feeds their ego, they must be relevant. These kind of men wants a companion but hates committed relationships.
Settling down for this kind of a person is difficult cos he must be relevant in the relationship market and you aren't the only one reaching out to him. He's got option A,B, C... just walk now and never look back. He's a time waster.

misspicy:
Not that i am dull or something,truth is i dont just understand this post,can some explain Or is it that am trully dull?Btw am FTC

Maybe u re dear but seriously u don't look it
All though I can't see ur brain to know if its mixed with water. Na joke o! No take am serious o!

@ OP u didn't add demanding for cash too much, I think its the number one.

forget about all these shitty relationship posts. a guy that doesn't love you will device a million reasons to leave even when you seem perfect.

TheMainMan:
what if i do all these things and he still leaves me.. ..

Hmmn

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Nice one.

aim5:
Hmm interesting question. I personally feel that the guy either views the girl as a just a cheap easy phuck and he feels that he would only talk to her if he had no other option , or maybe the girl he actually wanted isn't interested in him, so he's trying to resume things with this girl .. you never know. Because me, I would let a girl know if I'm interested in her and I don't sugarcoat things in that department at all. As for the girl, maybe she's crushing hard on the suave douchebag type most girls can't resist, so maybe she should go for a guy that would actually acknowledge her. I'm not saying pick a guy she isn't physically attracted to per say, I'm just saying pick a guy that will at least give her the time of day.

send him this simple message and thank me latter
don't chat/talk to me when you are bored am not here to entertain you.
Him go understand

Can someone help me share this information to my Girlfriend please. She need it.

osaslord500:
The reason why the guy still calls the girl is just to make her feel that he loves her, bt trust me ,inside the guys mind, he is very happy she didn't call or text.

gbam.. I read this post and I was like " oh gosh I fvckn wana meet the op in reality and take her for a date... Buh frm d look of things, most girls will not wana take correction, the little things d op wrote r mostly the major things dat make a guy lose interest..

Anyways the truth will always remain bitter..

whizqueen:
No be my fault na

I'm addicted to sweet things

Like Lollipop and Banana?

wow....wonderful write up.......my girl use to tell me "I love you".....not that I don't love her I haven't gotten to that point for me to easily tell her same cos i dont like deceiving people wt serious issues so she stopped telling me. Buh I have found out that the longer we are dating the more I love her. I hope one day I can freely tell her I love her from the bottom of my heart