I discovered that poor people prefer to have more children than the rich but i think poor people should have less children base on their low level of income.Well, i asked one of my senior friends and he said poor people have sex more becaues it is the source of their joy while wealth is the source of joy for the rich.How true is this?

Lack of orientation.

Rich man gets some good news: Honey we're going on vacation, water sports, bungee jumping etc

Poor man: iya kafila move closer joo don't you want to celebrate with me?... loses iya kafilas wrapper...


9months later: Ebenezer Obey e sa ma miliki o

Gerrit?

They both do find joy in sex. Just that one has knowledge about modern contraceptives and can effortless afford it while the other rely on the natural contraceptives. And of course the modern ones are more efficient.

MINDSET is Everything.


The Rich man, is a planner and is Reponsible for his actions.
He has a vision for a kids n has compared d possibility with his source of income.
He also is a very busy dude, with alternative sources of pleasure other than sex.

The Poor man, does things anyhow.
Believes God will take care of them.
His forms of pleasure only includes Sex and Drinking.


That's all

refreshrate:
Rich man gets some good news: Honey we're going on vacation, water sports, bungee jumping etc

Poor man: iya kafila move closer joo don't you want to celebrate with me?... loses iya kafilas wrapper...


9months later: Ebenezer Obey e sa ma miliki o

Gerrit?

That's also a poorman's way of relieving stress and expressing joys too

Lol....funny comments above!


OP...

The poor man gets many kids with the mindset that one out of them will turn out to be great someday!....

It's not all about orientation! You think they don't know that they should have 2-3kids so they could be able to take care of them?

Rich man will always have a boy and a girl... Jst becoz he wants to take his time and money to give them the best and sound education, as they could.

Poor Family Planning, Lack of orientation...... Later, (the poor ones) they wil go and meet their state government, begging them for financial assistance to take care of their "triplet"

Because the thing dey sweet dem pass the rich

Mind. Set and since the rich man is richer with money, the poor should also have something to be proud of, which is many children

refreshrate:
Rich man gets some good news: Honey we're going on vacation, water sports, bungee jumping etc

Poor man: iya kafila move closer joo don't you want to celebrate with me?... loses iya kafilas wrapper...


9months later: Ebenezer Obey e sa ma miliki o

Gerrit?

You are one funny person..Lol.

The poor man loves his Big O and uses sex for relaxation. Imagine using sex for stress relieve not so right.
I wish modern Africa man would think otherwise but for where...unfortunately the cycle of poverty continues.

Is it in Nigeria that poor people have more children than the rich, or where exactly?

pet4ril:
Mind. Set and since the rich man is richer with money, the poor should also have something to be proud of, which is many children

Many children dt will make it difficult 4 him to break d poverty chain....



Hence d poor get poorer n d Rich, well u know d rest

armyofone:
The poor man loves his Big O and uses sex for relaxation. Imagine using sex for stress relieve not so right.
I wish modern Africa man would think otherwise but for where...unfortunately the cycle of poverty continues.

The rich ones also relies on sex to relieve stress.

I think its a sign of frustration on the part of the poor individuals who give birth to more children than they can cater for.

Ayima:
I discovered that poor people prefer to have more children than the rich

really?

Where?

Ayima:
I discovered that poor people prefer to have more children than the rich but i think poor people should have less children base on their low level of income.Well, i asked one of my senior friends and he said poor people have sex more becaues it is the source of their joy while wealth is the source of joy for the rich.How true is this?

What a coincidence! A friend brought up this topic few days ago and his conclusion was that sex is a major source of consolation or recreation for a poor man.

He went further to say that unfortunately, many of them are either too ignorant or impatient to do family planning, so they end up having a "football team"

Sounds logical

Cc: lalasticlala

they do because the more children they have, the higher chances of one them (their children) getting rich. their children is their hope of ever making it in life. the rich makes more money, the poor makes more babies.

Sometimes A rich man's man's child could be ==3 of poor man children

All I know is that God gives children and man make it come to reality
.
What more can I say?

OGHENE Doh..

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poverty will affect all areas of victims life.
they won't get money to buy condom
they won't have money to do family planning.
poverty is of the mind.

because they are poor

Hmmmmm.. Thank God for this topic.

The answer isnt far from the fact that, the poor man born as many as possible because he believes out of 8 children, one will surely be successful and his success will one way or the other elevate all or some of the other childrens.

Dont say, the poor man wife doesnt know about family planning or ways of preventing pregnancy when it comes to sex. The poor man wife knows, but they keep giving birth to as much as possible with the mindset '''olorun lon wo omo were'' meaning 'its God that looks after the kid of a mad woman''

so, they have money to fend for the kids or not, the kids will surely survive one way or the other.

Let me round it up with an experience i had when i went to visit a friend.

There's a woman that lived in that house then, she came to squat with her husband sister cos they're sent parking from their home due to house rent debt.
The woman husband is an okada rider. They've 9 children. I say 9 children.. These children are still very small.. Every morning, whenever, this woman is bathing for these kids one after the other, i just marvelled why someone will deliberating be bringing such sufferness upon herself.

I said ''deliberate sufferness'' cos i later got to witness a misunderstanding btw the woman and her husband sister and her husband sister was complaining that if the woman wont respect his son in her house. She'ld be sent parking cos she cant watch her talk to her son anyhow, afterall she warned her several times when she was nursing the third born and also adviced her on several ways to prevent unwanted pregnancy that surely works.

The husband sister said, when this woman was even nursing the 7th born, the money the husband makes daily from okada wasnt able to feed the family cos those children eats like vampire.

Lastly, where i got to know that, its the mindset of ''even if they're 20, one or most of them will surely be successful and her sufferness will be no more'' was most times whenever she's bathing these kids, that's what she always say..

I later had to ask myself how these kids will be successful when they dont go to school.. I now looked at our NURTW commercial bus garrage chairmen and realised education is no more a yardstick to being successful.

Forget konji, the poor man or poor woman knows what he or she's doing.

contingency planning

No planning

1. Poor people tend to be less educated, so many of them know little about family planning.

2. They can't afford fun vacations and other leisures, so sex is the only form of recreation they engage in with their spouses, and that leads to procreation. Hehehe