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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by mbulela: 1:44am On Sep 26, 2015 |
x6blade:I hope you were celibate all the time you were out of the country? I also hope now that you are back bit feeling nothing,you are not getting something outside? |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by justmenoni: 1:59am On Sep 26, 2015 |
Me too lol : Dquote author=morethanadoll post=38377706] Right! I was thinking the same thing! They know that those stories are theirs![/quote] 1 Like |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by kunleajao(m): 2:28am On Sep 26, 2015 |
This is my first time commenting her but always been following on this forum. Hmmmmmm this world sha wonders sha neva end this same things happen to me too my girl claim to be a virgin wish I accpeted later I found that she was nt a virgin wish I question her on it @ the initial she said she was raped u kno love now I stil accept her cos I love then. Later she did somethings wish makes me not to believe her then she then told me she raped by her ex. My own piece of advice for your friend he shuld 4give her and leave her cos I tell she will still do it and evetually leave him by that time he go pain your friend. Cos am ought to have leave my girl the mother begged me wish I accepted later nko. 4give her and later go they ar all fone of it I tell she will still do more than that quote me. Abasha 4 Likes |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by RetroBoy: 2:34am On Sep 26, 2015 |
repogirl:I've been in the same boat as OP.. We dated for almost 2 years, and she was very emphatic about keeping it for her future husband. I respected her wishes and decided to wait. We sort of drifted apart for about 8 months and later got back together. One thing led to another, and I found out she was disvirgined by this dude when we were apart. What really got me was the fact that the dude never promised her marriage or anything; he infact cheated on her... Now she's back and begging, and professing how much she loves me and all that; she is really sweet and caring and all that, but I find it difficult to forget, even if I have forgiven her. I am sure she still corresponds with the guy and even if she doesn't, I don't think I want to play 2nd fiddle 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Opoki(m): 2:34am On Sep 26, 2015 |
kunleajao:Mr. Kunle, Abeg can you lend me your BlackBerry charger? Mine refuses to charge. I'm standing by your gate. Yea. That's Me whistling. 2 Likes |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 2:36am On Sep 26, 2015 |
maxiuc:Promiscuous & unfaithful girls everywhere |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Opoki(m): 2:36am On Sep 26, 2015 |
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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by aprilwise(m): 2:55am On Sep 26, 2015 |
Each time I read this kinda stories my heart beat 120 times in a min. Instead of bad thing to happen make rain fall. I fear women. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by RichieF27: 3:07am On Sep 26, 2015 |
Firstly do guys still agree to a no sex relationship mehn...well who ever is involved should as well look for another vitgin because im sure the guy in her compound even had it with her this night..don't take such girls serious just turn her to Bleep mate Dozzmani: |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Tipiflexy(m): 3:08am On Sep 26, 2015 |
I AD ALMOST SAME STORY BUT I LET HA GO INSTEAD OF ACCEPTING HA NEW ERA. CANT IMAGINE MYSELF FORGETTING SUCH SCENE. MY EX WAS A VIRGIN COS I CONFIRMED IT. I DONT WANNA PUT PRESSURE ON HA COS SHE TOO FRAGILE. I AD TO LET HA HA B COS IT HA PRIDE. TO MY GREATEST SURPRISE SHE LOST IT TO A TOTAL STRANGER. I AD DIS STRANGE FEELING ABOUT HA N SHE CONFESSED. AFTER SO MANY PLEADING, I AD TO LET ACCEPT HA PLEAD. I INVITED HA OVER FOR A WHOLE WEEK N I ENJOYED MYSELF TO D FULLEST. AFTER SOME WEEKS, I CHANGED COMPLETELY TOWARD HA N I AD TO LET HA GO. YES I FORGIVE HA BUT CANT FORGET WHAT SHE DID. BOTTOM LINE IS THAT YOUR FRIEND SHOULD LET D GIRL GO. A CHEAT WILL ALWAYS B A CHEAT. HIS GF CAN EASILY B MANIPULATED N DAT PART OF HA WILL CAUSE UR FRIEND MORE HARM THAN GOOD. SHE WILL ALWAYS RUN BACK TO UR FRIEND WHEN SHE DOES SOMETHING BAD. THIS IS D RIGHT TIME TO GET IT RIGHT.AV IT IN MIND THAT SHE WILL REPEAT SUCH AGAIN WHEN SHE IS IN TIGHT CORNER. DAT SELF CONTROL IS NOT IN HA N D RELATIONSHIP WILL NEVER B BASE ON TRUST ANYMORE COS D WOUND IN UR FRIEND HEART WONT HEAL AT ALL. THEY SAY LOVE CONQUER ALL BUT NOT IN THAT SAME SITUATION. A GUY CAN EASILY FORGIVE A GIRL THAT COMMITED ATTROCITIES BEFORE THEIR RELATIONSHIP COMPARE TO YOUR GUY'S SCENE. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Kazrem(m): 3:14am On Sep 26, 2015 |
tosyne2much:Honestly. That's just their summary. Morufat was her name. We went to the same secondary school. No sex was our agreement until after secondary school. I was in ss2, she was in ss1. Later got to know a friend who lives in next street bleep her like never before. When she realized that I knew of her affairl, she proposed s*x. Me? Olohun o ni je. I heard you say I should have. Only if you knew who Umar (the guy) was. I serial igbo smoker. I was (and still I am) too decent to put my opa Moses into the same hole that an igbo smoker had put his. If I hadn't know, it's a different case. I learnt. Wooed a friend of hers. She accepted. Once bitten twice shy. Moved closer to her, only to tell me I am only interested in s*ex only. She later gave in though partially but the point is they are indeed confused being. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Kazrem(m): 3:15am On Sep 26, 2015 |
Omotayor123:That's all what you have to say si oro yi? |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by noblegrex: 3:16am On Sep 26, 2015 |
morethanadoll:see you,its not only here,this is a reality.its happening everywhere with them.they've got a very shallow thinking.that one is not even the last of their atrocities.u can only have 5% that's faire.if you're married already,you're save but if not you'll feel disgusted when you hear about them. 2 Likes |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 3:30am On Sep 26, 2015 |
tellwisdom: KISS YOU?tellwisdom,i no no say you romantic reac like this oooo kiss kwa?! |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by daprincel(m): 3:44am On Sep 26, 2015 |
mogbe! I must fvck dis babe asap........ 1 Like |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Laryne(m): 3:54am On Sep 26, 2015 |
There are times he'll feel she has taken him for a fool. Could he have ignored all the green light for sex she showed him. If he forgives her and stay with her, deep within he will never trust her again and if he leaves her, his next girl might not be a virgin. Its really up to him; be with her and never trust her or brake up with her, feel heart broken with regrets for some months, get over her and get a new person with no issues known to you...truth is, these girls ain't loyal. 2 Likes |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 4:01am On Sep 26, 2015 |
repogirl: 1. He doesn't know jackshyte about that girl. 2. True, she's most likely being with her neighbour more than once. 3. I predict she's gonna dump him soon, hence, he should leave her to avoid further heartbreak. |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by ighodalonosa(m): 4:33am On Sep 26, 2015 |
This is the first time i am commenting in such matters like this. The truth is girls are confused and they need guidiance. I am a virgin and i do not pray to marry a virgin that do not know GOD cus she will cheat on u b4 or after marriage. We men are the problem. U see d girl is dating a guy and u will not respect that fact but go arround pursuing the girl. My advice to you is not to date anybody again until u want to marry. I remember how a girl at sch nearly took it away. if i was a lady it would hv been lost because she wanted to overpower me o. Keep virginity because of d fear of GOD and not for a lady or man. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by 4stylz: 4:47am On Sep 26, 2015 |
yaskarahyelhope: Can't even understand what this one is saying; take a walk please. |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by joshrare(m): 4:51am On Sep 26, 2015 |
henribj: Sorry bro... Its no more a national cake, its just a cake now nothing special in it just like every other h*le. |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by luswitz(f): 5:07am On Sep 26, 2015 |
U sleep with so many and expect to marry a virgin? Smh! I think it will be ideal if both are virgins. Before u make your decision ask yourself if u as a guy haven't cheated on a girl before and I bet u, u didn't have sincerity to tell her, we are all hypocrites and yet pretend to be saints.. my advice to your friend; if he knows he has not cheated on a girl before and won't cheat after marriage den he should quite and move on,but if otherwise... U know d rest.. peace! |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by SleekyPosh(m): 5:07am On Sep 26, 2015 |
Flashh: 20 bottles of chilled Ciroc 4 u My sure Nigga. Every guy needs to reset their mind to that default setting. Shit happens brothers! Anything goes... A girl can get up from ur joystick now ND instantly fly a bike to beng anoda dikk.. This hoes ain't loyal.. It doesn't even matter if u r d one dat opened the hole Cos a lot of miners still have a permit to explore it gaan.. Homies we need 2 get that OT intact in our heads... Do ur best ND satisfy urself when u working the available kitty.. Remember.. It's only urs 4 dat moment. Thanks *Drops Mic* 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by TimothyNkenu: 5:22am On Sep 26, 2015 |
Dozzmani: 5 Likes
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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by oforij(m): 5:25am On Sep 26, 2015 |
4stylz:* forgive but don't forget and quit d relationship else she'll do it and use d fact that u love her as a means of apologizing ** speaking from experience |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by faithbibi(f): 5:32am On Sep 26, 2015 |
I guess she was never a virgin from the start, she only claimed to be one so you will think she's a good girl. A girl that have been keeping herself for long won't just fall easily for you, let alone a compound guy. I see no reason why a responsible girl will lie about been a virgin when she's not. It happened to one of my friend who lied to a man about been a virgin till after her traditional marriage. When the man found out that she was lying, the man refused to push through with the church wedding and broke up with her. Issues related to been a virgin or not shouldn't be lied about as it might bring hatred and lack of trust 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by centusportaiwo(m): 5:33am On Sep 26, 2015 |
humnn, d guy needs 2be very serious and pray over d issue ,Cos if she carries out d worst action again, it may be extra ordinarily disastrous |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 5:36am On Sep 26, 2015 |
You snooze you lose mi amigos, good pousi don't wait for no man |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 5:38am On Sep 26, 2015 |
henribj:National cake?? Bro u bad gan |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Atlantian: 5:42am On Sep 26, 2015 |
Marriage is overrated. Without any iota of exaggeration, an average married woman has slept with another man during their marriage. An average family has a kid not belonging to the husband and almost all the husbands have cheated. Let it be known that marriage is alien to man, its a selfish invention by man to keep man in check and to keep women in perpetual loyalty, it is a good thing no doubts but to expect 100 percent loyalty in marriage is like expecting 4 pieces of fish in a can of sardine. Everyone should be contented that there is a pussy/dick readily on our beds but to expect totality of fidelity is infact a sin. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by bunmat4real(m): 5:45am On Sep 26, 2015 |
I think d best thing is for her to go nd marry dat her neighbour |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by CandyBar: 5:47am On Sep 26, 2015 |
Virginity is not a trophy......is it the only reason your friend is with her? If Yes.....the purpose has been defeated, He should "check & balance" all options. I however do not support infidelity......but I also have one question, has your friend always been faithful?? If he was really faithful......why did he agree to sleep with her at all?? If he's not comfortable, he should just walk.....a broken relationship is better than a union built of shattered glass. 1 Like |
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by dammytosh: 6:07am On Sep 26, 2015 |
4stylz: Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you 4 Likes 1 Share |
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