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Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by oz4real83(m): 4:26pm On Sep 28, 2015

Ask google

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by bmos(m): 4:27pm On Sep 28, 2015

falconey:
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Ask your mama. She will tell she started having hers.

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 4:31pm On Sep 28, 2015

Diamondqueen:
thanks

if i will give u a sincere advise, dnt go into d relationship....... u r quite too young, i no u might say maturity is a thing of d mind, sincerely its nt all about maturity by mind, numeric maturity also matters, i am quite sure dat at 17 ur parents will nt recognise ur relationship secondly,relationship r for dos wanting to get married.... r u ready thirdly, is God leading you(i dont no if u believe in God but jst incase) in conclusion i pray u listen to me...... believe, i no hw it feels, all ur friends have bf and u r feeling lonely, and unloved,but patience is d virtue u need and u wont regret being patience.

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Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by mrjosh: 4:35pm On Sep 28, 2015

My dear Diamond + queen pls face your study now. There is time for everything. What is the assurance the guy will marry you. After tasting what he want from you, he might dump you for another girl. Bible says flee from all evil appearances. This is the money I can give you.

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Fourwinds: 4:35pm On Sep 28, 2015

Diamondqueen:
So I know you'll tell me school first and face your books. Yes, I know all that. I'll be 17 in two months. I'm intelligent and i do very well in school. Most of you guys have passed through my stage and I hope you understand that this is the stage where you start having feelings for the opposite sex. So I hope this doesn't sound like I'm a bad girl or something like that. I don't want you to say things like "what is this generation turning into?" because I'm very sure it happened in the previous generation and there are evidences such as the single mums that i see that got pregnant then. Long story short, there is a boy i like and he likes me too and he just asked me out. I made it very clear to him that we are not going to get intimate and he is very okay with it. I know you'll say it can happen by accident but i know that the only place we can get intimate is at a lonely place so all I'll have to do is to avoid it. The thing now is that do you think getting into a relationship at 16 is quite okay. Mind you, I'll soon be 17.

hmmmmm. small pikin see Lion e call am Bingo..

If u no d meaning of Softly Softly Catchee Money then u know d solution to ur question.

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by mustiiz(m): 4:36pm On Sep 28, 2015

Diamondqueen:
thanks.

Hmmm dis is serious but its ur life sha... I wish u d best

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 4:37pm On Sep 28, 2015

Well you can but don't have sex yet, b'cus if you do, you may regreat it lata

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by xclusive43(m): 4:42pm On Sep 28, 2015

LordOfTheWeed:
That toto wey dey scratch you go still send you go village, i promise you.. .. ..

Guy, you deserve your moniker grin

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by odinese(m): 4:46pm On Sep 28, 2015

imtfans:
go and read ur book big head

Hahahahaha... She dey do i2know

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Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by alexlee50: 4:49pm On Sep 28, 2015

Diamondqueen:
So I know you'll tell me school first and face your books. Yes, I know all that. I'll be 17 in two months. I'm intelligent and i do very well in school. Most of you guys have passed through my stage and I hope you understand that this is the stage where you start having feelings for the opposite sex. So I hope this doesn't sound like I'm a bad girl or something like that. I don't want you to say things like "what is this generation turning into?" because I'm very sure it happened in the previous generation and there are evidences such as the single mums that i see that got pregnant then. Long story short, there is a boy i like and he likes me too and he just asked me out. I made it very clear to him that we are not going to get intimate and he is very okay with it. I know you'll say it can happen by accident but i know that the only place we can get intimate is at a lonely place so all I'll have to do is to avoid it. The thing now is that do you think getting into a relationship at 16 is quite okay. Mind you, I'll soon be 17.

nope there is nothing wrong in beung in a relatuonship with someone of the opposite sex in as much as sex is not in your minds.but if u guys are considering mating, just forget the relationship thing

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by dacovajnr: 4:51pm On Sep 28, 2015

Go and face your book as you've been told..and you doin Ok doesn't mean everything I going perfectly..getting into relationship @ that age of urz can cost you both academically or emotionally...coz it will surely get to a stage whereby u got distracted by love and then you begin to lose focus on certain stuffz u think you good @...bydway am 12yrs undecided

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by 2termz(m): 4:53pm On Sep 28, 2015

wanna get fvcked at d age of 16,i feel u grin

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Chrisx1x(m): 4:54pm On Sep 28, 2015

Diamondqueen:
thanks. I won't throw my dignity at any guys feet.

i wil like to advise u as a sister.i was once in ur shoes.relationship,emotion,love e.t.c are things that are too strong for teens to handle.i was once in ur shoes,i thought i've found love,i was ready to sacrifice everything,i did many silly things but now i know better.
Heartbreak is one of the most painful experience in life...it sticks to u and forms part of ur sad memories

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by falconey(m): 5:02pm On Sep 28, 2015

bmos:
Ask your mama. She will tell she started having hers.

not every home is the same sorry we don't do that in our home.

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by donkross1(m): 5:03pm On Sep 28, 2015

Most of the girls chastising you lost there virginity even before age 15. Moreover a girl of your age in south africa already has 2 kids. If you think you can handle it then go, enjoy yourself dear (life is too short)

Play wisely

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 5:08pm On Sep 28, 2015

Diamondqueen:
lol. If you restrain your children so much from something, they's like to test and see what that thing is. We teenagers can do a lot of things without our parents knowing.

did i hear u say u are gud in ur books? really? av u passed waec at one sitting? av u written jamb once and post jamb once and gained admission? av u gotten above 3.7 gpa in ur first exam in university, if not, dnt b offended, i feel u a dunce who knows nothing bout being gud in books. first meet these criteria before u can think of handling a bf.

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Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by desmondDessi(m): 5:10pm On Sep 28, 2015

Diamondqueen:
I don't think I understand you. Brush it off, I don't need your advice anymore. Thanks.

Pride

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by harryson77(m): 5:10pm On Sep 28, 2015

otunsman:
The babe dey use naija beauty pageant age.Those babes can lie for their ages.

I knw a 13 year old that talks matured dan her sef....its nutin......life's changed

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 5:16pm On Sep 28, 2015

400billionman:
The summary of this thread is that diamond queen wants to Bleep.

MODs front page please..

lmaoooo

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Trustworthiness: 5:17pm On Sep 28, 2015

Diamondqueen:
yes, i think i can. But even if i can't and anything bad happens, i'll learn from it. Thanks a lot for your concern.

If you got pregnated and dumped there after by your boyfriend and your parent decided to not to sent you to school again so as to be able to take care of your bastard child. I hope that will be a good lesson that you will love to learn from?

I think you have made up your mind, why seeking for advice.

What I am 100% sure of is that most girls don't learn from other people's mistake, until they fell into the same trap. And the evil committed my women always comes running after them.

I can only wish you the best of the bad luck that will a raise from the decision you are about to make.

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Edipee(m): 5:22pm On Sep 28, 2015

Chommieblaq:
I won't advise u to, dating comes with emotional stress that might interfere with ur studies, u might think u are strong buh believe it happens to even stronger people.

Just be friends with him for now

THIS IS THE BITTER TRUTH.

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 5:24pm On Sep 28, 2015

CSTR2:
One thing leads to another, boy sleeps with girl, pregnancy sets in, and an easy future becomes very very difficult.
I see a lot of small girls in Nigeria struggling to take care of their abandoned babies and i wonder if the thrill was worth it.
I am sure many of them did not plan to have sex let alone get pregnant.
Focus on your studies, and leave boys alone.
My advise is a little stale but is as real and relevant as air.
Human beings use less than 10% of the brain, you as a young girl can't afford to start wasting some of it on a boy when there is so much you should be diverting brainpower to.

Even tho i am a guy, i have to hand it to you, your comment was on point and so real, God bless you, hope she learns from it but we all know at that age, all most of us wanted was the experience and thrills to do whatever and still stay good (for our minds)

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Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by luvprince4real(m): 5:25pm On Sep 28, 2015

Ask sanusi.

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by hillsate: 5:30pm On Sep 28, 2015

Diamondqueen:
I don't think I understand you. Brush it off, I don't need your advice anymore. Thanks.

Girlie, with this kinda outburst, you aren't ready to have a boyfriend yet.
If I were you, I will face my studies and what I intend to be in life. Real guys will chase you then. But any guy coming close to you now or you are getting close to now is just for statistics.

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Dramadiddy(m): 5:30pm On Sep 28, 2015

Lol I think you have made up your mind. Maybe you came here to see if people will tell you bad sides to your decision. I think if feel you can be able to take it up, fine. Just know that secondary school dating is not really dating, so you might as well wait until you're in the university, that's when the real test comes. Goodluck

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Yorobastard(m): 5:33pm On Sep 28, 2015

CAPITAL no

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by raydatluvs(m): 5:36pm On Sep 28, 2015

jonnieoneng:
DO YOU HAVE A DAUGHTER OF YOUR OWN ?IF THE ANSWER IS NO..... I DON'T THINK YOU QUALIFY TO ADVISE THIS LADY MENTAL MATURITY OR WHAT DID YOU SAY ? YOU DEFINITELY HAVEN'T BEING READING THE NEWS OF LATE WHICH KIND RESPECT DEY BETWEEN PRICK AND TOTO. IS THIS WHAT YOU WILL SAY IF SHE WERE YOUR LITTLE GIRL.IF I SEE YOU I FOR PUNCH YOU BLACK AND BLUE

mister, relationships do not have to be a drawback or be a disadvantage so to say cause you seem to have that mindset. Some relationships actually make the parties grow. You maybe read my post again with an open mind.

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by shnug: 5:42pm On Sep 28, 2015

First thing I'll tell u hun is to slow down with that temper and attitude u've got. Secondly if u are as intelligent and smart as u think u are, u will understand that almost everyone's comment on this is telling u to wait a little longer. Though some people din't say it in black and white they mean d right thing and its becos u already said what u want and don't want to hear. If u don't have ulterior motives, I don't seee y u and him can't be just friends. I'm a girl like u and I'll tell u dat if u fail to learn by advice, u will learn by experience. Goodluck.

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by ehis05(m): 5:42pm On Sep 28, 2015

Love is overrated my dear..apply wisdom in everytin u do...might not end up as beautiful as it startd..hav dat at d back of ur mind..its ok 2 date..dats if d guy has no ulterior motives..cuz if he does...its 95 percent certain u wud fall victim

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 5:48pm On Sep 28, 2015

Having a boyfriend is not necessary. You'll just expose yourself to things you're not suppose to see or know yet no matter how "careful" you want to be. Liking the opposite sex is normal but you should control it. Now is the time for you to develop all aspects of your life and become a virtuous woman. When you're ready you'll have a lot of suitors coming not just one.

Just develop yourself now, and yeah draw closer to God too. Its the best decision you'll make in your youthful stage. Be safe.

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 5:50pm On Sep 28, 2015

Elxandre:
Comp Sci.
FUTA do me strong thing. They waste my quality aggregate, heard their quota was drastically reduced

Don change course tho.
Statistics, Phy electronics and math.
We are waiting for the list now.

You be Baba ooo.....I go come greet you one day for FUTA Na

Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Allergic(m): 5:50pm On Sep 28, 2015

Anyway, age doesn't really matter but that is not generally speaking.

I started dating my Girl when she was barely 16.

We are now on the 5th year and She's everything to me. If i have to marry in this World, it's got to be her.

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