sparklefresh:



am on number 4 now

uhmm.....not bad, i hope the 4th is Mr right sha.
The girl in question can decide for herself sha

This is all I can say ... " A person's brain works from the day they were born for the rest of their lives but stops working the day they fall in love" trust me you are head over hill already ... my advice is you forget this for now. Being in love can make you do crazy things and at this age, I'll advice you forget all this.

safarigirl:
what is your purpose for wanting to enter a relationship? Is it cuz your friends have guys? Babe, I'm 21 and I've never had a boyfriend and I don't feel like I'm missing out a thing. Relationships aren't all they're hyped to be. All this mouth you're making, anything you think you know now, I knew more than you then and I still know now. Try making friends with guys before thinking of relationships. I doubt you have many male friends

You've never had a bf at 21 Please visit T.B Joshua ASAP.

Diamondqueen:
So I know you'll tell me school first and face your books. Yes, I know all that. I'll be 17 in two months. I'm intelligent and i do very well in school. Most of you guys have passed through my stage and I hope you understand that this is the stage where you start having feelings for the opposite sex. So I hope this doesn't sound like I'm a bad girl or something like that. I don't want you to say things like "what is this generation turning into?" because I'm very sure it happened in the previous generation and there are evidences such as the single mums that i see that got pregnant then. Long story short, there is a boy i like and he likes me too and he just asked me out. I made it very clear to him that we are not going to get intimate and he is very okay with it. I know you'll say it can happen by accident but i know that the only place we can get intimate is at a lonely place so all I'll have to do is to avoid it. The thing now is that do you think getting into a relationship at 16 is quite okay. Mind you, I'll soon be 17.

CHOI!!! SEE YOUNG SOFT MILD FRESH TOTO ALERT OO! U FINE? POST YA PIX HERE, ITS OK TO DATE AT 16 IF ULL DATE ME.

starlingslimnet:
You be Baba ooo.....I go come greet you one day for FUTA Na

I'll be waiting

Are u already in university??

safarigirl:
she already has a guy that 'likes' her and wants to 'date' her. No mind diamondqueen, na too much Disney channel dey worry am.

Maybe it isn't too wrong after all.

Some like Omotola dated early and never got burnt.

these indomie generations self haba see eh let me give u my advice go and contest for the indomitables prize and see kids of ur age wey no get time for this rubbish.16 ko relationship ni lubbish

chichriso:

You we d talk ok book when or at what age did u have your first sex, don't lie?

i first had sex wen i was 22

You did not come here to get an advice, what you seek is justification for the expression of your raging sensual desire...Think little one! At your age you've got the chance to re-write history. I wish i reformed the world as Blaise Pascal, Daniel the Israelite, David the son of Jesse, Napoleon Bonaparte and a host of others did in their teens but unfortunately i'm past 30...Don't squander your youthful vitality, vigor and virtue on the sugary sensual pleasures of youth...study, grow mentally and spiritually, find the meaning of life, discover the purpose of existence, peer deep into the hidden mysteries, understand the depth of wisdom...and i tell you, in no time, Christ will package your man for you...sex is sweet, so sweet, and it has crippled the lives of great men and women...

No please! I just had a discussion with my younger sister of same age as you. I don't mind sharing a few of what we discussed; I know how that at this stage of your development the hormones are firing n d guys are putting some pressures. But honestly dear, these are distractions for you at this age. A great man ones said as a teenager; "this is the planning of your life and not the plan of your life". Experience my dear isn't the best teacher.

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beta date sme1 like me... that's very shy to talk to d opposite sex but can fall in love like Emeka ike in movie.

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efficiencie:
You did not come here to get an advice, what you seek is justification for the expression of your raging sensual desire...Think little one! At your age you've got the chance to re-write history. I wish i reformed the world as Blaise Pascal, Daniel the Israelite, David the son of Jesse, Napoleon Bonaparte and a host of others did in their teens but unfortunately i'm past 30...Don't squander your youthful vitality, vigor and virtue on the sugary sensual pleasures of youth...study, grow mentally and spiritually, find the meaning of life, discover the purpose of existence, peer deep into the hidden mysteries, understand the depth of wisdom...and i tell you, in no time, Christ will package your man for you...sex is sweet, so sweet, and it has crippled the lives of great men and women...

Whoever you are and where ever you are God bless you.

Chommieblaq:
I won't advise u to, dating comes with emotional stress that might interfere with ur studies, u might think u are strong buh believe it happens to even stronger people.




Just be friends with him for now

best comment here so far...all of you just yabbing the girl am pretty sure are guilty of dating while at 16 sef

[quote author=400billionman post=38458195]The summary of this thread is that diamond queen wants to Bleep.


i cn't stop lafn..nigerians giving funi advice since 1900BC..

Diamondqueen:


lol. If you restrain your children so much from something, they's like to test and see what that thing is. We teenagers can do a lot of things without our parents knowing.

i get you so damn well

HeWhoMusntBeNamed:


You've never had a bf at 21 Please visit T.B Joshua ASAP.

I know people wayy older than I am who have never dated, cuz unlike the rest of you basic people, we are driven by other things that don't involve having someone to stroke your ego and make you have self-worth everyday. I've had many toasters, but I'm not ready for a boyfriend and I refuse to go into a relationship simply because everyone else is in one. I know that's probably too complicated for people like you to understand

It's very obvious that your real husband will not buy market, now you want to sell half market for your husband,
Chai, AJEKU.

Elxandre:

Maybe it isn't too wrong after all.

Some like Omotola dated early and never got burnt.

it's not the same thing. First, Omotola's time wasn't as morally decadent as today. And MOST IMPORTANTLY, Omotola's husband was not her age mate who 'liked' her. He was a grown, working man who had established himself in his career and wanted an icing on the cake in form of a wife. This girl is talking about a small boy, her mate, who is probably still a JAMBITE, when will he graduate and find a job? How old will she be by then? She no for don marry?As far as Nigeria is concerned, this 'relationship' is dead on arrival

Chommieblaq:
I won't advise u to, dating comes with emotional stress that might interfere with ur studies, u might think u are strong buh believe it happens to even stronger people.




Just be friends with him for now

abeg na..na una dey make girls dey friendzone their Mr Right.

safarigirl:
it's not the same thing. First, Omotola's time wasn't as morally decadent as today. And MOST IMPORTANTLY, Omotola's husband was not her age mate who 'liked' her. He was a grown, working man who had established himself in his career and wanted an icing on the cake in form of a wife. This girl is talking about a small boy, her mate, who is probably still a JAMBITE, when will he graduate and find a job? How old will she be by then? She no for don marry?As far as Nigeria is concerned, this 'relationship' is dead on arrival

Lol, she never mentioned his age tho.
You made sense with some of your points, but are you insinuating a girl should never date a guy on the same level as her?
I mean like a girl shouldn't date a course mate etc?

safarigirl:
I know people wayy older than I am who have never dated, cuz unlike the rest of you basic people, we are driven by other things that don't involve having someone to stroke your ego and make you have self-worth everyday. I've had many toasters, but I'm not ready for a boyfriend and I refuse to go into a relationship simply because everyone else is in one. I know that's probably too complicated for people like you to understand

it seems you have a boyfriend in the marine kingdom, still visit T.B Joshua sister.

Diamondqueen:


I don't think I understand you. Brush it off, I don't need your advice anymore. Thanks.

And to think you are an accounting student!!!

And you didn't understand!!!

Seriously, how old are you?

I mean your real age?

Hypocrites full diz thread like say una no get bf/gf at d age of 14 sef. Op nothing wrong its ur choice jare buh just be careful with boys.

I could have referred you to ask your parents if you can date now or not,but knowing the way Nigerian parents behave let me just say this your age mates having a bf & gf doesn't mean you should also have,crushes is a thing every teenager experience but as time goes it wears off Are you ready for the emotional trauma associated with relationships ? What if you break up when your exams is near,will you be able to concentrate on your exams? And please don't be too sure that you can keep the no intimacy path

efficiencie:
You did not come here to get an advice, what you seek is justification for the expression of your raging sensual desire...Think little one! At your age you've got the chance to re-write history. I wish i reformed the world as Blaise Pascal, Daniel the Israelite, David the son of Jesse, Napoleon Bonaparte and a host of others did in their teens but unfortunately i'm past 30...Don't squander your youthful vitality, vigor and virtue on the sugary sensual pleasures of youth...study, grow mentally and spiritually, find the meaning of life, discover the purpose of existence, peer deep into the hidden mysteries, understand the depth of wisdom...and i tell you, in no time, Christ will package your man for you...sex is sweet, so sweet, and it has crippled the lives of great men and women...

*wow* dis is inspiring.... God bless you sir....

Diamondqueen:


thanks. I won't throw my dignity at any guys feet.

Story for the gods. Very childish talk. Count on the abortion you have done.
Child, please please and please marry your books for now untill you are divorce with it.

No wait til you are 75 years.when some girls at the age of 10 and stil in primary school already have boyfriends. ;DNo wait til you are 75 years.when some girls at the age of 10 and stil in primary school already have boyfriends.

Pls wait til are 75. When some girls already have boyfriend at the age of 10 and are stil in primary school.

Focus on your studies, guys of these days are after successful ladies that has something good to offer.

safarigirl:
I know people wayy older than I am who have never dated, cuz unlike the rest of you basic people, we are driven by other things that don't involve having someone to stroke your ego and make you have self-worth everyday. I've had many toasters, but I'm not ready for a boyfriend and I refuse to go into a relationship simply because everyone else is in one. I know that's probably too complicated for people like you to understand

cutehector, sheeee u nor know say safarigirl na virgin?