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Re: . by Candyrain(m): 11:26am On Sep 29, 2015

It seems you know them well, those coming in the guise of forming caring and using the word "baby" cheesy

Oyind17:
.how. n.a

Re: . by Nobody: 11:31am On Sep 29, 2015

Op just take heart,and give relationship a break

Re: . by loomer: 11:43am On Sep 29, 2015

We easily blame people for our woes rather than make we search ourselves and look for where we self went wrong.

Re: . by Nobody: 12:45pm On Sep 29, 2015

sweetorgasms:
uhmmm? my dear this is d real me, d crazy things i do or say online are just 4 fun, if u know me very well, u will just laugh off abt d things i do online.

see who is talking wink

Re: . by Nobody: 1:14pm On Sep 29, 2015

bqlekan:
What first op, where on this planet are you?

Africa

Re: . by malele(m): 1:21pm On Sep 29, 2015

Martiekay:
well, I had issues of my own. when we started dating, I was getting over an heartbreak, so I didn't submit my entire self to him. I was being careful not to get hurt again and in the process, I admit, I treated him badly... when he showed me that I could trust him, I let go of the hurt and became 100% involved with him. when I became the girlfriend he wanted, he started acting weird. it's a funny and painful experience. so, I guess it's my fault. I don't know why but I prefer blaming myself. I know I played a huge role in the break up with my behaviour in the beginning but I changed. it's surprising that he got bored when I became what he wanted.

Girlie pls don't kill urself, me as a guy have been through those shoes, never give ur whole heart to any man or woman unless u are legally married, who knows one day he might crawl to u and start begging u to take him back.

Re: . by malele(m): 1:25pm On Sep 29, 2015

Don't blame urself it's not ur fault pls.
The guy was just so myopic to see the real love u have for him.

Re: . by Nobody: 1:35pm On Sep 29, 2015

malele:
Girlie pls don't kill urself, me as a guy have been through those shoes, never give ur whole heart to any man or woman unless u are legally married, who knows one day he might crawl to u and start begging u to take him back.

malele:
Don't blame urself it's not ur fault pls.
The guy was just so myopic to see the real love u have for him.

Thanks

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Re: . by AfroKnight: 2:17pm On Sep 29, 2015

Martiekay:
well, I had issues of my own. when we started dating, I was getting over an heartbreak, so I didn't submit my entire self to him. I was being careful not to get hurt again and in the process, I admit, I treated him badly... when he showed me that I could trust him, I let go of the hurt and became 100% involved with him. when I became the girlfriend he wanted, he started acting weird. it's a funny and painful experience. so, I guess it's my fault. I don't know why but I prefer blaming myself. I know I played a huge role in the break up with my behaviour in the beginning but I changed. it's surprising that he got bored when I became what he wanted.

Aha! So you stressed him out before you complied. I knew he wouldn't just lose interest like that. Just like a movie trailer that is awesome on youtube then you see the movie proper and it's just "there". Ordinary. Nothing special. That's your case. You built such anticipation within him that you could not meet up later on.

You ladies don't want to come cheap to us so you take things too far in the name of playing hard to get. The more stressful the waiting period before a relationship begins, the higher the anticipation of the guy. And you'd better justify his stress or he's gonna feel shortchanged.

I'm not asking you to jump into the arms of the next guy but you need to reduce the drama while he waits for your response. You women already know if you'd date a guy or not in the first 3 days. And we guys are aware. So what's the need for " fronting"?

Take a break and be a happy person before saying yes to another guy.

Re: . by bqlekan(m): 3:40pm On Sep 29, 2015

Martiekay:
Africa

common, where in west Africa.., grin

lets start from there grin

Re: . by Nobody: 3:52pm On Sep 29, 2015

Jollyjoy:
see who is talking

hw are u?

Re: . by Nobody: 4:29pm On Sep 29, 2015

Candyrain:
It seems you know them well, those coming in the guise of forming caring and using the word "baby"

Lol, you are funny

Re: . by Nobody: 4:44pm On Sep 29, 2015

sweetorgasms:
hw are u?

how i am?lollll am shocked

Re: . by malele(m): 4:45pm On Sep 29, 2015

AfroKnight:
Aha! So you stressed him out before you complied. I knew he wouldn't just lose interest like that. Just like a movie trailer that is awesome on youtube then you see the movie proper and it's just "there". Ordinary. Nothing special. That's your case. You built such anticipation within him that you could not meet up later on.

You ladies don't want to come cheap to us so you take things too far in the name of playing hard to get. The more stressful the waiting period before a relationship begins, the higher the anticipation of the guy. And you'd better justify his stress or he's gonna feel shortchanged.

I'm not asking you to jump into the arms of the next guy but you need to reduce the drama while he waits for your response. You women already know if you'd date a guy or not in the first 3 days. And we guys are aware. So what's the need for " fronting"?

Take a break and be a happy person before saying yes to another guy.

Guy close ur dirty mouth mumu

Re: . by Nobody: 4:47pm On Sep 29, 2015

Jollyjoy:
how i am?lollll am

may d lord b with u

Re: . by Nobody: 4:51pm On Sep 29, 2015

sweetorgasms:
may d lord b with u

and me alone.

Re: . by Nobody: 4:58pm On Sep 29, 2015

Jollyjoy:
and me alone.

huh? why stingy?

Re: . by glloomy(m): 5:44pm On Sep 29, 2015

My friend don't fall for anyone who is not worth your love it is very important not to rush into love first analyse for sometime than take your decision at this point of time u need a break let your mind be stable and than try to move on with fresh mindset things will be stable. Learn from the mistakes of the past there is no harm in making mistakes we all do but do not repeat them be wise in choosing someone and dont rush tc God bless and if you wana learn about love and relationship visit my website www.lovefindsitsway.com

Re: . by AfroKnight: 7:06pm On Sep 29, 2015

malele:
Guy close ur dirty mouth mumu

Malele, the information is not for an imbecîle like you Go and play with sand.

Re: . by AbuMikey(m): 9:29pm On Oct 11, 2015

Re: . by Nobody: 10:22pm On Oct 11, 2015

Martiekay:
well, I had issues of my own. when we started dating, I was getting over an heartbreak, so I didn't submit my entire self to him. I was being careful not to get hurt again and in the process, I admit, I treated him badly... when he showed me that I could trust him, I let go of the hurt and became 100% involved with him. when I became the girlfriend he wanted, he started acting weird. it's a funny and painful experience. so, I guess it's my fault. I don't know why but I prefer blaming myself. I know I played a huge role in the break up with my behaviour in the beginning but I changed. it's surprising that he got bored when I became what he wanted.

U treated him badly? Now datz karma catching up wit U

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Re: . by Nobody: 9:06pm On Oct 12, 2015

AbuMikey:

Re: . by malele(m): 5:58pm On Nov 09, 2015

Thowbie7:
was sex involved?

Give him space he will come back

Re: . by Youngpo413: 7:42pm On Nov 09, 2015

Cutehector:
I wonder why ladies depend on love to survive. Like dey r just so afraid of bein lonely

it lust not love,they can't survive without sex,their pusy needs steady pounding,that's why there are always busy jumping from one dick to another in the name of relationship.

Re: . by Youngpo413: 7:48pm On Nov 09, 2015

Shebarh:
My dear it's not only you... v been hurt so many times but that doesn't mean ah should give up on love

what should you expect when you ignore the good guys and go for badass players?

Re: . by Youngpo413: 7:54pm On Nov 09, 2015

Martiekay:
Thanks

if you have broken someone's heart before,then you know its karma,cos what goes around comes around and nature has a way of balancing such equations.

Re: . by AbuMikey(m): 8:10am On Nov 10, 2015

Modified

Re: . by Youngpo413: 1:05pm On Jan 09, 2016

Tinnie Temper:
I wonder why ladies depend on love to survive. Like dey r just so afraid of bein lonely

They can't do without sex,an average lady's pusy always needs serious pounding,that love is just a cover up...that's why most of them are busy jumping from one dick to another all in the name of love/relationship.

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