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elantraceey:
Sorry to say, you don't even sound like a graduate.

What stops the non-educated one from getting a degree?

seconded

Try consult God in prayer bcuz the issue is complicated. *marriage is not a beans o* quote me anywhere

misspicy:
It only takes time,say lik a year or 6 months,reason its not good to rush into marriage,af courtship of like 6 months or more...

You get to see d real person with time no matter d pretence

Hmmmm u av not met a desperate gal that is why you speak like this. I do not pray u do then u would know that pretence can follow them to the grave

OP just pick the one with bigger boobs. ;DOP just pick the one with bigger boobs.

vizkiz:
just because she's gat good attitude doesn't mean I should marry a vulture

To those guys quoting me to type trash. Na me talk say make una go marry fugly girls abi?

I just typed what I am gonna do mehn, an educated girl is "beauty" she is successful in her business which means she's gat brains

So what else do I need apart from a pretty girl who knows what she truly wants, forget about the manner, she go learn

Make I come go marry illitrate cuz she dey always wash cloth Seems you guys think marriage is all about house chores abi? FOOLS

Guy manners can never be thought the one you have can only be preserved and maintained. There's no school that teaches manners.

The illiterate however can be trained or sent to school for education.

BTW is it compulsory she gets a formal education? The richest woman in the world Folorunsho Alakija was a tailor before making her money.

Personally I prefer the mannered girl. It could be hard at first but once she's trained to your taste, she would handle the house better than the ill mannered one.

OP didn't tell us if he has actually started dating either of them he just said he has them in sight. Also OP should not conclude that the educated one is ill mannered. Just that you don't expect an educated lady to commit herself to such things until they learn that the relationship is real.

aderonkedeborah:
d skool cert. lady in question can be pretending u knw till after she say i do bfr u knw her tru color. d graduate might not knw d right tin to do u knw try n tell her what u expects frm her den expect change deedindeed she does not knw wat to do and if otherwise ghen ghen.

There is no pretence about cleanliness and good behaviour. Even if there is, 2 months is enough for Op to find out if he is being scammed.

From my experience, any lady who enters my house and signals that the floor needs to be swept, or my bed needs to be arranged makes a good cook. They are more kind to children than their counterparts who like forming posh. Though most times, they arent graduates.

Poster should also watch out for a lady who will question his authority at home or compare him to other men. Those characters which destroy marriages.

Malakh:
so whats wrong with a woman kneeling for a man, speaking as a Hebrew, only if you knew why seven women will desire to marry one man then yoy wouldn't let your stupid pride get in the way

Enjoy d seven who have desired to marry u ooo.

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Oliviaarims:
I have a lecturer who used to say this.."find an agreeable girl and groom her to ur taste"..If u're thinking marriage,it's best yhu settle with sb that's respectable nd can manage ur home properly.. Ur home front needs to be comfortable nd stable for u to have peace of mind nd continue making adequate plans for the future.....the school cert girl seems to be the one for this.
But u also didn't mention how long u've known either of these ladies..Are u dating any of them?.. The educated lady might not be doing certain things 4 u bcoz she feels she owes u no obligation...nd not because she lacks d foresight or capability to do these things....There might be more to discover with time nd revealed intentions...Beauty nd education are essential bonuses...Sort out ur feelings too.
Ur attraction to this lady might jex be bcoz ov her beauty nd seeming command of the English language......U just need more time to understudy these two women...Ur school cert girl might as well just be trying 2 desperately work her way in2 ur heart...



#Philosopher Quëën#

The bolded is excellent.

When a man meets a woman who is a control freak, who dissagrees with everything he says and asnwers him before she reasons, he will prefer never meeting such woman all his life .

mistabiola:
★★★ Pathetic! Oliviaarims you're wicked ooooo ★★★~ ©Mistabiola®

I tired for her that woman oh. See the way she dey even reason self


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Mtcheeew. So just because she stopped at secondary school level u are terming her an illiterate. U don't know what illiteracy means, so no need to advice u.

askibee:
Hmmmm u av not met a desperate gal that is why you speak like this. I do not pray u do then u would know that pretence can follow them to the grave

Pretence last only for some time,n agressive moments over shadow pretence...

the human nature can not be hiden for too long and sometin will definately provoke the real nature with time

sonofananimal:
I tired for her that woman oh. See the way she dey even reason self


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vizkiz:
just because she's gat good attitude doesn't mean I should marry a vulture

To those guys quoting me to type trash. Na me talk say make una go marry fugly girls abi?

I just typed what I am gonna do mehn, an educated girl is "beauty" she is successful in her business which means she's gat brains

So what else do I need apart from a pretty girl who knows what she truly wants, forget about the manner, she go learn

Make I come go marry illitrate cuz she dey always wash cloth Seems you guys think marriage is all about house chores abi? FOOLS

U don't have to insult anyone to get ur point across. Women come in varieties and they are all beautiful in their respective ways. As a man ive come to see that a homely and submissive woman has his kind of appeal. I believe thats wat our brother is kind of realising. Moreover its not a must that both parties must be working. As a man i think am more than strong enough to provide for my family without needing my wife to work if thats what you place a womans importance on. The concept of a modern woman doesnt alway relate with "work"

sholay2011:
Be civil please. I believe you are not from yaba left.

you arr civil in your own judgment right? evry one reading your post will knows you and your house hold ocupy duplex in yaba left.

The most important thing that keeps a man from cheating on his wife is good sex. A lady that satisfies ur animalistic cravings even before U request is a perfect wife. Then the other things can come in such as behaviour, beauty, born again, peaceful etc.

thelish:
Enjoy d seven who have desired to marry u ooo.

we talking about life not enjoyment

U Ll find beauty+manners......but "manner" is d koko

Malakh:
we talking about life not enjoyment

How many of ur girlfriends kneel to greet u?

butanep:
Is he marrying for people or himself

hmmm. You make some sense.

Here you have to consult the Almighty God cos we know how to pretend alot, the educated one may not be bad but may also be bad. If truly the S.S.C.E holder is not a pretender you can try to detect that, you have to be patient and teach her to get what you desire and all will be well. My guy is more educated than I am a graduate but he loves me a school cert. holder and takes his time to teach me one or two things and because I love him I am learning.

Marry someone who can get along with you and your family and not just you.
You might be able to handle arguments with your wife,but when she takes that side of her's to your brothers and parents,it could become another thing entirely.
Sometimes it takes a generation to resolve a little misunderstanding.
For me manners is priority any other thing is secondary.

jomoh:
Guy manners can never be thought the one you have can only be preserved and maintained. There's no school that teaches manners.

The illiterate however can be trained or sent to school for education.

BTW is it compulsory she gets a formal education? The richest woman in the world Folorunsho Alakija was a tailor before making her money.

Personally I prefer the mannered girl. It could be hard at first but once she's trained to your taste, she would handle the house better than the ill mannered one.

OP didn't tell us if he has actually started dating either of them he just said he has them in sight. Also OP should not conclude that the educated one is ill mannered. Just that you don't expect an educated lady to commit herself to such things until they learn that the relationship is real.

only few people seem to get it.

The OP base the two on a permanent stage, meaning that one can't go to school for the rest of her life and the other one, who knows what he base that one on.

I still maintain this saying "life is not static but rather in a dynamic motion. The stuff you don't like today, tomorrow it might become useful to you”

Boy be-careful, marriage does not based on feeling, love and education alone. No doubt formal education is good, you can invest formal education in a woman you love. Note this whether Godly or devilish, modest or rash, educated or stack illiterate, beautiful or ugly etc. every marriage will face challenges and turbulent times, this you must prepare for. Please! never go for beauty but right attitude, every woman is beautiful, you will make conscious effort to bring out the beauty in your woman.
Answer the following question:
Is she Godly?
Is she industrious?
Is she intelligent?
Can she cope with pressure marriage will bring?
Does she has the drive and aspiration to be better or great?
Can she cope with additional work load?

tido77:
I am limping between decisions, I need your piece of advice to buoy my wobbling senses. A well educated lady is in my radar, I like ladies that control grammar very well, in fact I am a sucker for such ladies. This my lady controls grammar so well and she is beautiful, a graduate.

Now, I also have a young lady that comes around, and I observed that they are both different in manners. She is not a graduate, she stopped at secondary school level due to finance problem.

When this not so schooled lady comes around she always notices disorganized things and would arrange them, would notice dirty floor and mop up,wash dirty dishes etc. She would not greet me without bending her left knee slightly to show respect. She is not as beautiful as the educated lady though.

The graduate lady do none of these things, all we do is just gist.

Lately the school cert lady makes me feel the warmth of a caring lady, I am beginning to notice her more.

I am a graduate with tastes, I don't know what I want again, I am confused, somebody advise.

God defined a wife to b ur helpmeet, d schl cert geh meets that defination. D graduate geh is not ready to b ur helpmeet. Infact she wld prefer u to b her helpmeet eg washing her undies to show u love her

Such a puzzling question for my age #N world

tido77:
not sure if u read with understanding , the lady stopped at sec school coz of finance. U need to return to nursery school dude.

The not so beautiful gehl,with money will be more beautiful than the beautiful and educated.
There's nothing wrong in letting her go to school,Behind her well and I tell u,she's the bomb.
On the other hand,the educated and no manner gehl can be taught manners,that's if she's willing to bend,finally the choice is yours,make the right one.

thelish:
How many of ur girlfriends kneel to greet u?

dont do girlfriends bye

ksbusari:
Marry the lady wit d secondary schl cert and ur friends and families brand her uneducated, Half educated and all sort of names especially when she misbehaves.
Marry d educated girl and she would also receive d comment dat education does nt pass tru her when she misbehaves too. I was in situation One tym. Pray to God for guidance. Bt i would choose, i prefer the educated girl cos if u choose the other, u will av to explain to a lot of pple.

this is the problem, you owe no one an explanation on how you chose to live your life.
see denrele for instance, he lives his life and we worry.

sonofananimal:
only few people seem to get it.

The OP base the two on a permanent stage, meaning that one can't go to school for the rest of her life and the other one, who knows what he base that one on.

I still maintain this saying "life is not static but rather in a dynamic motion. The stuff you don't like today, tomorrow it might become useful to you”

Spot on

Manners of course and help her get that Degree too! And when it's time for the wedding...check my signature below.

Men in the house Good manners can't be bought and the virtues a woman posses is what you will need to support you and not her beauty. Beauty will fade and would not stand by you through thick and thin.

That girl with the good manners can as well be educated to what ever level she wishes if your willing to support, as a man you are like a farmer and cultivator and can nurture that girl to be educated and classy.

When your done with the nurturing you may even notice she is more beautiful than the other educated beautiful babe..cause at times exposure and class makes ladies look beautiful..Go to the villages and you will see beautiful babes who may not appear beautiful to you cause of your level off exposure and sophistication now bring those village girls to the city clean them up with education, exposure and class and you will find yourself toasting them.

Finally, your good mannered girl can get the education, class and even the beauty's but your beautiful educated girl may or cannot learn or get good manners. As good manners can't be learnt in schools or through certifications or looking classy.