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Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by fattbabakay(op): 12:02pm On Oct 04, 2015
This is really annoying, I observed that anything financially related is presumed to be the responsibility of a man or let me say guy, in a relationship.

Girls on my contact are no difference, on their birthdays u will hear them saying "what will you buy for me" den u will be forced to buy something. Then my birthday came around,instead of them asking "what would u love to have for ur bday" , they were not caught in such dilemma,instead, they were asking "where are u going to take me to celebrate"... Meanwhile some of this girls receive higher pocket money than I do, wic kain rubbish be that.

Considering a guy and a lady in their late 20's in d same unemployment shoe, u will hear people yabbing d guy like "ur mates are riding cars ooo". Meanwhile, they will never tell such to the lady, instead they will be like "ur mates are married o"...Sey ladies no dey ride der own cars nii abi dey no dey hustle.

Our girls believe they don't need to hustle hard and make it on their own, rather they hunt for a rich dude that will marry them with their responsibilities.

Thus mentality is wrong!!! Tell them ladies to stop the trend now!!!

#MyPieceOfObservation
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by munchfani:
MUST OF THEM ARE BROUGHT UP THAT WAY.
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by fattbabakay(op): 12:04pm On Oct 04, 2015
lalasticlala I beg help me with this piece, ts pinching me...
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by fattbabakay(op): 12:05pm On Oct 04, 2015
munchfani:
BROUGHT UP THAT WAY.
Ehn??
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by falconey(m): 12:06pm On Oct 04, 2015
they'll come and say not all girls now

Is it not nairaland?
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by munchfani: 12:08pm On Oct 04, 2015
fattbabakay:
Ehn??
WHAT?
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by lordthree(m): 12:09pm On Oct 04, 2015
[size=24pt]Ladies are leeches [/size]
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by Nobody: 12:19pm On Oct 04, 2015
I mean ladies in Nigeria?
Na poverty cause am
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by rawpadgin(m): 12:29pm On Oct 04, 2015
grin grin grin
reminds me of what transpired between me & ma girl

she said i should give her 80k to pay for her school accododation

then i asked her how much is my house rent annually she replied 60k

then i be like " so u think say i like u pass myself abii huh"

she just kept quiet till she left
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by NOBODYY: 12:29pm On Oct 04, 2015
Girls & double standards
The feminists will be barking for equal rights...
Oya let them contribute financially to the relationship
Them go use style swerve angry
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by McCarlito(m):
For every woman that is dependent on a man for money, there is a man who enjoys having a woman dependent on them. angry angry angry angry angry
If the man wasn't happy he would move on to a woman who was not dependent.
Even though the women may be dependent
financially, the men are equally dependent
emotionally and dependent on the woman..


**modified**
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by fattbabakay(op): 12:34pm On Oct 04, 2015
falconey:
they'll come and say not all girls now
Is it not nairaland? ]
v never seen a gal DAT differs...
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by fattbabakay(op): 12:35pm On Oct 04, 2015
NOBODYY:
Girls & double standards The feminists will be barking for equal rights... Oya let them contribute financially to the relationship Them go use style swerve angry
Abiiii
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by fattbabakay(op): 12:35pm On Oct 04, 2015
enieme:
I mean ladies in Nigeria? Na poverty cause am
Not only naija gals
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by Genea(f): 12:35pm On Oct 04, 2015
Am a lady bt am nt a leech,just dah we dnt like spendng our money
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by fattbabakay(op): 12:35pm On Oct 04, 2015
lordthree:
[size=24pt]Ladies are leeches [/size]
Retweeted...
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by gamaliel121(m): 12:41pm On Oct 04, 2015
Let them depend on us financially..its a good thing.. that'll make us dominate them forever..
I want my girl to depend on me for even maggi..
Lol
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by Folanky(m): 12:48pm On Oct 04, 2015
Very simple, becuz man is an independent variable nd women ar dependent variable, they ar factored out frm d first man
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by Nobody: 1:06pm On Oct 04, 2015
Ladies that tends to be liabilities later in the future are the ones that depend on guys financially... The poster that said it is caused by the way girls are brought up should better take that stu.pid statement back.....my parent brought me up nt to be dependent on anyone bt them and as goes on I will be independent.....I will never depend on a guy financially cos I wouldn't any guy to think I owe I'm for watever I am in the nearest future.
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by fattbabakay(op): 1:10pm On Oct 04, 2015
McCarlito:
For every woman that is dependent on a man for money, there is a man who enjoys having a woman dependent on them. angry angry angry angry angry
If the man wasn't happy he would move on to a woman who was not dependent.
Even though the women may be dependent
financially, the men are equally dependent
emotionally and dependent to the woman for
work that she does in the house and taking care of the couple's kids.
who dey talk marriage for here??
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by fattbabakay(op): 1:11pm On Oct 04, 2015
Genea:
Am a lady bt am nt a leech,just dah we dnt like spendng our money
Stingy entity
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by fattbabakay(op): 1:13pm On Oct 04, 2015
Harbosede02:
Ladies that tends to be liabilities later in the future are the ones that depend on guys financially... The poster that said it is caused by the way girls are brought up should better take that stu.pid statement back.....my parent brought me up nt to be dependent on anyone bt them and as goes on I will be independent.....I will never depend on a guy financially cos I wouldn't any guy to think I owe I'm for watever I am in the nearest future.
wea in d post did u see DAT?? @bolded ... dis kinda reply comes from a typical ugly gal DAT no guy will try to spend a kobo on...keep consoling ursef
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by Nobody: 1:17pm On Oct 04, 2015
fattbabakay:
wea in d post did u see DAT?? @bolded ... dis kinda reply comes from a typical ugly gal DAT no guy will try to spend a kobo on...keep consoling ursef
lmao.......should I take it dah u are funny or silly??who is talking about the op post here....if u can't read and comprehend...don't quote me and spit out rubbish
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by McCarlito(m): 1:24pm On Oct 04, 2015
fattbabakay:
who dey talk marriage for here??
It works both ways man.... Wether relationship or matrimony...








Except u're talking about Payment made for Srevice rendered by hookers and that's not Relationship angry angry angry angry
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by fattbabakay(op): 2:04pm On Oct 04, 2015
Harbosede02:
lmao.......should I take it dah u are funny or silly??who is talking about the op post here....if u can't read and comprehend...don't quote me and spit out rubbish
my take = ya ugly #CaseClosed
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by Nobody: 2:07pm On Oct 04, 2015
fattbabakay:
my take = ya ugly #CaseClosed
and u are senseless dear....enjoy the rest of ur Sunday dullard.
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by Nobody: 2:11pm On Oct 04, 2015
NOBODYY:
Girls & double standards
The feminists will be barking for equal rights...
Oya let them contribute financially to the relationship
Them go use style swerve angry
You just nailed it bro!
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by yemmit90: 2:28pm On Oct 04, 2015
@op, why are you blaming them?

The fact is that, girls dont have enough money to spend/get their numerous needs. They spend alot on themselves(A lady can spend in two weeks three times more than what a man can spend for a month).

If you doubt me, collect like 20 ATM cards from different girls(working class inclusive)and see if you will find 30k each in their accounts.
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by Nova15: 3:10pm On Oct 04, 2015
Genea:
Am a lady bt am nt a leech,just dah we dnt like spendng our money
So what do y do with the money. Swallow them?
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Oct 04, 2015
Nova15:
So what do y do with the money. Swallow them?
lol, bros seeing what she posted ehn, I got vexed seriously, there was one time I was with my bae's phone, it rang and I checked, what I saw was a bank Credit alert. I didn't ask her but I knew its from her parents. She didn't even tell me by herself about the money they sent her. She just hid it from me. The next day I couldn't believe my ears when she requested for pocket money from me and that period I was dead broke which she knew of.

I donno if they are just stingy or they feel its their birth right to ask us for money.
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by Genea(f): 9:28pm On Oct 04, 2015
Nova15:
So what do y do with the money. Swallow them?
no bury,y ask me
Re: Why Do Ladies Financially Depend On Guys?? by Genea(f): 9:28pm On Oct 04, 2015
fattbabakay:
Stingy entity
broke niggur
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