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ebonflex:
Why dem no go scarce?
You don see the kain textbook igbo ppl dey give guys in the name of human trafficking wedding list?

It's a deliberate bad deal to marry an igbo woman from some areas when you can just marry from elsewhere and still have your long-standing investments un-squandered.

lol stop being tribalistic...am not igbo but there are still good ladies there

No 3 na pure lie

#teamHausa women rocks

Note: me na igbo boy bt I can't marry igbo girl

Well... 1) No one loves unconditionally. 2) No tribe is made up entirely of perfectly identical persons.

I wanted to say something harsh but i remember i am...........and she is in............ Op take ur time. All gals are same species regardless of what tribe, race, religion or country they come from. Some have humility, contentment and self respect. While some don't.

NEPABOY:
While women from some tribes are believed to have
certain skill sets, some are generally believed not to
measure up to the standards of others because of a
perceived trend. Many people analyse these behaviours
based on their experiences with one or two women
from the same tribe they have come across in their
lifetime.
However, it should be noted that although some
special behaviours have been attached to women from
various tribes, it DOES NOT WORK TOTALLY FOR all
the women in the tribe. The a$$umptions are just
based on the common thing you will see most women
from the area do. Below are 4 reasons why you should
consider marrying an Igbo lady.


1.Igbo Ladies Are Very Industrious It is generally
believed that Nigerians who are Igbos (both male and
female), tend to do business more, compared to other
tribes. Igbo ladies are not left out in this trend. When
an Igbo lady fails in the first business venture, she
does not relent, instead she tries other ways, just to
bring money into the house. Amazingly, lots of these
women do not like sitting down without supporting
their husbands. For a true Igbo lady, consistency is
key and being financially dependent is out of the
picture!


2.Igbo Ladies Love Unconditionally When a true Igbo
lady is in love, she loves not minding the odds
involved (that’s if there are any). Igbo ladies take
their time to do things in order to make their man not
fall out of love with them. They take care of the home
front including the children and are always ready to
give good $ex any time of the day just to show how
committed they are to their men.


3.Igbo Ladies Stay True To Their Men Yes, there are
lots of wayward ladies in the country but Igbo ladies
seldom cheat on their men. Igbo girls are faithful to
the core.


4.Igbo Ladies are Extra Smart, Intelligent and Beautiful
Looking around, most of the popular ladies leading the
pack both in and outside the country are Igbos. They
are not just beautiful and brilliant, they are extra
smart. They know their onions, they do not try to
outshine themselves and they make the art of being a
woman so beautiful! Feel Free to Add Yours.


NB: All points here are made from my little observation and is subject to scrutiny.

it's not an igbo thing, it's an individual thing but naija guys for Yankee de hustle like mad. #RespectTheirHustle
BTW I love my igbo sisters, the thicker the deeper I fall in love. #AfricanQueen

Laveda:
lol stop being tribalistic...am not igbo but there are still good ladies there

I didn't say there aren't good ladies there.
There are good ladies there, just as there are good ladies anywhere.

I'm talking about the unneccessary drain to one's finances upon engaging them in family-centric things if they are from certain places.
As a guy based abroad, you can then be sure that the demands will be multiplied. instead of paying $2 Million naira just for brideprice/list (and we never even begin dey talk actual wedding costs), it makes better sense to just get a babe from a place with less crazy cultures and still be able to eat and invest after one's wedding.

I'm the kind of the guy that when I meet a girl and hear her name is igbo, I don't care how fine she is, she no go ever pass friendzone.
No point in wasting time.

ebonflex:
I didn't say there aren't good ladies there.
There are good ladies there, just as there are good ladies anywhere.

I'm talking about the unneccessary drain to one's finances upon engaging them in family-centric things if they are from certain places.
As a guy based abroad, you can then be sure that the demands will be multiplied. instead of paying $2 Million naira just for brideprice/list (and we never even begin dey talk actual wedding costs), it makes better sense to just get a babe from a place with less crazy cultures and still be able to eat and invest after one's wedding.

I'm the kind of the guy that when I meet a girl and hear her name is igbo, I don't care how fine she is, she no go ever pass friendzone.
No point in wasting time.

LOL now this is serious...I don't really know much about their culture when It comes to brideprice issue...but I think that's too costly anyways...sounds like they are selling their daughters off
.But I .heard their price is small compared to when you want to marry an Akwaibomite

Laveda:
LOL now this is serious...I don't really know much about their culture when It comes to brideprice issue...but I think that's too costly anyways...sounds like they are selling their daughters off
.But I .heard their price is small compared to when you want to marry an Akwaibomite

All of them can go and sit down.
We guys have global options. We wont start going thru all that only for a woman who (these days) won't really give you that full feminity due to over-modern brainwashing. e.g its almost like a big sin nowadays to ask your woman "whats for dinner?". Crap like that. The modernism needs to hit their culture too not just their attitudes or that one na bad market.
Which is why I like the way Yoruba do their wedding things.


By the grace of God someone will marry them sha. No worthy daughter of naija deserves to be left out.

ebonflex:
All of them can go and sit down.
We guys have global options. We wont start going thru all that only for a woman who (these days) won't really give you that full feminity due to over-modern brainwashing. e.g its almost like a big sin nowadays to ask your woman "whats for dinner?". Crap like that. The modernism needs to hit their culture too not just their attitudes or that one na bad market.
Which is why I like the way Yoruba do their wedding things.


By the grace of God someone will marry them sha. No worthy daughter of naija deserves to be left out.

you getting it all wrong Mr. This doesn't have to do with tribe, its something personal, there sttill some good igbo ladies...in every tribe there's always the good and the bad...depends on the family you meet

The yoruba's aint saints you know

Seems you're always very busy, Goodevening.

Laveda:
you getting it all wrong Mr. This doesn't have to do with tribe, its something personal, there sttill some good igbo ladies...in every tribe there's always the good and the bad...depends on the family you meet

The yoruba's aint saints you know

Seems you're always very busy, Goodevening.

Yorubas definitely ain't saints. So their weddings keep things equal from the get go with less crazy demands from either side... as opposed to the other ones where the wedding is still done in the format that the guy is marrying a prized angel that fell from heaven and that knows no sin and how he must empty his bank account to acquire this angel. That's unneccessary hype.

ebonflex:
Yorubas definitely ain't saints. So their weddings keep things equal from the get go with less crazy demands from either side... as opposed to the other ones where the wedding is still done in the format that the guy is marrying a prized angel that fell from heaven and that knows no sin and how he must empty his bank account to acquire this angel. That's unneccessary hype.

Are you from yoruba?

Laveda:
Are you from yoruba?

Nope.

And as to your argument on good girls,again they exist everywhere and in every tribe.
Remember that environment also matters. My experience in Yankee where everybody is forming "Too modern to cook for my man" is different from naija. Where it becomes very stupid is where ms too modern to cook now starts expecting the man t also fulfill all that traditional jazz on her head. E no make sense. Dem plenty for here. Na white man book cause am.

ebonflex:
Nope.

And as to your argument on good girls,again they exist everywhere and in every tribe.
Remember that environment also matters. My experience in Yankee where everybody is forming "Too modern to cook for my man" is different from naija. Where it becomes very stupid is where ms too modern to cook now starts expecting the man t also fulfill all that traditional jazz on her head. E no make sense. Dem plenty for here. Na white man book cause am.

Same as bad girls exist everywhere and in every tribe...I get your point anyway...its not right...have you dated any igbo girl before? Or just rumours

Laveda:
Same as bad girls exist everywhere and in every tribe...I get your point anyway...its not right...have you dated any igbo girl before? Or just rumours

I have and they are lovely.

But when you date a girl from IMO (of all places), it makes sense at a point to release her (sooner the better) because the end-game costs just won't make sense.
Fine/good dey girl scatter from other affordable tribes.

ebonflex:
I have and they are lovely.

Any ways...at the end, what matters is where you find love and the person who understands you very well

So its the money you running away from? lol igbo people love money nau :. they don't joke with it

Laveda:
Any ways...at the end, what matters is where you find love and the person who understands you very well

So its the money you running away from? lol igbo people love money nau :. they don't joke with it

Thats why last last we wont be of same mind.
Igbo ppl have no way of quantifying anything by any other metric besides money. None of your achievements matter unless it in some way equals big money.
Their upbringing doesnt allow them see things in any other light.
I do like them for their go-getting attitude though.

Cutehector:
Nonsense. I rather marry a deltan

Are u from delta state?

onila:
Are u from delta state?

my grand mum is frm delta state.. And I love her so much... I"d like to marry frm her state...tho I'm frm imo state

Cutehector:
my grand mum is frm delta state.. And I love her so much... I"d like to marry frm her state...tho I'm frm imo state

shes delta igbo?

onila:
shes delta igbo?

yes she is... are u frm delta too?

OP dat number 3 na wash, currently I dey cucumberlize 2 igbo women(married women) you forget to add number
5. igbo women dey bang mehnnnn....