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Adaeze003:
After wailing on NL, they still pvssies in real life so... no sweat...

emusmith:
hmm

Otibho80:
wats wit d ''hmmm''?

Vinshu:
Oh I'm serious and I'm not aggressive. I am actually gentle and reserved but hate when men feel important.

EroticAngelina:
Am I a bad person for wanting to fry u alive in hot groundnut oil??

anyways, I'll comment fully well when I wake up.

wailing:
Come back here baby

montezz:
na guys full here o*crawling out of thread*

CzarChris:
OP, I don't get why your getting death threats from these girls. Wetin you do nah?
Truth hurts girls, get over it.

trippleKAY:
yes we are my dear

montezz:
u again?*faints*

Adaeze003:
After wailing on NL, they still pvssies in real life so... no sweat...

emusmith:
It's not a lie.

It's relative, why do you think on the contrary?

uzo200:
wow!!! just checked your dp, if that's you wow... girl you are an Angel... I would have loved to make you mine but unfortunately, you are not Nigerian... Sorry... but your cute sha...(only if that's you ooo)

emusmith:
Dear People,

This 'letter' has two purposes: To Warn and to Advice.

The Warning Part
A friend once told me of how a guy was pestering her life with all manner of suggestive texts and suspicious gestures, trying to FORCE her into an unscrupulous relationship.

I was pissed because my dear was being threatened and more pissed because he was ignorantly stubborn hoping he could date someone like my friend- who's got morals.

Some guys of today, go around with the malicious mindset that the size of their manhood can substitute the size of their "mindhood". Simply put: Don't build your life around No girl- It's not worth it. Build around a worthy goal and all these other things shall be added unto you It's plain illiteracy to go after a girl that way!


The ADVICE Part

This is like the body of this thread; REASONS YOU SHOULD NEVER FORCE YOURSELF ON ANY GIRL, in view of a relationship.

Quickly, let's see a few:

1. All ladies are the same

I'm not on the contrary... You see, it beats my imagination how guys move from one girl to another, does she have a different 'privy part' from the other girl? Because, that's the major reasons guys cheat. Don't FORCE yourself on any girl because there is so much more than meets the eye, so carefully take note of the nuances and unspoken words, body movements and gestures. Break Up is an unnecessary evil.


2. We are told to Approach and not to Encroach

In my little time around ladies, whether friends or crushes; I've discovered that you could actually be encroaching thinking you are approaching. Before getting too involved, be sure it's not in vain. "Years Of Friendzoning Makes A Guy Look Like He's Been Duped"
Approach her if you like her. When you discover her heart is elsewhere, dump her.


3. Girls Need Guys More Than Guys Need Them

Am I quoting Scriptures here? Before someone calls me a chauvinist, the Bible spoke about, in the ET, it will be seven ladies to just one guy. Take it or leave it, girls wish they could ask guys out . For many reasons; Protection, Financial assistance, Warmth, Leadership, Companionship etc. Guys, don't FORCE yourself on any lady, whosoever please.


4. It Sends The Wrong Signal

Trying to get her to like you in a short period of time sends the opposite message. Good intention, yea, but it sends a "Desperate Call" to her. Not FORCING yourself on any accords you some form of honour and avoid insults too.


5. The "You Forced Me Into This Relationship" Speech May Surface.

If you didn't understand the rest points, at least grasp this point, don't FORCE a girl into your life and family. If you FORCE her to come, you'll do same to get her to stay. Fine or Average-looking, they're the same; same sexual parts! In fact, let her make the choice of choosing you without any coercion from anyone.


Forcing a girl into a relationship with you is plain stupidity. Who says you can approach?
You can but don't use the law of Force saying, "If I don't have you, I'll die"--- Lielie, is your name Laila?

To me, state your aim for getting close to her, watch her reaction for days. React based on those figures.

Gn'yt

lekzzydo:
The last time I checked, 3 beautiful ladies have asked me out. So why do I have to force on any lady.

They don't even worth it.

Teempakguy:
it's rather too convenient. makes everything seem too easy.
it gives a similar feeling to what one would get if one were to tell himself, "i am destined to be great."
yeah, sure, it might be true, but it is totally unnecessary. i don't know if you get my point here . . .

flokii:
a guy once said.. 'other than sex, there is nothing so special about women'...

well I partly agree and with your points too

nice writeup

CzarChris:
OP, I don't get why your getting death threats from these girls. Wetin you do nah?
Truth hurts girls, get over it.

akike:
What about your mum? Was she worth it?

Truckpusher:
Funny guy.

At this moment sha these girls would rather have the op crucified like the Jews chose Jesus to crucify instead of a thief.

Vinshu:
Oh I'm serious and I'm not aggressive. I am actually gentle and reserved but hate when men feel important.

akike:
*mum

Other than child bearing and sex, what so special about her

Vinshu:
I remember a man who said this in front of me back in 2010 and I slit his throat. He had to undergo surgery to repair that part. Though I was arrested but I claimed "Sexual assault, self defence" and I was free. Then he was charged €120 fine.