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Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Sirsoftness(m): 11:38am On Oct 10, 2015
Things your man should never make you do – You might think that you love your man so much, you’d do absolutely anything for him, but then again, there are also some things a man simply should never ask a woman to do for him.
Being in a relationship doesn’t mean that you have to give up the right to be an individual, with a mind of your own, so find out where the line has to be drawn and read these ten things no man should ever ask a girl to do:
Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Sirsoftness(m): 11:39am On Oct 10, 2015
10. Force you to stay when you really want to leave
If you are really unhappy in a relationship, then you should end it. Don’t let a man force to you to stay, just because he doesn’t want it to end and, don’t let him make you stay through emotional blackmail either.

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Sirsoftness(m): 11:40am On Oct 10, 2015
9. Have an abortion
Things happen and, if an unexpected pregnancy occurs, then the man must step up to the mark and take his responsibilities seriously.He should never, under any circumstances, tell the woman to have an abortion. That is a very emotional decision that only the woman can make and then the man should be there to support her, whatever she decides.

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Nobody: 11:41am On Oct 10, 2015
Lemme knw wen u are through angry
Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Pinkiedearie(f): 11:41am On Oct 10, 2015
Keep it rolling!!

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Sirsoftness(m): 11:42am On Oct 10, 2015
8. Be more of a girl
Yes, some guys do still think that girls should know their place! Well, don’t stand for it.If you are not the pretty pink, candy floss, stay at home type, then don’t be.
Get out there and do the things that you want to do, even if he does think that they are not ‘girly’ enough pastimes.

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Sirsoftness(m): 11:43am On Oct 10, 2015
7. Stop seeing your friends:
You do need a life outside of a relationship and friends are an important part of that.If he is trying to stop you from going out with your friends, then that’s a sign of his own insecurities or of his controlling nature and you shouldn’t be putting up with it.

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Sirsoftness(m): 11:44am On Oct 10, 2015
6. Change who you are:
You are who you are, you should be proud of that, and he should love you for it too.
A man should not ask you to change who you are because, if you do, then it will only be pretence and you won’t be happy pretending to be someone else.

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Sirsoftness(m): 11:45am On Oct 10, 2015
5. Have a baby before you are ready:
It’s your body and you will know when the time is right for you to have children.
Kids aren’t just accessories that go with a relationship, they are a huge, long term, commitment and both partners must be sure that they are ready for that.

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Nobody: 11:46am On Oct 10, 2015
Oboy arrange this thing in one single file. Write it and post at once... Stop spreading it around... The way you arrange it, makes it so boring to read.

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Sirsoftness(m): 11:47am On Oct 10, 2015
4. Forget your dreams:
Whether its finishing college, going to university, having kids or following a career, a man should never ask to you give up your dreams for him.
You should be able to work together, so that you can both follow your dreams and share them together.

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Sirsoftness(m): 11:50am On Oct 10, 2015
3. Have physical intimacy without protection:
Unless you are really settled in a long term relationship, then physical intimacy without a ‘protection’ is an obvious no-no and a man should never ask you to do it.
Some guys do still have a hang up about using a safety hat, but, if he has that little respect for you, then it should be telling you something more about this man.

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Sirsoftness(m): 11:51am On Oct 10, 2015
2. Switch religions or beliefs:
Convert or go is not a thing that anyone should be told, because your beliefs are your own and they should not be up for negotiation.
If he can persuade you to modify your beliefs, through rational and logical debate, and you are comfortable with that, then that’s no problem. But, it should be your decision alone, no one else’s

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Sirsoftness(m): 11:55am On Oct 10, 2015
1. Stop seeing your family:Relationships with the in-laws can often be fraught, but he doesn’t have the right to tell you to stop seeing your family, or to make you choose between them and him.
Your family were around way before him and they could be around long after too.

Feel free to add yours wink

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Sirsoftness(m): 11:56am On Oct 10, 2015
Harbosede02:
Lemme knw wen u are through angry
Am done ma

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Sirsoftness(m): 11:57am On Oct 10, 2015
crazysaint:
Oboy arrange this thing in one single file. Write it and post at once... Stop spreading it around... The way you arrange it, makes it so boring to read.

Sorry for d inconvenience bros

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Reyus: 12:04pm On Oct 10, 2015
0. Make sure he does not have sexually explicit media of you in any form (photo or video).

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Nobody: 1:20pm On Oct 10, 2015
Well said.. Some niggas be thinking they own you cos you're in a r'ship with 'em

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by henribj(m): 3:33pm On Oct 10, 2015
hmm
it concerns me not
I am not a woman
tend to thy house while I tend to mine.
Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by jearile(m): 5:46pm On Oct 10, 2015
Sirsoftness:
Things your man should never make you do – You might think that you love your man so much, you’d do absolutely anything for him, but then again, there are also some things a man simply should never ask a woman to do for him.
Being in a relationship doesn’t mean that you have to give up the right to be an individual, with a mind of your own, so find out where the line has to be drawn and read these ten things no man should ever ask a girl to do:
You train your bf/gf how to treat you by the way you treat yourself. You command respect without demanding it when you have regards for self-respect. The way people see diamond is not the same way they see pebbles even though they look at them with the same very eyes.
Now this is my rule of thumb and I wish we all would imbibe it: I will treat every woman/man the way and manner I'd want my daughters/sons to be treated.

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by Sirsoftness(m): 6:13pm On Oct 10, 2015
jearile:

You train your bf/gf how to treat you by the way you treat yourself. You command respect without demanding it when you have regards for self-respect. The way people see diamond is not the same way they see pebbles even though they look at them with the same very eyes.
Now this is my rule of thumb and I wish we all would imbibe it: I will treat every woman/man the way and manner I'd want my daughters/sons to be treated.
Wisely spoken

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Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by powerdfirst(m): 7:39pm On Oct 10, 2015
Sirsoftness:
6. Change who you are:
You are who you are, you should be proud of that, and he should love you for it too.
A man should not ask you to change who you are because, if you do, then it will only be pretence and you won’t be happy pretending to be someone else.

nd if ur gf has a bad behaviour?? u shld let her be who she is?? nigga u got think twice
Re: Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How Much You Love Him by powerdfirst(m): 7:40pm On Oct 10, 2015
Sirsoftness:
6. Change who you are:
You are who you are, you should be proud of that, and he should love you for it too.
A man should not ask you to change who you are because, if you do, then it will only be pretence and you won’t be happy pretending to be someone else.

nd if ur gf has a bad behaviour?? u shld let her be who she is?? nigga u got to think twice

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