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Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by ArcFrisky(op): 11:21pm On Oct 11, 2015
HelpeeDeck:
[b]So Sorry about that, i once experience this in my university days, from a hardened cultist and his gang. his lady was just over me and disturbing me after she find out the background i came out from, because we where always studying together in school...she was too pretty for any man to resist, yet i neglected all that, because i saw her like an untimely death trap toward me..what i did was to save her whatsapp chats, record the calls and always post it to that number that was threatening me all most every hour of the days then, i kept sending the number her chats about love to me and my reply back to her..and i did all i could to stay away from her,had to park away from my apartment that time i was living in and i also stayed completely away from her, end all contact and means she could reach me and i even went as far as to report to the nearest police station about the threat i am receiving and what caused it...i let it opened then publicly.. believe me after doing all that, the guy and his group that was on my neck became very weak to harm me, they have to give up and let me be, because they saw i wasnt interested in the lady and also the way i took up the situation so seriously.. and to God Be the Glory i graduated in peace and not in pieces........Just God That can save you and bring you out of this mess..wish you well bro [/b]
wow that was a nice and totful move from u... I had tried to stay away from her... and to a point it seemed as if I was not willing to show her things on site according to the instructions given by her mother.... I just wish I tot of oda ways to suppress the affection she had for me...
anyway thanks bro... tnx...
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by Nobody: 7:27am On Oct 12, 2015
ArcFrisky:
wow that was a nice and totful move from u... I had tried to stay away from her... and to a point it seemed as if I was not willing to show her things on site according to the instructions given by her mother.... I just wish I tot of oda ways to suppress the affection she had for me...
anyway thanks bro... tnx...
have they found her yet?
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by ArcFrisky(op): 8:46am On Oct 12, 2015
henribj:
ok sorry about my unwise advise
lemme give you a wise one
while not stay in 9ja and report to the police station every time they require your presence, and then gradually they will give you a room there, also don't forget that the mother and boyfriend are financially okay so therefore they do not have any motive regarding her disappearance, you are the only who appears to have a motive. meanwhile do not forget to employ the services of a lawyer asap.
alryt tnx....
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by ArcFrisky(op): 7:35pm On Oct 12, 2015
sweetboiy:
GET A VERY GOOD LAWYER THAT KNOWS HOW TO FRAME STORIES UP. THIS IS POLICE CASE MY BROTHER, ONLY LIES CAN SAVE YOUR ASS ...NOBODY SHOULD CRITICISE MY ADVICE BECAUSE I SAID IT FROM THE EXPERIENCE I AND MY FAMILY WENT THROUGH IN THE HANDS OF NIGERIA POLICE FORCE JUST LAST MONTH...ABEG GUY, IF YOU NO SABI BLOW LIE ...YOU BETTER START COMPOSING AND REHEARING ON IT
tnx so much man......
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by ArcFrisky(op): 7:38pm On Oct 12, 2015
sweetboiy:
GET A VERY GOOD LAWYER THAT KNOWS HOW TO FRAME STORIES UP. THIS IS POLICE CASE MY BROTHER, ONLY LIES CAN SAVE YOUR ASS ...NOBODY SHOULD CRITICISE MY ADVICE BECAUSE I SAID IT FROM THE EXPERIENCE I AND MY FAMILY WENT THROUGH IN THE HANDS OF NIGERIA POLICE FORCE JUST LAST MONTH...ABEG GUY, IF YOU NO SABI BLOW LIE ...YOU BETTER START COMPOSING AND REHEARING ON IT
tnx so much bro....
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by Nobody: 7:49pm On Oct 12, 2015
ArcFrisky:
tnx so much bro....
wassup with the mata?
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by ArcFrisky(op): 11:34am On Oct 13, 2015
sweetboiy:
wassup with the mata?
bro is becomin more intense ooo....
If not for my lawyer today I would have been detained.
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by Nobody: 7:44pm On Oct 13, 2015
ArcFrisky:
bro is becomin more intense ooo....
If not for my lawyer today I would have been detained.
don't give up bro. Stand on your written statement....how about his bf?
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by ArcFrisky(op): 6:58pm On Oct 14, 2015
sweetboiy:
don't give up bro. Stand on your written statement....how about his bf?
ok bro.... d bf has been givin useful statements also..
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by Nobody: 7:05pm On Oct 14, 2015
ArcFrisky:
ok bro.... d bf has been givin useful statements also..
good. God will surely see you through
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by dexcira(f): 8:26pm On Oct 14, 2015
God will see u through ok? Let's keep praying .
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by andyanders: 8:52pm On Oct 14, 2015
sanbells:
This is serious. Think u should get a lawyer, tell him all you know and what transpired between u and the girl. He should start investigations from there. Although truthfully, u've got urself in a bind which isn't gonna be easy to get out. You shouldn't have made out with her to start with. Btw, dat her boyfriend should be your sole suspect. He's playing dirty. How can he say u last saw her and also have the pictures? How did he get dem?
Exactly .The guy should be responsible.
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by swaggerdgrt(m): 9:26pm On Oct 14, 2015
Guy u dey hot soup ooohh,God will see u tru shaaa
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by berryice(f): 9:37pm On Oct 14, 2015
Just b prayerful....so dah d whole tin won't turn against u...will include u in my prayers
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by agabaI23(m): 9:54pm On Oct 14, 2015
Arcfrisky
You will come out of this stronger and wiser...
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by AbuMikey(m): 10:06pm On Oct 14, 2015
15 Minutes Puny enjoyment don put You for Gbese shocked
Kpele.
You are fvcked OP, except the girl is found alive, like Jessica Edionwele.

I wish You quick recovery in advance from Police battery. grin
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by ClassCaptain(m): 10:26pm On Nov 05, 2015
berryice:
Just b prayerful....so dah d whole tin won't turn against u...will include u in my prayers
please include me in your prayers too beautiful .
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by UglyMe(f): 11:01pm On Nov 05, 2015
I think i hv seen this nollywood love story somewhere in this section
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by Nobody: 6:33am On Nov 06, 2015
ddeston:
Hello Oga Mi,

I feel your pains,

Now here is what you should do,
Go and get a lawyer, explain everything that transpired between the both of
you to him, and Give him details time and everything that happened,

Now before i continue i want you to know that you did nothing wrong by
sleeping with her, cause there is no evidence of you sleeping with here.

You guys where both workers who managed not to get home on time
and decided to pass the night in an hotel room,

Now passing the night in an hotel or your house, you sleeping with her or not
doesn't change a thing, so there is no proof for that.

Now after you have gotten the Lawyer,

Take him to the police station and meet the Person in charge of the case,
Your Lawyer must be there, then explain everything that has happened including how you met her.

When she left your place and how her guy threatened you,
Then also let the police know that the pictures in the possession of her guy
was snapped before she left your place which also means the guy saw her last
before you, so he might be setting you up.

With your lawyer intact nothing can be done to you,
Na only small money e go cost you.

So your lawyer would take it up from there,

With all this things be done you are totally safe,

But be fast with your actions oooo,
Because the case you are been accused of now is a Kidnapping case and its a serious
case, so do not take it lightly,

If you escape this situation please let me know,
wow! Nice strategy. Are you a lawyer?
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by ddeston(m): 9:29pm On Nov 08, 2015
Nuellah02:
wow! Nice strategy. Are you a lawyer?
No ma, am just a dude who gets into trouble a lot, you can call me problem child.
#businessmantothecore.
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by wizsolzy(m): 5:00am On Nov 09, 2015
Toto wahala.... All this rich gals make una leave us alone abeg. Na by force to date? Now u dn put this poor boy for wahala ni...?
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by ArcFrisky(op): 10:05am On Nov 16, 2015
Thank ya'll for the advice and sorry I have been offline for smtym that's why I haven't been replying pm's.....
well I thank God for his mercies..... God almighty provided me with a sound lawyer and he handled the case competently, however the girl came back precisely on the 28th of october and the test carried out on her discovered that she's pregnant...... right now I don't know who's responsible, Weda na me or the boyfriend.... and the girl won't talk either.... me now I de go church pass pastor sef..... praying really hard that God should vindicate me totally and restore me back to my job as I am still on suspension and have slim hopes of getting my job back....
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by yomi007k(m): 10:09am On Nov 16, 2015
Thank God say u nor go jail, I was wondering where u were.




.....After this, ur moto will be "T.oto Kills" tongue
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by agabaI23(m): 4:37pm On Nov 16, 2015
ArcFrisky:
Thank ya'll for the advice and sorry I have been offline for smtym that's why I haven't been replying pm's.....
well I thank God for his mercies..... God almighty provided me with a sound lawyer and he handled the case competently, however the girl came back precisely on the 28th of october and the test carried out on her discovered that she's pregnant...... right now I don't know who's responsible, Weda na me or the boyfriend.... and the girl won't talk either.... me now I de go church pass pastor sef..... praying really hard that God should vindicate me totally and restore me back to my job as I am still on suspension and have slim hopes of getting my job back....
good to know. Where was she all the while? Did she tell you?
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by ArcFrisky(op): 10:07pm On Nov 16, 2015
agabaI23:
good to know. Where was she all the while? Did she tell you?
for wherehuh? her family and police won't even let us come close to her..... I have not even set eyes on her, same with her boyfriend....
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by agabaI23(m): 12:11am On Nov 17, 2015
ArcFrisky:
for wherehuh? her family and police won't even let us come close to her..... I have not even set eyes on her, same with her boyfriend....
They know the truth already. They are just trying to save face. Well done!
She will tell you one day. She will find a way to apologise. Trust women!
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by TOPCRUISE(m): 6:13am On Nov 17, 2015
ArcFrisky:
last week Tuesday I got a call from a guy whom I later discovered was her boyfriend and the guy kept threatening brimstone and fire unless I stay off his girl..
.
You want to become superman so you kept those threat to yourself. You did not want to disclose or relate it with anybody. See what it has landed you. Similar stories like this have gotten lots of people executed and made their family a disgrace. Note that your crime is mere foolishness and nothing else, Because that is the plan of the said culprit. It's only prayer and fasting that can deliver you
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by ArcFrisky(op): 11:11am On Nov 17, 2015
TOPCRUISE:
You want to become superman so you kept those threat to yourself. You did not want to disclose or relate it with anybody. See what it has landed you. Similar stories like this have gotten lots of people executed and made their family a disgrace. Note that your crime is mere foolishness and nothing else, Because that is the plan of the said culprit. It's only prayer and fasting that can deliver you
well I have learnt my lessons... and I thank God for his mercies, I acted on ignorance and I accept I have been foolish but nobody is above mistakes....
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by schumastic(m): 12:50pm On Nov 17, 2015
on Thursday of that same last week I was in a neighboring state supervising a project when she arrived the site very late, infact I closed the site and was making payments when she came. I was surprised so i asked her why she came and at that late hour, she said her mum asked her to come and get the site report. I was confused because usually I go back with the site report duly compiled every weekend. well to cut the long story short she didn't go back that night because it was late and we made out due to pressure I couldn't bear ( which was the mistake I made in the first place) and even took selfies the following day before she left. I didn't even give her the reports she came for because I had not even compiled it, so I told her to explain to her mum that I was going to call her myself.
On Wednesday this week I got a call from the office to report back and that my site engineer should take over duties from me for now. When I arrived the office I discovered from my colleagues that she has been declared missing and that madam suspects its me.
Right now as I type this, she has been missing since monday and my boss said that her boyfriend told her that she was last seen with me. and how the boyfriend got hold of the pics is what I don't know.
I have been invited by the police for questioning on monday next week and my phones has been siezed... had to log in with my bothers phone to post this, I have never been to the police station before, what do I even tell them... I am scared because the police might want to use force on me since I am not from a wealthy background...
I suspect it should be the boyfriend that's behind all these, but nobody is really saying anything because he's from a very very rich background..
please help a brother....[/quote]WOMEN HAVE BEEN PUTTING MEN IN TROUBLE SINCE THE DAYS OF ADAM AND EVE AND WE MEN DON'T LEARN AT ALL,,,,ALWAYS ALLOWING THE THIRD LEG DO THE THINKING AND EXPECT THE BRAIN TO TAKE OVER ONCE PROBLEM START SMH...my bro the truth is u il soon be picked up and il b locked in the cell, just get your facts ready and pray she comes out.
ur the last person she was with and your the prime suspect cus that's what they will say..sorry
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by Nobody: 3:52pm On Nov 17, 2015
Obviously the animalistic boyfriend raped and beat her.
Re: I Am About To Be Jailed Because Of Her... Please Help!!!! by NuellettY: 5:21pm On Nov 17, 2015
Dunno why l became concerned over this matter...though l do not know you but l pray you come out safe
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