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Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by Nobody: 6:47pm On Oct 17, 2015
I met this girl sometime last year though I have a girlfriend and she also have a boyfriend. We are best friends. But something happened. We started developing feelings for each other. we have started loosing feelings for our partners.
The question is

Is it prober for us to continue our relationship with our previous partners
Or
I date my best friend.


I need your Advice please. No insult please
Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by Beesluv: 6:49pm On Oct 17, 2015
Reduce contact with your best friend and focus on your r/ship. You may lose the friendship when you open up to her

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Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by vizkiz: 6:50pm On Oct 17, 2015
follow your head bro not your heart. Sometimes, our heart plays tricks on us.
Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by Highcuerayte: 6:59pm On Oct 17, 2015
I think you should edit your writing first.
Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by AfroKnight: 7:06pm On Oct 17, 2015
Is the feeling mutual? Make she fall your hand o. Once you toast her and she says yes, she will change into a different person.
Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by Nobody: 7:15pm On Oct 17, 2015
There is no point wasting your time on a relationship where you no longer have feelings for your partner. In doing so you would only be satisfying that partner at the expense of your happiness.

For a relationship to work, both partners have to have mutual feelings for each other, which both you and your friend don't have in your respective relationships.

I know some people will say that you should stay away from your friend and all that, but to what end? You will only end up yearning for each other the more and at the end of the day, it's your relationship with your partners that will suffer.

As best friends you both already have a lot in common and you both share similar interests and have developed understanding between yourselves. That's a foundation for a potential successful relationship.

But the decision is left to you both. Do you guys want to still stay in relationships where you will remain unhappy, or do you want to follow your heart.
The ball is in your court.
Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by flawlesRebirth(f): 7:23pm On Oct 17, 2015
it happens.......
Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by Ehnihorlah1(m): 7:43pm On Oct 17, 2015
If I would say anything at all, my advice to you is to follow your heart. It's always better when you're in a Relationship with your friend. You communicate and understands each other better.
Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by fuckshit: 7:54pm On Oct 17, 2015
fυςk!!!
... But something happened. We started developing feelings for each other. we have started loosing feelings for our partners.
şhit happens;
The question is
Is it prober for us to continue our relationship with our previous partners
Or
I date my best friend.
guy, no dulling; it's the fυςking “game"; fυςking continue with your previous relationship and begin fυςking your “best friend"; while the fυςking “feeling" is still there; grin grin

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Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by Nobody: 7:57pm On Oct 17, 2015
fuckshit:
fυςk!!!

şhit happens;
guy, no dulling; it's the fυςking “game"; fυςking continue with your previous relationship and begin fυςking your “best friend"; while the fυςking “feeling" is still there; grin grin
chai, where have you been? Fvcking some Sh1t I guess? grin

@topic, why will a man in a relationship have a woman as a best friend? During my dating days, I dumped my girlfriends who had excessive male friends because stuff like this always happens.

Nonsense. angry
Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by Mickop(m): 8:03pm On Oct 17, 2015
flawlesRebirth:
it happens.......
for ur mind u don advice the guy abi?

Must u even comment?
Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by fuckshit: 8:13pm On Oct 17, 2015
SirJeffry:
chai, where have you been? Fvcking some Sh1t I guess? grin

you fυςking guessed right;
@topic, why will a man in a relationship have a woman as a best friend? During my dating days, I dumped my girlfriends who had excessive male friends because stuff like this always happens.

Nonsense. angry


on fυςking point; I learnt this fυςking lesson the fυςking hard way; and the fυςking bitςh!!! fυςking şhit!!! we were “friends"; fυςking good friends; but that did not stop her; i got fυςked up!
şhit happens grin grin

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Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by Nobody: 8:42pm On Oct 17, 2015
fuckshit:

you fυςking guessed right;


on fυςking point; I learnt this fυςking lesson the fυςking hard way; and the fυςking bitςh!!! fυςking şhit!!! we were “friends"; fυςking good friends; but that did not stop her; i got fυςked up!
şhit happens grin grin
gringrin
Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by Nobody: 4:37am On Oct 18, 2015
AfroKnight:
Is the feeling mutual? Make she fall your hand o. Once you toast her and she says yes, she will change into a different person.

The feelings is mutual
Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by loswhite(m): 10:21am On Oct 18, 2015
Decker:
There is no point wasting your time on a relationship where you no longer have feelings for your partner. In doing so you would only be satisfying that partner at the expense of your happiness.

For a relationship to work, both partners have to have mutual feelings for each other, which both you and your friend don't have in your respective relationships.

I know some people will say that you should stay away from your friend and all that, but to what end? You will only end up yearning for each other the more and at the end of the day, it's your relationship with your partners that will suffer.

As best friends you both already have a lot in common and you both share similar interests and have developed understanding between yourselves. That's a foundation for a potential successful relationship.

But the decision is left to you both. Do you guys want to still stay in relationships where you will remain unhappy, or do you want to follow your heart.
The ball is in your court.
It is easier to be just friends. Once they enter relationship things may just be different. Love and marriage is never based on feelings cos u can have feelings for more than 2 persons If you open yourSelf up. Ppl should learn that love is sacrifice cos u will continue to see better guy better girl till infinity.
Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by loswhite(m): 10:23am On Oct 18, 2015
Ugosonic:


The feelings is mutual
Feelings can always fade so it is not news well u can dumb your girlfriend and enjoy while it last
Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by IamLEGEND1: 10:49am On Oct 18, 2015
you do the Friends with benefits thing.
if it doesn't work out... FINE.
Best friend my foot...
Re: Am In Love With My Best Friend.. by anigbajumo(m): 11:09am On Oct 18, 2015
Ugosonic:
I met this girl sometime last year though I have a girlfriend and she also have a boyfriend. We are best friends. But something happened. We started developing feelings for each other. we have started loosing feelings for our partners.
The question is

Is it prober for us to continue our relationship with our previous partners
Or
I date my best friend.


I need your Advice please. No insult please


Abeg which advice ar u seeking for again.....do d needful nd let her knw dat u b real Nigga.

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