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Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by jabojafa(m): 7:15pm On Oct 17, 2015

PunkyVeer:
Who mentioned anything about marriage now? I never dated anyone with an expectation of marriage in mind. I'm not that type of girl. I'm a realist. I date knowing fully well that everything has a beginning & an end.

I agree that he should just end it once & for all. No need to keep stringing her along.

but dt is what most ladies dt commented on this thread are advocating he shd do.

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Nobody: 7:15pm On Oct 17, 2015

all4naija:

What are you smiling about?

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Nobody: 7:19pm On Oct 17, 2015

PunkyVeer:
What are you smiling about?

Nothing. Is there anything wrong in smiling?

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Nobody: 7:22pm On Oct 17, 2015

jabojafa:
but dt is what most ladies dt commented on this thread are advocating he shd do.

Well I'm not supporting that. Why should he marry her when he doesn't want to marry her? Marriage is not an obligation & people should marry who they truly see a future with. It's a huge step that requires emotional honesty imo

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by jabojafa(m): 7:32pm On Oct 17, 2015

PunkyVeer:
Well I'm not supporting that. Why should he marry her when he doesn't want to marry her? Marriage is not an obligation & people should marry who they truly see a future with. It's a huge step that requires emotional honesty imo

yea u are right. After all, his loss is some other guy's gain.

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Oct 17, 2015

jabojafa:
yea u are right. After all, his loss is some other guy's gain.

Exactly!

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Oct 17, 2015

rudebouy:
Fruityjojo, Harbosede02.

Day were both dating and he neva promised to marry her. So I dont think she wasted dose 2yrs, not after she gets an upgraded business venture. Really? Is dat really a waste after all? Besides, MUST all relationships end in marriage?

Does a man lose his right to end a relationship becos the chic he's been with has invested 2yrs of her life in the same relationship?

Tell your friend, Karma is by the door

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Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by rudebouy(op): 7:46pm On Oct 17, 2015

Oyind17:
Tell your friend, Karma is by the door

Yeah. Just the way karma is at the door of everybody dat has ever ended a relationship. cheesy

Tankio! Will do just dat.

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by YankeeJoe(m): 12:21pm On Oct 18, 2015

Stephansmily:
Is she a prostitute No. I don't hv any advice for ur friend...bt I pray he ends up marrying a hoe

sorry, but all women (u inclusive), re "holes"
So, wat oda holes re u referin to?

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Stephansmily(f): 12:25pm On Oct 18, 2015

YankeeJoe:
sorry, but all women (u inclusive), re "holes" So, wat oda holes re u referin to?

Steewpid boy.

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by YankeeJoe(m): 12:32pm On Oct 18, 2015

Just imagine all the evil wishes against a dude dat simply decides 2 end it all wit his gal frnd.. Besides, he neva held her down wit d promise of marriage, so y all ds shit comments against him? And hw abt u hypocrite-women dat ve jilted d luv & attention of sincere guys?

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by YankeeJoe(m): 12:34pm On Oct 18, 2015

Stephansmily:
Steewpid boy.

no worri, but when i knack u finish, u go sabi sey i no stupid as u

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Stephansmily(f): 12:36pm On Oct 18, 2015

YankeeJoe:
no worri, but when i knack u finish, u go sabi sey i no stupid as u

Go knack ur mama..unto say she be 'hole' too.
Iranu.

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by YankeeJoe(m): 1:41am On Oct 20, 2015

Stephansmily:
Go knack ur mama..unto say she be 'hole' too.

Iranu.

see ds useless 'hole' u re jus a cheap slut like ur loosed moda.. Ashawo generation!!

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Meeky(m): 7:22am On Oct 20, 2015

some dude here,quoting ladies and talkinf about money.mehn money is not everything.Guys shd get involved in long term relationships if nothing wud eventually result from it.cos dis days the longer the relationship,the more hopeful ladies are.if she aint ya specs or you know say e no go work abeg call it off.cos the way we view this life is no what it really turns out to be.certain events that characterize our lives we may actually no know the reason.so OP tell the dude to just let the lady go.just talk things with her and call it off.my 2 cents though.

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by swaggerdgrt(m): 7:52am On Oct 20, 2015

pussy is a HOLE and not a HOME

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by hereiam: 7:19pm On Oct 23, 2015

Harbosede02:
Ur friend should go to hell o jare.....he ad it in mind dah he wasn't going to marry her,so y did he waste the girl's time for two years??

Can his foolish money buy 2yrs back??useless guys like ur friend are the ones dah would av spoilt several girls life sexually and start asking God for a virgin as wife.

omo u de para oh....
babes do it too nah
why the harsh
she is not worth elf bumper pay
smiling in china.

Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by hereiam: 7:23pm On Oct 23, 2015

Stephansmily:
Go knack ur mama..unto say she be 'hole' too.
Iranu.

u no get signature sef toothless bulldogs everywhere one dude is somewhere knacking her seriously with no ring in her fingers she go come here form counselor. mugu

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