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She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Daytonbale: 9:21pm On Jan 17, 2017
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by wahles(m): 9:24pm On Jan 17, 2017
Wt does ur heart tell u + ur head? Follow ur head

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by LifeofAirforce1: 9:25pm On Jan 17, 2017
You be her second option

she don turn to you since the guy she truly loved ain't ready for commitment yet



but follow your heart sha.

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Adeinfo: 9:29pm On Jan 17, 2017
if u want to be happy for the rest of your life, reject her on the basis of telling u point blank and also don't be any one option. Learn to show a high self esteem

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by SillyeRabbit: 9:32pm On Jan 17, 2017
Nice one
Adeinfo:
if u want to be happy for the rest of your life, reject her on the basis of telling u point blank and also don't be any one option. Learn to show a high self esteem

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Cornerstone2020(m): 9:32pm On Jan 17, 2017
If you have lost your interest in marrying her kindly tell her no. don't allow your emotionso to take over you.But OP I sense you are her fall back option which is not good enough.

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by kureshi007: 9:33pm On Jan 17, 2017
hoes

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Bluezy13(m): 9:36pm On Jan 17, 2017
women with fragile brains...




OP, na your life o. If she come waka for the marriage, we no go dey there

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by AgbenuAnna(f): 9:36pm On Jan 17, 2017
have you ever bought something and not like then after a while you just love it?

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by madridguy(m): 9:37pm On Jan 17, 2017
Since plan A has failed her tongue

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by M2dX(m): 9:44pm On Jan 17, 2017
na this kind question dey make me vex .

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by decatalyst(m): 9:47pm On Jan 17, 2017
AgbenuAnna:
have you ever bought something and not like then after a while you just love it?

Kai! Aunty, you go sabi beg wella ooo

grin grin grin

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Elshahzad: 9:47pm On Jan 17, 2017
"O so simi lenu, o bu suga si"

Translation: The matter mess 4 ma mouth cum add sugar (I no fit swallow mess, I no fit vommit sugar)

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Authoreety: 9:50pm On Jan 17, 2017
Guy feel free 2 vex....... D tin bn pain me b4 sha bt breeze carry all my hoot waka

M2dX:
na this kind question dey make me vex .

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:52pm On Jan 17, 2017
You can marry her if you like her but you gotta be sure she ain't marrying you for the sake of marrying someone

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Apina(m): 10:12pm On Jan 17, 2017
And u are very happy to announce that u are a rebound boyfriend..... If u eventually agree to marry her, don't forget to add the part that u were just an option and nothing more on ur wedding invite

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Prime1(m): 10:20pm On Jan 17, 2017
Daytonbale:
I met a lady approach her she accepted me after some month ,we dated for 9 month now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that want to marry her that she dated him for like 1year and 6 month , we love ourselves every thing has been going well with two of us.
I ask her will you marry me she said No that some else is there to marry her I said no issue about that I forget anything marriage with her we only date , so we dating since then I forget every thing about marry marriage with her .
I was surprise when told me that she has change her mind that she will marry me what should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she love me.
Am confuse cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok ,am confuse I need help

Please help



Don't waste your time on a measly girl like that. To her, you just an option if anything goes wrong with her main plan. females like that are only looking for a cool and comfortable place to live.

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by M2dX(m): 10:30pm On Jan 17, 2017
Authoreety:
Guy feel free 2 vex....... D tin bn pain me b4 sha bt breeze carry all my hoot waka

grin the guy wan f***k up o, make i cool my temperature joor,.

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by kkash(m): 11:14pm On Jan 17, 2017
Wait oo, she said she has someone dat wants to marry her but still went ahead to date u, and u went ahead to date her knowing she has a man that wants to marry her......and no one sees anything wrong with this.....truely ' it is finished'...

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Joel3(m): 11:32pm On Jan 17, 2017
what if the plan A later change his mind to marry her? she might be disturbing the plan A since a plan B is pending. but A is not yet ready to fix the feast. and she is considering plan B. known as a fall back or safe landing.

guy I have seen cases like this. she will definitely go back to her sweet heart/lover when ant slightly issues are between the two of you.

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jan 17, 2017
Don't marry any woman that use you as a spare boyfriend/second option. You will regret the marriage.

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Nobody: 1:25am On Jan 18, 2017
Although you are her second choice, it does not mean she will not make a good wife. In fact, she may make a better wife because she realizes the error she made in rejecting you. If you still want to marry her, make her work hard for your offer, so she does not take you for granted again.

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by OneSentence(m): 3:48am On Jan 18, 2017
FortuneTeller:
Although you are her second choice, it does not mean she will not make a good wife. In fact, she may make a better wife because she realizes the error she made in rejecting you. If you still want to marry her, make her work hard for your offer, so she does not take you for granted again.
a girl that agreed to marry another man and after such heavy commitment is still involved with another man so much so that he proposed to her meaning that from the story she was fuccking the two, u r here advising a man to even consider her? that she might make a good wife? pls have sense nah...

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Pippyman2000: 5:31am On Jan 18, 2017
Please be careful, use your head and be prayerful so that you don't end up in an early divorce situation, where you will need a good family law firm like Elthon Partners to represent you.
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Kondomatic(m): 7:25am On Jan 18, 2017
You're not even 50% ready for marriage judging from your post and I am shocked to know that you can date a lady that told you clearly that she's bleeping someone else.
You don't value your life all.

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Nobody: 7:50am On Jan 18, 2017
angry na wa o,,, she told u she has someone and u sef continue to date,and u forget about marriage,,, guy what exactly is your problem?

1.you dating a lady who has a guy
2.why did you continue with that relationship after she turned you down
3.you coming here to do stupidity check
4.is her food that authentic ?
5.what's the name of your village

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by peter0071(m): 7:59am On Jan 18, 2017
Only Spare tyres are used in time of emmergency.... bros, on her list, you be spare tyre o.. make u go find babe wey no go trow u into boot and call you only during emmergency. lols

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by walebizz(m): 8:00am On Jan 18, 2017
Well, I can't date someone who is dating or getting married to another guy..... ..that itself is stupidity

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by AgbenuAnna(f): 8:26am On Jan 18, 2017
decatalyst:

Kai! Aunty, you go sabi beg wella ooo
grin grin grin
lol at least I no beg you,but its true na it happens
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Michelle55(f): 8:45am On Jan 18, 2017
No matter what,don't marry a two-timing bitch. She will eventually leave you if the other dude becomes serious about the marriage proposal, for a woman to feel relaxed and absolutely comfortable dating two men without remorse.. Mehn,she can kill for Africa! Don't be an option dude!

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