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I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by seunfunmi33(m): 8:14pm On Oct 18, 2015
I have a girlfriend I have dated for 5 years. I'm the very sexually active type but I don't make love to her often because I want to keep her in good shape till when we will get married. So I do visit brothel to satisfy my sexual desire which she is unaware of because of the little distance between us.

I decided to stop patronizing prostitutes and have an extra tyre (gf). So I got one living in my street.

The new girlfriend does not disturb my relationship with my long time girlfriend. She loves sex more than food and am happy I met my type. I started having issues with my main girlfriend and broke up with her to stay with someone that lives in my street and ready to give me sex daily.

She always want it raw saying she is under medication. But she got pregnant 6 months into our relationship. My family forced me to accept the pregnancy and marry her because am the only child of my parent.

She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy last 2 months and I have never made attempt to make love to her. Though she is doing well in her business and doesn't disturb me financially but she keeps deleting her calls and chats which am not comfortable with. Though she has got good character but am afraid she will cheat on me because of her love for sex.

Nairalanders pls help me out so I won't regret this decision I was forced to take

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by HungerBAD: 8:17pm On Oct 18, 2015
You married her because she got pregnant?

But if I were you, I will have a conversation with her. Talk to her about the things she does, that makes you uncomfortable, and suspicious.

She is a wife. Men usually go into marriages, with an exit strategy (plan) already. When women go into marriages, they go in with a mindset to stay in the marriage forever.

So, try to talk things over with her.

It might not just be what you are thinking.

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by kinibigdeal(m): 8:17pm On Oct 18, 2015
Pray and Fast undecided

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by pato405(m): 8:19pm On Oct 18, 2015
This your story is in the similitude of 'one-chance' - meaning: e be like say u don enter one-chance.

Just kidding

Anyway, just try raise some cash & relocate. Then ask her to change her sim. Hope you did a paternity test.

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by seunfunmi33(m): 8:21pm On Oct 18, 2015
kinibigdeal:
Pray and Fast undecided
would prayer change anything here. I need advice on wat to do

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Nobody: 8:22pm On Oct 18, 2015
undecided
whats that term in maths again
Shey na like terms cancel each other abi na attract?
You met your type,so you should knw how to handle her bro.
The thought of why you'll shag a girl raw,when your not ready to be a father completely eludes me.
Did you think she'll vomit the sperm or wah?
Well,my advice for you would just be to sit her down and talk to her .
If she no hear that one,,leave am..you must catch am one day,no worry

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Young03(m): 8:22pm On Oct 18, 2015
Why must u marry someone u dont trust?
U know wat to do

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by yomi007k(m): 8:23pm On Oct 18, 2015
Wat do u want Nairalanders to help u out with?


Tell u to leave her becos u don't trust her?

Tell u, everything that happened between u n her is an accident?

Tell u that u had no logical reason to leave the former girl?



Tell u to fast n pray or dat u need deliverance?

Tell u, ur a greedy dude n u aint seen nothing yet? grin


*that babe middle name na KARMA*

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by kinibigdeal(m): 8:23pm On Oct 18, 2015
seunfunmi33:
would prayer change anything here. I need advice on wat to do

Yes, God will reveal what to do? So fast 3days and 3 night

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by smartbrain334(m): 8:24pm On Oct 18, 2015
1, They two of u should give ur life's to God, pray and always talk about the issue

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Kayoski(m): 8:24pm On Oct 18, 2015
na wah o..this ur problem wear suit kon put tie ontop

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by IamLEGEND1: 8:24pm On Oct 18, 2015
so u believe naija babe wey tell u say she is on birth control pills??

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Oct 18, 2015
undecided, smh. Sowie op have nothing to say! tongue

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Nobody: 8:26pm On Oct 18, 2015
You guys after marriage should continue cheating on yourselves nah, Nothing do u!


Mk u guys jus advise yourselves to dey use rubber so that u no go carry jombo give eachotherm

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by yomi007k(m): 8:28pm On Oct 18, 2015
pato405:
This your story is in the similitude of 'one-chance' - meaning: e be like say u don enter one-chance.

Just kidding

Anyway, just try raise some cash & relocate. Then ask her to change her sim.
If dey like make them no use GSM again n travel to mars.


This dude will surely pay for his sins. grin


* na alien go dey bang d girl*

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Omotayor123(f): 8:28pm On Oct 18, 2015
They say he who kill people with sword always detest the sight of sword.

Op, you just realized that she loves sex shey You broke up with the former because she doesn't love sex and now you don't trust the latter because she loves sex. Abeg wetin you want

You better be a Man and accept your responsibility make una dey bang yourself Morning, Afternoon, Evening and Night.

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by robosky02(m): 8:29pm On Oct 18, 2015
Omotayor123:
Wahala dey ooo

for where na.
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by pato405(m): 8:32pm On Oct 18, 2015
yomi007k:

If dey like make them no use GSM again n travel to mars.


This dude will surely pay for his sins. grin


* na alien go dey bang d girl*

bros, wetin you want me to advice the dude na?
the story is pathetically complex. Even players, after reading this story, will repent of their games o! kai.

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Omotayor123(f): 8:36pm On Oct 18, 2015
kinibigdeal:
Pray and Fast undecided
ROTFL....grin
robosky02:
for where na.
Modified.
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by seunfunmi33(m): 8:36pm On Oct 18, 2015
Cc lalasticlala ishilove seun
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by yomi007k(m): 8:41pm On Oct 18, 2015
Omotayor123:
They say he who kill people with sword always detest the sight of sword.

Op, you just realized that she loves sex shey You broke up with the former because she doesn't love sex and now you don't trust the latter because she loves sex. Abeg wetin you want

You better be a Man and accept your responsibility make una dey bang yourself Morning, Afternoon, Evening and Night.

O fe pa yan ni.

Bang morning,afternoon,evening and night. grin

Iku ti de o

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Omotayor123(f): 8:45pm On Oct 18, 2015
yomi007k:


O fe pa yan ni.

Bang morning,afternoon,evening and night. grin

Iku ti de o
Shebi na op talk say he no fit keep his John Thomas in check undecided
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by 4everGrand(m): 8:48pm On Oct 18, 2015
seunfunmi33:
I have a girlfriend have dated for 5 years. Am the very sexually active type but I don't make love to her often because I want to keep her in good shape till l when we will get married. So I do visit brothel to satisfy my sexual desire which she is unaware of because of the little distance between us.
I decided to stop patronizing prostitutes and have an extra tyre (gf). So I got one living in my street. The new gf did not disturb my relationship with my long time gf. She loves sex more than food and am happy I met my type. I started having issues with my main gf and broke up with her to stay with someone that lives in my street and ready to give me sex daily.
She always want it raw saying she is under medication. But she got pregnant 6 months into our relationship. My family forced me to accept the pregnancy and marry her because am the only child of my parent.
She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy last 2 months and I have never made attempt to make love to her. Though she is doing well in her business and doesn't disturb me financially but she keeps deleting her calls and chats which am not comfortable with. Though she has got good character but am afraid she will cheat on me because of her love for sex.
Nairalanders pls help me out so I won't regret this decision I was forced to take

Shoro niyen?

You cheated on ur main gf because of sex and u're concerned ur wife will cheat on u because of sex?

O ga o. We humans are really sth else. I think you know what to do - find another girl to heat with.

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by sisisioge: 8:53pm On Oct 18, 2015
Alawe! You have some nerves to ask for help here! Face front and continue to satisfy her or else... undecided undecided

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by flawlesRebirth(f): 8:59pm On Oct 18, 2015
CAN someone pls define GOBE for vhiz nigga

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Oct 18, 2015
Op.....u asked for it mehn,u married someone yu use to s*x daily and u avent touched her in two months?? Haba wah do u expect??

Secondly I think u are getting wat u deserve,permit to say this,I think yu are stewpeed!!! U were keeping ur ex gf becos u ad the intention of marrying her meanwhile u were destroying other girls life thinking u can eat ur cake and av it back.mtchewwwwwuuuuuu

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by lasheez(m): 9:08pm On Oct 18, 2015
Never marry for the wrong reasons.Besides,sex is overhyped and is onething that will detorate with time as you grow older.Dealing with what you should do now,you are now married and you need to look foward and stop clouding your mind with a lot erratic thoughts.Work on your new found familly and make it a happy one.Marriage is all about trust and now is the time to put that to test.Teach her to trust you and you learn to trust her too.Thats all

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by lasheez(m): 9:08pm On Oct 18, 2015
Never marry for the wrong reasons.Besides,sex is overhyped and is onething that will detorate with time as you grow older.Dealing with what you should do now,you are now married and you need to look foward and stop clouding your mind with a lot erratic thoughts.Work on your new found familly and make it a happy one.Marriage is all about trust and now is the time to put that to test.Teach her to trust you and you learn to trust her too.Thats all.

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Mrsbieber(f): 9:10pm On Oct 18, 2015
4everGrand:


Shoro niyen?

You cheated on ur main gf because of sex and u're concerned ur wife will cheat on u because of sex?

O ga o. We humans are really sth else. I think you know what to do - find another girl to heat with.
den d sam tin wil happen wit d next gf he gets he wont want to av much sex wit her so he wil av sidechick break up wit mainchick den two months into d relationship sidechick gets pregnant marries her den break up her and it just continues lyk dat best tin is to sit her down and talk tins out.

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by yanabasee(m): 9:17pm On Oct 18, 2015

[b]Bros, there is nothing prayer can't do... Infact... Twas becoz of lack of prayers that got you into this mess in the first place...

Firstly, you needed to be guided by God... To make decisions base on ur spiritual discernment and or keen perception of what you truly want from a woman..

My advise though.... She has already given u an issue.... And you have to live with it... Try and sit her down... That is maturity! And that should be the first thing to do... Girls are naturally born liars... You should know this... So when u're talkin to her... Use ur innate psychology on her... Be bold to ask her relevant questions...

If she's matured, she will be open... If she's not, u have to drill it out with logical questions...

Try to talk sense into her... That all... Give her time if she's a cheat... She'll definitely come back to her senses!....

But any girl dat doesn't mind about ur other relationships isn't to be trusted... You shld've broken up since... But u let konji blind fold you to stay! Face it like a man and find a lasting solution... NL isn't the solution.
[/b]


seunfunmi33:
would prayer change anything here. I need advice on wat to do

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by JumpingChicken(m): 9:20pm On Oct 18, 2015
seunfunmi33:
I have a girlfriend have dated for 5 years. Am the very sexually active type but I don't make love to her often because I want to keep her in good shape till l when we will get married. So I do visit brothel to satisfy my sexual desire which she is unaware of because of the little distance between us.
I decided to stop patronizing prostitutes and have an extra tyre (gf). So I got one living in my street. The new gf did not disturb my relationship with my long time gf. She loves sex more than food and am happy I met my type. I started having issues with my main gf and broke up with her to stay with someone that lives in my street and ready to give me sex daily.
She always want it raw saying she is under medication. But she got pregnant 6 months into our relationship. My family forced me to accept the pregnancy and marry her because am the only child of my parent.
She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy last 2 months and I have never made attempt to make love to her. Though she is doing well in her business and doesn't disturb me financially but she keeps deleting her calls and chats which am not comfortable with. Though she has got good character but am afraid she will cheat on me because of her love for sex.
Nairalanders pls help me out so I won't regret this decision I was forced to take

She is ur wife and you haven't caught her cheating on you. So give her the benefit of the doubt.

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by 4everGrand(m): 9:48pm On Oct 18, 2015
[quotthor=Mrsbieber post=39117219]den d sam tin wil happen wit d next gf he gets he wont want to av much sex wit her so he wil av sidechick break up wit mainchick den two months into d relationship sidechick gets pregnant marries her den break up her and it just continues lyk dat best tin is to sit her down and talk tins out.[/quote]

Don't mind him. D best tin sef is to sit himself down and talk to himself.

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