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Tallesty1:
There is nothing like soul mate.

Unless you are talking about hair cream.

I never read 10lines post sef na dis one i go kon read? Btw the true love being refered to here is a love betwen a man and a woman and i think it exist. I truly love Alice.

The only true love I have ever known is GODs love and my mother's love.... Shikenaaaa

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What makes a man fall in love

Well I believe love is a very unique feeling which is common to all men and women, but it has its own variations for both the genders. The emotions are same but the roadmap for achieving it is different for both men and women. Each has to go through different stages and adventure. It is very important for a women to know What makes a man fall in love. It is true men always like bad girls, but in the end it’s the good girl who wins their heart and fall in love to make a happy living forever. This post will help any woman who is attracted to a man she wants to be with and make him fall in love.
1. Appearance
For men it’s all about how is your physical appearance ( note not for every men) but in most of the cases it matters a lot. It is a source of instant attraction. Men have a hormone called testosterone they get attracted to a women only for their physical appearance initially. It matters a lot to them, He might not even know what qualities in that woman he likes, but if they find her external appearance attractive they might fall in love.

2. Gain attention
A good fragrance really attracts men, they like the smell of a woman they are attracted to. Whenever you meet up make sure the fragrance of your perfume keeps him engaged, they will not admit but will notice the smell and when you leave give a quick shot of your perfume on his shirt or car dash. It is something that will gain his attention later when you are gone it will make him think of you more and more driving him wild enough to fall in love.

3. Forgiving
Anger is a very close friend of most of the men and they can sometimes turn very cruel and speak harsh words in moments of anger, which can hurt your feelings and turn you off. But they wish to be with a woman who forgive them even if they have done the worst possible things to her. A good woman is the one who is willing to love you even though you have done wrong to her. She is kind enough to handle your anger without getting irritated, though you are rude to her she doesn’t mind and prays for you to have a better living and hopefully change your angry attitude to have a good future. This things makes them realize their mistakes and gives a chance to resolve the situations instead of falling into unending debates which leads to nowhere.

4. Loyal
Every men wants to be with a woman who is loyal to him. A woman who is pure hearted and loyal will stay with you forever no matter how worse the situation gets. Life is full of mystery you don’t know what the future holds, every day cannot be a happy day, circumstance can be good or bad, and if it’s bad it won’t be possible for you to maintain the same level of confidence, sex drive and intimacy in your love. There will be days when circumstances will not be in your control, at that point of time a good woman will always resist her feeling and temptations to support you. This are some of the things What makes a man fall in love with a woman.

5. Good listener
Men always prefer a woman who listens to their thoughts, connects with their feelings and emotions. A good woman is the one who understands every bit of your heart, listens to you and allows you to speak without interrupting even though you are wrong, One who gives you a good advice and doesn’t fake you with false guidance. One who is from a different world than yours, she does not pretend to be good, makes you comfortable and cares for you. She constantly makes efforts to improve you in every aspects of life by giving right kind of advice to achieve your goals, more importantly she encourages you to be a better person.

A full package is What makes a man fall in love. Men are attracted to lot of women that doesn’t mean he is in love. It only shows that there are some qualities about you that makes him pursue you. If you ever want to win a man’s heart make him want you by following the above steps. But in the real world the good girl is hard to find and if you luckily found her don’t treat her badly, don’t take advantage of her innocence be nice to her, respect her emotions. For me it’s a matter of concern all those women who has been treated badly, ignored, lost their existence. I know good women still exist and they have the power to make any men fall in love with them, It’s just the men who needs to respect and love them to keep their existence.

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Nothing like true love.. It's a pure and painful fact

BlaqCoffee109:
people mistake lust,infatuation etc for love..hence the need for emphasis most times on "true"

Then let me ask you....how will you knw its lust or infatuation? For how long it takes Lust and Infatuation to last? ...... How can you measure it. Have began to reasoning with the OP

In my own school of thought , LOVE DOESN'T EXIST!! IT IS NOTHING BUT AN ILLUSION !!!

BlaqCoffee109:
..whether it is the law of aerodynamics.. law of gravity or love..it always have been there before it was found out or understood by "man"...it is universal and constant..the fact that you as a person understands it less does not mean it is subject to change..by the way, love is what is still holding this earthly plane together..it is the reason you have joy and can smile..+ LOVE in and off itself is Law- it is the law of life..when it rules,there is beauty..peace..the opposite is what breeds hatred,anarchy, chaos ..so in essence love is constant,it never changes or ends..we only as free moral agents have the choice to acknowledge it and have it rule..if the reverse is the choice, it does not change love

You don't understand the context sweetie....

Tallesty1:
The "true" part of it should change to Something like "I love you truly" or "I truly love you" ie to say that I am not lying.

#myopinion

...the emphasis being on true,has nothing to do with falsehood but differential to lust,infatuation

BlaqCoffee109:
...the emphasis being on true,has nothing to do with falsehood but differential to lust,infatuation

*Hugs Her From Behind*Where Have You Been?

Demaejy:
Then let me ask you....how will you knw its lust or infatuation? For how long it takes Lust and Infatuation to last? ...... How can you measure it. Have began to reasoning with the OP

..oh brother! love is eternal..lust is momentarily..once satisfied,you may even detest the object of your lust..you look for the next best thing..infatuation is just foolhardy unreasonable attachment that is just demanding and not looking for the good of its object

BlaqCoffee109:
...the emphasis being on true,has nothing to do with falsehood but differential to lust,infatuation

Not necessary.

Love is love, likewise lust and infatuation.

Whoever confuses one with the other is ignorant of their meaning.

PunterTim:
*Hugs Her From Behind*Where Have You Been?

a pucker for you..muuah!

uncjay:
Dear Nairalanders, this piece is my personal opinion, submission and conclusion as regard the topic. It's quite lengthy notwithstanding I want you to take your time and go through everything in order to effectively decode my point and bone of contention base on the subject matter. Knowledge, they say is open ended and not tentative, hence no one is a custodian of it. You can share your views and criticism, but please be concrete and discreet. There are two peculiar words at play here, in uses they are sometimes interchangeable but one is deeper and stronger than the other. Here we go.....

Love is actually a feeling that goes with human existence and emotions, it is sometime referred to as the greatest magic in the world because of it power of proficiency over man. It's good to love and be loved in return, but at times the reverse is the case. Often times we discovered that there are different varieties of love or rather, we see and observe love from different disposition and levels, as some consider it 'casual', some consider it 'genuine', some consider it 'TRUE', some consider it 'Agape', other varieties include; fatherly, motherly, brotherly, and sisterly love, these I call the 'LY' love. Whichever way we see it, it exist and function only where two or more persons co-exist and lived as a people in a specific society.

Despite all the attributes of love and it pertinent, I still struggle to come to term with how people refer to love as 'TRUE' and argue that there is nothing like 'TRUE LOVE'. After observing experiences and experiment carried out, I hereby conclude that there is no true love. The context of the phrase 'true love' is one thing I find yet to be justified in the world of man. Love can be genuine, casual or agape for that matter but there is nothing like true love. Love is a phenomenon that comes and go. It is not static and does not stand the test of time, where is the true in love.

A guy may love a girl genuinely from a sincere heart (and vice versa) and will be eager to do anything whatsoever to profess that love to her. At that point some will regard it as TRUE LOVE, without even considering the gravity of it. It is not true love but love in it genuineness, which of course can be reverse by circumstances or the coming of another love. That guy though loves the girl but after some time into the relationship the degree or percentage of the strength of the love reduces and continues until it becomes very low or non existent anymore, why is that? Such love cannot be term as true.

True is an everlasting phenomenon, no matter how long it is hidden, it will eventually come to manifestation someday and when it does, it indisputably stands and remain for life. Hence love cannot be regarded as true because it does not possess such quality. History will forever remember every scenario for its trueness. Though history or historical event sometimes can be twist or rewritten to suit or concur with the selfish desire of some people, or still in order to create either a negative or positive impressions, all aimed at either painting someone or people good or evil. That notwithstanding does not mean that there is no true story of the said history. Most African countries suffer this degradation from the bigoted whites.

Therefore, there is no true love, it only comes and go. Love does not remain forever, it changes as regard change in behaviours and circumstances around men. When someone loves, he/she cherish with all his/her heart, but at some point in time it becomes odd or rather not as effective as it were at the beginning, (a true love must maintain the degree and percentage base on which it started) this maybe due to the fact that someone else came that manage to stole the love a man has toward a woman and vice versa, or something unfortunate breach the love rendering it less effective or infidelity. Thus, as long as love got to do with emotion it should not be referred as true because anything can affect emotion as it may change.

Provided that, in a situation where someone love another probably from secondary school through tertiary institution and for one reason or the other they were no longer together, yet he/she professes his/her love toward that person as firm, in such cases it is only expedient to examine why they were not together in the first place, as it stand as the reason why such a love could be regard as rather genuine love that couldn't stand the test of time but certainly not true. Else they will rather be together, and breach will be found in the relationship.

That a couple lived and grew old together does not mean the love between them is true, it maybe genuine enough to sustain them all through their lifetime but it not necessarily true as there will be situation where the man or woman wish they had another person as partner or still may at one time or the other love and cherish another person even briefly, (I mean real love and not brotherly and sisterly love) yet they are still together as couple. At that point there is a breach making it less true but genuine to keep them together.

A true love must maintain a single strength from beginning to end. A true love must not change or shift affections toward another person (no matter how little). A true love must be eternal. So tell me where can we find such among men. As such people should put into cognisance the gravity and weight of the phrase "true love", before considering whether to term certain affections as true. Thanks.


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there is nothing like true love, once you love you love, I will agree with you if you say love doesn't exist among us again, what we have is infatuation, love can't die...........a love that can end never really existed, and a love that can be substituted was just a farce

Tallesty1:
Not necessary.

Love is love, likewise lust and infatuation.

Whoever confuses one with the other is ignorant of their meaning.

don't mind them, which one is true love and fake love, its either love or other things,

pls ooo When a As marries another As is that true love?

Love...Umm not in Nigeria...ok our ladies sef no even get love...true love don die for naija

HawksDude:
The only kind of "true love" that exists is God's love. Any other kind is a sham..

really?? A sham. Even the one between the mothers n thier children?

BlaqCoffee109:
a pucker for you..muuah!

Aww,*Rests My Head On Her Chest*I Just Wana Feel Your Warmth.

op, have u ever been with a chick that is hoter than your gal and yet you cant seem to get your d.ck up because u are tinking of ur gal? for me thats when you know its true love

Tallesty1:
You contradict yourself a bit.

There is love. And love is love.

There is no true or fake love. Just love.

God is love and he gave a good example of how to love.

Scripture says that God loved the world so much that he gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him.....

That's love in its truest form.

It is just love not true love.

Now if a man mistakes infatuation and lust for love and starting dating a woman for that reason, chances are, the relationship won't last because it was rooted in infatuation and lust not love.

You have been enjoying love for decades.

It is love or nothing.

Any other feeling outside it is either like, hatred, lust, etc.

There is nothing like love that is true and one that is not.

Love is Love.

#MY OPInION.

I agree...for a feeling to be called "Love," it necessarily has to entail certain things,and when these things are observable and obtainable,then "Love" is said to abound and needs no further qualification.






#Philosopher Quëën#

Adex097:
In my own school of thought , LOVE DOESN'T EXIST!! IT IS NOTHING BUT AN ILLUSION !!!

while in mine, love exist. Infact, true love exist only between mothers n thier children.

[i][/i][b][/b] Does true love exist? If true love exist,why do we hurt ? If true love exist,why do we have to cry alnight? Love when gotten,u feel impressed When not gotten,u feel depressed When forgotten,u feel suppressed When lost u feel oppressed. Search for love,u can't find it. Forget about it,it seems like it's coming close. And then u wonder if u can have a dose Love never looks back It leaves behind a mark White or black It makes us think And then our heart sink Creating a bond with no link. Luv at first sight is so crude When unappreciated it bcomes rude To d faithful it always elude To d players,it draws close lik a dude. They say love pays more interest Take a rest,u might get d best.

Thank you for that piece op. I have always known that there's nothing like true love. Ladies won't want to agree with me cos experiencing true love has always been their fantasy.
Love is love. All kinds of love a man or a woman is capable of showing is conditional. Think about this and weigh it from different perspectives and u'll realize it's true. It's only God that has the ability to show unconditional love.

Na 2day u knw?
E don Tey wey I knw na!!

#fvckFakeLove

"Greater Love has no man than this; That a man should lay down his life for his fellow(s)"



I've seen an infatuation that got a whole lot of peeps to be envious, thinking the fellows in question, had 'true lonf' They didnt stay together. Questions were asked.... They were afraid of the future.

Same for lust. This one is a very beautiful attractive veil that the weather affects with time. The climate changes and the veil becomes a rag with a patchworthy hole thru which Reality would be viewed from.

Reality and Regret have something in common-Time!

Nice write-up but on the contrary, if you know there is no true love then google the word TRUE LOVE and you'll find it waiting for you. Even love is no longer blind, Prophet T. B Joshua performed a miracle and true love Don dey see now.

Snowangel4:
True love exist but it is vry hard to find

How many time have I told you I will give that to you in abundance ? In fact even free of charge. How many times ?

Seriously? How can you assume a meaning for something (out of the blue) and then argue against that assumption as if it is a universally accepted viewpoint? Strawman at it's best.

You said... "Love can be genuine... but there is nothing like true love."

Pray tell, uncjay, what's is the difference between true love and genuine love? You beat around the bush throughout your post.

hmmm

Philosophy class 101.

As much as I know little... I won't hesitate to add that, a hungry man can never truly see love in anything, appreciate nor value it.

Having said that, something tells me that most people on this thread are hungry.