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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by bid4rich(m): 9:44pm On Oct 19, 2015
seunfunmi33:
would prayer change anything here. I need advice on wat to do

You have missed the road before you start and you are asking whether prayer will do anything?

If prayer will not do it, is it ill-advise that people will give you that will do it?

Friend! You need God, not people and God will use people to help you out.

God or men, ...you choose...
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Nobody: 9:46pm On Oct 19, 2015
seunfunmi33:
I have a girlfriend I have dated for 5 years. I'm the very sexually active type but I don't make love to her often because I want to keep her in good shape till when we will get married. So I do visit brothel to satisfy my sexual desire which she is unaware of because of the little distance between us.

I decided to stop patronizing prostitutes and have an extra tyre (gf). So I got one living in my street.

The new girlfriend does not disturb my relationship with my long time girlfriend. She loves sex more than food and am happy I met my type. I started having issues with my main girlfriend and broke up with her to stay with someone that lives in my street and ready to give me sex daily.

She always want it raw saying she is under medication. But she got pregnant 6 months into our relationship. My family forced me to accept the pregnancy and marry her because am the only child of my parent.

She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy last 2 months and I have never made attempt to make love to her. Though she is doing well in her business and doesn't disturb me financially but she keeps deleting her calls and chats which am not comfortable with. Though she has got good character but am afraid she will cheat on me because of her love for sex.

Nairalanders pls help me out so I won't regret this decision I was forced to take



Hehehehe hehehehehe.......you just proved the theory that humans, when left entirely on their own, don't know what they want. Therefore they need guidance and direction. But yet they won't accept!

You wanted a sex-freak wife, you got one. Now you don't want her because of the same quality you wanted her. How do you know that you won't want her again tomorrow after ditching her? Hmmm quite unstable I'd say.

I don't know what to advice you sef! Just do wetin u want.

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Johnnoo(m): 9:47pm On Oct 19, 2015
You never see anything undecided
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by kuzee(m): 9:49pm On Oct 19, 2015
I for say u de craze wella
u cheat on ur main gf nd u dnt want ur wife to cheat on you?
i for say God punish you..

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Segunjosegs(m): 10:00pm On Oct 19, 2015
some girls will with intension carry belle for you so u will marry dem well dat na deir own way of proposing marriage I bin dan warn one girl like dat if u get belle for thinking say I go marry you sorry na ur first name I trust my grandma she never tire to back granrchild
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by SmartMugu: 10:03pm On Oct 19, 2015
I for sure wouldn't marry no one because they got pregnant. Where dey do dat at? Even my family won't dare tell me that nonsense- they're smart enough to know she's my headache after saying "I do" that they want to hear.
OP, did u try paternity test before getting forced into wedlock? It appears your marriage is young, if youre not feeling it now, think of dealing with it several years down the line.
I'd bounce if I'm not feeling ok with a situation. On the other hand, she may just like s.ex with you and not sleep around like u assumed.
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Rajosh(m): 10:15pm On Oct 19, 2015
The evil that men do lives with them. You're paying for your sins. what advice do you want from us. when you were banging your way through the land of pleasure, did you share with us? now, you're sharing your problems with us.
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Seamareggae(m): 10:17pm On Oct 19, 2015
Bros.. Dis ur story funny shaa...

Well... Jus man up and talk to her.. Wish you all the best
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Bobnotrouble: 10:23pm On Oct 19, 2015
But you claimed you are compatible. she loves taking while you love giving. so, quit worrying and keep doing it.
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Klinsdon(m): 10:27pm On Oct 19, 2015
Just same way u entered... same way u got in...
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Nwadiala: 10:31pm On Oct 19, 2015
Bro! the simple truth is that u ar a cheater and u ar cheating on her already, that is y u think she is cheating on u. Bro! Amend ur ways first before her
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Eberex(m): 10:49pm On Oct 19, 2015
WTF. wtf. wtf. wtf.

this dude is a mirror image to my second cousin. Or is it dejavu? The same scenario was the same he shared with me just few months ago. The only different is he didn't mention the raw version.

hmm.........How am i sure this dude is not my lost cousin?
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Omotayor123(f): 10:57pm On Oct 19, 2015
GentleToks:



You are the most wike(sorry wicked) Nigerian on earth..... grin grin grin

The guy go die with this your marathon sex suggestion.

The truth is that the girl in question would definitely cheat on the Op.

The first thing you look out for as a fiance in a relationship leading to Marriage is how much your fiancee loves sex. If she is the type that love sex so much, the best decision is to take to your heels and run for your life. Coming from a well known player in London.
No be op talk say he love sex. If he marry person wey no like sex that means he will definitely cheat too. He was cheating on his previous girlfriend!
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by michaelwilli(m): 11:09pm On Oct 19, 2015
seunfunmi33:
I have a girlfriend I have dated for 5 years. I'm the very sexually active type but I don't make love to her often because I want to keep her in good shape till when we will get married. So I do visit brothel to satisfy my sexual desire which she is unaware of because of the little distance between us.

I decided to stop patronizing prostitutes and have an extra tyre (gf). So I got one living in my street.

The new girlfriend does not disturb my relationship with my long time girlfriend. She loves sex more than food and am happy I met my type. I started having issues with my main girlfriend and broke up with her to stay with someone that lives in my street and ready to give me sex daily.

She always want it raw saying she is under medication. But she got pregnant 6 months into our relationship. My family forced me to accept the pregnancy and marry her because am the only child of my parent.

She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy last 2 months and I have never made attempt to make love to her. Though she is doing well in her business and doesn't disturb me financially but she keeps deleting her calls and chats which am not comfortable with. Though she has got good character but am afraid she will cheat on me because of her love for sex.

Nairalanders pls help me out so I won't regret this decision I was forced to take
U alredi married her. You'd have to carry your cross

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by raphroye: 11:12pm On Oct 19, 2015
seunfunmi33:
I have a girlfriend I have dated for 5 years. I'm the very sexually active type but I don't make love to her often because I want to keep her in good shape till when we will get married. So I do visit brothel to satisfy my sexual desire which she is unaware of because of the little distance between us.

I decided to stop patronizing prostitutes and have an extra tyre (gf). So I got one living in my street.

The new girlfriend does not disturb my relationship with my long time girlfriend. She loves sex more than food and am happy I met my type. I started having issues with my main girlfriend and broke up with her to stay with someone that lives in my street and ready to give me sex daily.

She always want it raw saying she is under medication. But she got pregnant 6 months into our relationship. My family forced me to accept the pregnancy and marry her because am the only child of my parent.

She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy last 2 months and I have never made attempt to make love to her. Though she is doing well in her business and doesn't disturb me financially but she keeps deleting her calls and chats which am not comfortable with. Though she has got good character but am afraid she will cheat on me because of her love for sex.

Nairalanders pls help me out so I won't regret this decision I was forced to take
did I just hear u saying u married someone u don't trust? u married her because she got pregnant?? u married her because your family forced u to marry her?? How old are u? no offence, but I don't think u were ripe for marriage when u did.. because if u were why will u marry someone u didn't trust, why will you marry her bcuz she got pregnant, why Will marry her bcuz your family forced u to, marriage should be about your happiness, when it comes to marriage there's nothing like pity, the both party should be in an agreement and not that they will b forcing u against your heart.... sorry bro. since you've married her, she's nw your cross.... Hw's your BP
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Nobody: 11:21pm On Oct 19, 2015
[quote author=macdelene post=39149736][/quote] na goat tru tru.


btw, it's ma btday
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by cannanland(m): 11:37pm On Oct 19, 2015
Pray for ur family nau
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by sabi99(m): 11:44pm On Oct 19, 2015
Omotayor123:
They say he who kill people with sword always detest the sight of sword.

Op, you just realized that she loves sex shey You broke up with the former because she doesn't love sex and now you don't trust the latter because she loves sex. Abeg wetin you want

You better be a Man and accept your responsibility make una dey bang yourself Morning, Afternoon, Evening and Night.
u supoz add wee hours n midnight join am.....people thing say sex na food
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by chyluv5262(f): 11:51pm On Oct 19, 2015
what do you want her to do since you don't make love to her again (you are the one that said she like sex) so why are you denying her that pressure now
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by sabi99(m): 11:59pm On Oct 19, 2015
Unplanned/indiscriminate sex av landed u(just lyk landed property) into ds shit.......so all ds ur energy na 4 sex abi, u no know say some of ds ur energy wey u dey use up 4 only sex go fit give yola people light 4 2years if converted to electrical power in watts........u no dey even reason make u use some of this ur energy enter wrestling go make money or dey carry blocks and cement n u dey der dey tell us say she dey do well 4 business,maybe she b breadwinner........see my boy! That's ur own cross cos when u were smacking girls down anyhow nobody was der.....n u kn what buddy! All of us here have got our own crosses too.............try 2 raise ur kid well that's my only advice 2 u. Udo
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by fireforfire: 12:15am On Oct 20, 2015
Op ntoooorrr .....nxt time close ya legs
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by jpphilips(m): 12:26am On Oct 20, 2015
seunfunmi33:
I have a girlfriend I have dated for 5 years. I'm the very sexually active type but I don't make love to her often because I want to keep her in good shape till when we will get married. So I do visit brothel to satisfy my sexual desire which she is unaware of because of the little distance between us.

I decided to stop patronizing prostitutes and have an extra tyre (gf). So I got one living in my street.

The new girlfriend does not disturb my relationship with my long time girlfriend. She loves sex more than food and am happy I met my type. I started having issues with my main girlfriend and broke up with her to stay with someone that lives in my street and ready to give me sex daily.

She always want it raw saying she is under medication. But she got pregnant 6 months into our relationship. My family forced me to accept the pregnancy and marry her because am the only child of my parent.

She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy last 2 months and I have never made attempt to make love to her. Though she is doing well in her business and doesn't disturb me financially but she keeps deleting her calls and chats which am not comfortable with. Though she has got good character but am afraid she will cheat on me because of her love for sex.

Nairalanders pls help me out so I won't regret this decision I was forced to take

Ashawo dey fear Ashawo
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by amacastel: 12:36am On Oct 20, 2015
I don't knw d 1 I will say now they will say am predicting doom in their marriage
OGA pls don't disturb us with ur family matter. Solve it ur self cos is #self made #
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by cococandy(f): 12:52am On Oct 20, 2015
Omotayor123:

No be op talk say he love sex. If he marry person wey no like sex that means he will definitely cheat too. He was cheating on his previous girlfriend!
That was probably his plan.
To marry someone who doesn't like sex, then run around cheating on her with prostitutes and side chics while relaxing in his knowledge that since she doesn't like sex she will be reserved for him alone. As in his precious untouched wife grin
But other people's babes go dey suffer for his hand.
Now he's afraid of being cheated on.

Hehehehe. Funny topic.

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by ndkay: 2:38am On Oct 20, 2015
Omotayor123:
They say he who kill people with sword always detest the sight of sword.

Op, you just realized that she loves sex shey You broke up with the former because she doesn't love sex and now you don't trust the latter because she loves sex. Abeg wetin you want

You better be a Man and accept your responsibility make una dey bang yourself Morning, Afternoon, Evening and Night.

Hmmm...in addition: you made your choice cos u where short-sighted, you have to live with the consequences. Before you married her didn't you trust her? You trusted her enuf to leave ur gf (main tyre) for this one (spare tyre). My brother be the Man u are meant to be...STOP BEING A BOY! Groom your wife, that y u are a BRIDEGROOM!

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by KanwuliaJara: 4:11am On Oct 20, 2015
You can't eat your cake and have it too!
You met one, not enough sex!

You met another one, great sex but might cheat!

DUDE! You gat issues.
The world does not revolve around you! kiss

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Truckpusher(m): 4:13am On Oct 20, 2015
KanwuliaJara:
You can't eat your cake and have it too!
You met one, not enough sex!

You met another one, great sex but might cheat!

DUDE! You gat issues.
The world does not revolve around you! kiss
Who says you can't get it all in one package? cheesy

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Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by KanwuliaJara: 4:17am On Oct 20, 2015
Truckpusher:
Who says you can't get it all in one package? cheesy

Una dey "satisfy" for one place? grin
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Truckpusher(m): 4:18am On Oct 20, 2015
KanwuliaJara:


Una dey "satisfy" for one place? grin
Man shall not live by one puccy alone but the women shall die untop one pipi. tongue grin
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by KanwuliaJara: 4:32am On Oct 20, 2015
Truckpusher:
Man shall not live by one puccy alone but the women shall die untop one pipi. tongue grin

Amen!!!!!! cheesy
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by Truckpusher(m): 4:38am On Oct 20, 2015
KanwuliaJara:


Amen!!!!!! cheesy
Wait a minute, I can't believe you said amen to that.

Oh! I see! you already knew it was a bait ,right? cheesy
Re: I Married Someone I Don't Trust. What's The Way Out? by ebuks001: 6:41am On Oct 20, 2015
[right][/right][center][/center][center][/center]you got served grin grin grin grin grin grin
just run away
[color=#006600][/color]lol

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